Let me buss this muffucka open.
First, wanting marriage and being marriage-minded are not one in the same. Everybody want riches, but few have the discipline and the mind to acquire wealth. We all know what wealth is, but few have or even know how to go about achieving it. Same goes for marriage. It's easy to say men wont marry you or don't want to get married, but how many women actually say "These are the issues that may be keeping me single"? None!
The biggest issue is too many women know how to offset not being marriage material by being more overtly sexual, attention whores or buying hair, etc. They work harder as masking the issues than the issues themselves. 80% of black women are overweight. Probably 80% have weaves or wigs on. 60% have kids by worthless dudes. Black men never complained their hair wasn't blonde or long enough, or they are too dark. We complained that too many are fat, have shit attitudes, and too many kids out of wedlock when we meet them. Do they correct any of that? No!
Black men see black women as not loving themselves. They hide behind acronyms like BBW. Deep down, they are miserable. Can't climb stairs without getting winded, knee surgeries in their 40's, can't fit in airplane seats or sports cars. By the end of my relationship, my girl couldnt sit comfortably in my sports car. Yeah, she made crazy loot and had good pussy, but she let herself go. The health issues down the line are too much to risk staying with her so i ended it. She loved her image for than her own health or the health of our relationship. That's too many women these days. To say you love me and value our marriage, but then you pack on 50 lbs, you don't love yourself, me, or our sex life. You fucking know i didn't marry a fat woman, so why are you fat now? Excuse after excuse. Oh, because you had my kids? They are 8 and 12, go to the gym! Eat right! Go WITH your man to the gym! NOPE, NOPE and NOPE! Yet, they sit in the salon chair for hours getting micro braids put in, when an hour in the gym is all any man wants. My girl has an amazing gym in her building and never went in two years, but you'll hear about her college Degree and her job in a fucking heartbeat, and how it is hard to find men her equal. Well, what man who earns what she does and is her equal wants an unhealthy, arrogant, fat woman....with money?
Another issue is black women blame white women, yet they get flowing blonde hair sewn in just like white women. Black men didn't date white women for their hair, we went to them because we met them in our gyms or during other physical activities. The one cruise i ever took was filled with fat, black, octopus braid weave wearing women. Red hair, loud, big eyelashes, long fake nails, and fat. These same women don't love themselves and are upset with us for not accepting their mediocre ways of life: clubs, social media, food, sex. Atlanta is filled with highly successful fat black women. So, you have the money for a trainer, a membership, but you buy hair? You bought red bottoms? All your friends are gay and soft straight men because upscale black women will call you on your bullshit. This is why the female who tells you she cant find a man has more guy friends than female friends and very few top notch female friends. It's either all her friends are hoodrats who cosign her bullshit and look just like her or she doesnt really get along with women at all and has one or two friends that she barely talks to.
Black men are tired of being blamed. We are tired of being told we don't measure up. You got 3 kids, but dont date janitors? You're fat but only like tall guys? You spent 5K on implants but your teeth are jacked? Your pussy good but your credit bad? The hypocrisy is staggering in women of all races, and men have simply decided not to take any of these bitches seriously anymore. You're on your phone while at dinner or while im talking to you, you take pics in gas station bathrooms. Most women today are straight up narccacists. You tell her she's pretty and your the 127th dude to tell her that because she posted a pic of herself before work this morning. These women cannot accept compliments because social media has watered the shit down. Affection cannot compete with attention with this generation. They are lost, and its not our fucking fault. We are tired of dating women who want to be committed while doing single woman shit. You're supposed to be over clubbing, fighting, smoking out, running the streets and having a stable of dudes around when you commit. No man gon fuck with any woman who keeps her exes or other dudes around expecting you to be cool with that shit. She takes pics and posts them so other men can validate her. Miss me with that nonsense. Men see through their visual lies and right pass their nonsense.
That, my friends, is why they are upset and unwed.
