Why Women Need To Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls

[Chitownheadbusa]

Whenever I throw some shit on to make a run to target or the market real quick(unshaved, hair not even brushed) I hate to see a woman I might wanna talk to. I have no confidence and wind up avoiding her at all costs.

Pssshhh
A bitch can still see my flyness through my stubble...lol

But yeah....
I always keep myself together. ALWAYS! It was embedded in me. My Moms used to dress up me and my Sister...we used to win best dressed awards at school; i know thats some superficial shit, but thats what happened. My Pops was always fresh as well. Looked like he was a Mobster or Pimp in most of his pics..but he wasnt.

I think we all make adjustments to attract who we want to attract, but imho your "looks" just get u in the door, the other shit THATS LEAST VALUED is what keeps you around.

Id like to think that regardless of how I look in the morning I should still be able to pull a female. Ive been in situations whereas females would start frowning at the dirt on my shoes, wrinkled shirt or some other shit, but I didnt let that discourage me. I smiled, said the things that she wanted to hear and I still got the number.

I know we all judge a book by its cover a lot of times, but the older i get the more i learn that thats not always the right course of action.

Imho...if you were insecure while your were unshaven and not dressed up, then youre still ah insecure mofo after you shave and put on your costume....

 

[Owes]

ya do kno she talkin about cac males rite

they're natural born beta males and they're getting weaker and weaker as the generations go by..money can't even save them now..the species is facing extinct levels..cheers

nope

 

[DeSiRe]

who has to have the right timing... you or him?

he was trying... you seemed to be stressing.

i FULLY respect muslim women bc they have to attract men and KEEP their attraction while only revealing their eyes in public...everything else is covered-up.

in america, women have their asses & tits out, camel toes on full display, fake hair, lips, skin tone, cheek bones... fake tits, fake ass, fake eye color, etc. BUT MOST CAN'T HOLD A CONVERSATION to save their lives.

i once asked a co-worker... "how many men would step to you if all they could see was your eyes?"

her reply, "if he looked deep enough, he could see into my soul and see that i was a good woman."

deeeelusional. entitled. and dead wrong. bitch is as shallow as they come.




that quote says a lot, but it says a whole lot about how women feel nowadays.

to me, it means, "you build heaven for me... and THEN, when i'm ready, i'll show you how good i am... and will reward you with my presence."

meanwhile, broads giving up pussy and mouth online by the truckload.

who told these broads that all they needed was make-up, fake hair, a vagina, and "their presence," and it was all good?

Timing was wrong for me...anyone talking to me at 6am is bad timing

Every one of ur posts in this thread are about fake this or fake that...like ok we get it...the thing is women been wearing fake shit since the beginning of time but this behavior from men is like a new thing

 

[True Real Info]

I respect your opinion sir.

I've always sought women that I thought were equally yoked, Ive also had women seek me that I thought I was "to much" for and my general thoughts would be "bitch please" you can't get with this!!! But in hindsight some of those women shared similar qualities as me when I wasn't being driven by my ego. My reasoning was that they were either too conservative in appearance, not creative types or not into so called consciousness or things of an esoteric nature like I was. At the core tho, they could have met all of my basic (And arguably the most fundamental) requirements of what I was seeking in a woman. Like compassion, attentiveness, decorum, virtue etc. I can't say the same for the "cool looking" chicks that I thought were my "equal" as a self professed "cool ass dude".

In that light I could be considered a dude that was not as "Cool" as he thought!

Im not throwing shade....

just saying...


most men get what they can at a young age...in terms of sex

most women get who they want at a young age...in terms of sex


for the men, it lowers his already low standards, which makes 3-4s think they are 6-7s,8s....

for the women....it leads them to believe they are hotter then what they are....

tagging men 2-3 notches above their level will do that to them.....

most people are not attracted to those who are a good fit on paper....

so they will get with whoever matches them in terms of emotional development....

they say women mature quicker than men.....false...

dunning kruger paradox in full effect.....

the people who think they have it all figured out don't really know shit but talk the loudest.....

the people who are closer to the truth are too busy trying to find more truth to even engage this bullshit......

