My Wife Threatens to “End It All” Whenever I Ask Her to Get a Job

Whether she got kicked out for grades or money, she's irresponsible either way. She waited until she got 100k in debt to decide whatever she was working towards wasn't worth it no more.

What's to say she won't have that type of change of heart about the marriage?

And then on the flip side, he waited until 6 months into the marriage before even having this discussion about finances.

It's like they both share some type of near sightedness.
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I already gave my honest opinion. But to the point you're making, no you won't sleep well if you have any sense. It shouldn't come as a surprise to you, that suicidal people often take unsuspecting loved ones along with them. Just saying. Sleep well if you want to, and your slumber could be a lot longer than you bargained for. :(
Key word. Unsuspecting. You already know what time it is. Don’ let that bitch get the drop on you and get your paperwork in place.
 
OP is all the way fucked up.

If you coming here for advice, we already know you aint about this life bro.

We need to see pics of her body at least to see if she is worth it.

Is she fucking you like crazy.
 
Lots and lots of women are crazy... unfortunately U only find out after marrying them.
6 months, Higher education debt, not wanting to work or discuss the issue...

Get out of the marriage and do not have any kids with her.... I repeat DO NOT HAVE ANY KIDS WITH HER... U will regret it.
 
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.

Is this a movie plot? Cause if it is....I’ll watch the movie or support it. If it’s real..
 
MrFreddyGoodBuddy,

This man needs to help this woman video her own suicide so he can save his own ass in court in front of the white devil judge. But not before he takes out a $2.5 million dollar life insurance policy. I can teach him how to solve this problem. But afterwards, he will need a fake name and new I'd.

LOL, Ok Ray Donovan..... but chea, can you imagine if he told her that..

be like.. hey look.. I love you and all that.. but..

If you gonna off yourself, can I get an insurance policy, I mean you want a nice

funeral right?

a casket aint gonna pay for itself bitch!!!!
 
Yeah, Phil Hartman stay with a chick that he knew was nutty because he loved her. And she did the murder suicide on him

I ain't fucking with no suicidal bitch either

Yea Phil was one of the last of the actual FUNNY actors on snl I remember that....

I think the chick that murdered that superstar qb McNair, was on that murder suicide shit..I always felt his murder was suspicious tho..


but good point about Phil, tryin to be the good guy and caught a stray....
 
I left my second wife because she didn't want to work. She was a singer but cats kept calling her to do shit but not pay her! Fuck that!

I honestly never knew that there were relationships where the dude paid everything and the women didn’t pay any bills. Some like your ex-wife not working at all and some whet the woman works but keeps all her money. I gets it works for those people but I couldn’t see myself taking care of a grown woman
 
Fellows, I appreciate the response. We have decided to see a therapist with the intention that a neutral person can open her eyes to the issues at hand. Now, if therapy does not work then I have to make a decision on the future of the marriage.
 
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
Sounds like she's got you well trained


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Lots of women dont want to work and they want to be taken care of...
They will never come out and say it outright. They just play their position.

If you make the mistake of marrying a woman and impregnating her right away and she does not have a job. She will have the baby and stay at home for 3-5 years. Getting her to get off her ass and find a job and earn some money becomes an issue that will lead to arguments and strong words before they do find a job. By that time your marriage is on the rocks anyway......

I tell young men, dont get married unless U want a family so bad U are prepared to pay for her to sit at home and do nothing....
 
Fellows, I appreciate the response. We have decided to see a therapist with the intention that a neutral person can open her eyes to the issues at hand. Now, if therapy does not work then I have to make a decision on the future of the marriage.
Therapists don't work. You're wasting your time. Get out while you can. There's no children (I hope) so it's an easy out.
 
Fellows, I appreciate the response. We have decided to see a therapist with the intention that a neutral person can open her eyes to the issues at hand. Now, if therapy does not work then I have to make a decision on the future of the marriage.

thats cool if you KNOW she really and truly has your back....and I wish yall the best.

personally I think you putting a band aid on a bullet wound....

but thats just me...
 
Fellows, I appreciate the response. We have decided to see a therapist with the intention that a neutral person can open her eyes to the issues at hand. Now, if therapy does not work then I have to make a decision on the future of the marriage.
Good luck with that I hope it works out.
 
Bit of advice from Da Walsh bruh........whenever a woman threatens to leave under any circumstance hold the door open for her muthafuckin ass. Don't take that shit. It's childish as hell. Because she can't have shit her way she wants to end the relationship. You hold that door open and tell her she can get the fuck on watch how fast she think twice about that shit and go sit the fuck down somewhere. Women use that leaving shit as a manipulation tactic to control the relationship. Soon as they see you not beggin them to stay cause you don't have to put up with that bullshit comes a moment of clarity. Trust in the triple bitch poster when I say this. These words I've just typed are some of the realist shit I've ever typed on here. And I've typed some real shit. :yes:

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I saw a meme on facebook or insta that basically said women don't want a dude that when they tell him to get the fuck out, he actually leaves and stay gone. This isn't exactly the same thing, but it goes to the point that women want a man they can push away and he sticks around or comes right back. She has to know being unwilling to accept any financial responsibility and not wanting to talk about it is pushing you away.
 
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
Who are you?
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Ducktales

Nobody is giving anybody 100k for 2 years of school.

But if you NEED your spouse to work and they say no and then threaten to leave, say thank you they are doing you a favor you don't have to kick them out.
 
“I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.”
How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone
Help her do just that "end it all" by a boat trip on the water,a cruise,down a flight of stairs,brake line cut....whatever.
 
"I, _____, take thee, _____, to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith.

If you ain't built for these parts then stay the fuck outta marriage. Hope you learned something.
God didn't create marriage. Man did because he wanted his property. The top is bullshit.
 
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