Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls

[tallblacknyc]

And for the record? I semi agree with the author. Women should approach men they like. It should be cool to do so. But the reality is. Alot of guys don't like being approached. They are intimidated by an assertive woman. It's all a roll of the dice. And that's how it should be. Fairly and equally done by all people.

i'm sorry but i must say gettttttttttt the fuck out of here... every dude kno's when a broad bags u it's gonna be pretty easy to get the buns..nigs like when chicks bag them cause they already kno they got 1 foot in the door to the pussy...me and my boys use to always joke about that shit like "u kno imma get the pussy the only question is when"..we been saying that for decades..nigs always like broads hollering at them..hell even a wack broad nigs think well i'll juss use her to get my dick sucked.. u need to start hanging with some straight males instead of fags if u think dudes don't like when females holler.. since b4 time getting bagged= automatic buns...goes back to the old saying u don't marry somebody ur in love with u marry somebody that's in love with u.. chicks that feel a dude will cater to him and spoil him and i love that shit so u kno i likes broads that dig me

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

 

[LSN]

We don't like you potato shaped bald headed hoes.

 

[LSN]

You stay flip flopping and moving the goal post.

I've literally seen her disagree w/ a poster about a topic then a few posts down (same thread same topic) AGREE w/ another poster who made the exact same point as the person she disagreed w/...chic is as fake as it comes on here

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You stay flip flopping and moving the goal post.

So now my "decent" is the same material bullcrap view of whites when a few post back you just said it wasn't common and didn't fit the common definition of decent.

Your already in defense mode trying to hide.

Make up your mind, find a stance and stick to it then make a statement based on the thread topic or my reply.

If it makes enough sense I'll reply.

You're trying to run from the point. AS again. Per your usual. You gave your view and tried to make it like it was a societal view. It's not practiced that way. You know it isn't. You are mired in it. And are now trying to do that thing you do where you over answer and blow up some shit YOU made up.

It's your usual as well. Stick to the case Cagney.

 

[max-dawg]

I've literally seen her disagree w/ a poster about a topic then a few posts down (same thread same topic) AGREE w/ another poster who made the exact same point as the person she disagreed w/...chic is as fake as it comes on here

a dyke that wants pussy... telling men AND women what they should/shouldn't be doing in-order to be happy in HETEROSEXUAL relationships. yeah, that's the person that knows...

meanwhile, while in public, she/he can't decide on which restroom is appropriate for her/him.

 

[mangobob79]

I respect your opinion sir.

I've always sought women that I thought were equally yoked, Ive also had women seek me that I thought I was "to much" for and my general thoughts would be "bitch please" you can't get with this!!! But in hindsight some of those women shared similar qualities as me when I wasn't being driven by my ego. My reasoning was that they were either too conservative in appearance, not creative types or not into so called consciousness or things of an esoteric nature like I was. At the core tho, they could have met all of my basic (And arguably the most fundamental) requirements of what I was seeking in a woman. Like compassion, attentiveness, decorum, virtue etc. I can't say the same for the "cool looking" chicks that I thought were my "equal" as a self professed "cool ass dude".

In that light I could be considered a dude that was not as "Cool" as he thought!

A MAN STARTS TO GROW UP

 

[Mello Mello]

I've literally seen her disagree w/ a poster about a topic then a few posts down (same thread same topic) AGREE w/ another poster who made the exact same point as the person she disagreed w/...chic is as fake as it comes on here

That's what I'm talking about. I gotta keep reminding myself not to take anything that one says seriously.

She be playing that favoritism shit and contrarian shit with those who don't capitulate to her bullshit. Childish.

 

[8/11Streetz]

See you are a normal guy...u just dont stop and stare...thats the difference

U know how to break the ice too...not something weird i dont know how to respond to lol

well my brother and older cousins always had girls around them, them negroes where the Casanova's of the family. I was always a weirdo but i was never afraid to talk to girls. Just being around my brother and cousins and watching how they interacted with females helped me a lot.


Just know how to spark a conversation and be tactful. Best lesson i learned from my brother is every woman wont like you but you wont know until you try. My angle is usually to get them laughing Im a goofy muthafucka so that aint hard for me to do. Its a good ice breaker and it works for me.


