You’re (men) just insecure

[M.H.C.]

Funny you bring this up...

That first clip ole buddy 35 and she 21. He should’ve known better. You don’t “date” a fresh 21 year old at any age. He could’ve been 22 and still should’ve known better. Young hoes are not to be trusted. They are just as bad as young dudes. Everybody wildin’ out at that age.

 

[guyver]

You may not want to share, but why did you need to send her money to begin with? Was this more of a my treat go relax or she is kind of financially dependent on you? This may change my opinion a little. If your wife doesn't work, it could lead to tge perception that you are controlling or insecure true or not.


As it stands, what you mentioned is not enough to speak to you being insecure or not. I get the strip club thing as long as the same applies to you.

I wouldn't put a club in the same lane but I understand the concern. The thing is women are targeted by men regardless of where they go. The alcohol adds more to something going bad, but the Mexican restaurant likely serves alcohol too. The thing ill say about women and clubs is they tend to interact with each other more than men. Your wife probably has a lifetime of navigating those types of situations. Your wife going to the club every blue moon is different than going every weekend.

Girls trip. Again, i get it. The lifestyle of a single woman is different from that of a wife. However, there maybe be legitimate things you are interested in that her friends are. For example, the way you party in front of your grandma isn't how you'll behave in front of your friends. A family vacation is going to be a different experience than you and your wife going alone. Unless you believe your wife's friends are fun girls/party girls, I wouldn't concern myself. I assume you choose your wife because she was respectful of herself, family and you. Going back to the strip club, i know how to enjoy myself while there and what is stepping over a line my girl may take issue with. I suspect it's the same for your wife regardless of her environment.

Like someone else said, i prefer my girl gives me space, so I don't give a fuck where she goes or with who. I trust she'll make the best decisions from safety to boundaries of our relationship. If something too off the wall happens, she won't be my girl and I assume the same thought is true for her. Im also not dating/marrying anyone who is easily influenced, so whatever she does it waa ultimately her decision.

 

[Heavenlywings77]

.......

I stand by that. Wasn't it you that went off the site and studied his gay videos???????


And then shared that with the board?????


How aren't you banned???????

 

[mcguyver]

I stand by that. Wasn't it you that went off the site and studied his gay videos???????


And then shared that with the board?????


How aren't you banned???????

 

[Heavenlywings77]

Your eternal Genin status my boy.

 

[nawlinsn931]

You may not want to share, but why did you need to send her money to begin with? Was this more of a my treat go relax or she is kind of financially dependent on you? This may change my opinion a little. If your wife doesn't work, it could lead to tge perception that you are controlling or insecure true or not.


As it stands, what you mentioned is not enough to speak to you being insecure or not. I get the strip club thing as long as the same applies to you.

I wouldn't put a club in the same lane but I understand the concern. The thing is women are targeted by men regardless of where they go. The alcohol adds more to something going bad, but the Mexican restaurant likely serves alcohol too. The thing ill say about women and clubs is they tend to interact with each other more than men. Your wife probably has a lifetime of navigating those types of situations. Your wife going to the club every blue moon is different than going every weekend.

Girls trip. Again, i get it. The lifestyle of a single woman is different from that of a wife. However, there maybe be legitimate things you are interested in that her friends are. For example, the way you party in front of your grandma isn't how you'll behave in front of your friends. A family vacation is going to be a different experience than you and your wife going alone. Unless you believe your wife's friends are fun girls/party girls, I wouldn't concern myself. I assume you choose your wife because she was respectful of herself, family and you. Going back to the strip club, i know how to enjoy myself while there and what is stepping over a line my girl may take issue with. I suspect it's the same for your wife regardless of her environment.

Like someone else said, i prefer my girl gives me space, so I don't give a fuck where she goes or with who. I trust she'll make the best decisions from safety to boundaries of our relationship. If something too off the wall happens, she won't be my girl and I assume the same thought is true for her. Im also not dating/marrying anyone who is easily influenced, so whatever she does it waa ultimately her decision.

Yeah it was a my treat go enjoy yourself thing

 

[Shadow]

You got a good one fam.

Agreed, but tell her to find others like her (married and accountable) and leave them bitter single broads in the past

 

[blaze]

Got roped into a discussion with my wife and her (single) friends about girl’s trips etc
How it came about is because my wife been just burning herself out so I cash app her homegirl to take her to the Mexican place for dinner and drinks
Next thing I know “oh she can go to dinner but not the club,n——- are just so insecure and controlling, grow up”
I unloaded the clip on her ass
So basically you’re saying it’s cool for a married woman to be in an environment that invited all types of disrespect and fuckery. She refuse a drink or to dance with a man, he get mad and shit escalates and it gets physical, then what? Or I’m SUPPOSED to be cool with her in a strip club with different men throwing they meat in her face?
If that’s what she wants then shouldn’t be in a relationship
Your priorities/thoughts when you go out as a single woman aren’t the same as hers as a married woman. So that’s the difference, so being grown is about having respect for your man, your relationship, especially yourself but I’m gone let you think this shit a Tyler Perry movie
My wife just laughed

So why is it insecure to have rules and standards with your woman?

Man, it all depends. Family girl trips is one things, but your wife going with her single friends to dick chase in Can damn cun is different. Just like you going to fish in the mountains with your boys is one thing, but a trip to any place on the map with cheap pussy (Taiwan, Vietnam, Rio, Sousa any number of African nations) is not. If you are not your wife's best friend (ya'll need to be each others best friend. That's the best way to stay married for a long time), you need to know her best friend. If that best friend is dick chasing, then you need to have a conversation with your girl. If you got to tell her not to go to a place where dick chasing is what's going down, that speaks to your relationship and you need to tighten that shit up on your end. You shouldn't have to tell your girl to do shit, she supposed to respect your relationship enough to not do that shit. If she don't, then you need to figure out if you can get there. If you can't, it's just best for both of ya'll to part ways cordially. The same goes for you too. You can't tell yo girl not to do that shit and then go on a Virgin cruise without her.