YOU Ever BUSTED One of Your Chicks CREEPING,,,

[Nu_Guy]

Here goes my story ( switch to sucker mode )

I was with this girl who I met online.
Nice girl, freak in the bed, good cook, own place, good job etc etc etc.
She claimed to have just came out of a 8 year relationship because her ex cheated on her and couldn't satisfy her, bla bla bla.

One day I'm on her myspace page and saw that her ex had left her a comment.
Nothing crazy, just " God bless, have a good day " shit.

She claimed to hate this dude because of what he did, so I'd never expect her to talk to him again.
Curiosity got the best of me and I decided to click on his page to see if she would reply to his comment.
Low and Behold, she did! I paid it no mind and x'd his page and started surfing BGOL.

a week passes by and I'm at work.
I see that she's logged on myspace and I send her a message.
Tell her I'm horny and I get off at 3.
She claims not to be feeling well and doesn't feel like having me for company/sex.
Cool, I log off and went about my day.

I get home, go to sleep and the next day while checking my myspace messages I get a real simp moment.
Something tells me to go and look at her page and what do I see.
early in the morning her ex posts " You're my best friend ".
I click on his and see she post one of those stupid friendship .gif images.
My senses go off.
For some reason I cant see why someone would talk to a person who hurt them and they claim to hate so much.

*sucka moment*
I get a key-logger, and get her myspace password and yahoo mail password.
Go through her yahoo mail ( she actually deleted everything, except for her " sent " folder ) and I see that she's been e-mailing him back and forth.

He apologizes for last night, she tells him if they cant be just friends then maybe they shouldn't chill at all.
He claims that he couldn't help himself, she tells him that she's with me so maybe this is not a good idea.

I read it and didn't think that she had sex with him.
Was kind of upset thou that she went to his house at night.

cool...two days later I decide to check her myspace page and logged in using her name and password, aha!

here I see messages from since January...dinner dates...and THAT DAY WHEN SHE CLAIMS SHE WAS NOT FEELING WELL AND DIDN'T WANT COMPANY.

pretty much him and I are sending her messages at the same time.

him: sup
her: nothing, making me a drink
him: hmmm, make me one too.
her: nah
him: what else are you doing
her: laying down on the sofa
him: what do you have on?
her: shorts, low cut shirt
him: hmmm, I bet you look sexy
her: shut up
him: where is he?
her: work
him: ok
her: my head hurts
him: come over and lay down here
her: ok

* My heart dropped *.....I was a lollipop...a sucker.
I tried to play it cool and would not say anything, just kept on fucking and gathering info.
I was having sex with her ( strapped of course ) and just couldn't get into it.

a few days later I just couldn't take it anymore...I was fucking up at work, not eating etc etc etc
I called, got her voice mail and broke up with her in a message.
She called me 2 hour later, flipping, like WTF? BREAK UP WITH ME, WHY? NAH..FUCK THAT SHIT...BLA BLA BLA.

I finally like a sucker called her back, and * sighs * asked her about her ex.
Did you go to his house?, I asked. NO, she replied.
What does that have to do with anything she asked me and like an idiot I tell her that My friend saw her at the restaurant with her ex.
She claims it's a lie. I said nah, I know the time and date.
She later gave me some half assed confession about only going for drinks months ago when they first broke up....

Anyways, like a simp I told her that I read her e-mails and myspace and that she's a fucking liar and a cheater....BIG MISTAKE...BOY DID SHE FLIP THE SCRIPT ON ME, ACTING ALL ANGRY AND SHIT.

Some how...I don't know how...I ended up apologizing and she just wouldn't let go of the fact that I read her e-mails.
Broke up with me...lol...I broke up with YOU earlier today..talking about I cant be with no man who snoops in my personal business...God knows what else I've been snooping in..etc etc etc.

First of all if you didn't give me a suspicion...* she cuts me off *...don't want to hear it...gets her mom, sister and home girls in on it..and I'm all alone.

* hyper sucka moment *

I felt bad, and we got back together....
She gave me some half assed apology but never confessed to fucking him.
I know she did.

we eventually break up when i check her e-mail again and saw that she booked a hotel for two ( during her birthday weekend ) to the Poconos with her credit card on Monday for fri/sat/sun.
Calls me on Thursday and say " babe, guess what my best friend/sister got me? "
me: what?
her: a spa treatment weekend in the Poconos.
me: a wha?
her: a gift, for my birthday..I can go relax, shop and shit.
me: who gave you this?
her: my best friend/sister, why?
me: you sure?
her: yea, what?
me: YOU LYING SLUT. You booked that shit on Monday for 2 people.
her: YOU SNOOPED AGAIN IN MY E-MAILS..THAT'S IT WE'RE DONE..BLA BLA BLA.

Off to the Poconos she goes...I'm home all week like
Getting the urge to pull off a GAMEBOY and drive there ( since I got all the info from the e-mail ), but I decide not too.

she comes back, acts like she's mad & tells me she needs some time, I act like a simp again and starts apologizing.
She claims the 2 person must be a mistake........she thought she selected 1 person.
shit didn't last too long after that because I just couldn't perform anymore knowing that someone else might have been knocking the pussy.

