Welp DJ got short time of freedom left, my sentence at Marriage State Correctional starts next month.

That's still in there?!
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YESSIR
So when I say
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It's Biblical, haha
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.

is she your best friend? brah
 
Start looking for a divorce lawyer before she does and if you can, start piping your divorce judge.


Cant tell you shit bout the shit before that part!!
 
:lol: The thread title had me dying. I read this shit like dude is about to go to jail on some January 6th I get to turn myself in when I feel like it type of shit. Come to find out the motherfucker is getting married

The most important thing to realize is that getting married is not like being boyfriend and girlfriend with a license. It's actually very much deeper than that.

Just try to be better than most men. Be there, be supportive, realize that you are part of a team. What affects you affects the team.
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
Congratulations. You have to grow together yet never loose sight of you as individuals. It's work, but it is worth it. Know when to shut the fuck up. All battles aren't worth it. That's the hardest part for men. As time goes on your wife will learn when to shut the fuck up, or at best apologize. Women usually keep talking. They can't help themselves. Don't tell your woman how you really feel. Will just fuck up your night. Learn to act interested when she tells you how her day at work was. Long as she didn't get fired or hurt on the job we really don't give two fucks about dat shit they be babbling on about. But you gotta play the role. Best of luck buddy.

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congrats bro and welcome to the club . we got 18 years in....been together 20. few thing i'd say is keep balance and be consistent with whatever you do or tell her. love her to the moon and back but don't take no shit off her. best believe life will test yall relationship....if the house and foundation is strong errthang will be good
 
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1 week to go, I don't know if it's the stress of last minute preparations, or the stress of her in my back about wedding shit that I could care less about I know this shit better last forever because I will never do this again. I just wanna get this done and over with, I need a br3ak already !
 
1 week to go, I don't know if it's the stress of last minute preparations, or the stress of her in my back about wedding shit that I could care less about I know this shit better last forever because I will never do this again. I just wanna get this done and over with, I need a br3ak already !
just hang in there dawg
you can weather all the minutia
and then ya'll can chill
 
I trying.
I didn't want a big wedding, I was down for city hall for $200. I can now say I truly understand why men don't give a fuck about weddings.
just remember it makes her happy
all that show and tell is for her
this is your sacrifice
think of it as her corvette
later get you a corvette
 
Congratulations. You have to grow together yet never loose sight of you as individuals. It's work, but it is worth it. Know when to shut the fuck up. All battles aren't worth it. That's the hardest part for men. As time goes on your wife will learn when to shut the fuck up, or at best apologize. Women usually keep talking. They can't help themselves. Don't tell your woman how you really feel. Will just fuck up your night. Learn to act interested when she tells you how her day at work was. Long as she didn't get fired or hurt on the job we really don't give two fucks about dat shit they be babbling on about. But you gotta play the role. Best of luck buddy.

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Some good advice right here. Agree w/ every word.
 
just remember it makes her happy
all that show and tell is for her
this is your sacrifice
think of it as her corvette
later get you a corvette
It's really ironic you say that, I have a boat. 19 ft center console, built for fishishing. Before I proposed to her, I kept talking about selling my boat and getting a bigger one. She kept saying I can get a new boat when she gets a ring. I have the perfect excuse to go get a new boat now !!!
 
It's a mental challenge. Kinda messes with your head. All other women are off the table so to speak.

We have a gf, so I am cool with that. Not really looking for other ass, I am 52 fam, planning on being retired before I am 60. I am content with what I got home. For me it is me having to tell her everything and explain everything about what I do financially and when and where I am at, that took a lot getting used to.
 
We have a gf, so I am cool with that. Not really looking for other ass, I am 52 fam, planning on being retired before I am 60. I am content with what I got home. For me it is me having to tell her everything and explain everything about what I do financially and when and where I am at, that took a lot getting used to.
that's no sweat since you ain't doing shit
 
We have a gf, so I am cool with that. Not really looking for other ass, I am 52 fam, planning on being retired before I am 60. I am content with what I got home. For me it is me having to tell her everything and explain everything about what I do financially and when and where I am at, that took a lot getting used to.

I feel you Bro. That part takes time. But wait until women see that ring on yo finger. Even the gf gonna be acting different. Women love married men for some silly ass reason. Been married since 97, together since 89. I'm a year older than you.
 
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