Yet another "AINT NO BLACK MEN LEFT" forum starring Jacque Reid

[REDLINE]

She's too smart to be that dumb....or is she?

 

[JofromthaNO]

If you're not attracted to your "life partner " you're vulnerable to a good looking man who wants to smash.

I was (and still am!) physically attracted to him - just didn't think we were a good match because I thought him to be someone different than who he really was. If I had just gone off of our initial conversation, which was awkward and during March Madness (bad decision!) I would not have taken his number and contacted him. I gave him a chance because I did think he was cute!

 

[Complex]

I'll bite...

I wasn't initially attracted to my husband, because he didn't have certain attributes I thought I needed. I was always attracted to a more flashy man with an outgoing personality (similar to mines,) and he's a quiet, country boy that loves basketball, meat and God (not in that order!)

I now understand he was EXACTLY what I needed and, thank God, was patient with my mean ass! I see so many of my attractive, "got their life together" black female friends searching for unicorns instead of just searching for a good guy...it's hard to be on the other side of things and explain this to them because I often feel like I'm woman-shaming them because of the success I had in my relationship...

I was like meat Who doesn't love meat.

But I guess that means you're a vegan or vegetarian

I think a lot of women don't start thinking like this until they're above 30...and by then it becomes what some of the guys have been saying. The men who have their shit together are looking for the 2016 model, not the 2003.

Like how women will be shocked you don't want to deal with someone with kids, when they are the same exact way

 

[Lick]

Now this shit was funny! Man, I feel for my Sisthas so I deal with whatever I get from them.

 

[nappy_nate]

I dont see his show often at all. But this is like the 4th black people round table discussion ive seen on Larry Wilmores show. That brother better be mindful of his audience.


Those Colbert holdovers aint gonna take much more of this.

Exactly.

 

[Naha-Nago]

She's too smart to be that dumb....or is she?

Arrogance and entitlement has been and is the death knell for many 'successful' women in their relationships....

The fam said summed these women's predicament up best....

Women need to start asking men out because only THEY know they want to be bothered. Too often, women claim they just want to be left alone, or they didn't come to the spot to be hit on, dance or offered drinks, or just want to get their food and bounce. The reality of that happening is never, because only truly confident women and certified hoes have the courage or mouthpiece to even step to a man THEY find attractive. Most women's confidence is rooted in the men they shoot down, not the men they can pull. I'll explain..

The arrogance most women exude stems from constantly being hit on by men they feel are beneath them and rudely rejecting them like Mutumbo. A sad bitch's ego stems from shot block stats. However, like shot blockers, most don't have an outside game or can't shoot free throws. Women that are hit on or approached by quality men, THAT woman's soul gets fed, NOT her ego. So, for you young kats, any woman's arrogance you experience is rooted in being an asshole, stacked, or using men. Today's woman doesn't know the difference between confidence and arrogance.

Many dudes stop hollering at females based on the WAY females shoot them down. I've seen and had some hateful shit said to me and other men. i've seen broad get doused with beverages and one chick slept over some shit she said, when she simply could have said "No thank you" or something a little lighter. Bitches like THAT have fucked it up for the other women.

Now, that doesn't mean men are weak, it just means we learned not to step to certain hoes that appear to be stank or foul .This is the point most women never make-the bulk of them are bitches and rude and too conceited to even bother approaching. Not ever females is WORTH chasing, courting or being chivalrous to. We know who the hoes are on sight and THAT is why these type of females are bitter.

Lastly, women are not built for rejection. They only know how to dispense it, not to stomach it.

Player rule: control your thirst.
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refuse a woman's sexual advances and you will own that bitches soul. She will start to question herself. They know that puss is the gatekeeper, so once you take that power from them, you own em. Mark my words, the biggest pimps out there have dick control. Exercise it and you will every broad that gives you cooperation.

Successful women let their success precede them. Women use men's success to down them or rob them financially. I have many females friends that do very well in life, but they don't know how bossy or cut throat they are in real life. I tell em all the time to clock out, but they just argue back at me. A man needs his success to show he can provide, and woman uses hers to show she doesn't NEED you. THAT is why they are single.

* two cents *

 

[Mt. Yukon]

So basically you settled, hate your married life and are waiting for a gorgeous man to hit on you so you can cheat.

I wont say I full on agree... But shit was funny as fuck.

 

[Amajorfucup]

I was like meat Who doesn't love meat.

Faggit.

 

[DADDY4HOES]

Watched the vid....


These women on the panel are 35-45 years of age. They are all relatively attractive, in their day I can imagine them each having a full dance card full of potential suitors.


I have no sympathy for these women...


* two cents *

Younger with standards set too high, " knowing your worth " had them overvalued ( you are only worth the best you can get )
so they didn't get got.

 

[Flawless]

I'll bite...