We break up for good when she starts acting distant, is always busy and what's not.
we became fuck friends...fuck for no reason for like a good 4 months...until the last time I fuck her in her ass ( no homo ).

we haven't seen or had sex since.
Speaking of which, let me go and call her..I want my fucking rims back.

Damn SON YOu SHould've NEVER TOLD HER That you had those Passwords!!! I was all up in my Ex's phone bill, until I found what I needed to break-up. Seeing that shit BROKE MY HEart.

BUT NEVER TELL Them how u found out!! Cuz they EVOLVE after that shit!!!

 

[Nu_Guy]

FIXED

I cried and got beat down.

 

[gene cisco]

This should be some kind of BGOL sticky!!!!!!!!

I mean since god or mother nature didn't put a disclaimer on the puss puss, BGOL at least should with a sticky.

ENTER AT OWN RISK type shit.

 

[magnetic god]

probably not in this conversation but i have no problem callin niggas names face to face.

I hear you my dude..

 

[jwilliam85]

This should be some kind of BGOL sticky!!!!!!!!

I mean since god or mother nature didn't put a disclaimer on the puss puss, BGOL at least should with a sticky.

ENTER AT OWN RISK type shit.

To all my niggas with fiances don't let this shit you reading fuck up the bachelor party.

 

[uhsef]

I dated this girl that went to college and lived in a dorm room. One day I was in the neighborhood while at work, (I had a job where I drove around the city) I decided to drop by. I went up to the building and hit the buzzer, she answered and then buzzed me up. Now I never would have thought she was seeing some one else because we were so cool, and I just started bullshit,in with her by asking her who was up here with her. She like nobody, now get this I'm just playing with her not being serious had no reason to suspect anything, hell she had to buzz me up!!! I,m looking under the bed and say to her well who shoes are those then (I thought they were hers) before she could answer a dude jumps out the closet like we caught, scared the shit out of me, I couldn't believe someone was really up their. To this day I can't figure out why she buzzed me up in the first place?

 

[kraize]

she obviously wanted to keep the sucker with the job and not set off any alarms

 

[Chi Shot Caller]

I dated this girl that went to college and lived in a dorm room. One day I was in the neighborhood while at work, (I had a job where I drove around the city) I decided to drop by. I went up to the building and hit the buzzer, she answered and then buzzed me up. Now I never would have thought she was seeing some one else because we were so cool, and I just started bullshit,in with her by asking her who was up here with her. She like nobody, now get this I'm just playing with her not being serious had no reason to suspect anything, hell she had to buzz me up!!! I,m looking under the bed and say to her well who shoes are those then (I thought they were hers) before she could answer a dude jumps out the closet like we caught, scared the shit out of me, I couldn't believe someone was really up their. To this day I can't figure out why she buzzed me up in the first place?

Holy shit... this is the first one that made me laugh in a while.

I got some shit too but its pretty recent and fresh and im still going through this shit so I'll type it another day.

Moral of the story is... Niggas might fuck 3 different chicks 1 time each just cause we need to fuck. A chick might fuck 1 dude 3 times because they were weak minded and that nigga that they fucked got into their heads. Any one of the 3 chicks we fucked could've been fucked a number of times if we chose because we already broke the barrier. Women wonder why its completely different when they cheat? This is exactly why. Stop catching feelings. These chicks know they are stupid for it afterwards because they lie so damn much. At least fuck like niggas do without the feelings and you might still garner a little bit of respect... until later fellas,

 

[SpiritualPorn]

This should be some kind of BGOL sticky!!!!!!!!

I mean since god or mother nature didn't put a disclaimer on the puss puss, BGOL at least should with a sticky.

ENTER AT OWN RISK type shit.

I agree Gene

Its better than those beefing threads...

Well

Not really

 

[Rossini]

I dated this girl that went to college and lived in a dorm room. One day I was in the neighborhood while at work, (I had a job where I drove around the city) I decided to drop by. I went up to the building and hit the buzzer, she answered and then buzzed me up. Now I never would have thought she was seeing some one else because we were so cool, and I just started bullshit,in with her by asking her who was up here with her. She like nobody, now get this I'm just playing with her not being serious had no reason to suspect anything, hell she had to buzz me up!!! I,m looking under the bed and say to her well who shoes are those then (I thought they were hers) before she could answer a dude jumps out the closet like we caught, scared the shit out of me, I couldn't believe someone was really up their. To this day I can't figure out why she buzzed me up in the first place?

 

[gameboy]

Holy shit... this is the first one that made me laugh in a while.

I got some shit too but its pretty recent and fresh and im still going through this shit so I'll type it another day.

