leave the kids out of it smfh
fall back on that shit
its bullshit for many reasons. a) no pyschologist believes this b) you are not an expert in this field c) you cannot speak for individuals d) your dumbass theory then suggest if you are not a racist and love all women then you hate yourself. you make no logical sense.
I don't condone Blacks and white marriages
that's my opinion that's my my belief
whites aren't welcomed in my house.
if you want to fuck the people
that were your ancestors slave masters
that's on you.
you want to intermix with whites
that have
enslaved, crippled , killed,
lynched, raped, set on fire,
let there dogs attack,
sprayed with high pressure water hose,
and were used as experiments for std study's.
that's on you.
hey if you still want a white man/woman after all of what they have done, and your willing to trust them
and you feel
let by gone be by gone?
that's is your prerogative
in which
I believe is fucked up.
but that's my opinion
We don't know anything about each other however you've given me the opportunity to characterize you as angry, aggressive, and unintelligent, which would be a typical racist attitude towards a black man. The good thing is we don't have to have this conversation on that level... only if you want to.
If you don't take my word as truth investigate and draw your own conclusion. Sociologists and psychologists pretty much agree that blacks can be racists and that whites can be the victims of racism. For example, stereotyping all whites as prejudiced, intolerant, and callous would be racist by any psychologists definition, however, all stereotypes aren't tabooed to the same degree. My example- which you equated to racism- accepted blacks being proud about being black while viewing ourselves through our own lens, rather than through the distorted lens of others. There really isn't an argument to be made that the lens through which we are viewed is distorted, unless you're willing to ignore every ounce of this nations history. Therefore, nothing about my comment generalized white folks and can't be called reverse racism.
And racism is proactive... the reaction to racism is not reverse racism. It's not racist to say i'm pro-black in the midst of a black inferiority campaign, it's reactive.
On that, we fully agree. The most successful couples I've met are the ones who understand that.
Let me be very clear on this because I actually remember our conversation on that.
I care very much about my community but I understand what I can control and what I can't. What other people do in their homes with their families is out of my control so I don't spend serious time thinking about them.
I can't better or uplift anyone outside my immediate circle so I don't worry about it. I hope to teach my son through my and my wife's example of what to expect from a wife and I hope he finds a good partner like I did, with her ethnicity being secondary.
Outside my family and very close friends, these are people who I care about to some extent but only because my family is exposed to them, particularly my son.
No, she's crazy. Not saying a lot, hell most, of her antagonists aren't as crazy but she's one of them.
There are passionate people here, like yourself or Heat Mizer, that's not what's happening with her.
Thank you for your view. I disagree with it. But i'm not in the business of changing minds.
While all White people benefit from White privilege, most Whites were not slave masters/owners. Just like most Black people were not protesters, most Whites weren't out there attacking protesters, though they still benefitted from the system in place.
I don't condone Blacks and white marriages
that's my opinion that's my my belief
whites aren't welcomed in my house.
if you want to fuck the people
that were your ancestors slave masters
that's on you.
you want to intermix with whites
that have
enslaved, crippled , killed,
lynched, raped, set on fire,
let there dogs attack,
sprayed with high pressure water hose,
and were used as experiments for std study's.
that's on you.
hey if you still want a white man/woman after all of what they have done, and your willing to trust them
and you feel
let by gone be by gone?
that's is your prerogative
in which
I believe is fucked up.
but that's my opinion
hey if you still want a white man/woman
after all of what they have done,
and your willing to trust them and you feel
let by gone be by gone?
that's is your prerogative
We don't know anything about each other however you've given me the opportunity to characterize you as angry, aggressive, and unintelligent, which would be a typical racist attitude towards a black man. The good thing is we don't have to have this conversation on that level... only if you want to.
If you don't take my word as truth investigate and draw your own conclusion. Sociologists and psychologists pretty much agree that blacks can be racists and that whites can be the victims of racism. For example, stereotyping all whites as prejudiced, intolerant, and callous would be racist by any psychologists definition, however, all stereotypes aren't tabooed to the same degree. My example- which you equated to racism- accepted blacks being proud about being black while viewing ourselves through our own lens, rather than through the distorted lens of others. There really isn't an argument to be made that the lens through which we are viewed is distorted, unless you're willing to ignore every ounce of this nations history. Therefore, nothing about my comment generalized white folks and can't be called reverse racism.
And racism is proactive... the reaction to racism is not reverse racism. It's not racist to say i'm pro-black in the midst of a black inferiority campaign, it's reactive.
They can't argue with this other than to get angry and curse you out. But very good post. It's funny to me how being pro black family. Is seen as a bad thing.
What if that person hasn't done anything other than have the fortune of being born White in America?
On the real, why are you worried about what somebody else is doing?I don't condone Blacks and white marriages
that's my opinion that's my my belief...
according to stupid people
if you like all women or any beside your own=coon, dont love yourself, you can only be limited to black pigmentation
one white girl=entire white population and white people keeping you from having a job
stupid response. you just got hit with real shit and now you are resorting to juvenile tactics.
no white man would want your blackass with a bastard.
