13 reasons for a single man not to date a women with kids!
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don't even try me with that shit, I was the first child in a marriage...
mileage stretched out pussy with baggage its all yours homey...
Co sign
I would say this though. If you chose to date a chick with kids, make sure she only have 1, and he is 4 or older.
That shows that she has learn her lesson more than likely...
I would say this though. If you chose to date a chick with kids, make sure she only have 1, and he is 4 or older.
That shows that she has learn her lesson more than likely...
this post got me thinking!! right now im feelin 2 chicks, the first chick has 1 kid and the other chick has 2 kids.... im feelin both of them sexually and mentally but after reading this thread i wanna slap myself upside my head.. wtf am i thinking?? i can do better... thank u flash!
I COMPLETELY AGREE, AND I HAVE ANOTHER REASON, BUT I'M GOING TO KEEP IT TO MYSELF BECAUSE YALL WOULD TRY TO CRUCIFY ME.
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i agree with everything, but these two have always been on the top of my list of reasons not to date a woman with kids.
i'm surprised the bgol feminism party hasn't invaded this thread.
yeah don't fuck with women that have had a child by some other dude thats the stupidest shit you can do...
co..sign 2 the mutha..fuckin fullest
..REAL TALKAND #13 PURE B.S
#11 TRUE
BUT LET ME ASK U...IF U THE MAN HAS KIDS CAN U APPLY THE SAME STANDARD?
YEA I KNOW ALL WOMEN ARENT ON SUM BS.. LOT SISTAS WIT THEY SHIT RIGHT...
I WANNA KNO WAT THE BITCHES THINK
Ouch glad I got my wife she's the shit, but you're right!
i don't get serious with women with babies...just fuck'em and chuck up the duece!!!
hell,i never had a girlfriend before...real talk...
and i'm 27...
hell,i never had a girlfriend before...real talk...
and i'm 27...
I agree with a lot of it .....but ,trying to find quality Women without kids
Co-sign on that. Trying to find a black woman between the ages of 18-50, who does not have at least kid is almost impossible. Might be why a brother has to go outside his race to find a female. Sad but true.
I COMPLETELY AGREE, AND I HAVE ANOTHER REASON, BUT I'M GOING TO KEEP IT TO MYSELF BECAUSE YALL WOULD TRY TO CRUCIFY ME.
We just gonna tell you:
"Wake yo punk ass up!"
I agree with some of the list but...
It's very worse case scenario. Not all single Moms are bad. My girl a few years ago was a teacher making twice as much as me and she had a son. She wasn't a hoodrat or anything, the father was on one and left the family and became a rockhead. I felt bad for the little boy because none of that was his or his mother's fault. She treated me good and did more for me than my current girlfriend. I broke up because I admit that when things were getting serious, I wasn't mature enough to handle both her and her son. We remained friends and that was fine. I'm certain the guy she's with now is more her speed.
Now as far as the kind we all know: Common sense will tell you not to get involved with POS women. Cmon now...everyone has seen it. She's young, can't keep her bills on, talks shit about her no-good baby father, lives in a shitty apartment where her cousins and everyone else goes in and out every five minutes, her kids are always up at 11pm on a school night, etc. AVOID that bitch like a plague. I agree, don't date single moms if you can't hack it, but don't think all of them are jacked up.
It's very worse case scenario. Not all single Moms are bad. My girl a few years ago was a teacher making twice as much as me and she had a son. She wasn't a hoodrat or anything, the father was on one and left the family and became a rockhead. I felt bad for the little boy because none of that was his or his mother's fault. She treated me good and did more for me than my current girlfriend. I broke up because I admit that when things were getting serious, I wasn't mature enough to handle both her and her son. We remained friends and that was fine. I'm certain the guy she's with now is more her speed.
Now as far as the kind we all know: Common sense will tell you not to get involved with POS women. Cmon now...everyone has seen it. She's young, can't keep her bills on, talks shit about her no-good baby father, lives in a shitty apartment where her cousins and everyone else goes in and out every five minutes, her kids are always up at 11pm on a school night, etc. AVOID that bitch like a plague. I agree, don't date single moms if you can't hack it, but don't think all of them are jacked up.
Add up all the places i've ever worked at i'd say 80% of the unmarried black women have had kids and about 5% of the white women have had them, and i'm really stretching when i say 5%.
Don't kno where all the rest of yall rest,but in brooklyn you aint finding no bad bitch over 21 wit no kids. Shit,21 may be a lil high...that being said,u gotta kno how to handle peoples different mentality/situation to get what you after.I'm trying to smash no strings attached.
Heed the warning fellas, I was one of the many that got cuaght up with a woman with a kid...the pussy isn't worth it in the long run. Suffering for 13 years now...all I can say is RUN!!!! before it's too late.
Exactly, I have to agree with most of the list but I will say the older you get the smaller the quality pool gets. When you hit 30 something you will find the women without kids at this age have a hell of lot more issues than being childless.
Dlateshow
glad i don't live in brooklyn
CASE. I agree 100% And correct on every point.
In one ear, out the other.
1. She probably fine as heck that the first brother tried to lock her down with a kid.
2. She smarter and knows how to hook a brother up twice as hard as the first one.
3. She keeps a roof, job, food and ride.
4. She got dough from the first bro.
5. You trying to keep 5 other brothas off her.
6. She can cook.
7 she can fuck.
8 She can clean.
9 Doesn't agrue unless it something to have to do with the kids.
10 You could never get a chick that good unless she has kids or you play second fiddle.
11. Is supportive.
12 You got more kids than she has anyway.
13 The kids give your miserable life a sense of purpose.
14 45 year old man with no kids, will snatch up a 25 -35 old baby factory in a heartbeat
There's pro and cons to every situation.
Just joking anyway.
I haven't had a date in while. Been busy. I would take what I could get.
In one ear, out the other.
1. She probably fine as heck that the first brother tried to lock her down with a kid.
2. She smarter and knows how to hook a brother up twice as hard as the first one.
3. She keeps a roof, job, food and ride.
4. She got dough from the first bro.
5. You trying to keep 5 other brothas off her.
6. She can cook.
7 she can fuck.
8 She can clean.
9 Doesn't agrue unless it something to have to do with the kids.
10 You could never get a chick that good unless she has kids or you play second fiddle.
11. Is supportive.
12 You got more kids than she has anyway.
13 The kids give your miserable life a sense of purpose.
14 45 year old man with no kids, will snatch up a 25 -35 old baby factory in a heartbeat
There's pro and cons to every situation.
Just joking anyway.
I haven't had a date in while. Been busy. I would take what I could get.
Ain't nothing wrong with that man. Nothing at all. The thing is... we all progress at different rates. Don't let nobody, especially a bitter bitch, tell you that your not being mature enough at the time makes you any less of a man or any less responsible. I'm so serious.
In fact, you were so much of a man that you acknowledged how you felt about the situation and communicated it. This displays way more than anyone could ever say you lacked in that situation.
Many women don't have an accurate idea of what a man is and how he should be. They have this image of a man without flaws and that has progressed to the fullest extent possible.
This just ain't happening.
I will be the first to tell anybody that I'm a work in progress.