 

[FJP]

It truly is wonderful time to be a well to do man in America.. to be honest You don't even have to be well to do.. Look how many professional females you see with bum ass dudes. Women don't have any idea of what they want. "Equality" while working for them in the world of social status has completely backfired on them when it comes to relationships.. Women have acquired everything THEY want in a man (Car, House, Career).......and have NO idea what a man actually wants. You ask women on average(especially one with a career) what does a man want?, they all come up with the same shit... Sex, Food, and housework. They have no idea about the intangibles. They feel entitled to a "good man" The first thing they say is "I have a degree and..blah blah blah......Why? Because the only thing they have is the blueprint of what has traditionally worked for men. Traditionally a self-sufficient man is essentially guaranteed to attract the woman he wants. ...So they can't understand why it doesn't happen for them...which leads to their current distress and terrible decision making....

 

[Naha-Nago]

It truly is wonderful time to be a well to do man in America.. to be honest You don't even have to be well to do.. Look how many professional females you see with bum ass dudes. Women don't have any idea of what they want. "Equality" while working for them in the world of social status has completely backfired on them when it comes to relationships.. Women have acquired everything THEY want in a man (Car, House, Career).......and have NO idea what a man actually wants. You ask women on average(especially one with a career) what does a man want?, they all come up with the same shit... Sex, Food, and housework. They have no idea about the intangibles. They feel entitled to a "good man" The first thing they say is "I have a degree and..blah blah blah......Why? Because the only thing they have is the blueprint of what has traditionally worked for men. Traditionally a self-sufficient man is essentially guaranteed to attract the woman he wants. ...So they can't understand why it doesn't happen for them...which leads to their current distress and terrible decision making....

* two cents *

 

[Naha-Nago]

Timing was wrong for me...anyone talking to me at 6am is bad timing

Every one of ur posts in this thread are about fake this or fake that...like ok we get it...the thing is women been wearing fake shit since the beginning of time but this behavior from men is like a new thing

Life isn't going to wait on you to 'get ready ' or 'feel comfortable' ma'am.


It just ain't.



* two cents *

 

[kwazdog]

Im not throwing shade....

just saying...


most men get what they can at a young age...in terms of sex

most women get who they want at a young age...in terms of sex


for the men, it lowers his already low standards, which makes 3-4s think they are 6-7s,8s....

for the women....it leads them to believe they are hotter then what they are....

tagging men 2-3 notches above their level will do that to them.....

most people are not attracted to those who are a good fit on paper....

so they will get with whoever matches them in terms of emotional development....

they say women mature quicker than men.....false...

dunning kruger paradox in full effect.....

the people who think they have it all figured out don't really know shit but talk the loudest.....

the people who are closer to the truth are too busy trying to find more truth to even engage this bullshit......

I hear you fam,

I think I'm at the point that you mention in your last sentence. I'm trying to stay open minded about all of this because the "old way" hasn't been working for me. All I'm saying is that perhaps we need to re-evaluate why we don't spend enough time reviewing these "good fits on paper". Now Im not talking about friends with benefits etc as long as thats mutually understood I have no problem with that, but Girlfriends and Wives should (well at least theoretically) should be chosen to enhance our lives as men and that doesn't seem to be the case with a lot of dudes, and thats not something so called "bad bitches", "the woman of our dreams" (emotionally speaking) or "over inflated women" can always deliver on out side of the sexual arena. I think I'm straying off topic a lil bit... All I'm saying is that we need to widen and deepen our scope of "self diagnosis" and question our motives behind our choices in women more often. I do agree with the ladies on that. I think I've already stated that before in so many words. I think we may have lost a sense of "shrewd practicality" (A form of survival mechanism) that our ancestors may have had when choosing a mate. A dose of "shrewd practicality" wouldn't hurt us right now. It would keep simps from simping and keep them honorable and self confident. It would keep entitled high maintenance types grounded in the reality of the virtues of womanhood.

I dunno these are just ideas to ponder. my 2cents.