I just think sometimes dudes try to hard or put to much emphasis on it.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

i'm sorry but i must say gettttttttttt the fuck out of here... every dude kno's when a broad bags u it's gonna be pretty easy to get the buns..nigs like when chicks bag them cause they already kno they got 1 foot in the door to the pussy...me and my boys use to always joke about that shit like "u kno imma get the pussy the only question is when"..we been saying that for decades..nigs always like broads hollering at them..hell even a wack broad nigs think well i'll juss use her to get my dick sucked.. u need to start hanging with some straight males instead of fags if u think dudes don't like when females holler.. since b4 time getting bagged= automatic buns...goes back to the old saying u don't marry somebody ur in love with u marry somebody that's in love with u.. chicks that feel a dude will cater to him and spoil him and i love that shit so u kno i likes broads that dig me

Your friends aren't everyone. I've known many men who've admitted that they like to be the aggressor. And don't like it when women come onto them. And plus it's easy to see.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

 

[code_pirahna]

they lack self esteem.

again, women are all about their egos & getting attention. like the other poster said, some broads actually get all dressed up just to see how many guys they can, "shoot down." it's a confidence game, i guess.

btw, i just saw this crazy shit on FB. all i could say was, "wow."

This......

The self esteem of women is actually a lot of the problem......

 

[tallblacknyc]

Your friends aren't everyone. I've known many men who've admitted that they like to be the aggressor. And don't like it when women come onto them. And plus it's easy to see.

once again do these guys like pussy the one's ur talking about..ur rite my friends aren't everybody..but i kno shitttttttttttttloads of people..i've done social experiments..i bet i can get a shitload of goodlooking chicks to randomly walk up to dudes and try to bag them and most will take the bait even if their single or in a relationship.. u do kno pussy is my bizzness rite.. u do kno i have females interact with dudes all the time rite..i don't see dudes running away from pussy i see them goin towards it

 

[8/11Streetz]

once again do these guys like pussy the one's ur talking about..ur rite my friends aren't everybody..but i kno shitttttttttttttloads of people..i've done social experiments..i bet i can get a shitload of goodlooking chicks to randomly walk up to dudes and try to bag them and most will take the bait even if their single or in a relationship.. u do kno pussy is my bizzness rite.. u do kno i have females interact with dudes all the time rite..i don't see dudes running away from pussy i see them goin towards it

man listen captain


every time i use to get approached i felt like i hit the jack back because it was less work i had to do. Even if you are lion who loves the thrill of the hunt you aint going to turn down a dead buffaloes carcass just because it didnt run or fight back. Shit your going to eat that shit and call it a fucking day.



A Girl approach me thats like doing 80 percent of the work now all i gotta do is give her a hug with a hard on to seal the deal

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

once again do these guys like pussy the one's ur talking about..ur rite my friends aren't everybody..but i kno shitttttttttttttloads of people..i've done social experiments..i bet i can get a shitload of goodlooking chicks to randomly walk up to dudes and try to bag them and most will take the bait even if their single or in a relationship.. u do kno pussy is my bizzness rite.. u do kno i have females interact with dudes all the time rite..i don't see dudes running away from pussy i see them goin towards it

I know people who've been in the same business as your since they were teenagers. This is going to turn into a back and forth for 0 reason. No interest in it. I know what i know. I didn't say all men. I said alot. And i've learned not to take someones actions as what's in their heart in many situations. You guys like vagina, doesn't mean you all like how the vagina happens to wind up on your dick.

Men should get approached by women with the same frequency as men approach women. Is what my post was about. My agreement with the article writer.

 

[dHustla]

1. Welcome to equality.

2.Most women aren't worth asking out nowadays and an ever increasing portion are BARELY worth the effort to go about JUST trying to fuck.


3. Deregulation works BOTH ways and going into the 50th year of women sexual liberation the effects of it are finally starting to hit the average broad- that there are no dates, no special treatment just because you own a vagina . The average square cat is adjusting to the current market; either she's down to fuck from jump street or get the fuck on.


Now church in the wild. No HOPE either.