I wasn't initially attracted to my husband, because he didn't have certain attributes I thought I needed. I was always attracted to a more flashy man with an outgoing personality (similar to mines,) and he's a quiet, country boy that loves basketball, meat and God (not in that order!)

I now understand he was EXACTLY what I needed and, thank God, was patient with my mean ass! I see so many of my attractive, "got their life together" black female friends searching for unicorns instead of just searching for a good guy...it's hard to be on the other side of things and explain this to them because I often feel like I'm woman-shaming them because of the success I had in my relationship...

sounds like you settled with someone you weren't really into and now it would be too much of a hassle to leave

 

[Complex]

Faggit.

Should have added a no shaddy pause

sounds like you settled with someone you weren't really into and now it would be too much of a hassle to leave

Your act is extremely tired and corny. Hopefully by the time you're 50 you'll grow out of trolling on the internet.

 

[tajshan]

...I'll watch later.

But just to a shot in the dark, these women/woman problem is probably not a lack of men but that the men they want have options and not exercising it with them or in a capacity they think they deserve.

* two cents *

 

[SKATTA]

I thought the female to the left of the host,(black dress)

was cool,didnt really say anything outta place.

 

[Tripster]

See...this is a PERFECT demonstration of why chicks like Jacqui have problems dating black men...and the biggest problem is...

That MOUTH.

You can plainly see, that this chick goes from 0-100 real quick. She already has an attitude of "I don't need you" from JUMP STREET in a relationship/dating situation. And you better believe she is not only QUICK to let a brotha know that...but she can't help BUT let him know that.

See, her entire identity is built upon feeling insecure around men in general. Something happened to her early in life that helped to shape her attitude. She is SEEING in brothas what she is actually LOOKING FOR (in terms of what she is expecting)...and what she is looking for is based upon what she has built up in her mind about black men since childhood....which obviously is...negative.

I bet she's dated far more "broke" (relatively speaking) dudes than "successful" ones. That's the only way she feels "powerful"....and she has to feel powerful in order to be in it. As the "successful" brothas have a shorter fuse with chicks with her attitude...they'd rather fuck with a white chick who will be their personal sex slave, than deal with this mouth (that ain't sucking no dick) and stingy with the pussy.

You think a woman who's never had an orgasm in her 40s is comfortable with sex and actually ENJOYS it?? Hell no. She putting a $1Mill price tag on that dry ass pussy. Meanwhile that rachet chick pussy is dripping as soon as you buy that Henn. That white chick pussy is dripping as soon as she's sure you won't whoop her ass or nothing crazy (cause she been wanting black dick).

These "independent" successful black women can't see the forest for the trees. They are so "independent" that they essentially emasculate men in their minds, and cannot allow them to actually BE A FUCKING MAN.

Its a certain way a woman talks about men in general when she likes dick vs. when she doesnt. You can tell the difference. As soon as JR opens her mouth I'm turned off.

 

[Mt. Yukon]

sounds like you settled with someone you weren't really into and now it would be too much of a hassle to leave

I think settle is probably the wrong word. I think she probably found a jewel were she didn't intend to find one. An example would be you go shopping for an outfit with a look in mind. You buy a few shirts, some jeans and a few pairs of shoes. You get home to evaluate what's what. What was a throw In just cause ends up being the best fit over the main thing you thought you wanted. I've noticed shit happens like that allot. Especially when I was dating. The number you're least amped about ends up being the best fit.

 

[tajshan]

Now this shit was funny! Man, I feel for my Sisthas so I deal with whatever I get from them.

damn I wish she'd have let make her point.

 

[DaAssWatcher]

I used to think Jacque Reid was the shit back in the day when she was on BET news.Seen that bitch on some show a few years ago and her attitude was shitty.She dates limo drivers but omitts to mention the dudes who had their shit together in the A who had unlimited options than dealing with a 40 yr old bird long term who smashed and dashed for a younger model.
The fact she ain't get scooped up 15 years ago when she was younger says a lot.

 

[kogalee_mohammed]

 

[kogalee_mohammed]

And none of these dumb ass black women realize that what they are going through with trying to find a man, is a direct creation of the white supremacists.

 

[simonmarcel]

I used to think Jacque Reid was the shit back in the day when she was on BET news.Seen that bitch on some show a few years ago and her attitude was shitty.She dates limo drivers but omitts to mention the dudes who had their shit together in the A who had unlimited options than dealing with a 40 yr old bird long term who smashed and dashed for a younger model.
The fact she ain't get scooped up 15 years ago when she was younger says a lot.

I remember when Jacque was the finest black woman on tv.I also thought she was a respectable, classy woman. Then I saw her on one of those reality shows and realized she's just a bird.

 

[Dr. Truth]

I was (and still am!) physically attracted to him - just didn't think we were a good match because I thought him to be someone different than who he really was. If I had just gone off of our initial conversation, which was awkward and during March Madness (bad decision!) I would not have taken his number and contacted him. I gave him a chance because I did think he was cute!

