Porn Makes Men Terrible In Bed

[tallblacknyc]

I feel you black ..but as I was saying a big difference now is lack of social skills of women now..they're in their phones so much it's hard to have a "conversation"...many like to text or use Facebook or Instagram ..superficial shit ..you're in the game I'm sure you see some of the steippers now who are on their "phones" in the club or they don't have "game" with the clients because the bitch can't speak

Another thing you're in the mecca of NYC ...where I'm at everyone drives ..makes it even harder ..in NY you can see broads on the train..walking ...and as you said with the unlimited metro card..endless opportunities ..down here many people drive around ..with tinted windows..ie closed off

I personally think it's harder now than in the past

yeah this def the phone generation and yeah that shit is def 1 of the negatives in the game with these strippers in their phones.. yeah ur rite i do have a slight advantage living in a metrocard city..but it's interesting u said it's harder now than b4..i def mite say that's a regional thing with that last comment

 

[brickwall92]

man I didn't even get past the first 2 lines ....

nigga that is some real shit

Lmao I laughed too black drops real og talk ,but black was born great with women ..it's hard sometimes for greats to relate to average/below average cats ..I had friends like that I'm talking about from elementary they were just "the shit" when it came to females ..and because it was easy for them..they expected the same from me...didn't work that way

 

[brickwall92]

yeah this def the phone generation and yeah that shit is def 1 of the negatives in the game with these strippers in their phones.. yeah ur rite i do have a slight advantage living in a metrocard city..but it's interesting u said it's harder now than b4..i def mite say that's a regional thing with that last comment

You'd get it in everywhere that's your gift...but it's much harder in South Florida to me...because of the car culture ..people kind of become standoffish

The reason I think it's harder is women have more choice ..when I first hit the internet ..I could message a woman and be sure I'd get a response ..now ? With broads who have 5000 Facebook friends ? Lol...good luck...9/10 a woman who's attractive has at minimum 800 Facebook "friends" ..and with them using their phones 24/7 ..that's where you have to play...well you're not only competing with cats in your city ita now cats from other cities ...a cesspool ..plus "average" broads even become picky online...because so many guys holler

 

[tallblacknyc]

that's more of a problem than porn is.
if a guy isn't trying to make a woman feel maximum pleasure porn has nothing to do with it, it's just a guy that's selfish and they existed before porn existed.

For ME personally, I'm going to feel good. It's my job to make her feel way better than me. That's how I approach it.
Porn isn't integral to me but watching it you can see positions that you can try and see if they'll be fun.

shit making a chick nut or making them nut multiple times was always on some conquering the territory mentality we had..u always knew if u fucked her rite she'll be back and mite go put the bug in other girls ear on how good u was..hell i use to say u ain't juss fucking her u fucking her crew and whatever other female species she interact with..females are worst than dudes and are very talkative especially when it comes to shit they really enjoy..word of mouth can get u a lot of pussy..that rite there was 1 of the reasons nigs was really trying to make these broads nut and nut often..as i always said a nig that kno how to make broads cum will never have trouble getting pussy..cause i ain't never met a broad that thought she was to good to have an orgasm or didn't love nutting..making them nut keeps the consistant pussy flowing..consistant pussy is always what u want whether it be 1 chick, 3, 5, 10, or more..pussy on standby is the ultimate goal

 

[Naha-Nago]

I feel you black ..but as I was saying a big difference now is lack of social skills of women now..they're in their phones so much it's hard to have a "conversation"...many like to text or use Facebook or Instagram ..superficial shit ..you're in the game I'm sure you see some of the steippers now who are on their "phones" in the club or they don't have "game" with the clients because the bitch can't speak

Another thing you're in the mecca of NYC ...where I'm at everyone drives ..makes it even harder ..in NY you can see broads on the train..walking ...and as you said with the unlimited metro card..endless opportunities ..down here many people drive around ..with tinted windows..ie closed off

I personally think it's harder now than in the past

No it won't
Looks like in all things lack of communication and them blaming after the fact will fuck up your sex life.

Talk
I don't like that
I like this.
Ask do you like that.
Speak up...yea right there.
If you can't do that don't blame anybody but your own self.

Really irritated with ppl looking for outs for not speaking up.
You control what is and isn't done with and to your body.

Or nah?

It's funny how communication or LACK THERE OF has ended up being the focal point and main culprit of all this shit.

*two cents *

 

[ShortyCumStain]

It's funny how communication or LACK THERE OF has ended up being the focal point and main culprit of all this shit.

*two cents *

Bruh, some of these heauxs convo be hella weak nowadays. Can't think pass go. I wanna fuck but shit, heaux, can we engage in discourse too???

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

shit making a chick nut or making them nut multiple times was always on some conquering the territory mentality we had..u always knew if u fucked her rite she'll be back and mite go put the bug in other girls ear on how good u was..hell i use to say u ain't juss fucking her u fucking her crew and whatever other female species she interact with..females are worst than dudes and are very talkative especially when it comes to shit they really enjoy..word of mouth can get u a lot of pussy..that rite there was 1 of the reasons nigs was really trying to make these broads nut and nut often..as i always said a nig that kno how to make broads cum will never have trouble getting pussy..cause i ain't never met a broad that thought she was to good to have an orgasm or didn't love nutting..making them nut keeps the consistant pussy flowing..consistant pussy is always what u want whether it be 1 chick, 3, 5, 10, or more..pussy on standby is the ultimate goal

exactly.
im going to. so its my mission to make her multiple times. however she needs it is how im going to do it. and after that she is going to talk about it. and when she talks about it that rep is out there. and then you don't have to try to find ppl cause the rep is out there.
if you're "that guy that does this and this" then it's a wrap.
it's like a yelp review. there have been PLENTY of times where I've told an ex DON'T tell ppl what me and you do..
of course she ain't listen then want to fall out with her "friends" cause they want to try and get it too lol.
It never ever fails.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

Bruh, some of these heauxs convo be hella weak nowadays. Can't think pass go. I wanna fuck but shit, heaux, can we engage in discourse too???

don't fuck. lol. that's what it came down to for me. They couldn't talk in person in real life without the use of a text then I'd be like... this isn't going to work.
I can't be doing all the talking in fact I shouldn't be doing MOST of the talking I'm supposed to be listening.
So yea
im out

 

[tallblacknyc]