Moral of the story is... Niggas might fuck 3 different chicks 1 time each just cause we need to fuck. A chick might fuck 1 dude 3 times because they were weak minded and that nigga that they fucked got into their heads. Any one of the 3 chicks we fucked could've been fucked a number of times if we chose because we already broke the barrier. Women wonder why its completely different when they cheat? This is exactly why. Stop catching feelings. These chicks know they are stupid for it afterwards because they lie so damn much. At least fuck like niggas do without the feelings and you might still garner a little bit of respect... until later fellas,

met this chick online last year (usually don't do that),,, she had a man, but still gave up the pussy,,, she told me that she had fucked 4 dudes she met online that year (could've been more),,, i bet it sucks to be her boyfriend,,, but then again, it could happen to any of us if you are in a relationship,,, if a female wants to cheat, she will

 

[gameboy]

Holy shit... this is the first one that made me laugh in a while.

I got some shit too but its pretty recent and fresh and im still going through this shit so I'll type it another day.

Moral of the story is... Niggas might fuck 3 different chicks 1 time each just cause we need to fuck. A chick might fuck 1 dude 3 times because they were weak minded and that nigga that they fucked got into their heads. Any one of the 3 chicks we fucked could've been fucked a number of times if we chose because we already broke the barrier. Women wonder why its completely different when they cheat? This is exactly why. Stop catching feelings. These chicks know they are stupid for it afterwards because they lie so damn much. At least fuck like niggas do without the feelings and you might still garner a little bit of respect... until later fellas,

met this chick online last year (usually don't do that),,, she had a man, but still gave up the pussy,,, she later told me that she had fucked 4 dudes she met online that year (could've been more),,, i bet it sucks to be her man,,, but then again, it could happen to any of us,,, if a female wants to cheat, she will

 

[jwilliam85]

met this chick online last year (usually don't do that),,, she had a man, but still gave up the pussy,,, she later told me that she had fucked 4 dudes she met online that year (could've been more),,, i bet it sucks to be her man,,, but then again, it could happen to any of us,,, if a female wants to cheat, she will

I bet she was probally just dealing with a regular nigga who was just there to support her emotional needs. You have to think what do a lot of the females have to lose if they cheat on yall niggas. I'm sure a lot of you niggas on BGOL are just regular niggas, you have to have more to offer than just yourself. You have to be able to provide something that she just can't find everyday i.e. discipline, financial security, good sex, good conversation,good looking,personality, something.

A lot of these chicks are in their twenties and really have nothing to lose because they got so many regular niggas clammering for the pussy. A lot of you niggas are just stand ins untill something better comes along, make yourself a stand out who always could do better then the girl you with. Always be looking out for ways to better yourself, this will make your life more fulfilling and you will more than likely have better relationships.

 

[Chi Shot Caller]

met this chick online last year (usually don't do that),,, she had a man, but still gave up the pussy,,, she later told me that she had fucked 4 dudes she met online that year (could've been more),,, i bet it sucks to be her man,,, but then again, it could happen to any of us,,, if a female wants to cheat, she will

I agree with part of what you're saying but I don't think it works with it half of the time. With the married/relationship chicks that I fucked/fucked with they were not looking for it most of the time. I just was too charming and persistent and appealed to their wants. After that all it took is patience. I think this is the case for 90% of women. Damn near all of them can be had relationship or not if you try hard enough and are patient. It's shit like this that makes ole girl who typed all that shit just a statistic. Men do not cheat after 7 years and a child. We cheat after 7 days- 7months max or we just are not the cheating type. With the one I was talking about in my previous post I blew up at her ass at IHOP afterwards one time. she knew about what I had done (fucked 4 chicks, 3 in our bed and one was married but all together only 5 times) and what she had done (fucked an old co-worker 3 times after denying it for a period of time) she used to try that your shit it worse cause you did it more times but i read text messages that her and dude exchanged afterwards and he was like im not your man. im sorry but you were looking for the right thing at the wrong time and she was upset, i could tell by her responses. I didn't bring this up at first and had her tested by having her lie to me and say she split with him because she didn't want that type of relationship. so at IHOP and for probably the fifth time she tried to make herself the victim and I was tipsy and blew up on her ass.

"Bitch your dumb ass just became the next for this nigga. You turned yourself to 95% of every woman I have ever fucked. A weak minded woman who was easily manupilatable and just there for some pussy. I fucked chicks cause I wanted to and if i was fucking you at the time might not have done that many but you fuck another nigga when you can still ask me to fuck. bottom line that nigga got yo dumb ass. now you were just the next. lying bitch." I felt bad cause people were watching and everything. It was like 4am so not too many but still.

That's the moral of these stories. We are all men and know men. We will be waitin in the bushes like a leapord hunting a dear for the pussy. I applaud women who don't break under our pressure but they are few and far between.

 

[gameboy]

I bet she was probally just dealing with a regular nigga who was just there to support her emotional needs. You have to think what do a lot of the females have to lose if they cheat on yall niggas. I'm sure a lot of you niggas on BGOL are just regular niggas, you have to have more to offer than just yourself. You have to be able to provide something that she just can't find everyday i.e. discipline, financial security, good sex, good conversation,good looking,personality, something.