* two cents *

mmhmm

 

[tallblacknyc]

man listen captain


every time i use to get approached i felt like i hit the jack back because it was less work i had to do. Even if you are lion who loves the thrill of the hunt you aint going to turn down a dead buffaloes carcass just because it didnt run or fight back. Shit your going to eat that shit and call it a fucking day.



A Girl approach me thats like doing 80 percent of the work now all i gotta do is give her a hug with a hard on to seal the deal

yep it's common knowledge amongst men that we like getting approach also..what it is that a lot of chicks don't have the heart or courage to do so..hell a lot of chicks don't even have game..they juss luck up cause a lot of nigs ain't turning down decent looking pussy..but if u had to judge them on game itself majority would fail.. i use to get on chicks all the time and be like ya talk shit about nigs don't have game let me hear what u would say to a dude u'd like..crickets, long pauses, rolled eyes, subject getting changed, "oh whatever nig", "oh i look good so a guy gonna give me his number regardless", "that's not ladylike", and other bullshit excuses and reactions i use to get from chicks..like i said in various other threads if the human species had to rely on women to jumpstart interaction in the dating game we'd go extinct..women can talk shit about men all they want but the only reason humans are still on this planet is because of male's bein aggressive... hell i'll even go deeper the man that most females are with now in a relationship happened because of him not her she juss lucked up and got chosen that day

 

[JofromthaNO]

(Sigh) I don't understand why I haven't learned that "these kinds of threads" are bait threads for men to bitch and moan about black women (and other black men to consign them,) as well as threads to bait female posters in to disclaim whatever thoughts they may have on the topic even though, you know, they are female lol

It's slightly part of the problem now - talking AT each other instead of talking TO each other. The funny thing is, underneath it all, there's a lot of pain and fear on both sides of the coin...you can disagree with a person, refute their argument, etc. but it doesn't have to be a personal attack on an individual for their own beliefs...I guess I really am growing too old for this shit smh...

 

[FJP]

(Sigh) I don't understand why I haven't learned that "these kinds of threads" are bait threads for men to bitch and moan about black women (and other black men to consign them,) as well as threads to bait female posters in to disclaim whatever thoughts they may have on the topic even though, you know, they are female lol

It's slightly part of the problem now - talking AT each other instead of talking TO each other. The funny thing is, underneath it all, there's a lot of pain and fear on both sides of the coin...you can disagree with a person, refute their argument, etc. but it doesn't have to be a personal attack on an individual for their own beliefs...I guess I really am growing too old for this shit smh...

And this reply a prime example of why women will continue to remain confused about the current situation of relationship. You want to be listened to and understood in order for men to figure out what you want, yet when men voice their opinion and experiences....the first words out of your mouth are "bitch and moan...".. Well damn welcome to equality. Funny how when we didn't want to hear it, we were unreceptive and insensitive....the shoe has changed feet.

We are not the ones that have the problems finding stable relationships, women are. We've listened to women since the inception of civilization, maybe it's time for you to listen.

 

[FJP]

The concept of "Like finding Like" is one of the most ridiculous concepts women follow and is exactly why the new and equal woman...has so many problems

 

[Top_Bunk]

Reel Tawk Mi Nigga

 

[Naha-Nago]

The concept of "Like finding Like" is one of the most ridiculous concepts women follow and is exactly why the new and equal woman...has so many problems

Actually, if women truly believe and applied that concept, 'like finding like' most these chick would be in a relationship.

The problem is that the world isn't confirming how awesome these chicks THINK they are.

Just cause you know how to play basketball doesn't mean you deserve to be in the NBA. Lot of these chicks pist that they aren't in the starting 5 at the Staples Center when realistically they should be busting ass to see minutes in a midnight summer church league....

* two cents *

 

[max-dawg]

Actually, if women truly believe and applied that concept, 'like finding like' most these chick would be in a relationship.

The problem is that the world isn't confirming how awesome these chicks THINK they are.

Just cause you know how to play basketball doesn't mean you deserve to be in the NBA. Lot of these chicks pist that they aren't in the starting 5 at the Staples Center when realistically they should be busting ass to see minutes in a midnight summer church league....