You'd get it in everywhere that's your gift...but it's much harder in South Florida to me...because of the car culture ..people kind of become standoffish

The reason I think it's harder is women have more choice ..when I first hit the internet ..I could message a woman and be sure I'd get a response ..now ? With broads who have 5000 Facebook friends ? Lol...good luck...9/10 a woman who's attractive has at minimum 800 Facebook "friends" ..and with them using their phones 24/7 ..that's where you have to play...well you're not only competing with cats in your city ita now cats from other cities ...a cesspool ..plus "average" broads even become picky online...because so many guys holler

hey ny is the king of the slick talkers and bulshitters so broads done heard a 1000 lines done been approached in 1000 ways so they built a natural defense mechanism..in fact a lot will put the headphones on and walk with their head down and keep it moving extra fast..truss some chicks walk around with a chip on their shoulder cause so many dudes done tried to holler that day or many dudes came at them in a negative way or a few dudes said some real disrespectful shit to them..it's a lot of things that also put roadblocks in the mating game out here..but with all that said in certain enviroments u can catch them with their hair down and dats when it's best to interact with them.. truth be told i'm at my best when it's in a laid back enviroment or not in a typical situation..like juss running to the cornerstore to grab a bite of eat done prob got me more burn than if i went to a club or parade... laundry, grocery shopping, clothing store, waiting for a bus or train simple shit like that done got me more in than anything..cause it will start of with general friendly convo than possibly grow into even better convo etc..shit walking around with a plate of food that smell good done got me in..cause it will be like damn what's that, that smells good, u'll tell them, next thing ya'll start talking about diff food spots, etc than next thing u kno numbers exchange and well it leads into other shit

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

It's funny how communication or LACK THERE OF has ended up being the focal point and main culprit of all this shit.

*two cents *

that's all it is.
TALK
nothing gets done without communication.
from building a fucking rocket ship
to building a fucking orgasm.

 

[Naha-Nago]

Lmao I laughed too black drops real og talk ,but black was born great with women ..it's hard sometimes for greats to relate to average/below average cats ..I had friends like that I'm talking about from elementary they were just "the shit" when it came to females ..and because it was easy for them..they expected the same from me...didn't work that way

Fam I'm going to tell you a throw away line I heard some drunken old head say at a bar I frequented in my early 20's and it cemented my thoughts on women, pussy, and sex forever.

"CHASES YOU!?! [woman's name] don't you know every other person on Earth has a tits, ass, and a pussy?"

I know you intellectually know that but once you BELIEVE that an APPLY it you'll start to see shit in a different light.

It's not that tallblacknyc and others in this thread/board have a 'gift' as much they were exposed to it and grasped that concept earlier than most. It isn't magic it's operating in abundance.

"Pussy is important....but it isn't special."- Patrice Oneal.

*two cents*

 

[tallblacknyc]

exactly.
im going to. so its my mission to make her multiple times. however she needs it is how im going to do it. and after that she is going to talk about it. and when she talks about it that rep is out there. and then you don't have to try to find ppl cause the rep is out there.
if you're "that guy that does this and this" then it's a wrap.
it's like a yelp review. there have been PLENTY of times where I've told an ex DON'T tell ppl what me and you do..
of course she ain't listen then want to fall out with her "friends" cause they want to try and get it too lol.
It never ever fails.

all 100 percent truth especially that yelp line

 

[Naha-Nago]

Bruh, some of these heauxs convo be hella weak nowadays. Can't think pass go. I wanna fuck but shit, heaux, can we engage in discourse too???

Women haven't changed since forever. I can count on one hand the women I've met that really had something interesting to say and my circle included some very 'educated' people. Alot of them weren't talking about shit when your grandfather was rolling up on them in the 50's and trust me them chicks aren't texting about shit now.

'Lost in her phone' is the new 'she's shy' of this generation.

*two cents *

 

[ShortyCumStain]

exactly.
im going to. so its my mission to make her multiple times. however she needs it is how im going to do it. and after that she is going to talk about it. and when she talks about it that rep is out there. and then you don't have to try to find ppl cause the rep is out there.
if you're "that guy that does this and this" then it's a wrap.
it's like a yelp review. there have been PLENTY of times where I've told an ex DON'T tell ppl what me and you do..
of course she ain't listen then want to fall out with her "friends" cause they want to try and get it too lol.
It never ever fails.

I've learned da dangers of fuckin' these heauxs too good. It almost never ends well. But I can't deal garbage product so they gotta get this dope D syringe slammed up in that thang. Hittin' bottom off da muscle. "Looka here darlin', we can fuck but don't get to trippin' afterwards. Please don't..." Makin' heauxs nut in various ways including that without penetration or mouf and wonder why they act out after a period of time. These heauxs crazy.

 

[Naha-Nago]

truth be told i'm at my best when it's in a laid back enviroment or not in a typical situation..like juss running to the cornerstore to grab a bite of eat done prob got me more burn than if i went to a club or parade... laundry, grocery shopping, clothing store, waiting for a bus or train simple shit like that done got me more in than anything..cause it will start of with general friendly convo than possibly grow into even better convo etc..shit walking around with a plate of food that smell good done got me in..cause it will be like damn what's that, that smells good, u'll tell them, next thing ya'll start talking about diff food spots, etc than next thing u kno numbers exchange and well it leads into other shit

LISTEN TO THIS MAN.

I used to get clowned by cats when I told them I've met more chicks at gas stations than clubs until they realized that more women pump their own gas than club hop.

I swear hearing some dudes lamentations about meeting and hooking up with women is like hearing how a field mouse died of starvation in a corn silo. WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE!!!!

*two cents*

 

[tallblacknyc]

Women haven't changed since forever. I can count on one hand the women I've met that really had something interesting to say and my circle included some very 'educated' people. Alot of them weren't talking about shit when your grandfather was rolling up on them in the 50's and trust me them chicks aren't texting about shit now.

'Lost in her phone' is the new 'she's shy' of this generation.

