Stop posing valid questions. A woman being responsible and accountable for her own orgasm ridiculous, it's men's fault.
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Porn Makes Men Terrible In Bed
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Stop posing valid questions. A woman being responsible and accountable for her own orgasm ridiculous, it's men's fault.
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while reading I understand the bias of the article, so I didn't take what she was saying as grace.
But it did open the door to perspective, which I am always for.
A lot of conditioning on both sides: male and female that causes certain perceptions about sex.
For example, intimacy is something that I require to maximize my sexual pleasures. I've never really been the type to just fuck a woman just to fuck. I've done it, but the satisfaction was not as rewarding as being intimate with someone mentally.
I usually ended up treating women that I had no emotional connection like a beat-rag.
Even when I was inexperience, my main partners were older women. But that made me "whipped", so my perception was skewed. As I grew I realize that for me it was about the mental connection that maximized sexual pleasure.
And I treated women as I saw them. So many women were 'victims' of my lack of sympathy/empathy during sex. I had no connection to them. It was all about me and I was going to get what I wanted.
But it's different for everyone. I thought the article was good. At least for discussion purposes.
But it did open the door to perspective, which I am always for.
A lot of conditioning on both sides: male and female that causes certain perceptions about sex.
For example, intimacy is something that I require to maximize my sexual pleasures. I've never really been the type to just fuck a woman just to fuck. I've done it, but the satisfaction was not as rewarding as being intimate with someone mentally.
I usually ended up treating women that I had no emotional connection like a beat-rag.
Even when I was inexperience, my main partners were older women. But that made me "whipped", so my perception was skewed. As I grew I realize that for me it was about the mental connection that maximized sexual pleasure.
And I treated women as I saw them. So many women were 'victims' of my lack of sympathy/empathy during sex. I had no connection to them. It was all about me and I was going to get what I wanted.
But it's different for everyone. I thought the article was good. At least for discussion purposes.
I see your side black ..but broads also have less social skills and we have more "competition" with social media ..which is all most of these hoes use ..hollering at a random broad online..unless you're on the top of food chain makes no sense...also we have so much more attention whores..in a bad way
Shit was much better before every cat got the net..
Good point. Social conditioning lead to certain perceptions and now when you include the social media variable, then many miss out on how interact your way to sex while never using a keyboard.
"Bad" is perspective.
And so is "good".
That's why I never listen to folks that told me certain women were bad or good. I had to find out for myself.
What may be bad to you could have been the greatest thing ever to someone else that had the same woman.
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yall can skip over what this man said and bullshit all you want but this brother is dropping knowledge on you young cats like a muthafucka....
at our age now we been through it so we know the women our age are fucking young cats on a regular married or not...at this stage it don't matter to them because from 40-55 women are at their freakiest point in life and them young women got us looking the them and got our dicks, bank account and recreated our 20's with the help of Viagra and saying shit like fuck it...im going in raw, I would make some bad decisions, no pull out,imma put my entire mouf on dat hoe pussy, in ZOD we thrust, In thine ass I would enter my tongue......but at the same time get mad at R Kelly because he is actually doing all of that to current young women 19-22...
when older woman shows interest in you she just isn't doing that shit because she is this nice older woman and she goes to church and post pics of her friends and her at church and post scriptures every now and then and pics of her grand kids and kids looking all innocent and shit.....she is sizing yo ass up to give you pussy you never imagined existed in real life but when you watched porn...yeah nigga that type of pussy. But at the same time she has to make sure you don't run ya mouth or wanna be all out in the open with shit. once she see she can fully trust you then you will experience a woman the way the sex gods intended for a man to....got damn just thinking about some of those women right now make a nigga shake his head and laugh cause those was some of the best times of your life. But I guess the same thing goes for the brothas who fuck them young women as well...Iain never been into young broads but I don't knock those who are and doing that.
yall can skip over what this man said and bullshit all you want but this brother is dropping knowledge on you young cats like a muthafucka....
