Ay! Anybody here got a sibling you can't stand???

[cashwhisperer]

Or a sibling that's jealous of you?

My sister is 12 years older than me but she has been childish ever since I've known her. We've never truly gotten along the majority of my life. When I was 12 and she was 24, I felt then I had a more mature outlook than she did.

She came to visit me recently and tried to show out/son me in front of my wife and kids. And the whole time she was here, she was smiling in my face while calling my mom and telling her all kind of negative shit, lying on me, like she tried to turn my mother against me. Straight up lies! Little did she know, my mother was calling me telling me every word my sister said about me, giving me a heads up.

I'm to the place where I'm bout to cut her off. Or just keep communication to an extreme minimum.

I actually feel sorry for her because she's damn near 60 with no man. And none of her relationships have worked out (not surprised), and I know she's miserable about that shit, but that ain't my problem. And now she's talking about moving from Miami to come live near me in Georgia Hell naw!

 

[Flawless]

Pics of sister? You can blur her face but show her full body.

 

[0utsyder]

One in particular and it'sl not that we can't stand each other, it's that we're so different it really doesn't make sense to be around each other for extended periods of time.

 

[cashwhisperer]

Pics of sister? You can blur her face but show her full body.

 

[Hey Julian!]

Sound like you need to block a sibling’s access to your life. If you haven’t had a conversation to set boundaries then you’re letting her know it’s OK to do that shit. Straight tell her to stop and block communication if she doesn’t. People will do what you allow to do to you. Either way your sister sounds like a miserable individual and at 60 it might be too late to change what her behavior, so be ready to stand on business.

 

[Coldchi]

me and my 2 brothers got on each others nerves as kids..........fought each other like we were strangers....

tighter than ever as adults though.

 

[cashwhisperer]

Sound like you need to block a sibling’s access to your life. If you haven’t had a conversation to set boundaries then you’re letting her know it’s OK to do that shit. Straight tell her to stop and block communication if she doesn’t. People will do what you allow to do to you. Either way your sister sounds like a miserable individual and at 60 it might be too late to change what her behavior, so be ready to stand on business.

We had a blowout argument a few years ago that had me so heated, I swore that I would never do that again. She won't listen, she wants a fight. She often starts up arguments with me. My mother had to tell her she refuses to argue with her anymore. My thing is, never ask for love, respect, or an apology, because if you have to ask it's probably not worth anything. That's why it has to be minimizing conflict, because with her she's not sensible enough to look at the big picture and see the damage she's causing. So I HAVE to separate.