*two cents *

yeah all they doing is looking at some wack ass gossip or some wack as celeb shit..u rite a lot of them kinda corny..it's actually why i learned yrs ago women really need men in their lives more than dudes need females in their lives..as a guy we got a lot of guy shit we can do to occupy our time.sports being 1 of them, shooting the shit is another, ass watching another etc.. chicks got tv and books that's pretty much it..a guy boring day is really diff from a chicks boring day..when chicks don't have dudes broads juss be in their crib doin absolutely nothing..i mean straight sleeping, watching tv, or reading..they be happy as shit if they got a female friend dats single like them so that they can possibly go out..hell having kids is a blessing in disguise for some cause it gives them something to do..thats why when some cat like me come along its like thank u jesus to them cause i be like hey u wanna go here they be like yes anywhere please save me from this boredom..lol i been notice that..that's why i use to/ still do like to sarcastically fuck with them and be like "ur a loser".."hey loser" u wanna go here they be like jerk but they kno shit be kinda true..men for females are really life altering situations to them and gives them something to do that's why some be so damn clingy to nigs in their relationships cause without them the boredom returns

 

[playahaitian]

yeah all they doing is looking at some wack ass gossip or some wack as celeb shit..u rite a lot of them kinda corny..it's actually why i learned yrs ago women really need men in their lives more than dudes need females in their lives..as a guy we got a lot of guy shit we can do to occupy our time.sports being 1 of them, shooting the shit is another, ass watching another etc.. chicks got tv and books that's pretty much it..a guy boring day is really diff from a chicks boring day..when chicks don't have dudes broads juss be in their crib doin absolutely nothing..i mean straight sleeping, watching tv, or reading..they be happy as shit if they got a female friend dats single like them so that they can possibly go out..hell having kids is a blessing in disguise for some cause it gives them something to do..thats why when some cat like me come along its like thank u jesus to them cause i be like hey u wanna go here they be like yes anywhere please save me from this boredom..lol i been notice that..that's why i use to/ still do like to sarcastically fuck with them and be like "ur a loser".."hey loser" u wanna go here they be like jerk but they kno shit be kinda true..men for females are really life altering situations to them and gives them something to do that's why some be so damn clingy to nigs in their relationships cause without them the boredom returns

they aint ready for this truth fam.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

I've learned da dangers of fuckin' these heauxs too good. It almost never ends well. But I can't deal garbage product so they gotta get this dope D syringe slammed up in that thang. Hittin' bottom off da muscle. "Looka here darlin', we can fuck but don't get to trippin' afterwards. Please don't..." Makin' heauxs nut in various ways including that without penetration or mouf and wonder why they act out after a period of time. These heauxs crazy.

gotta commit to an excellence of standards across the board. it used to be difficult for me to understand but now i understand it fully

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

LISTEN TO THIS MAN.

I used to get clowned by cats when I told them I've met more chicks at gas stations than clubs until they realized that more women pump their own gas than club hop.

I swear hearing some dudes lamentations about meeting and hooking up with women is like hearing how a field mouse died of starvation in a corn silo. WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE!!!!

*two cents*

i don't club at all never been my thing. meet more women elsewhere that you wouldn't expect.

 

[tallblacknyc]

LISTEN TO THIS MAN.

I used to get clowned by cats when I told them I've met more chicks at gas stations than clubs until they realized that more women pump their own gas than club hop.

I swear hearing some dudes lamentations about meeting and hooking up with women is like hearing how a field mouse died of starvation in a corn silo. WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE!!!!

*two cents*

shit i got a joke i created this funny concept called hotel macking..nyc is full of hotels downtown that of course bring in many tourist from other states and countries..i ever so often randomly mite go chill in front of certain hotels either on the seating areas or mite hang out in the lobbies..there's a lot of outtastate chicks that juss mite randomly start convo's with u..now as a native i'll drop lil info about eateries, places to shop, places to see, etc..well there's been times girls want u to show them these places and hang out with u..sometime u juss mite have random convo and somehow they'll invite u back to their room..lets juss say i've gotten a nice amount of outtastate/foreign pussy for my lil experiment..1 of my boys be shaking his head like ur a true fucking opportunist only a person like me would find sex or even bizzness juss by randomly goin to hotels lmao

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

shit i got a joke i created this funny concept called hotel macking..nyc is full of hotels downtown that of course bring in many tourist from other states and countries..i ever so often randomly mite go chill in front of certain hotels either on the seating areas or mite hang out in the lobbies..there's a lot of outtastate chicks that juss mite randomly start convo's with u..now as a native i'll drop lil info about eateries, places to shop, places to see, etc..well there's been times girls want u to show them these places and hang out with u..sometime u juss mite have random convo and somehow they'll invite u back to their room..lets juss say i've gotten a nice amount of outtastate/foreign pussy for my lil experiment..1 of my boys be shaking his head like ur a true fucking opportunist only a person like me would find sex or even bizzness juss by randomly goin to hotels lmao

In the bay it's literally OUTSIDE man and most times in chill ass places. Now is right in my wheel house because chill is the thing to be and do and I've always been that.
There's been times where I'm sitting at the lake chopping it up with a friend... women are there... and then suddenly they just start sending signals lol Its happened when I was kicking it with someone from the board before lol
We're sitting there in broad daylight talking ... 2 women choose RIGHT in front of us to put their blanket down and stretch out.
we ignore them.
next thing you know they're bending over doing yoga and shit RIGHT THERE lol

when i say that the lake is basically empty and they could have done it anywhere... we weren't even by SOMETHING that people would gravitate to lol
we both peeped it and had a laugh and continued on. but they were there for the taking all we had to do was include them in the perceived fun we were having.

 

[4 Dimensional]

@tallblacknyc = ice berg slim

 

[4 Dimensional]

@largebillsonlyplease = Lightning Rod from "the Hustler's Convention"

 

[4 Dimensional]

@ShortyCumStain = Sugar Cane from "The Obsessed One"

 

[4 Dimensional]

@pogobor99 = Pretty Tony

 

[Eclipse99]

Pretty good read....

Moral of the story is to marry a woman that likes porn just as much as you do.

 

[Naha-Nago]

Communicate with your mate, don't be afraid to take control and dictate the atmosphere, don't be selfsih, don't bust early. If you do, and you care about her... Moufwork... Not reading all that.