A lot of these chicks are in their twenties and really have nothing to lose because they got so many regular niggas clammering for the pussy. A lot of you niggas are just stand ins untill something better comes along, make yourself a stand out who always could do better then the girl you with. Always be looking out for ways to better yourself, this will make your life more fulfilling and you will more than likely have better relationships.

i think you may have read my post wrong (not sure if you were directing that at me?),,, i already knew she had a man before we fucked,,, we were just having fun for the time being,,, i NEVER entertained the thought of her becoming my girl,,, i was just pointing out how she was creeping hard on her dude with no shame,,, & she wasn't in her 20's,,, she was a descent looking milf (41) with nice tities & an insane head game (she loved to suck a dick),,, i feel the point you are making though

 

[850credit]

I bet she was probally just dealing with a regular nigga who was just there to support her emotional needs. You have to think what do a lot of the females have to lose if they cheat on yall niggas. I'm sure a lot of you niggas on BGOL are just regular niggas, you have to have more to offer than just yourself. You have to be able to provide something that she just can't find everyday i.e. discipline, financial security, good sex, good conversation,good looking,personality, something.

A lot of these chicks are in their twenties and really have nothing to lose because they got so many regular niggas clammering for the pussy. A lot of you niggas are just stand ins untill something better comes along, make yourself a stand out who always could do better then the girl you with. Always be looking out for ways to better yourself, this will make your life more fulfilling and you will more than likely have better relationships.

Give this man a medal.

 

[African Herbsman]

I bet she was probally just dealing with a regular nigga who was just there to support her emotional needs. You have to think what do a lot of the females have to lose if they cheat on yall niggas. I'm sure a lot of you niggas on BGOL are just regular niggas, you have to have more to offer than just yourself. You have to be able to provide something that she just can't find everyday i.e. discipline, financial security, good sex, good conversation,good looking,personality, something.

A lot of these chicks are in their twenties and really have nothing to lose because they got so many regular niggas clammering for the pussy. A lot of you niggas are just stand ins untill something better comes along, make yourself a stand out who always could do better then the girl you with. Always be looking out for ways to better yourself, this will make your life more fulfilling and you will more than likely have better relationships.

 

[EZROLL]

ONE OF MY PERSONAL EMAILS...I WAS CRUSHED WHEN I READ THIS NOW I CAN LAUGH AT IT..

MY DUMB ASS WAS ACTUALLY THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARIIED AT 21...LOL

From: NXXX, DXXXX M. <DXXXX.NichXXXs@miXX.org>
Date: Mar 7, 2006 1:44 PM
Subject: I'm Sorry
To: gXXXX@gmail.com


Dear MXXX,

I want to first start off by saying I'm sorry for everything I did to you. I know you probably like "yeah right, if you are, why keep doing it!" and you have every right to feel this way. I'm just going get straight to the point of this email.

Incase you haven't realized by now, I have a serious problem with commitment. It's like the harder I try to do right by you, the harder it gets. I'm not sure if it's rebellion, the attention, or just plain immaturity. Who knows, it just might be all of the above. My family seems to think that I need counseling because of the different guys that I talk to while I'm talking to you. I feel as though if they finally know the truth about the real me, then you should too. That day that you caught me on the phone, I was talking to Richard. I honestly felt a sign a relief verses the feeling of being caught. It's like I was running for so long and when I finally got caught, I was relieved to stop running. I couldn't think of anything else except the fact that I could finally stop and take a breather. That's when I realized that I have a problem. For me to be able to call another guy while out with you was BOLD. That was total disrespect and you of all people for the majority of the 5 years we were together have shown me nothing but respect. I had to ask myself, the way you are treating him and the hurt you are causing him, do you love MaXXX? The honest answer is No. That definitely does not mean that I never loved you because you honestly had my heart for a long time. The reason the answer is no is because when you love someone you don't continuously lie, cheat, and deceive the people you love. And that is exactly what I have been doing to you.

That night you dropped me off at home I wanted to get everything of my chest. I sat my Mom, Crystal, and Charmaine down and told them every single detail about what type of person I am. What I told them was that I have a serious problem with men. It's like I can't get enough attention from men. Yes granted you gave me as much attention as you could, but I still felt as though something was missing. I needed more attention than what I was getting. After years of being in denial, even way before my relationship with you I can finally say that I have a problem. My problem is that I am addicted to attention from men. I feel like a drug addict when they get high. They like the feeling that their getting when they get high, but once they keep getting high off the same old stuff, they want more. They more on to something they feel is better than what they had the last time, no realizing that when they come down off that high, they are back where they started in the first place. Just like a drug addict I can't get high enough off the attention from dudes. Once I get high off one I want something I think would be better. After I get high off that persons attention I drop them, say I'm not going use them anymore, and go back to you. (My first real high) Then once I get tired of you I go to someone else. Use them for more attention than what I received from the last guy, drop them and go back to you again. It's a bad habit that I need to break now. I still remember when I told you that I dropped all the guys I was talking to for you and you said it don't matter how many you drop, because for everyone you drop you pick up another one. That stuck with me ever since you said it 3 years ago. Because it's true!!! My Mom asked me what it is about the attention that I like. Like I told her I'm not sure what is I just know it makes me feel really good to have it. Crystal asked me: "You don't care what they say about you when you talk to these guys? Do you even care if the attention is the wrong kind of attention?" I told her NO. Just as long as I'm getting what I'm looking for. That night they were asking me if I Care about the people that I hurt or if the guys I talk to know about each other? And I told them NO. Every guy thinks they are the only one I talk to. (Except for Doug and Sean. They know the real me, and they don't agree with the real me at all) Wait! To clear that up I have only had sex with one guy since we talked! That's no joke! I just like the attention that I got from all of them. That's what I meant to say.