 

[kwazdog]

It truly is wonderful time to be a well to do man in America.. to be honest You don't even have to be well to do.. Look how many professional females you see with bum ass dudes. Women don't have any idea of what they want. "Equality" while working for them in the world of social status has completely backfired on them when it comes to relationships.. Women have acquired everything THEY want in a man (Car, House, Career).......and have NO idea what a man actually wants. You ask women on average(especially one with a career) what does a man want?, they all come up with the same shit... Sex, Food, and housework. They have no idea about the intangibles. They feel entitled to a "good man" The first thing they say is "I have a degree and..blah blah blah......Why? Because the only thing they have is the blueprint of what has traditionally worked for men. Traditionally a self-sufficient man is essentially guaranteed to attract the woman he wants. ...So they can't understand why it doesn't happen for them...which leads to their current distress and terrible decision making....

Interesting observation.

 

[Mello Mello]

life isn't going to wait on you to 'get ready ' or 'feel comfortable' ma'am.


It just ain't.



* two cents *

boom!

*message*

 

[J.E.T.S]

But they don't hear you, though...it's easy to point a finger in one direction without looking back in the mirror. Women and men around here chasing fucked up, irrational, egotistical views of relationships and womanhood/manhood, but don't want to give of themselves, be vulnerable, feel shit...the moment I opened up my eyes to vulnerability and more than my selfish ways was the moment I could begin to love someone more than myself...and, I chose love.

The problem is people are too focused on image. I can agree to that.

Sent from Clayton County Department of Corrections using Pay Phone

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You asked me what I meant by decent and I told you then you compare it to some common definition of decent, as if to say what I offered isn't good enough. That's a weak analogy.

I told you what I meant by decent within the context of this conversation and my paragraph.

Is there anything you want to add to the conversation or do you just want to nitpick definitions and straw man niggas to death?

lol I already added it. You just didn't like what was said. As your usual. My previous post asked what decent was. You said what you thought. I said it would be different.

And i was correct. Your view is the same material bullcrap view that whites have pounded into our heads for quite some time. Which is why we're having the problems we always do.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

I would bump the Yurugu thread about relationships and shit but what's the point?

For both sides its really as simple as like should be with like.

You should be with someone who compliments you perfectly.

Compliments, for the instagram age group has nothing to do with looks.

it has everything to do with your philosophies on life
and your overall personality.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

But they don't hear you, though...it's easy to point a finger in one direction without looking back in the mirror. Women and men around here chasing fucked up, irrational, egotistical views of relationships and womanhood/manhood, but don't want to give of themselves, be vulnerable, feel shit...the moment I opened up my eyes to vulnerability and more than my selfish ways was the moment I could begin to love someone more than myself...and, I chose love.

You said it. And that's why we as a people aren't doing well in this system. And never really have. People just don't see it. The value system. And the way we view ourselves. The priorities we give ourselves as a society. It's what's got us fucked up. And it has affected both our men and women. Both sides.

It's not just us. And it's not just them.

 

[militantmidget]

See you are a normal guy...u just dont stop and stare...thats the difference

U know how to break the ice too...not something weird i dont know how to respond to lol



I dunno if it is about being fake...if im out looking busted i dont want to be bothered by anyone...i just wanna get in and get out without being noticed cause im being lazy

One morning at 6am i woke up and took my dog out...like i dont even think i had a bra on...and there was a guy outside taking his dog out who looked exactly like mine

He starts talking to me of this history of our dog's breed...at this point i still cant form coherent thoughts cause im still waking up...and hes chatting away...also im busted...im not trying to be seen...but im a polite person so im doing my best to engage...telling myself as soon as my dog poops im getting the fuck out of there

He started talking about my flip flops and why my man let me outside like that (there was a bunch of snow on the ground)...but my dog finished pooping right at that moment so i just laughed..said bye and ran up stairs...

Its not about being fake...but u gotta have the right timing

It's always the right timing when a woman is interested in the man.