These young girls want that porn fucking.
Try kissing on them and "making love" and they are going to look at you funny
Lol

porn has been my visual karma sutra since the first time my eyes seen it..that shit was a study guide like no other and has gotten me so much pussy and love from females..i learned how to tongue bitches thanx to lesbian porn, fingering broads, and titty sucking..that was the first porn i ever watched and i had test dummies cough cough local girls and classmates that i tried my new found knowledge on..3 decades later broads still boast about my magic hands, how i suck tits, and kiss on their necks that be having them go nuts..thank u lesbo porn and thank u many other genres of karma sutra on film has taught me..fuck this broad article cause i can say i am 1 of those proofs how good porn is when used rite

shittttt not only has it helped me i've made tapes and provided many females with clips on how to be better pleasers to me and for their lovers...the worst thing they ever did was make streams and links my god how much shit i've sent to diff broads..hell i've even made bitches that sell puss better pleasers thanx to porn through the link game..once again fuck the author of this cause like i said i am living proof of how good porn can be

First off never believe anything a woman says when it comes to sex.

2Nd all women are different. What works with some won't work With others.

So if a bitch say I was "alright" and I can keep fucking her in the days to come I'm good.

orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr that chick is reccomending ur dick to many of her friends and giving extreme details on how good u fucked her to the point all of them start throwing the pussy and next thing u kno ur stable of pussy is crazy or to the point u smash a broad so good she start throwing money at u and spoiling u and treating u like ur the bitch..calling all kinda times of the nite begging for 10 mins of dick various times of the week, telling u all kinda ego boosting shit like i'll be ur cumrag umm u kno what let me stop rite there

So....I guess....this man gets it???

I agree with both tallblacknyc totally and the OP kinda.... Porn is like a fuck buffet, you take what can work for you, apply it, AND LEAVE THE REST.

Thanks to porn, I know how to choke a chick out without having a murder on my hands, thanks to common sense I know that it's best to REACH A LEVEL OF COMMUNICATION with the woman I'm fucking to see if choking is her thing or something she'd be interested in.

The article has a point but to say flat out that porn is ruining sex is obtuse. Not to sound harsh but a good portion of sex is COMMUNICATION. Men: talk to the bitch! Women: if you don't have a dick in your mouth speak up!

Great sex takes at least TWO PEOPLE'S INVOLVEMENT; I have no sympathy for anyone whose going to just passively lay there and get fucked, figuratively or literally.

BTW, I've had my fair share of females, some loved me, some have fond memories of me, others curse my name, called me everything but a child of God and would shoot me on site. NONE spoke ill on my dick game....

So...THANK YOU PORN???

*two cents *

I liberated myself around age 28. I stopped caring about what women want, and what they will say, and focused on what I wanted. I enjoyed sex more from that point on.

Women and their needs vary - sometimes drastically - but my needs more or less remain the same. If in the process of doing me, the woman get hers too, then I'm happy for her.

Besides -- a lot of women don't feel any sort of responsibility to enhance your sexual experience. I'd imagine most don't define their womanhood in large part by how well they perform in bed. Why, then, should you carry that burden?

Pussy is virtually limitless out 'chea. If one pussy door closes, there will be other opportunities unless you have no personality or are broke.

Peace,



Right.

And that's the point that the author didn't really emphasize: accountability. Why aren't women dictating the terms of their own sexual satisfaction? They're the ones with the power to control that, and they consistently give it away.

That's the "a" word though.

and we know the history of that went it comes to women in this country

Sounds like to me there are a whole bunch of women being sexual tight lipped backseat drivers pist about the wayward sunday stroll a cat is doing through their pussy when they could have spoken up, gave the nigga some direction, and had a more pleasant ride.

If the woman is over 25 and a man knows more about her pussy than she does or she's to timid to speak up then the sexual folly is on HER. I can direct ANY CHICK on how I like to get my dick sucked and what arch radius her back needs to have when I'm hitting her from behind.

Like I've told women, "Great sex involves at least two people communicating so if my dick ain't in your mouth you need to speak up!"

*two cents *

If a man pays attention to his woman and communicates with her then he can learn what turns her on and what doesnt.

Another thing is people arent keeping it 100 with their turn ons/offs, because they dont want their partner to look at them differently.

This is why a woman will have vanilla sex with her husband for 10 years straight, break up, then do everything freaky under the sun with the rebound guy.

Ultimately, if a person is insecure about their sexuality they have no business trying to get into a relationship/marriage.

He was an asshole who you enabled. He played you and flipped shit for his non performing ass on you and you fell for it.

That's on you.

Other men shouldn't be accountable for his actions.

You move on until you find the right one.

But these days they are trying to make wrong men into right men and painting all men with a bad broad brush.

That shit doesn't work.

Sounds like a WOMAN issue you trying to make a MAN issue.

*two cents *

Then the article should have been about this.

How being young and inexperienced can taint your view of sex and how to speak up.


Much better and much more helpful to women.

Instead it was a man bashing article

As mainman post showed, she was sexually assaulted and so her perspectives is to see men generally as selfish and self-oriented.

Where is this poll of men she did?

She just posted shit about men in general without qualifying any of it.

And I see the trend these days.

Every group CAN and DO tell men how they show behave i.e.
How to be a man

but men dare not tell any other group the same including women, gays etc.... about how to be themselves.

Crazy times............

absolutely not. i think lack of communication, lack of passion and selfishness ruins sex for people.

i think porn is pretty healthy for a sex life as long as its not on some deep addiction shit.

when I was young...I had me a older woman and the first thing she told me...you aint about to rearrange my insides im gonna show you how to please me and many women after me.

I think all young men need to experience a older woman who will teach them the art of stroking the pussy..working that pussy at every angle and enjoying the pussy as well

I think that stems from a lack of women mentorship


Older women should be mentoring younger women about all of life including sex.

The author missed an opportunity to do the same.

The "aren't" part is not a lack of capacity, it's a lack of confidence. That can be changed.
If safe spaces don't exist be gone. There are way too many choices of partners to couple up with the wrong mofo.

The article could have been so much more if the intent was pure but instead is about how men should adjust behavior and no similar adjustment of behaviors for women.

sex is suppose to equal orgasm..i'd tell a chick if u ain't busting a nut what's the point of u fucking that dude..sex should never seem like a choir that shit should always feel like a blessing..everytime a bootycall is made u should kno and expect great pleasure..if u ain't getting that u better tell ole boy to step his game up or go searching for great dick

fucking an older woman is a gift and a curse..the gift is the ego boost..the curse u'll never tolerate no bullshit from chicks especially young chicks that like to play games..u'll be like bitch please i get older pussy fuck i look like tolerating ur bullshit and u trying to be cheap with the pussy u broke bitch..older pussy got their own cribs, own money, got skills in the bed, can cook..man that shit turns u into a monster and makes u have high expectations from females and makes u never allowing urself to accept less..young dudes getting grown pussy = endgame for young pussy and their bullshit..in fact young pussy fall in line once they kno u get grown pussy cause they kno they got to compete to get ur attention..lol man oh man my younger days and grown women pussy shoutout to those broads..ego boosters

Different strokes for different folks.