Oh Yeah and they finally know that 90% of the reason we would argue and fight and you would do crazy stuff to me is because of my cheating, lying, deceiving ways. My Mom asked me is that the real reason we aren't married yet and I told her yes. Honestly MXXXX you never did anything to me that I didn't deserve. For 5 years you have put up with my bull shit and you don't need someone like me. People say all the time when they end a relationship that "it's not you it's me!" I can fully understand now why they say that because it feels like you want the person you're with to have much better than what you are giving them. They deserve someone who is on their level, who has the same goals, and wants what they dish out to the person they love. That's something that I can not give you MXXX. You deserve so much more. You need someone who is willing to love you as much as you love them and who is willing to be a suitable wife for you. I'm definitely not worthy of that in any way, shape or form. I know you said that I was the worst relationship you ever had, but I say you're the best relationship and most upstanding guy I've ever known!! I'm trying to finish this without tearing up but it's so hard. I need professional help and until I get it I will never stop be able to stop this feeling that I need to have attention from different guys. Plus I feel as though if I don't stop now I'm going get someone who is not just going to stand back and watch me keep going back to you and he might try to seriously hurt me. Again, I'm really sorry to just drop this on everyone like this, but I'm tired of running and I need to settle down and call it quits. The first step to getting help is admitting that you have a problem! And like I told my family, I'm telling you that I have a problem and I'm going to get help. I wish you luck in everything you do. Who knows while your in training you just might find that one that you should have had a long time ago.

 

[kraize]

should have replied "Have fun with aids, bye"

 

[gameboy]

ONE OF MY PERSONAL EMAILS...I WAS CRUSHED WHEN I READ THIS NOW I CAN LAUGH AT IT..

MY DUMB ASS WAS ACTUALLY THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARIIED AT 21...LOL

everytime she says the word "attention", replace it with the word "dick",,, then read it again,,, she basically typed all that shit to tell you she's a ho out of control

 

[primal.primus]

this is the type of bitch you have to treat like shit,,, fuck her like a thug & talk to her like a low class bitch,, i'm dead serious,,, i've had a few women friends admit to me that they don't like to be treated well, or they lose interest

Preach the word brother......you forgot to add that after ur satisfied with making her suck dick on call and just being a plain out doormat...find a decent chick and bounce.....

....used to be in love with a chick...wanted to marry her ass...one day her computer started bugging and i had it for a few days to fix it...just out of curiosity i decide to read her IM logs cause i had to back up everything...crushed is an understatement...i died internally see all the shit my "love"was up to...how she bragged to her girlfriend about it.....almost simped up...but i made a choice to be a man and i walked away from that with tears burning my eyes....she made me all kinds of offers..but i made the choice to walk away from that...realized that bishes aint shit...the things in this thread shows it and is consistent with their fuckry....how they lie and cry up to the very last...a woman lies untill u got that hard evidence in her face then she still makes up some bullshit...men fuck around and shit but thy are deadly with it...since that day i learnt to keep my heart to myself....fucking bitches...can u imagine that bitch invited me over wanted to talk...sits there and tells me how much she loves me and wants to patch things up...some dude shows up and i tell her well if she really wants us to patch things up she could tell him to just leave....she says ok...a minute later she changes her mind and says she thinks its a better idea if i leave maybe we can talk tomorrow...after all that shit....never drove home so slow in my fucking life...swallowed my feelings and walked away real slow...i was numb for weeks cause we were together for a while....but now i can say that im a fucking man...i thank her for that shit..better early than later to learn those grown man lessons...my current tells me i have no feelings...but the minute u catch feelings bitches start stepping all over you...but as long as ur not all there....they act super fucking right....i dont get these women....moral of the story is: the worse u treat a woman the more she loves you...strange but true....

 

[UniqueStyles82]

Man Im wondering if any of yall brovas peeped this movie

If not then I would suggest it cause that movie is exactly whats being talked about in this thread...and Im not going to give the ending away soooo...

I didnt even think this thread was going to have that many replies but I must say godbless to some of yall brovas who have held yall cool when dealing with these trifling females..especially nahlaterz...like I stated before I wisely learned these lessons from the sideline watching someone else go through some shit with a chick and know not to put myself in that situation...My former female bestfriend is where I learned to not be naive about females...I remember when I was younger and real cool with her, we used to tell eachother all the damn time that we were going to get married as I sat and played friendboy as she consecutively went in and out of relationships and cheated on each dude...It took a damn epiphany for me to finally see that this chick was no good as a friend or as a potential mate...after that I didnt want to have shit to do with her...at first my reasoning for distancing myself was when she told me she got pregnant by and was marrying the dude who took her virginity while she was in high school(they broke up cause dude got jail time)...thats when I said that was it and started to cut off communication...I always blamed myself because I knew I should have been with her first but I fucked up so I had to let it go but after a while I realized that in actuality thinking over everything she did me the biggest favor because I came to grip with that actuality that as she cheated on her former boyfriends, if I got with her she would have done the same fuckin thing to me regardless of how close we were...I was nothing more than a real life human confession booth for her to spout off all the grimey shit she done did and me not make her feel bad for it and say how much she was a good person as if she took out no fault insurance....sorry for the rant

 

[destrehan]

Preach the word brother......you forgot to add that after ur satisfied with making her suck dick on call and just being a plain out doormat...find a decent chick and bounce.....