Bitchnigga tactics. They always fallback to them. You can't fight her fair. You can't fight her with tact. So what do you do? Hey i'll bring her kid into it.
if its REAL LOVE, I support it.
But, I SMH at mofos who ONLY date outside their race.
I won't say anything, but, I'll LMAO when shit goes wrong.
I ain't mad at Tiger, though.
He's NEVER been exposed to sistas in his life.
But, mofos like O.J. & Kobe who knowingly reject sistas for "others" deserve all the trouble they get into.
(over those broads)
i always think how would my grandparents feel if i brought home a white woman...when they were victims of extreme racism
how would they look at me after all the stuff they directly been through, would they just want me to be happy with a white women when they've seen people get killed for looking at them, when they were treated poorly and the laws were made so that they couldn't do anything for themselves of note?
would they be ok with it when they couldn't even drink from the same water fountain or eat in the same restaurants as them?
would they feel satisfaction that in this day and age i could date a white woman or would they feel disappointment on the inside because after all the fighting they did to get me to a point to where i can be successful the first thing i do is fraternize with the real enemy?
and when i say enemy i mean literally and figuratively
its my life i know, but if they hadn't fought real battles and hadn't made real sacrifices
this goes for my grandparents
and my parents who grew up in segregation dealt with riots and protests, marched so that i could live a somewhat easier life
i wouldn't be here
i don't owe them anything
but i owe them everything
me personally i couldn't do it.
that's just me
We already know people who date "exclusively outside" are fucked up in the head.You can date whomever you want... that doesn't make you anything in my book. What i'm saying is that those who only date white and chalk it up to "environment" are usually avoiding deeper issues. I'm also saying that if you avoid the past and current racial climate and excuse yourself by claiming this is a "new age," there are potential issues there as well. Fact is, if you haven't embraced your history and can't have a conversation with your white girlfriend, or her friends and family, without feeling marginalized or emasculated... it's a problem and you need to sort that out.
On the real, why are you worried about what somebody else is doing?
I can't bring myself to care, since its not gonna affect me one way or another.
Personally, I think its a bit gay to be dick-monitoring.
No matter what any of us think, it doesn't change anything.
I see fine ass chicks with ugly, fat mofos or nerdy, geek mofos sometimes.
I don't run up and punch them niggas out and start flexing for a bitch.
Whatever she saw in dude is what she saw. Don't hate the player...
That is the same way I feel about interracial relationships.
If it ain't affecting my dick, I don't give a shit.
Wisest shit said on this thread.Life is too short and hard for silly shit. If you find someone who wants to go through this shit with you and can make your life better, you better jump on it. Ultimately, your kids will still be Black.
Mo you don't like words being put in your mouth. Why are you doing it to him? He quite frankly said if you want to do all that, that's on you. He isn't dick monitoring. He said he's not even really caring. He said if that's what they want to do then so be it. As a matter of fact. I can't think of 1 person in this thread who said they'd attempt to stop any IR relationship.
Those of us who don't like it. Say we personally don't like it.
Legacy...READ WHAT I SAID.Mo you don't like words being put in your mouth. Why are you doing it to him? He quite frankly said if you want to do all that, that's on you. He isn't dick monitoring. He said he's not even really caring. He said if that's what they want to do then so be it. As a matter of fact. I can't think of 1 person in this thread who said they'd attempt to stop any IR relationship.
Those of us who don't like it. Say we personally don't like it.
I don't condone Blacks and white marriages
that's my opinion that's my my belief
whites aren't welcomed in my house.
if you want to fuck the people
that were your ancestors slave masters
that's on you.
you want to intermix with whites
that have
enslaved, crippled , killed,
lynched, raped, set on fire,
let there dogs attack,
sprayed with high pressure water hose,
and were used as experiments for std study's.
that's on you.
hey if you still want a white man/woman after all of what they have done, and your willing to trust them
and you feel
let by gone be by gone?
that's is your prerogative
in which
I believe is fucked up.
but that's my opinion
You can date whomever you want... that doesn't make you anything in my book. What i'm saying is that those who only date white and chalk it up to "environment" are usually avoiding deeper issues. I'm also saying that if you avoid the past and current racial climate and excuse yourself by claiming this is a "new age," there are potential issues there as well. Fact is, if you haven't embraced your history and can't have a conversation with your white girlfriend, or her friends and family, without feeling marginalized or emasculated... it's a problem and you need to sort that out.
We already know people who date "exclusively outside" are fucked up in the head.
I have a homeboy like that. I don't even kick it with dude anymore. We can't go to the same places. When you live in a predominantly white area, sometimes you just want to get away from the white social environment. This nigga is ALWAYS trying to be the token, so we run in different social circles now. I know what my boy's problem is.
This pretty red bitch crushed his lil' heart back in the day and he stopped fucking with sistas.
He stays cooning because he's a sucker for white bitches but he's afraid to trust sistas. He also has issues with his mom. All that shit comes into play.