Hard for a man to take sex advice from an abused woman.

Goddammit so ONCE AGAIN how a woman FEELS about something HER SEXUALITY is MEN'S FAULT!?!

How are we as men suppose to take you all seriously as women if you can't take responsibility and/or accountability for even something as biological as bustin a nut!?!

Y'all FEEL bad!?? REALLY BITCH???

I think Kat William is as looney as a Warners Bros cartoon but I'll be damned if he wasn't 100% on this one point here...


*two cents *

fucking older pussy at a young age is like knocking out mike tyson in his prime in one punch..the ego boost, the greatness u feel when conquering such a task, u walk around feeling invincible especially if they really really loved the dick..u walk around on some king shit and walk passed broads who like to play games like move out of my way peasant ur not worthy to be in my presence..than if u have the older chick come thru and she bad ass shit and all the young chicks see her u like yeah bitches u see what i'm able to get u broads would be lucky if i even notice u..man that shit makes u an instant pussy magnet..all the young chicks be like damn what that nig doin that got that bad broad goin crazy..their inner groupie will naturally have them throwing it ur way or they'll start giving u way more play..since forever pussy attracts pussy..funny thing is that shit works in reverse when u get older..when u got a bunch of young bad broads all in ur face chicks ur age or older be like damn what that nig doin that got all that young fertile pussy chasing after him...other pussy the biggest pussy magnet ever

I'm sorry but everything you just typed is utter bull shit and still lessening the responsibility of the woman to open her mouth and say what she wants.

You are right sex SHOULD involve both partners. If one partners REFUSES TO SPEAK DUE TO THEIR OWN SELF ESTEEM ISSUES THEN THEY REGULATE THEMSELVES TO THE MERCY AND GRACE OF WHATEVER THE OTHER PERSON DOES TO GET OFF AND IF THAT MEANS 'PORN SHIT' THEN PORN SHIT IS GOING DOWN.

It's not a man's job to read the mind of a woman who has a mouth that can project sound, words, sentences, opinions, directives. Women have NO PROBLEM piping up on any and everything EXCEPT when it comes to the real time act of pipe laying, THEN yall quieter than a mouse pissing on cotton. It's your pussy, care to have a say in how it's getting fucked???

It is your pussy right? You want it fucked differently? Open your fucking mouth....ma'am.

*two cents *

man their is so much porn out there that u can take greatness from various scenes titles..lesbian porn is a great study guide for kissing, sucking on tits, playing with the puss, and eating the puss..true to life lesbians be putting on clinics in films..than u got massage flicks which is great to learn..learning how to put females in relax mode, loosen them up, teasing them, stimulating them, hell damn near having them reach climax/ actually making them cum juss by touching them and not even fucking or licking the puss, than u got variety of diff positions, than u got sex toys/equipment vids that give u diff ideas to switch shit up..like tying a broad down and teasing her with feathers, vibrators, other shit..like i said porn is visual karma sutra when used rite...when u have practice dummies cough cough willing females that will allow u to perfect ur skills man shits an amazing thing.. hell this is why i say sluts were created for, they were practice dummies for men to perfect their skills on

this man is on this mf dropping some real shit on you mfs

Man you told the mf truf right there.... man the one older chick who taught me game would point out all the women i could fuck...she be like them bitches over there looking at your fine ass and wanting to give you that pussy because they see me with you and bitches are caddy like that. That shit blew my mind at a young age...even now im older with grey in my beard and them young hoes in the gym be in my face talking about bullshit and me helping them workout and im telling them no i see them older hoes in there looking and every fucking time they come right over to me and ask me do i personal train...im like no i just stay in shape. they be like well you need to be a personal trainer cause i would pay you to train the hell outta me

i think us older brothas in here who didn't grow up with the internet have a edge on the young ones who did...

We had vcr tapes but niggas wasn't looking at porn 24/7 like mfs are today so we actually had to go out and talk to women and develop our mouthpiece and fuck game in real life. we couldn't just go to a porn site and look up shit and jackoff then go to sleep. I would see chicks at school that was fine as hell and i would remember what they had on and undress them in my mind and jack off like a mf to them...the next day at school i be like yeah i fuck you last night but you don't know i did. then when a nigga did luck up and get some real pussy i would think about i was fucking them women in the 2 live crew video move something, or one of my cousins fine ass friends or a chick at school i been wanting to fuck but she had a boyfriend and nigga would get like 6-8 nuts doing that. Our imagination was stronger back then because again the internet didn't exist from 89-93 so we had to use our mind on a diff level.

now days i do think porn fuck up dudes...cause you mfs can look up anything....

bro that is what many dudes have no idea about...

females really just want to be happy and have fun, laugh and enjoy themselves and be with someone who accepts all of who they have become....good and bad

i have always been that dude...women would be like hey osca come chill with me and homegirl....nigga we go out together...eat, drink, party and then come back to the crib and we all jump in the shower together and it be on like a mf after that. Man they be down for it all....chasing each other naked and shit...pillow fights...wrestling and shit and then the sex games begin....