....used to be in love with a chick...wanted to marry her ass...one day her computer started bugging and i had it for a few days to fix it...just out of curiosity i decide to read her IM logs cause i had to back up everything...crushed is an understatement...i died internally see all the shit my "love"was up to...how she bragged to her girlfriend about it.....almost simped up...but i made a choice to be a man and i walked away from that with tears burning my eyes....she made me all kinds of offers..but i made the choice to walk away from that...realized that bishes aint shit...the things in this thread shows it and is consistent with their fuckry....how they lie and cry up to the very last...a woman lies untill u got that hard evidence in her face then she still makes up some bullshit...men fuck around and shit but thy are deadly with it...since that day i learnt to keep my heart to myself....fucking bitches...can u imagine that bitch invited me over wanted to talk...sits there and tells me how much she loves me and wants to patch things up...some dude shows up and i tell her well if she really wants us to patch things up she could tell him to just leave....she says ok...a minute later she changes her mind and says she thinks its a better idea if i leave maybe we can talk tomorrow...after all that shit....never drove home so slow in my fucking life...swallowed my feelings and walked away real slow...i was numb for weeks cause we were together for a while....but now i can say that im a fucking man...i thank her for that shit..better early than later to learn those grown man lessons...my current tells me i have no feelings...but the minute u catch feelings bitches start stepping all over you...but as long as ur not all there....they act super fucking right....i dont get these women....moral of the story is: the worse u treat a woman the more she loves you...strange but true....

yup dog a couple months ago a bitch caught me slippin on that catching feelings shit and gave me a nice wake up call. nothin serious, she just switched up her act when i expressed myself to her. i should have let her do it first. it had been a long time since i'd felt that way and i just forgot all the man rules for a min and went out on a limb. that's why i say a wakeup call. shit aint changed and will never be sweet out here.

 

[playaman5]

Preach the word brother......you forgot to add that after ur satisfied with making her suck dick on call and just being a plain out doormat...find a decent chick and bounce.....

....used to be in love with a chick...wanted to marry her ass...one day her computer started bugging and i had it for a few days to fix it...just out of curiosity i decide to read her IM logs cause i had to back up everything...crushed is an understatement...i died internally see all the shit my "love"was up to...how she bragged to her girlfriend about it.....almost simped up...but i made a choice to be a man and i walked away from that with tears burning my eyes....she made me all kinds of offers..but i made the choice to walk away from that...realized that bishes aint shit...the things in this thread shows it and is consistent with their fuckry....how they lie and cry up to the very last...a woman lies untill u got that hard evidence in her face then she still makes up some bullshit...men fuck around and shit but thy are deadly with it...since that day i learnt to keep my heart to myself....fucking bitches...can u imagine that bitch invited me over wanted to talk...sits there and tells me how much she loves me and wants to patch things up...some dude shows up and i tell her well if she really wants us to patch things up she could tell him to just leave....she says ok...a minute later she changes her mind and says she thinks its a better idea if i leave maybe we can talk tomorrow...after all that shit....never drove home so slow in my fucking life...swallowed my feelings and walked away real slow...i was numb for weeks cause we were together for a while....but now i can say that im a fucking man...i thank her for that shit..better early than later to learn those grown man lessons...my current tells me i have no feelings...but the minute u catch feelings bitches start stepping all over you...but as long as ur not all there....they act super fucking right....i dont get these women....moral of the story is: the worse u treat a woman the more she loves you...strange but true....

C/S. bro, so true. Stop being there for them, and they learn to cherish you more. Be there all the time for them, and they take u for granted.

 

[Crypto]

I would say yes but to simplify all this i don't see any of females im with everyday no matter what they say from i really like ya i luv ya i could marry ya sounds gud but when im not around who is so i say we all fuggn i just make it my bizz to be strapped.

 

[dadamaja]

the got a white chick at my gig right now askin me for advice on how to go at keepin this dude at work im cool with and she is engaged to be married in sept, he been hittin her 4 the past month and now he throwin her 2 the left

 

[DaleMabry]

The only real way to make sure a bitch don't fuck up is to throw a burka on that bitch and threaten to stone the bitch to death if she fuck up. The niggas in the Middle East learned this thousands of years ago so if you can't stand for a bitch to cheat take your ass over there or just man up.

Real shit. 1001 Nights is a legendary classic about how Sheherezade kept the king from chopping her head off with a never-ending story, but what most cats dont know is WHY the king started his pattern of marrying and fuckin' women and then cutting their heads off the next day...