 

[brickwall92]

Fam.....the fact that pussy is easy to get nowadays IS THE POINT and why women -white and black mind you- are up in arms.

Women: "These fools need to MAN up, approach us like ladies, and treat us special! "


Men: "......WHY? Why do more work for the same product? You wanted equality this is what it looks like."

No man in this thread is complaining about NOT getting pussy. Like you said, pussy is at an all time low stock wise. We're all smirking cause this is what these chicks CLAIMED they wanted, to NOT be treated special, TO BE TREATED LIKE EQUALS, and this is what equality looks like....


Once again, it's not the men complaining.




* two cents *

I must be in some other world..

 

[max-dawg]

Timing was wrong for me...anyone talking to me at 6am is bad timing

Every one of ur posts in this thread are about fake this or fake that...like ok we get it...the thing is women been wearing fake shit since the beginning of time but this behavior from men is like a new thing

i'm stressing the word, "fake," bc every one of these whiny rants begins with, "where are the real men?"

 

[tallblacknyc]

For black people we are chasing the white man's reality and that's why our shit is fucked up. Our forefathers and mothers did way better than what we are doing because the sit under the feet of the slavemaster and got a birds eye view of that fucking cesspool. Now we are so damn detached from everything and we do get to see the real. So, we black man and woman fall short of knowledge. We are still letting someone else's standard be what we look for.

the fucking truth.com... when black people erase all these cac concepts out of their brain and teachings is when the progression begins

 

[kinglickk]

Why don't they make them like they used to? Have that bitch explain that.

barefooted, pregnant housewives who do their job and STFU? Those?

Always funny when bitches don't get what THEY want, suddenly men are immature and have not grown up. The shoe is never on the other foot though.

What is this entitlement to expensive dinners? If I want an expensive dinner, I reach into my pocket. You mean that she can't do the same?

I realize that a "real" man is one who does whatever a woman wants and/or demands whenever she feels like wanting or demanding it.

 

[max-dawg]

It truly is wonderful time to be a well to do man in America.. to be honest You don't even have to be well to do.. Look how many professional females you see with bum ass dudes. Women don't have any idea of what they want. "Equality" while working for them in the world of social status has completely backfired on them when it comes to relationships.. Women have acquired everything THEY want in a man (Car, House, Career).......and have NO idea what a man actually wants. You ask women on average(especially one with a career) what does a man want?, they all come up with the same shit... Sex, Food, and housework. They have no idea about the intangibles. They feel entitled to a "good man" The first thing they say is "I have a degree and..blah blah blah......Why? Because the only thing they have is the blueprint of what has traditionally worked for men. Traditionally a self-sufficient man is essentially guaranteed to attract the woman he wants. ...So they can't understand why it doesn't happen for them...which leads to their current distress and terrible decision making....

how da fuck did i miss your post?!? this is a good drop.

i wonder if any woman (or dyke) in this thread can lay-out the blueprint for what will work for these career women.

they have the cars... the house... the career... "they don't need a man for SHIT!"

but they want one... but they have no clue what men want... and lack the confidence or insight to figure it out or simply ask.

as for what men want, women continue to bet on pussy... but as stated in this thread, the value of pussy (where they've placed their bets) is at an all-time LOW. now, they're trying to figure out why they're losing.

frustration.
desperation.
whining.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You are absolutely right!!! I'm predisposed to speaking from the male perspective but it goes both ways. I've never picked easy lays tho, thats a turn off to me. I agree everyone is picking the wrong people in general tho. A lot of it has to do with the examples set for us when we are young. I have picked plenty a bad women in the past, but I like to think I have learned from my mistakes now (Especially after my last two relationships). I know where and when I fucked up starting at 19 on up, and every single good hearted girl that my ass had passed up chasing other qualities. Everybody is taking each other for granted. anybody that is halfway decent looking to the opposite sex that is of a certain age has had at least 3 good natured people that have been head over heels for them and said individual has been "Meh" about those "interested parties". We have to learn from our mistakes and raise the youth to not place too much emphasis on material and casual sex in relationships. Human currency is what we should be seeking. I mean sex and some material can be used as tools to enhance relationships, so they have a place, but by no means should they be the "sole defining" criteria for choosing a mate.