I remember I went to this fucking white club downtown dallas one night in deep ellum...paid 10 dollars that Friday night and ended up being with 2 bad ass sistas that night until sunday...we partied all night Friday night and fucked all day Saturday...slept..fucked...ordered food...showered...fucked...ate...showered then went back out that night and did the same thing sunday again....did that shit for like 2 months... forever buddies

the funny thing is the slut percentage went up in this generation and a lot of chicks are willing to do more than they did back in our days..so the fact that some of these young cats are inexperienced is mindblowing..like when i talk to some of these young cats i be like yo why do some of ya dudes have less confidence or lack opposite sex social skills when these broads are way easier than b4..i was like even the hoes of yesterday had more standards than the hoes of today..a slut back in the days would fuck a lot of dudes but it would be certain type of dudes they'd only fuck..these new age hoes have no standards u could tell them hey that homeless guy is my friend and they'll prob suck him off..overall females standards have dropped cause i be looking at some dudes like this broad fucked this nig man u ain't got no morals

mannnnnnnnnnnn nigs don't even kno..real talk outside of sports, vidgames, and a few other things i always rolled with more chicks than dudes..hell my innercircle of friends were select dudes/cuzz and the rest were broads..man when i was 18-early 20's i had access to so many chicks cribs..all i do was go to work than end up at some chick crib prob stay the whole nite rush back to my crib to shower switch clothes go to work than end up at a diff chick crib that day rinse repeat..broads would always have food cook for a nig, some chicks throw bread at a nig even though they knew i had my own..i'd run around the city with diff teams of broads and maybe my best friend..sometime we mite be 12 deep only 2 was dudes me and my bestfriend.. my fave thing about chicks was they always willing to jump up and do something, they always had money, and they knew to be relaxed..hell some of them like bagging other chicks for me..man crashing cribs, running around every single day, man life was good.. i slowed down but i still have my fun..hell i still have sparatic yrs when i juss go off into fun mode

yes..i agree i think they are just doing just because they see all this social media shit and see other women doing it so they don't want to be left out...also i think they feel they have to keep up with the status quo.

these young cats who are financially stable are still having trouble with women today...i be like bro you have all the tools but you know have the confidence. they fell like they can just pull up in these bullshit ass rides and brag to women they are this and that and the doors of the pussy kingdom with open for them....yes for women who letting every nigga fuck. but like you said women back in the day would only fuck a certain nigga...they didn't give a fuck if he had money or was ya homie they wasn't fucking with them at all. I do think now days niggas don't care because they be like shiiiid imam just fuck and get my nut...not need to slay the pussy cause i might not ever get it again.

The portion in red is a self esteem issue. I don't care how highly you feel about your self if you don't feel highly enough to tell a cat 'Yo you fucking me wrong.' then that's on you babe. I could have had the worst day in the world but I'm not suffering through a toothy blow job for nobody.

The second one is a communication issue. Now I don't know what the context behind the word 'forced' has in your situations but if the word STOP is used and things don't come to a halt then authorities need to be inform and that should be the last time you fuck with that dude- literally and figuratively.

Third, you are right I don't know what a woman thinks or feels during a sexual encounter...I ONLY KNOW WHAT SHE SAYS AND A SUMMATION OF MY EXPERIENCES WITH OTHER WOMEN- WHICH IS TRUMPED BY WHAT SHE SAYS!

Lastly, women need to treat dick like a mom & pop diner; if you don't speak up, you're going to get 'the house special' and it's a coin toss whether you love it or hate it (NEWSFLASH: The only thing special about 'the house special' is that the house likes making it. No fuck is really given whether you like it or not. Tell your girlfriends who haven't figured that out yet.). If you do speak up and it's either not what you ordered or cooked they way you like it...THEN GO TO ANOTHER RESTAURANT.

Fucks sake woman, granted dick and pussy isn't easy but it is SIMPLE.

*two cents*

"When a fisherman is out to sea all he sees is fish AND OTHER FISHERMEN"- My Grandfather

Game recognize game gentlemen.

Stop posing valid questions. A woman being responsible and accountable for her own orgasm ridiculous, it's men's fault.

*two cents *

while reading I understand the bias of the article, so I didn't take what she was saying as grace.

But it did open the door to perspective, which I am always for.

A lot of conditioning on both sides: male and female that causes certain perceptions about sex.

For example, intimacy is something that I require to maximize my sexual pleasures. I've never really been the type to just fuck a woman just to fuck. I've done it, but the satisfaction was not as rewarding as being intimate with someone mentally.

I usually ended up treating women that I had no emotional connection like a beat-rag.

Even when I was inexperience, my main partners were older women. But that made me "whipped", so my perception was skewed. As I grew I realize that for me it was about the mental connection that maximized sexual pleasure.

And I treated women as I saw them. So many women were 'victims' of my lack of sympathy/empathy during sex. I had no connection to them. It was all about me and I was going to get what I wanted.

But it's different for everyone. I thought the article was good. At least for discussion purposes.

"Bad" is perspective.

And so is "good".

That's why I never listen to folks that told me certain women were bad or good. I had to find out for myself.

What may be bad to you could have been the greatest thing ever to someone else that had the same woman.

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yall can skip over what this man said and bullshit all you want but this brother is dropping knowledge on you young cats like a muthafucka....

at our age now we been through it so we know the women our age are fucking young cats on a regular married or not...at this stage it don't matter to them because from 40-55 women are at their freakiest point in life and them young women got us looking the them and got our dicks, bank account and recreated our 20's with the help of Viagra and saying shit like fuck it...im going in raw, I would make some bad decisions, no pull out,imma put my entire mouf on dat hoe pussy, in ZOD we thrust, In thine ass I would enter my tongue......but at the same time get mad at R Kelly because he is actually doing all of that to current young women 19-22...

when older woman shows interest in you she just isn't doing that shit because she is this nice older woman and she goes to church and post pics of her friends and her at church and post scriptures every now and then and pics of her grand kids and kids looking all innocent and shit.....she is sizing yo ass up to give you pussy you never imagined existed in real life but when you watched porn...yeah nigga that type of pussy. But at the same time she has to make sure you don't run ya mouth or wanna be all out in the open with shit. once she see she can fully trust you then you will experience a woman the way the sex gods intended for a man to....got damn just thinking about some of those women right now make a nigga shake his head and laugh cause those was some of the best times of your life. But I guess the same thing goes for the brothas who fuck them young women as well...Iain never been into young broads but I don't knock those who are and doing that.

add me to this list...I fuck the mind b4 I fuck the body.