Its cause he was in love with a chick but some big black buck snuck in his harem and long-dicked his queen, only to be discovered by the brokenhearted king.

It turned him into a woman-hater until Sheherezade finally healed him through her stories.

Basically that finally helped me understand why Arab men are so paranoid about controlling their women--fear of being cheated on!

 

[Web_Guru]

Man Im wondering if any of yall brovas peeped this movie

If not then I would suggest it cause that movie is exactly whats being talked about in this thread...and Im not going to give the ending away soooo...

I didnt even think this thread was going to have that many replies but I must say godbless to some of yall brovas who have held yall cool when dealing with these trifling females..especially nahlaterz...like I stated before I wisely learned these lessons from the sideline watching someone else go through some shit with a chick and know not to put myself in that situation...My former female bestfriend is where I learned to not be naive about females...I remember when I was younger and real cool with her, we used to tell eachother all the damn time that we were going to get married as I sat and played friendboy as she consecutively went in and out of relationships and cheated on each dude...It took a damn epiphany for me to finally see that this chick was no good as a friend or as a potential mate...after that I didnt want to have shit to do with her...at first my reasoning for distancing myself was when she told me she got pregnant by and was marrying the dude who took her virginity while she was in high school(they broke up cause dude got jail time)...thats when I said that was it and started to cut off communication...I always blamed myself because I knew I should have been with her first but I fucked up so I had to let it go but after a while I realized that in actuality thinking over everything she did me the biggest favor because I came to grip with that actuality that as she cheated on her former boyfriends, if I got with her she would have done the same fuckin thing to me regardless of how close we were...I was nothing more than a real life human confession booth for her to spout off all the grimey shit she done did and me not make her feel bad for it and say how much she was a good person as if she took out no fault insurance....sorry for the rant

That is the classic definiton of being in the FRIEND ZONE.

when a chick uses you as her shoulder to cry aka "Teddy Bear"

it's a wrap.

She'll always keep you at arms reach, but never be with you.

Cuz you're her teddy bear, you're always there when she needs you,

but then tossed aside when she's back ontop of her game and back in them streets.

whenever she needs someone to stroke her ego or make her feel good about herself, she'll use you to do that.

but she'll NEVER intend on being with you. She may throw you a coochie snack here or there, and that's a BIG maybe.

but you'll always be played.

and NOBODY wants to be that guy...although most of us have been at one point or another.

 

[Mr.Still Fly]

ONE OF MY PERSONAL EMAILS...I WAS CRUSHED WHEN I READ THIS NOW I CAN LAUGH AT IT..

MY DUMB ASS WAS ACTUALLY THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARIIED AT 21...LOL

From: NXXX, DXXXX M. <DXXXX.NichXXXs@miXX.org>
Date: Mar 7, 2006 1:44 PM
Subject: I'm Sorry
To: gXXXX@gmail.com


Dear MXXX,

I want to first start off by saying I'm sorry for everything I did to you. I know you probably like "yeah right, if you are, why keep doing it!" and you have every right to feel this way. I'm just going get straight to the point of this email.

Incase you haven't realized by now, I have a serious problem with commitment. It's like the harder I try to do right by you, the harder it gets. I'm not sure if it's rebellion, the attention, or just plain immaturity. Who knows, it just might be all of the above. My family seems to think that I need counseling because of the different guys that I talk to while I'm talking to you. I feel as though if they finally know the truth about the real me, then you should too. That day that you caught me on the phone, I was talking to Richard. I honestly felt a sign a relief verses the feeling of being caught. It's like I was running for so long and when I finally got caught, I was relieved to stop running. I couldn't think of anything else except the fact that I could finally stop and take a breather. That's when I realized that I have a problem. For me to be able to call another guy while out with you was BOLD. That was total disrespect and you of all people for the majority of the 5 years we were together have shown me nothing but respect. I had to ask myself, the way you are treating him and the hurt you are causing him, do you love MaXXX? The honest answer is No. That definitely does not mean that I never loved you because you honestly had my heart for a long time. The reason the answer is no is because when you love someone you don't continuously lie, cheat, and deceive the people you love. And that is exactly what I have been doing to you.

That night you dropped me off at home I wanted to get everything of my chest. I sat my Mom, Crystal, and Charmaine down and told them every single detail about what type of person I am. What I told them was that I have a serious problem with men. It's like I can't get enough attention from men. Yes granted you gave me as much attention as you could, but I still felt as though something was missing. I needed more attention than what I was getting. After years of being in denial, even way before my relationship with you I can finally say that I have a problem. My problem is that I am addicted to attention from men. I feel like a drug addict when they get high. They like the feeling that their getting when they get high, but once they keep getting high off the same old stuff, they want more. They more on to something they feel is better than what they had the last time, no realizing that when they come down off that high, they are back where they started in the first place. Just like a drug addict I can't get high enough off the attention from dudes. Once I get high off one I want something I think would be better. After I get high off that persons attention I drop them, say I'm not going use them anymore, and go back to you. (My first real high) Then once I get tired of you I go to someone else. Use them for more attention than what I received from the last guy, drop them and go back to you again. It's a bad habit that I need to break now. I still remember when I told you that I dropped all the guys I was talking to for you and you said it don't matter how many you drop, because for everyone you drop you pick up another one. That stuck with me ever since you said it 3 years ago. Because it's true!!! My Mom asked me what it is about the attention that I like. Like I told her I'm not sure what is I just know it makes me feel really good to have it. Crystal asked me: "You don't care what they say about you when you talk to these guys? Do you even care if the attention is the wrong kind of attention?" I told her NO. Just as long as I'm getting what I'm looking for. That night they were asking me if I Care about the people that I hurt or if the guys I talk to know about each other? And I told them NO. Every guy thinks they are the only one I talk to. (Except for Doug and Sean. They know the real me, and they don't agree with the real me at all) Wait! To clear that up I have only had sex with one guy since we talked! That's no joke! I just like the attention that I got from all of them. That's what I meant to say.