* two cents *

they are all good women.
they were all a princess when young & now reign as queens.
they are all REAL even tho everything on them is fake.
they all demand your ultimate respect bc they own what you crave = pussy.
they all have NOTHING to bring to the table except pussy and you should be happy about it.
meanwhile, they ALL have no fucking clue of how to keep a man longer than an average fuck session lasts.

 

[J.E.T.S]

And this reply a prime example of why women will continue to remain confused about the current situation of relationship. You want to be listened to and understood in order for men to figure out what you want, yet when men voice their opinion and experiences....the first words out of your mouth are "bitch and moan...".. Well damn welcome to equality. Funny how when we didn't want to hear it, we were unreceptive and insensitive....the shoe has changed feet.

We are not the ones that have the problems finding stable relationships, women are. We've listened to women since the inception of civilization, maybe it's time for you to listen.

The concept of "Like finding Like" is one of the most ridiculous concepts women follow and is exactly why the new and equal woman...has so many problems

Actually, if women truly believe and applied that concept, 'like finding like' most these chick would be in a relationship.

The problem is that the world isn't confirming how awesome these chicks THINK they are.

Just cause you know how to play basketball doesn't mean you deserve to be in the NBA. Lot of these chicks pist that they aren't in the starting 5 at the Staples Center when realistically they should be busting ass to see minutes in a midnight summer church league....

* two cents *

they are all good women.
they were all a princess when young & now reign as queens.
they are all REAL even tho everything on them is fake.
they all demand your ultimate respect bc they own what you crave = pussy.
they all have NOTHING to bring to the table except pussy and you should be happy about it.
meanwhile, they ALL have no fucking clue of how to keep a man longer than an average fuck session lasts.

Holy.... shit.

Sent from Clayton County Department of Corrections using Pay Phone

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

(Sigh) I don't understand why I haven't learned that "these kinds of threads" are bait threads for men to bitch and moan about black women (and other black men to consign them,) as well as threads to bait female posters in to disclaim whatever thoughts they may have on the topic even though, you know, they are female lol

It's slightly part of the problem now - talking AT each other instead of talking TO each other. The funny thing is, underneath it all, there's a lot of pain and fear on both sides of the coin...you can disagree with a person, refute their argument, etc. but it doesn't have to be a personal attack on an individual for their own beliefs...I guess I really am growing too old for this shit smh...

 

[jack walsh13]

I've literally seen her disagree w/ a poster about a topic then a few posts down (same thread same topic) AGREE w/ another poster who made the exact same point as the person she disagreed w/...chic is as fake as it comes on here

Man I been added her stupid ass to the Beeiii ban list. Can't stand reading her bullshit that makes no sense. Everyone Needs to fuckin ban her!!! She's a fuckin piece of shit.

 

[JofromthaNO]

And this reply a prime example of why women will continue to remain confused about the current situation of relationship. You want to be listened to and understood in order for men to figure out what you want, yet when men voice their opinion and experiences....the first words out of your mouth are "bitch and moan...".. Well damn welcome to equality. Funny how when we didn't want to hear it, we were unreceptive and insensitive....the shoe has changed feet.

We are not the ones that have the problems finding stable relationships, women are. We've listened to women since the inception of civilization, maybe it's time for you to listen.

My perception of a thread on a porn board is why black women are confused? Oh, ok... If it were women doing the same thing, my reply would be the same: bitching and moaning about something, talking at a problem instead of solving it. But, the problem with this problem is it actually benefits men to leave black women "in the dark," and to tell them to clean up their own shit...as many of you have mentioned, perhaps women have been loose and "lowered the value of pussy." But, that's only part of the problem and very few men in this thread seem to recognize that. It's the HUMAN tendency to look outward, blame someone else rather than yourself.

And, speak for yourself: I'm in a stable relationship with a good man

 

[Blu Diablo]

These are examples of chivalry

There’s no door-holding, no hand-holding and definitely no free drinks. There’s no taking off hats or courting through invitations. There are no smooth moves, no jackets to dinner. There are no flowers, no tables by candlelight. But, most importantly, there are no dates.

and this is equality

Now, the unfortunate paradox for a woman is that she must be the chased and the chaser. She must be the target and the shooter.