ALSO, I never listen to any single woman's perspective about fucking. Each broad is different and you have to learn what makes each one really tick.

go outside..internet was never suppose to be the number 1 hunting grounds for pussy..pussy was outside..u can read a book about another country or u can actually go there and experience it urself and tell ur own stories and write a book.. i was never the person to wanna hear stories i was the 1 who wanted to live them and tell my own..like i said in my younger days i pretty much was never home any chance i had i would be out and about..i knew how long 24 hrs really was and how many things u could really get into..in this city all u need is an unlimited metrocard and u can roll around pretty much anywhere..in this city it's so muchhhhhhhhhhh pussy out there..i have some many stories of randomly getting my dick sucked or fucking random chicks without even goin out expecting it..hell that's 1 of the reasons why i started running around with a vidcam when i was younger cause i use to get into a lot of shit that needed recorded memories/documented history..hell that's actually 1 of the ways i got into the adult industry cause a few people admire my work from a far..truth be told the more running around u do, the more life experiences u get, the more knowledge u recieve, the more stories u can tell, the more interesting u become to females..females like convo, and if u have a lot of experiences in life your conversation pieces will be more interesting to them.. u'll be surprise how many females u'll pull in juss by telling about ur experiences..i mean literally having groups of chicks pulling up a seat next to u/closer to u with all eyes on u steering at u with amazement..shit broads will literally give u they number on some i got to roll with u to ur next venture, or they'll invite u to whatever adventure they gonna get into, they'll even offer to pay for u to come or pay to roll with u, they'll wanna chill even invite other female friends and next thing u kno u'll have a stable of friends with benefits..juss step outside and that shit will make a big diff in ur sex life

The main thing I've learned from porn is that when a woman makes too many freaky porno noises in bed she's probably faking it. A real orgasm involves involuntary screams or stunned silence.

Aside from that, learning how to fuck from porn is like learning how to shoot a gun from watching Commando. Too many men haven't been taught the difference between real life and reel life

IMO the article does have alot of truth to it. Porn has both helped and hurt my sex life. I used to really be addicted and desensitized to porn. I watched it all day often when not jacking off. I could have scenes going while eating pizza and typing on BGOL without a thought. During this time my sex life was actually at its worst.I realized that when I used porn as my template my expectations were that the chick would have a banging body and would have absolutely no limits.Anything below that expectation was disappointing to me. I EXPECTED a chick to swallow even if it was the first time she ever sucked my dick.I was disappointed if her head skills weren't A1. I'd beat the pussy up and switch positions as if I was on camera.All this really made sex less pleasurable. After I reduced my porn watching,the sex got alot better.
On the other hand, I learned most of my sex techniques from porn.While it is true that most chicks don't want their pussy beat up like porn,porn cats have alot of experience fucking and make difficult things seem easy.I noticed that the chicks really seemed to enjoy working with certain dudes. When you watch the scenes with them they beat up the pussy just as hard but they build up to it.Women actually really enjoy getting the pussy beat up and the feeling that they and the dude lost control as long as its built up to. Instead of the usual porn script of kissing for 2 min,eating the pussy for 30 seconds,getting the dick sucked for 5 min and fucking for 20 min, I started doing more foreplay and slowly building the intensity until it felt natural and the chick's pussy was ready.Then I would build on that intensity until it felt like we both had so much chemistry we lost control.Doing that helped my fuck game alot. Even chicks that dislike me still feel we have "amazing sex chemistry". IMO most women like to get FUCKED but not by everyone and not all the time. They want to feel like that part of them was brought out of them by a special dude.

No it won't
Looks like in all things lack of communication and them blaming after the fact will fuck up your sex life.

Talk
I don't like that
I like this.
Ask do you like that.
Speak up...yea right there.
If you can't do that don't blame anybody but your own self.

Really irritated with ppl looking for outs for not speaking up.
You control what is and isn't done with and to your body.

Or nah?

that's more of a problem than porn is.
if a guy isn't trying to make a woman feel maximum pleasure porn has nothing to do with it, it's just a guy that's selfish and they existed before porn existed.

For ME personally, I'm going to feel good. It's my job to make her feel way better than me. That's how I approach it.
Porn isn't integral to me but watching it you can see positions that you can try and see if they'll be fun.

exactly.
im going to. so its my mission to make her multiple times. however she needs it is how im going to do it. and after that she is going to talk about it. and when she talks about it that rep is out there. and then you don't have to try to find ppl cause the rep is out there.
if you're "that guy that does this and this" then it's a wrap.
it's like a yelp review. there have been PLENTY of times where I've told an ex DON'T tell ppl what me and you do..
of course she ain't listen then want to fall out with her "friends" cause they want to try and get it too lol.
It never ever fails.

don't fuck. lol. that's what it came down to for me. They couldn't talk in person in real life without the use of a text then I'd be like... this isn't going to work.
I can't be doing all the talking in fact I shouldn't be doing MOST of the talking I'm supposed to be listening.
So yea
im out

You are definitely exaggerating how much the guy in that position cares about getting a 2nd shot or you talking bad about him to your girls.

If you run across a cat that is 100% only about getting his nut and thats it, he does not give a single fuck if you dont respond to his followup text/ call.

You were just a nut to him and when he calls back, you were 1 call in a list of a dozen and when he texts back, believe that was a mass text... fishing for another quick nut.

I take pride in my work and my references check out but there's always gonna be this type cat out there too. You are delusional if you think this guy gives a shit about what you think about his weak pipegame. He got his and moves on.

hey ny is the king of the slick talkers and bulshitters so broads done heard a 1000 lines done been approached in 1000 ways so they built a natural defense mechanism..in fact a lot will put the headphones on and walk with their head down and keep it moving extra fast..truss some chicks walk around with a chip on their shoulder cause so many dudes done tried to holler that day or many dudes came at them in a negative way or a few dudes said some real disrespectful shit to them..it's a lot of things that also put roadblocks in the mating game out here..but with all that said in certain enviroments u can catch them with their hair down and dats when it's best to interact with them.. truth be told i'm at my best when it's in a laid back enviroment or not in a typical situation..like juss running to the cornerstore to grab a bite of eat done prob got me more burn than if i went to a club or parade... laundry, grocery shopping, clothing store, waiting for a bus or train simple shit like that done got me more in than anything..cause it will start of with general friendly convo than possibly grow into even better convo etc..shit walking around with a plate of food that smell good done got me in..cause it will be like damn what's that, that smells good, u'll tell them, next thing ya'll start talking about diff food spots, etc than next thing u kno numbers exchange and well it leads into other shit

that's all it is.
TALK
nothing gets done without communication.
from building a fucking rocket ship
to building a fucking orgasm.

Fam I'm going to tell you a throw away line I heard an some drunken old head say at a bar I frequented in my early 20's and it cemented my thoughts on women, pussy, and sex forever.

"CHASES YOU!?! [woman's name] don't you know every other person on Earth has a tits, ass, and a pussy?"