You're Mr. Different then.

We're all making bad choices. Bottomline. Pointing fingers at us saying "it's you and only you are fucking up and all our decisions are perfect" Is insane. Deeply disturbing. Our people are fucked. Not just the women.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Let's agree that this is all shitty. For black people we are chasing the white man's reality and that's why our shit is fucked up. Our forefathers and mothers did way better than what we are doing because the sit under the feet of the slavemaster and got a birds eye view of that fucking cesspool. Now we are so damn detached from everything and we do get to see the real. So, we black man and woman fall short of knowledge. We are still letting someone else's standard be what we look for. Women, know you need someone to love you. Men, know that you need someone to love you. Love each other, and fuck all that bullshit material shit, because that is what we are basing our relationships on. Find love. Find love. That is what we all need.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I would bump the Yurugu thread about relationships and shit but what's the point?

For both sides its really as simple as like should be with like.

You should be with someone who compliments you perfectly.

Compliments, for the instagram age group has nothing to do with looks.

it has everything to do with your philosophies on life
and your overall personality.

But you was liking all my pics tho...sowhatisusayin?

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

But you was liking all my pics tho...sowhatisusayin?

If you changed about 80% of who you are, it would be perfect

 

[Naha-Nago]

If you changed about 80% of who you are, it would be perfect

* two cents *

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

And for the record? I semi agree with the author. Women should approach men they like. It should be cool to do so. But the reality is. Alot of guys don't like being approached. They are intimidated by an assertive woman. It's all a roll of the dice. And that's how it should be. Fairly and equally done by all people.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

If you changed about 80% of who you are, it would be perfect

If you grew 80% taller and had a broader chest... and not be a pisces. You'd be spot on yaself.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

If you grew 80% taller and had a broader chest... and not be a pisces. You'd be spot on yaself.

There are pills, I'm trying. Just wait for me.

I'm already tall enough though.

 

[Naha-Nago]

I must be in some other world..

You must...pussy is so cheap you can buy it.

Woman however, can't buy love from the (type) of man they want though. They can only HOPE he CHOOSES to give it to her....



* two cents *

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

There are pills, I'm trying. Just wait for me.

I'm already tall enough though.

 

[Mello Mello]

lol I already added it. You just didn't like what was said. As your usual. My previous post asked what decent was. You said what you thought. I said it would be different.

And i was correct. Your view is the same material bullcrap view that whites have pounded into our heads for quite some time. Which is why we're having the problems we always do.

You stay flip flopping and moving the goal post.

So now my "decent" is the same material bullcrap view of whites when a few post back you just said it wasn't common and didn't fit the common definition of decent.

Your already in defense mode trying to hide.

Make up your mind, find a stance and stick to it then make a statement based on the thread topic or my reply.

If it makes enough sense I'll reply.

 

[Dr. Truth]

I have a 23 year old jump off that let's me piss in her face. Tell this cac slore to go kill herself.

 

[Mello Mello]

I have a 23 year old jump off that let's me piss in her face. Tell this cac slore to go kill herself.

Wow...

 

[Dr. Truth]

And for the record? I semi agree with the author. Women should approach men they like. It should be cool to do so. But the reality is. Alot of guys don't like being approached. They are intimidated by an assertive woman. It's all a roll of the dice. And that's how it should be. Fairly and equally done by all people.

Spoken like a bulldyke. US men love when women approach us. If she's fine or cute. We don't like you potato shaped bald headed hoes. It let's us know how gorgeous we are when a bitch walks over and is fawning over a nigga. Happens all the time. Even in front of the wife. It ain't easy being a beautiful man.

 

[max-dawg]

Spoken like a bulldyke. US men love when women approach us. If she's fine or cute. We don't like you potato shaped bald headed hoes. It let's us know how gorgeous we are when a bitch walks over and is fawning over a nigga. Happens all the time. Even in front of the wife. It ain't easy being a beautiful man.