You just said when you first met him you were not attracted. Be real you're not with your ideal looking man. You want somebody 6 ft. 2, with abs and a 9 inch dick to make you cream. You'll be "working late" when you run into him.

 

[UnoBetter2]

LMFAO...they don't understand a man with options isnt gonna stand by and deal with their picky bullshit..LMAO...especially at their age they should be less picky...that's why they're in this position because they are the problem not the men they claim they can't find

Exactly and the older they get the more their stock goes down and they get bitter and mad at black men cause they passed their asses up. Check yourself when you think everybody is wrong cause it just might be you!

 

[snark9]

now larry needs a black men forum. yeah right...

 

[snark9]

this would be a non issue for these females, if they could stay young, in their power, and hold all the cards like they do in their 20s.

shows you that this is more about their dwindling options than anything else.

 

[Naha-Nago]

this would be a non issue for these females, if they could stay young, in their power, and hold all the cards like they do in their 20s.

shows you that this is more about their dwindling options than anything else.

It wouldn't matter, them chicks in there day couldn't find a man 'good enough' for them then either.

Like a lot of women they suffer from poor 'pussy' management skills. 'Pussy' as in the skills it takes to KEEP a man; and the bulk of that is tied up in self editing.

Good luck telling them it may be THEIR FAULT!



* two cents *

 

[chitownsfinest]

It wouldn't matter, them chicks in there day couldn't find a man 'good enough' for them then either.

Like a lot of women they suffer from poor 'pussy' management skills. 'Pussy' as in the skills it takes to KEEP a man; and the bulk of that is tied up in self editing.

Good luck telling them it my be THEIR FAULT!

Church, Tabernacle, Synagogue and Temple

 

[Dirty Hubcaps]

these old broads are up there sounding like some students cramming for a test that they should've studied for and passed already

 

[Mentor B]

Conversations like the one in the video are annoying to me because those women don't represent all Black women. But by it being on TV, it can come across as that way.

I like Professor Greer for pointing out that a well-to-do Black man isn't a unicorn; otherwise, those dumb broads will make it seem so. That's why it is no surprise she is the only one with a Black husband.

That other dumb ass incompetent chick talking about how we're like a hundred dollar bill on a sidewalk.

Can't even get a brother...

Just have some character and admit you're fucking wack.

 

[kwazdog]

The elephant in the room was that the married one obviously displayed why she is "married".

 

[RoadRage]

The feedback I get from single black women in their 30's is that they are sick and tired of all the games and they are sick and tired of being somebody jump off..
So now they want commitment with out giving up the pussy... And they are mad that guys aren't going for it... I mean do they actually expect guys to put their hard earn money and future on the line over a bitch they don't even know if they are able to fuck..

What these women fail to understand, is that many people wind up marrying their so called jumps offs, that is after the woman shows the man that she can handler her man, and is a good connection... Many of the women who always get dumped can't even fuck in the first place, and most guys are not heartless to break it down to them, they'd rather ride off into the sunset looking like the bad guy..

If a woman is too afraid to take a chance on herself, then why the fuck should any guys after all, most men don't need marriage to validate their manhood, and the way marriages are set up, we stand way more to lose..

This bitches have to come to grip and understand one thing, either they change the divorce rules and not have it so taxing on us guys or they are going to have to take chances, with the pussy, as a leap of faith to encourage guys to also take a leap of faith..

 

[HAR125LEM]

No Other Race of Women put their miserable business out there for all the world to see but ours. And they blame US for their failures.

And they wonder why they can't get a man?

This shit is getting so old.
And these chicks still don't have a clue.

Brothers...

Just Keep It Moving.

 

[jack walsh13]

Man fuck this bitter bitch. Sick of some of these fine ass bitches on there high horse acting like there better than everyone else just because there succesful in life or they have dergees. Some of them bitches with PHD's en shit be the most fucked up in the head. No common sense at all and can't take care of the home as a woman to save there lives. That's why you single bitch!!!! Fuck outta here with dat bullshit.

 

[tallblacknyc]

shitty choices in men

sexually frustrated

single with very low chance of gettin in a real relationship

it;s clear why she so bitchy

only success she has is her job

can't even have orgasms= ultimate fail

 

[godofwine]

ain't no black man left that want women with kids, bad jobs, mountains of debt, shopping addictions and thinks that she can talk any kind of way to her man in public or private. ain't no black man left that wants a woman like that

 

[MistaPhantastic]

LMFAO...they don't understand a man with options isnt gonna stand by and deal with their picky bullshit..LMAO...especially at their age they should be less picky...that's why they're in this position because they are the problem not the men they claim they can't find

This x 100. They haven't realized that their degrees aren't enough to attract a man and if you tell them that, then they claim that you are intimidated when really its their arrogance that is a big ass turn off. When you have options, that shit is a quick dismissal.

Some of these chicks become everything they hate in a man and can't understand why men aren't falling at their feet.