These are incompatible objectives, much like speed and quality.

 

[bgbtylvr]

Women need to start asking men out because only THEY know they want to be bothered. Too often, women claim they just want to be left alone, or they didn't come to the spot to be hit on, dance or offered drinks, or just want to get their food and bounce. The reality of that happening is never, because only truly confident women and certified hoes have the courage or mouthpiece to even step to a man THEY find attractive. Most women's confidence is rooted in the men they shoot down, not the men they can pull. I'll explain..

The arrogance most women exude stems from constantly being hit on by men they feel are beneath them and rudely rejecting them like Mutumbo. A sad bitch's ego stems from shot block stats. However, like shot blockers, most don't have an outside game or can't shoot free throws. Women that are hit on or approached by quality men, THAT woman's soul gets fed, NOT her ego. So, for you young kats, any woman's arrogance you experience is rooted in being an asshole, stacked, or using men. Today's woman doesn't know the difference between confidence and arrogance.

Many dudes stop hollering at females based on the WAY females shoot them down. I've seen and had some hateful shit said to me and other men. i've seen broad get doused with beverages and one chick slept over some shit she said, when she simply could have said "No thank you" or something a little lighter. Bitches like THAT have fucked it up for the other women.

Now, that doesn't mean men are weak, it just means we learned not to step to certain hoes that appear to be stank or foul .This is the point most women never make-the bulk of them are bitches and rude and too conceited to even bother approaching. Not ever females is WORTH chasing, courting or being chivalrous to. We know who the hoes are on sight and THAT is why these type of females are bitter.

Lastly, women are not built for rejection. They only know how to dispense it, not to stomach it.

Player rule: control your thirst.
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refuse a woman's sexual advances and you will own that bitches soul. She will start to question herself. They know that puss is the gatekeeper, so once you take that power from them, you own em. Mark my words, the biggest pimps out there have dick control. Exercise it and you will every broad that gives you cooperation.

 

[FJP]

Actually, if women truly believe and applied that concept, 'like finding like' most these chick would be in a relationship.

The problem is that the world isn't confirming how awesome these chicks THINK they are.

Just cause you know how to play basketball doesn't mean you deserve to be in the NBA. Lot of these chicks pist that they aren't in the starting 5 at the Staples Center when realistically they should be busting ass to see minutes in a midnight summer church league....

* two cents *

I'm gonna tell you why it doesn't work and actually hinders them. As I previously posted women have become the man they want. Everything they "require" in a man they have sought to acquire themselves... ...Problem is Women are attracted to and flock to stability. Therefore they feel that men work in the same manner. They feel that an "equal" man should be attracted to them, or even more so they deserve that equal man....

Problem is that even she can manage to gain his interest, she has no idea how to deal with him. They feel like their position in whatever they do in life, grants them alpha status in their relationship. They don't realize that to a man that provides his own stability, she's nothing more than a regular ass woman until to proven otherwise. They can't comprehend that line of thinking because , in their mind if a man has those same credentials, he's more than "regular".

Women seek equals as some sort of validation, men we don't have that problem. For example look at all of the celebrities, athletes, and entertainers...that marry women who are essentially nobodies. We don't have a problem with women who are not our "equals"..Now compare that to women. Look at Halle Berry for example... she has been through actors, athletes, music artists and film producers...when there is probably a "regular" dude who works on her films and would love her the "right" way. Yet, she would never give it consideration based on her status.... ... You will never see a "Real Husbands" reality show with a bunch of men who made their name from famous ex-wives.

You don't find an equal, you find your compliment. This like for like mess is bullshit... Peanut Butter isn't like Jelly and Cereal isn't like milk ...and Bill isn't like Melinda Gates but they all work.... Until they realize that, the "new" woman will find herself in the same "old" predicament.

 

[FJP]

ABC ran a special on how successful women can not find a man..You will NEVER see a show like that for men..... And no the Bachelor is not "real"

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

The concept of "Like finding Like" is one of the most ridiculous concepts women follow and is exactly why the new and equal woman...has so many problems

Like is personality, philosophy based not status based.

 

[FJP]

Like is personality, philosophy based not status based.