Oh Yeah and they finally know that 90% of the reason we would argue and fight and you would do crazy stuff to me is because of my cheating, lying, deceiving ways. My Mom asked me is that the real reason we aren't married yet and I told her yes. Honestly MXXXX you never did anything to me that I didn't deserve. For 5 years you have put up with my bull shit and you don't need someone like me. People say all the time when they end a relationship that "it's not you it's me!" I can fully understand now why they say that because it feels like you want the person you're with to have much better than what you are giving them. They deserve someone who is on their level, who has the same goals, and wants what they dish out to the person they love. That's something that I can not give you MXXX. You deserve so much more. You need someone who is willing to love you as much as you love them and who is willing to be a suitable wife for you. I'm definitely not worthy of that in any way, shape or form. I know you said that I was the worst relationship you ever had, but I say you're the best relationship and most upstanding guy I've ever known!! I'm trying to finish this without tearing up but it's so hard. I need professional help and until I get it I will never stop be able to stop this feeling that I need to have attention from different guys. Plus I feel as though if I don't stop now I'm going get someone who is not just going to stand back and watch me keep going back to you and he might try to seriously hurt me. Again, I'm really sorry to just drop this on everyone like this, but I'm tired of running and I need to settle down and call it quits. The first step to getting help is admitting that you have a problem! And like I told my family, I'm telling you that I have a problem and I'm going to get help. I wish you luck in everything you do. Who knows while your in training you just might find that one that you should have had a long time ago.

Man... fucked that bitch... I need to post some of my "dear john" letters on this bitch to show how low those hoes go.........

 

[big pimp]

To all my niggas with fiances don't let this shit you reading fuck up the bachelor party.

they should read this thread and cancel the wedding.

 

[primal]

Most of the time I caught a girlfriend ... it was direct evidence or info from GF's of her . Like one of them sent me a pic of my chick with some dude dick in her face . She said dude was her babydaddy . No loyalty among hoes !

 

[gameboy]

Man Im wondering if any of yall brovas peeped this movie

If not then I would suggest it cause that movie is exactly whats being talked about in this thread...and Im not going to give the ending away soooo...

I didnt even think this thread was going to have that many replies but I must say godbless to some of yall brovas who have held yall cool when dealing with these trifling females..especially nahlaterz...like I stated before I wisely learned these lessons from the sideline watching someone else go through some shit with a chick and know not to put myself in that situation...My former female bestfriend is where I learned to not be naive about females...I remember when I was younger and real cool with her, we used to tell eachother all the damn time that we were going to get married as I sat and played friendboy as she consecutively went in and out of relationships and cheated on each dude...It took a damn epiphany for me to finally see that this chick was no good as a friend or as a potential mate...after that I didnt want to have shit to do with her...at first my reasoning for distancing myself was when she told me she got pregnant by and was marrying the dude who took her virginity while she was in high school(they broke up cause dude got jail time)...thats when I said that was it and started to cut off communication...I always blamed myself because I knew I should have been with her first but I fucked up so I had to let it go but after a while I realized that in actuality thinking over everything she did me the biggest favor because I came to grip with that actuality that as she cheated on her former boyfriends, if I got with her she would have done the same fuckin thing to me regardless of how close we were...I was nothing more than a real life human confession booth for her to spout off all the grimey shit she done did and me not make her feel bad for it and say how much she was a good person as if she took out no fault insurance....sorry for the rant

sounds like you never hit it,,, did you?
​

 

[LSN]

Most of the time I caught a girlfriend ... it was direct evidence or info from GF's of her . Like one of them sent me a pic of my chick with some dude dick in her face . She said dude was her babydaddy . No loyalty among hoes !

 

[jakesteeded]

Most of the time I caught a girlfriend ... it was direct evidence or info from GF's of her . Like one of them sent me a pic of my chick with some dude dick in her face . She said dude was her babydaddy . No loyalty among hoes !

damn!!!

 

[gameboy]

Most of the time I caught a girlfriend ... it was direct evidence or info from GF's of her . Like one of them sent me a pic of my chick with some dude dick in her face . She said dude was her babydaddy . No loyalty among hoes !

so the dick wasn't in her mouth?,,, she's just chilling in the pic next to a dick, like they are homiez?