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Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
Congrats fam. Welcome to the club
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
the first year is always the hardest......
 
from what i have seen lot of shit can go right lot of shit can go wrong

if yall wasnt livin together u better start and talk shit out
one advise that i did get from couples that were married 50 or 60 years( i think it was either @mcguyver or @Amajorfucup kids)
is to get a separate space where u can go when u fight and need to cool down
shit it doesnt even need to be a fight sometimes u just want space to relax and chill not cause irritation

also congrats
 
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Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
Ayoooooo, congrats my dude..... Next month on the 14th I will have 31yrs in on this current bid, LOL... Honestly I can't remember my 1st yr, we were in the military at the time, and she was stationed at Andrews AFB, so there was alot of back and forth. Things didn't change for us until we had our 1st child (10yrs in), I can't say we didn't, but I don't ever remember arguing with her before the birth of our child. We traveled together and we traveled with our friends separately...
I know it's easy to say, but if you ALWASY remember why you married her and goto bed naked, yall will be good... Congrats once again to you and your Bride.... Right on!!!!
 
Im on my 7th yr. It was HARD for me the first year. We didnt live together beforehand and we had to get used to each other's ways. Plus I REALLY missed my fuckboy days of having pussy options.

NO WAY I'd ever get married if I knew we didnt want kids (we have had 3 and they make it all worth it).

BUT there is a time where you have to hand the game over to the younger generation...
 
Ayoooooo, congrats my dude..... Next month on the 14th I will have 31yrs in on this current bid, LOL... Honestly I can't remember my 1st yr, we were in the military at the time, and she was stationed at Andrews AFB, so there was alot of back and forth. Things didn't change for us until we had our 1st child (10yrs in), I can't say we didn't, but I don't ever remember arguing with her before the birth of our child. We traveled together and we traveled with our friends separately...
I know it's easy to say, but if you ALWASY remember why you married her and goto bed naked, yall will be good... Congrats once again to you and your Bride.... Right on!!!!

I dont think I will be around 31 years from no, congrats on that success fam !
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.

I don't have any advice other than best of luck!

And I look forward to the update on 8-26-2024 as to how the first year was.
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.

Congratulations

don't take no advice

But watch and listen and ask questions

YOUR RELATIONSHIP is YOURS

don't compare it or try to live up to some ideal.

you love her?

Then love her as much as you can

And LET HER love you.

You ain't really rookies this is all just paperwork and societal pressure

You already been friends lovers and partners.

Just maintain that nurture that always appreciate that.

you'll be fine

That first year stuff is just a warning about expectation, pressure etc...

Love each other

Happy isn't a switch to turn off and on.

It's a state of being and about trust and communication.

Mazel Tov.
 
Other women get hotter and more available the second you tie the knot


It’s all about respect
You might not always like her but you have to remember you love and respect her

Marriage is a good thing
My wife runs the house and looks after the kid
I have been able to focus on making money
I can’t imagine waking up next to anyone else
 
How long have y'all been together. Not engaged, together?

I found there wasn't a real difference when we got married to what life was like prior.

If y'all have a good relationship before you say your "I Do's" you will be straight.
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
Congrats my dude. I'm going to be in the same boat soon. I finally found my partner in crime, and even with the frustrations and disagreements, I still look at her in amazement everyday.
 
Word of advice...don't take other married people's advice. Happy trails!

This man is wise beyond his years so I won't offer any advice however I will comment. It was like doing time for me. Hard labor time. 10 years so in man years it was double the time. We produced an amazing child together who is now grown. I've come to the realization marriage, by law, isn't for me. I won't gain anything from it at all. I plan to die alone but for the ones that used to love on The Plutionian here's a serenade for yo ass!

 
Congrats on the move DJ.

I lived with my wife for 7 years before we got married, so nothing changed but her last name. Only advice I have is:

When the kids show up, it is important to have a support system, because you both will need some adult time away from them periodically.
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
 
Fam it's quickly approaching, Aug 26th is the day. The phrase time flies is dead on point, we have been planning this wedding for almost 2 years, well mainly she has, but I have to admit this shit came quick. For the married brothers in here what should I expect the first year, will anything change ? I mean just looking to see what your thoughts are on your first year or 2 of marriage.
Also, remember, the marriage is for both of you. The wedding is for HER. Btw, :cheers:
 
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