at our age now we been through it so we know the women our age are fucking young cats on a regular married or not...at this stage it don't matter to them because from 40-55 women are at their freakiest point in life and them young women got us looking the them and got our dicks, bank account and recreated our 20's with the help of Viagra and saying shit like fuck it...im going in raw, I would make some bad decisions, no pull out,imma put my entire mouf on dat hoe pussy, in ZOD we thrust, In thine ass I would enter my tongue......but at the same time get mad at R Kelly because he is actually doing all of that to current young women 19-22...
when older woman shows interest in you she just isn't doing that shit because she is this nice older woman and she goes to church and post pics of her friends and her at church and post scriptures every now and then and pics of her grand kids and kids looking all innocent and shit.....she is sizing yo ass up to give you pussy you never imagined existed in real life but when you watched porn...yeah nigga that type of pussy. But at the same time she has to make sure you don't run ya mouth or wanna be all out in the open with shit. once she see she can fully trust you then you will experience a woman the way the sex gods intended for a man to....got damn just thinking about some of those women right now make a nigga shake his head and laugh cause those was some of the best times of your life. But I guess the same thing goes for the brothas who fuck them young women as well...Iain never been into young broads but I don't knock those who are and doing that.
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add me to this list...I fuck the mind b4 I fuck the body.
ALSO, I never listen to any single woman's perspective about fucking. Each broad is different and you have to learn what makes each one really tick.
Bitches will go to the ends of the earth to try and prove how everything is our fault. Fuck dat shit I ain't tryin ta hear it.so whose fault is that?
but damn fellas..come to think about it...I have never been told by a woman I didn't please her due to some shit I did to her I seen from watching porn...
reading the comments opened my eyes... some of you brothas actually been through this with women and yall are well versed in explaining this shit
reading the comments opened my eyes... some of you brothas actually been through this with women and yall are well versed in explaining this shit
go outside..internet was never suppose to be the number 1 hunting grounds for pussy..pussy was outside..u can read a book about another country or u can actually go there and experience it urself and tell ur own stories and write a book.. i was never the person to wanna hear stories i was the 1 who wanted to live them and tell my own..like i said in my younger days i pretty much was never home any chance i had i would be out and about..i knew how long 24 hrs really was and how many things u could really get into..in this city all u need is an unlimited metrocard and u can roll around pretty much anywhere..in this city it's so muchhhhhhhhhhh pussy out there..i have some many stories of randomly getting my dick sucked or fucking random chicks without even goin out expecting it..hell that's 1 of the reasons why i started running around with a vidcam when i was younger cause i use to get into a lot of shit that needed recorded memories/documented history..hell that's actually 1 of the ways i got into the adult industry cause a few people admire my work from a far..truth be told the more running around u do, the more life experiences u get, the more knowledge u recieve, the more stories u can tell, the more interesting u become to females..females like convo, and if u have a lot of experiences in life your conversation pieces will be more interesting to them.. u'll be surprise how many females u'll pull in juss by telling about ur experiences..i mean literally having groups of chicks pulling up a seat next to u/closer to u with all eyes on u steering at u with amazement..shit broads will literally give u they number on some i got to roll with u to ur next venture, or they'll invite u to whatever adventure they gonna get into, they'll even offer to pay for u to come or pay to roll with u, they'll wanna chill even invite other female friends and next thing u kno u'll have a stable of friends with benefits..juss step outside and that shit will make a big diff in ur sex life
What type of lesbian porn are you talking about?
Lesbian porn like the crash pad type stuff or any lesbian porn?
I hope you young and old mfs in here really read what this man is saying.... it may take some of you 5 or 6 times for it to really sinc in....
Man keep typing because I am listening ..im no damn fool
I got a lot of criticism for what this woman wrote. Will come back to this post later.
"When a fisherman is out to sea all he sees is fish AND OTHER FISHERMEN"- My Grandfather
Game recognize game gentlemen.
