My Wife Threatens to “End It All” Whenever I Ask Her to Get a Job

I had a partna with a phd and I understand the point your wife and my partna thinks. I mean you get that level of education you can't flip burgers brug. We gotta keep it 100% man. Everything is about status and what you got. Bad look one of her homegirls see her folding clothes in Marshalls.

Buddy ended up moving to LA to try to come up, he has no job and no bread but he's determined to make it. We don't know what could happen but I applaud dude for taking action.
There ARE jobs out here that people hold without a degree in a particular field, but using the skills that were picked up along the way. That's why we have Lawyers sitting in the Anchor's Chair in a lot of news outlets...they're not Journalists at all.

She needs a network to get her foot in the door somewhere and then climb from there.
 
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
Cut ya loses Brah...your marriage wont mean shit to you in a year...and she'll try to break with time serve when you cheat...
 
God didn't create marriage. Man did because he wanted his property. The top is bullshit.

The union of Adam and Eve illustrates My ideal for marriage— one man and one woman joined together in a life-long commitment to each other, working together to form strong, godly families. Your Bible mandates it.
  • So God created mankind in His own image, in the image of God He created them; male and female He created them.- Genesis 1:27
  • Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.- Hebrews 13:4
 
The union of Adam and Eve illustrates My ideal for marriage— one man and one woman joined together in a life-long commitment to each other, working together to form strong, godly families. Your Bible mandates it.
  • So God created mankind in His own image, in the image of God He created them; male and female He created them.- Genesis 1:27
  • Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.- Hebrews 13:4
Aye, Yahweh. What's all this about Lilith, and who was Cain's wife? :dunno:
 
Fellows, I appreciate the response. We have decided to see a therapist with the intention that a neutral person can open her eyes to the issues at hand. Now, if therapy does not work then I have to make a decision on the future of the marriage.

I wish you both the best.
 
If you aren't stacking any bread without any kids, I'd cut the losses and divorce her

it's clear she was looking for a sucker to dump all her debt on and now she's manipulating you because she doesn't want to take responsible for her past financial decisions.
Yeah he should divorce because one thing is for sure it will get worse lol.
 
Who are you?
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The fuck?
 
I can't believe so many vets on here can't tell that this is a troll thread :smh:

It's hard not take some shit at face value. With all this hell going on these days, the last thing a nigga thinking about is a nigga making up some shit to get some attention from other niggas.

Whether the story is real or not, the only advice the OP needs is to get some goddamn friends.
 
Fellows, I appreciate the response. We have decided to see a therapist with the intention that a neutral person can open her eyes to the issues at hand. Now, if therapy does not work then I have to make a decision on the future of the marriage.
Is that how the article concludes or the advice that was given?
 
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