Lets be real bills these days personality and philosophy are not whats being sought when "like" is mentioned. Now the original form in which you speak is correct but in todays society that is not whats being referenced and you know it.

Lets be real how many women are going to wait around and see if a man is "like" them if he's broke?

 

[Naha-Nago]

Women need to start asking men out because only THEY know they want to be bothered. Too often, women claim they just want to be left alone, or they didn't come to the spot to be hit on, dance or offered drinks, or just want to get their food and bounce. The reality of that happening is never, because only truly confident women and certified hoes have the courage or mouthpiece to even step to a man THEY find attractive. Most women's confidence is rooted in the men they shoot down, not the men they can pull. I'll explain..

The arrogance most women exude stems from constantly being hit on by men they feel are beneath them and rudely rejecting them like Mutumbo. A sad bitch's ego stems from shot block stats. However, like shot blockers, most don't have an outside game or can't shoot free throws. Women that are hit on or approached by quality men, THAT woman's soul gets fed, NOT her ego. So, for you young kats, any woman's arrogance you experience is rooted in being an asshole, stacked, or using men. Today's woman doesn't know the difference between confidence and arrogance.

Many dudes stop hollering at females based on the WAY females shoot them down. I've seen and had some hateful shit said to me and other men. i've seen broad get doused with beverages and one chick slept over some shit she said, when she simply could have said "No thank you" or something a little lighter. Bitches like THAT have fucked it up for the other women.

Now, that doesn't mean men are weak, it just means we learned not to step to certain hoes that appear to be stank or foul .This is the point most women never make-the bulk of them are bitches and rude and too conceited to even bother approaching. Not ever females is WORTH chasing, courting or being chivalrous to. We know who the hoes are on sight and THAT is why these type of females are bitter.

Lastly, women are not built for rejection. They only know how to dispense it, not to stomach it.

Player rule: control your thirst.
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refuse a woman's sexual advances and you will own that bitches soul. She will start to question herself. They know that puss is the gatekeeper, so once you take that power from them, you own em. Mark my words, the biggest pimps out there have dick control. Exercise it and you will every broad that gives you cooperation.

Damn! Somebody ate their Wheaties this morning!

I'm gonna tell you why it doesn't work and actually hinders them. As I previously posted women have become the man they want. Everything they "require" in a man they have sought to acquire themselves... ...Problem is Women are attracted to and flock to stability. Therefore they feel that men work in the same manner. They feel that an "equal" man should be attracted to them, or even more so they deserve that equal man....

Problem is that even she can manage to gain his interest, she has no idea how to deal with him. They feel like their position in whatever they do in life, grants them alpha status in their relationship. They don't realize that to a man that provides his own stability, she's nothing more than a regular ass woman until to proven otherwise. They can't comprehend that line of thinking because , in their mind if a man has those same credentials, he's more than "regular".

Women seek equals as some sort of validation, men we don't have that problem. For example look at all of the celebrities, athletes, and entertainers...that marry women who are essentially nobodies. We don't have a problem with women who are not our "equals"..Now compare that to women. Look at Halle Berry for example... she has been through actors, athletes, music artists and film producers...when there is probably a "regular" dude who works on her films and would love her the "right" way. Yet, she would never give it consideration based on her status.... ... You will never see a "Real Husbands" reality show with a bunch of men who made their name from famous ex-wives.

You don't find an equal, you find your compliment. This like for like mess is bullshit... Peanut Butter isn't like Jelly and Cereal isn't like milk ...and Bill isn't like Melinda Gates but they all work.... Until they realize that, the "new" woman will find herself in the same "old" predicament.

You are right. Thank you for fleshing it out for me. Respect.

* two cents *

 

[bgbtylvr]

ABC ran a special on how successful women can not find a man..You will NEVER see a show like that for men..... And no the Bachelor is not "real"

Successful women let their success precede them. Women use men's success to down them or rob them financially. I have many females friends that do very well in life, but they don't know how bossy or cut throat they are in real life. I tell em all the time to clock out, but they just argue back at me. A man needs his success to show he can provide, and woman uses hers to show she doesn't NEED you. THAT is why they are single.