I know you intellectually know that but once you BELIEVE that an APPLY it you'll start to see shit in a different light.

It's not that tallblacknyc has a 'gift' as much as he was exposed to and grasped that concept earlier. It isn't magic it's operating in abundance.

"Pussy is important....but it isn't special."- Patrice Oneal.

*two cents*

Women haven't changed since forever. I can count on one hand the women I've met that really had something interesting to say and my circle included some very 'educated' people. Alot of them weren't talking about shit when your grandfather was rolling up on them in the 50's and trust me them chicks aren't texting about shit now.

'Lost in her phone' is the new 'she's shy' of this generation.

*two cents *

LISTEN TO THIS MAN.

I used to get clowned by cats when I told them I've met more chicks at gas stations than clubs until they realized that more women pump their own gas than club hop.

I swear hearing some dudes lamentations about meeting and hooking up with women is like hearing how a field mouse died of starvation in a corn silo. WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE!!!!

*two cents*

yeah all they doing is looking at some wack ass gossip or some wack as celeb shit..u rite a lot of them kinda corny..it's actually why i learned yrs ago women really need men in their lives more than dudes need females in their lives..as a guy we got a lot of guy shit we can do to occupy our time.sports being 1 of them, shooting the shit is another, ass watching another etc.. chicks got tv and books that's pretty much it..a guy boring day is really diff from a chicks boring day..when chicks don't have dudes broads juss be in their crib doin absolutely nothing..i mean straight sleeping, watching tv, or reading..they be happy as shit if they got a female friend dats single like them so that they can possibly go out..hell having kids is a blessing in disguise for some cause it gives them something to do..thats why when some cat like me come along its like thank u jesus to them cause i be like hey u wanna go here they be like yes anywhere please save me from this boredom..lol i been notice that..that's why i use to/ still do like to sarcastically fuck with them and be like "ur a loser".."hey loser" u wanna go here they be like jerk but they kno shit be kinda true..men for females are really life altering situations to them and gives them something to do that's why some be so damn clingy to nigs in their relationships cause without them the boredom returns

Lot of gems in this thread and a sure fire QOUTE OF THE YEAR NOMINATION but some of my quotes are in there so it has to be nominated by another poster other than me.

There's rules to this shit....


***EDIT*** QUOTE OF THE YEAR NOMINATION!

*two cents *

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Peace ,

Lot of gems in this thread and a sure fire QOUTE OF THE YEAR NOMINATION but some of my quotes are in there so it has to be nominated by another poster other than me.

There's rules to this shit....

*two cents *

Officially nominated.

 

[Osca Lee]

I been telling mfs black was dropping straight game when I first read his reply....

I was like got damn..that nigga connected some dots like a mf jus den

 

[Osca Lee]

Lot of gems in this thread and a sure fire QOUTE OF THE YEAR NOMINATION but some of my quotes are in there so it has to be nominated by another poster other than me.

There's rules to this shit....


***EDIT*** QUOTE OF THE YEAR NOMINATION!

*two cents *

THINE VOTE IS CASTED MUTHAFUCKA

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

It's a double-edged sword if we do dictate it...a man, especially a younger man, might question why does a woman know/understand so much about her own satisfaction and come to the conclusion that the woman is a hoe. I've been in a situation where a guy made me feel like a hoe because HE came too quickly and said it was because I was too loose. I've never had another man, including my husband, tell me my pussy was loose, but you get the idea...

And unfortunately there's these fuck niggas out here just like that. A mature guy, which has to do with mentality and not age, will appreciate you knowing what gets you off so he can get you there.
Give me the manual so I can put this shit together. I'm GREAT at following instructions and I work good with my hands

and then
the game is, tweaking shit and providing a new experience

you like a
and you like b
what if i did part of a and part of b and gave you a new c sensation
NOW im that nigga that you can associate that feeling with

and now

i got a groove going and looking at you like

as you hobble off to your corner unable to move.

ive always been like that in all walks of life
give me some parameters
and i can create some shit within the confine of those that you ain't even think of.

 

[Mo-Better]

Man wearing boots for traction while smashing has never been met with resistance.

This is for the dudes that try to pull that that extreme white boy shit like putting a foot on a chicks head or fish hooking them.

Exactly what Jo was alluding to when she posted that article. The everyday woman you would meet wouldn't be receptive to fish hooking, or you putting your foot on her face or head. There's nothing sexual about such treatment.

Let's put it this way if I met a chick that wanted to be treated that way I'd be out of there in a heartbeat. For me that would be a clear cut indicator that she lacked self esteem and that's the last type woman I ever want to be with.

 

[Osca Lee]

orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr that chick is reccomending ur dick to many of her friends and giving extreme details on how good u fucked her to the point all of them start throwing the pussy and next thing u kno ur stable of pussy is crazy or to the point u smash a broad so good she start throwing money at u and spoiling u and treating u like ur the bitch..calling all kinda times of the nite begging for 10 mins of dick various times of the week, telling u all kinda ego boosting shit like i'll be ur cumrag umm u kno what let me stop rite there

man you letting the cat out da bag...

man the shit I had women doing by just laying and slaying that mind and pussy was some fun ass times...it became a game, I told mf on here I had gotten to the point if I wasn't fucking 12-15 women I felt out of touch...that was my sweet spot. I made schedules for women...I had 3 on the team I could fuck everyday cause they was cum freaks and love to fuck...then I had those 1-2 a week business women who's career driven but would make sure that I would get the pussy 1 or 2 times that week and wine and dine and nigga along with gifts. then I had those women I would only see every 7 days or every 5 days..the type women that is always busy no matter what...them hoes was married and had live in boyfriends because all the meet ups would be a happy hour and she would already have the room so time wasn't wasted. Doing that brung even more pussy to me from their friends because women are some slick mfs...see their friends been knowing them for a while know them well enough to recognize when their friend is getting that pussy slayed because she starts acting diff. those same friends will text her while yall are out and say we are in the area we want to see you. once they meet you and your on facebook...you will get a friend request and accepting that request is like fucking her because she already know you down. Or mfs will follow you...they will be like look I don't want my homegirl seeing us a friends so I just follow you.....slick shit like that

 

[World B Free]

This is some dumb shit, just watch homegrown porn: problem solved!

 

[M.H.C.]

Man don't you ever quote an entire thread again