I told that nigga to patch that shit up with his mom. Once she's gone, that opportunity is, too. Some niggas don't hear me, tho.
Legacy...READ WHAT I SAID.
I said...AND I QUOTE:
"Personally, I think its a bit gay to be dick-monitoring"
Personally means "MY OPINION"
I see it as dick-monitoring. Don't start that strawman shit, please. That is Lonestar's big ass flaw. She does that. That's why she gets disrespected in the way that she does.
I respect what he said. He doesn't like it. I get it. You don't like it, either. I get it. Still, I never worry about where another nigga puts his dick and I think its a bit gay to do so. That is MY stance on the subject.
I can't get any clearer than that.
On the real, why are you worried about what somebody else is doing?
Actually, he is. He very clearly is but saying he isn't.
Fuck all that.You said.
I said. He's not. There is no confusion anywhere to be had other than what you have stituted. You addressed him. It wouldn't have been ANY confusion on who you were talking too or what you were talking about if YOU were just voicing YOUR view. Lots of people have voiced their views in this thread. And they haven't been responded too because i think it was taken as that. But you responded to him. Saying, On the real, why are you worried about what somebody else is doing. When it CLEARLY said in his post. He's NOT.
He said if you choose to do it. It's your thing. Don't try to attack Lone here. This isn't anything about lone. This is about what you're saying another poster is doing when they're clearly saying they're not. You then are trying to insinuate that he's somehow homosexual and dick monitoring. Because your post which quoted him, and in messageboard world, when you quote someone, unless you say so specifically, you're "speaking" to them.
Now if you were not speaking directly TO him. And you weren't really even intending your post to be towards him even though you did address him.
Fine.
I'm going to take him at his word. Because it's illogical to assume that he's going around and when he says ir couples he's pushing them apart and saying NO! NO! STOP IT! I just don't see him doing that.
I've never done it. I think what the real problem here is those guys who like white women and think it's all hunky dory are really just upset that they're told they won't be invited to family cookouts. My cousin right now is beefing with the rest of the family about him bringing his white girl to my house. When he knew that wasn't allowed. Now he's gotten to the bitch and hoe name calling. I don't believe it's even about the white woman. I believe it's about him just not getting his way. That's at the heart of it.
Fuck all that.
I don't give a damn about what "he said" - if you are worried about where another nigga's dick is going, its dick-monitoring. What "he said" does not supercede what I observed him saying before that. That shit is contradicting. How can you say that you don't approve of something and then turn around and say you don't care? That's bullshit. You DO care. If you didn't, you wouldn't give a shit one way or another.
That's like saying "I hate nigg3rs, but I'm not racist"
The fuck you ain't. Like what somebody says is going to supercede my perceptions of observation. Nobody can tell me what to think. GTFOHWTBS. Either you care or you don't.
Understood.
I don't have to ask that question because I already know: as long as I'm where I want to be and I'm happy, they're happy. That was the way they accepted it when my aunt married a White man so I think that would hold for me.
Life is too short and hard for silly shit. If you find someone who wants to go through this shit with you and can make your life better, you better jump on it. Ultimately, your kids will still be Black.
Fuck all that.
I don't give a damn about what "he said" - if you are worried about where another nigga's dick is going, its dick-monitoring. What "he said" does not supercede what I observed him saying before that. That shit is contradicting. How can you say that you don't approve of something and then turn around and say you don't care? That's bullshit. You DO care. If you didn't, you wouldn't give a shit one way or another.
That's like saying "I hate nigg3rs, but I'm not racist"
The fuck you ain't. Like what somebody says is going to supercede my perceptions of observation. Nobody can tell me what to think. GTFOHWTBS. Either you care or you don't.
Dude said:
Originally Posted by worldclass45
I don't condone Blacks and white marriages
that's my opinion that's my my belief
whites aren't welcomed in my house.
That is what I responded to. If whites aren't welcomed in his house and he doesn't condone b&w marriages, then how is it that "he does not care"? That's bullshit. He does.
Ain't nothing wrong with his opinion. That's how he feels. Still, he - just like you - DOES CARE. So fuck what you are talking about? Just because someone says they are one way doesn't mean that's the case. Own your shit. If you are a bigot - own your shit. I have a couple of bigoted views about certain things. I own my shit, though.
Why are you rushing to the defense of that post? Are you dude's lady or something? I thought you fucked with females? He's a grown ass man. He can speak for himself.
I believe that he don't like b&w relationships. I believe he won't let white folks in his house. I DON'T believe that he doesn't care because if he didn't care he would be indifferent on the subject. THAT IS WHAT NOT CARING IS. You can take whoever whatever they tell you - don't expect ME to give a shit about what somebody else says just because they say it. I don't have to believe shit. Its nothing against playboy but to not care means to be indifferent. It doesn't mean you are actively trying to prevent something. There is a vast space between not giving a shit and setting a house on fire to run an IR couple out of the neighborhood. He is somewhere in there and so are you but don't front like its indifference.