This one right automatically been added to the BGOL hall of fame by the fallen members of the past...my screen shook
it could be random shit that juss happen to have females really into each other..i remember seeing two no name broads..1 black 1 hispanic that really seemed to enjoy each other presence..so it was a lot of kissing, them rubbing on each other, eye contact, than titty sucking, than they was really goin at it on eating each other out..both broads was really getting off..u could juss tell they was like damn i'm really feeling this bitch..broads was laughing even singing to each other..it was 1 of those the director lucked up linking them two together..u could tell they prob even did some extra shit to each other after the scene was over.. i kno i had an old kitten/vanessa blue lez scene together to they was really getting it on.. certain chicks u can tell really like pussy and u juss watch how they interact with each other..shit like that is how i instigated girls getting it on with each other in real life or how i've instigated 3somes /group sex moments
The main thing I've learned from porn is that when a woman makes too many freaky porno noises in bed she's probably faking it. A real orgasm involves involuntary screams or stunned silence.
Aside from that, learning how to fuck from porn is like learning how to shoot a gun from watching Commando. Too many men haven't been taught the difference between real life and reel life
Aside from that, learning how to fuck from porn is like learning how to shoot a gun from watching Commando. Too many men haven't been taught the difference between real life and reel life
bro...hell yeah... I could tell that my freshman year in high school...it was just some girls who was just more down for each other than others. simple shit like carrying each others books and back then niggas would be like..aye why yall carrying each others books to class because back then it was a real manly thing to carry ya guhs books to class and when we seen a female doing it...instinct kicked in to correct the error..some niggas wont even feel me on that but many will
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yeah they was a whole squad that ended up getting turned out by 1 broad eventually..i use to make jokes and say all ya broads is lucky i was born a man cause if i was born a bitch i'd be a lez slut and turn all ya bitches out..ya be like black so funny and be hugging up on me and i'd secretly be like yeah bitch get comfortable around me so eventually when i invite u to my house i'll give u a back massage than next thing we kissing than next thing u kno u got a clit in yo mouth..chicks use to bust out laughing like ur sick..i use to tell some of the dike broads follow that instructions and get them..truss it will work it will work..next thing u kno u heard about these various sleepovers certain group of chicks hanging with certain known lesbo's..by senior yr it was a pack of licky licky bitches(don't get it twisted some of them still like dick but they liked pussy to)..dikes be plotting on the low low and be nice at the turn out shit cause girls easily get more comfortable around them not knowing their intentions
"When a fisherman is out to sea all he sees is fish AND OTHER FISHERMEN"- My Grandfather
Game recognize game gentlemen.
Ima start reading yo posts na
I used to think u was a troll
i understand what you are saying but most dudes will still be like "i still fucked" and have no fucks to give.
i would argue that is no longer the case.
IMO the article does have alot of truth to it. Porn has both helped and hurt my sex life. I used to really be addicted and desensitized to porn. I watched it all day often when not jacking off. I could have scenes going while eating pizza and typing on BGOL without a thought. During this time my sex life was actually at its worst.I realized that when I used porn as my template my expectations were that the chick would have a banging body and would have absolutely no limits.Anything below that expectation was disappointing to me. I EXPECTED a chick to swallow even if it was the first time she ever sucked my dick.I was disappointed if her head skills weren't A1. I'd beat the pussy up and switch positions as if I was on camera.All this really made sex less pleasurable. After I reduced my porn watching,the sex got alot better.
On the other hand, I learned most of my sex techniques from porn.While it is true that most chicks don't want their pussy beat up like porn,porn cats have alot of experience fucking and make difficult things seem easy.I noticed that the chicks really seemed to enjoy working with certain dudes. When you watch the scenes with them they beat up the pussy just as hard but they build up to it.Women actually really enjoy getting the pussy beat up and the feeling that they and the dude lost control as long as its built up to. Instead of the usual porn script of kissing for 2 min,eating the pussy for 30 seconds,getting the dick sucked for 5 min and fucking for 20 min, I started doing more foreplay and slowly building the intensity until it felt natural and the chick's pussy was ready.Then I would build on that intensity until it felt like we both had so much chemistry we lost control.Doing that helped my fuck game alot. Even chicks that dislike me still feel we have "amazing sex chemistry". IMO most women like to get FUCKED but not by everyone and not all the time. They want to feel like that part of them was brought out of them by a special dude.
On the other hand, I learned most of my sex techniques from porn.While it is true that most chicks don't want their pussy beat up like porn,porn cats have alot of experience fucking and make difficult things seem easy.I noticed that the chicks really seemed to enjoy working with certain dudes. When you watch the scenes with them they beat up the pussy just as hard but they build up to it.Women actually really enjoy getting the pussy beat up and the feeling that they and the dude lost control as long as its built up to. Instead of the usual porn script of kissing for 2 min,eating the pussy for 30 seconds,getting the dick sucked for 5 min and fucking for 20 min, I started doing more foreplay and slowly building the intensity until it felt natural and the chick's pussy was ready.Then I would build on that intensity until it felt like we both had so much chemistry we lost control.Doing that helped my fuck game alot. Even chicks that dislike me still feel we have "amazing sex chemistry". IMO most women like to get FUCKED but not by everyone and not all the time. They want to feel like that part of them was brought out of them by a special dude.
pow.
No it won't
Looks like in all things lack of communication and them blaming after the fact will fuck up your sex life.
Talk
I don't like that
I like this.
Ask do you like that.
Speak up...yea right there.
If you can't do that don't blame anybody but your own self.
Really irritated with ppl looking for outs for not speaking up.
You control what is and isn't done with and to your body.
Or nah?
Looks like in all things lack of communication and them blaming after the fact will fuck up your sex life.
Talk
I don't like that
I like this.
Ask do you like that.
Speak up...yea right there.
If you can't do that don't blame anybody but your own self.
Really irritated with ppl looking for outs for not speaking up.
You control what is and isn't done with and to your body.
Or nah?
Exactly where I was going with this..... just cause the sex ain't the flavor that you like doesn't mean it wa's bad. ...sorry OP, but the whole article is based on the false narrative that there is some standardized imaginary scale that sex should be graded on...
Man, i'm probably the most inexperienced dude on this board(LONG faithful relationships) but if a woman ain't getting that O with me then we have a problem. I get my pleasure from making that body shake and convulse and her scream. Anything else is unfulfilling. But again, I don't fuck with hoes/sluts/casual shit so I guess I have to care since the woman I am fucking is someone I actually want to please. Now with casual sex, shit you get what you get imo. Most of my boys are just like squirrels-after that nut-and there are plenty of sluts for that(unfortunately). I'm not an expert on that though as I don't really do anything "casually". Whether you voice your opinion or not how can you expect greatness from anybody doing something "casually"? Like if you're not about to be around then why would I care how you feel?
she's oozing with sex with them lips and eyes
i know any guy that used a TT Boy scene to learn about sex only got the pussy ONE TIME and the chick ran out the door as solon as he was finished
I feel you black ..but as I was saying a big difference now is lack of social skills of women now..they're in their phones so much it's hard to have a "conversation"...many like to text or use Facebook or Instagram ..superficial shit ..you're in the game I'm sure you see some of the steippers now who are on their "phones" in the club or they don't have "game" with the clients because the bitch can't speak
Another thing you're in the mecca of NYC ...where I'm at everyone drives ..makes it even harder ..in NY you can see broads on the train..walking ...and as you said with the unlimited metro card..endless opportunities ..down here many people drive around ..with tinted windows..ie closed off
I personally think it's harder now than in the past
that's more of a problem than porn is.
if a guy isn't trying to make a woman feel maximum pleasure porn has nothing to do with it, it's just a guy that's selfish and they existed before porn existed.
For ME personally, I'm going to feel good. It's my job to make her feel way better than me. That's how I approach it.
Porn isn't integral to me but watching it you can see positions that you can try and see if they'll be fun.
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