Interracial Relationship Documentary. Are you for it or against it???

[Lattimore]

People frequently make important decisions based on their assessments of the personality of others. A decision regarding who should baby-sit your children will depend at least partly on how reliable and conscientious you judge your choices of baby-sitters to be; and who you decide to marry might depend on how trustworthy and loving you judge your dating partner to be. People will make better decisions when they accurately judge the personality of others, and knowledge about the process of accurate judgment may help people make more accurate judgments. One important aspect of the process of accurate judgment concerns the person making the judgment, or the judge. Theorizing about the good judge posits that a good judge should be knowledgeable about how personality relates to behavior, have high levels of cognitive ability and general intelligence, and be motivated to be accurate, among other characteristics.

I think this is the most relevant portion of your last post. If we can agree on that then let's take the next step and admit that people assign certain character traits to certain groups. Religion, law, politics, art, literature, and even science are satiated with cue's that blacks are inferior in every respect. So, in order for people to make "accurate judgements" of other people they have to acknowledge, understand, recognize, and address all of the cues and how they've skewed peoples ability to make judgments. Accurate judgements is a loaded term in the context of America... when handling this topic.

 

[FamoBenton]

I have no problem with interracial dating.

I have a problem with intra-racial hatred, which unfortunately is a common cause of interracial dating, particularly in the black community.

 

[kotf]

I have never been against minorities dating each other(we share the same life experience) but when a brother or a sister does it I feel they are missing something in their DNA..but to tell the truth I dont give a fuck what anybody does with their life.

well said!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Yes. I don't see how the question is so confusing.

Of course you don't. Just as you have high expectations for men but not women, I have them for women as well so the way we see people is going to be different.

You didn't specify who you were really speaking of. That's what was hard to understand. And black women can tow the line when properly guided. Which is what many of them really want.

The problem is expecting women to lead is not going to work. They're not supposed too. And if i remember right you've said you don't care about anyone else but your family. So why would you have expectations of black women, at all?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

whites are more than double the black population...they can lose a few while we being a minority & now having numbers lower than hispanics now...we can't...

WOW...............

WOW.

You get it. Holy....wow.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You are the 2nd black male to speak of the black race dying out like its a good thing

AND you just spoke of a black/black relationship like it was a bad thing talkin bout she stuck and no other race wants her...wow

You are the sheer definition of a coon

They can't wait to be accepted.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

bs, you know what I mean.

No i do not.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

It saddens me to admit this but in 99% of the cases I'm not for it. In an overwhelming number of instances black men or women who date white people do so bc they suffer from a massive deep seeded inferiority complex; that they themselves don't even recognize. To most, being with a white person offers more access or acceptance... all of the sudden they're exceptional compared to other blacks. This holds true for asians, indians, and many other minority groups that date exclusively white.

With all that said, It's impossible for me to accept anyone who's involved interracially that doesn't acknowledge, accept, and understand the influence that race has played and the trauma it continues to cause. Religion, law, politics, art, literature, and even science are satiated with cue's that blacks are inferior. If you in any way don't acknowledge, understand, recognize, and address this you can't comprehend the implications of dating outside of your race and you have no business doing so.

As a parent of two black boys it troubles me. My wife and I talk about it all the time and have concluded that in 99% of the cases parents accept and justify interracial relationships bc they've raised their kids in predominately white environments. In many instances the parents failed to expose and reinforce their kids to significant black experiences (happens on here all the time... black colleges are inferior, etc. we just discount our shit: summarily). WE ARE THE ONLY GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT VIEW OURSELVES THROUGH THE LENSE OF OUR FORMER OPPRESSOR/ SUBJUGATOR CONTROLLER, ETC. WE WE'RENT ALLOWED TO COMMUNICATE FOR SO LONG THAT THE MISTRUST IS ALMOST CELLULAR AND OUR VANTAGE OF OURSELVES IS THROUGH WHITE PEOPLES LENSE.

On a deeper level black families, for a majority of the time spent here, have existed in a perpetual state of instability. We've, for too long, found ourselves dependent upon the benevolence of our oppressors for safety.

I doubt you will be addressed. They hate the black family here the majority do. They hate themselves. They do not want to see black families progress.

 

[LoneStar29]

I doubt you will be addressed. They hate the black family here the majority do. They hate themselves. They do not want to see black families progress.

I KNEW they wouldnt address him

These pussies only go after women with different opinions on here

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I have close ppl to me that have had their in laws say some racist ass shit...or just blatantly not accept him/her because of race...

why even deal with that...?

whats wrong with being with your own black love is great...like another brotha said usually blacks that chase or lust for whites or whoever usually have a deep inferiority complex...

then you have kids that have no true identity they get hate from either side cuz they aren't authentic enough I talk to my mix shorties in my fam & you see this complex....why even set up yourself or your child(ren) for that kind of bullshit like being black you ain't got to deal with enough?

Remember they do not care. They believe that "i'm doing this for their own benefit. whites will accept them". Read Lazarus's post then read finger's and john blackcorn's.

 

[Fuzzy_McNut]

I need a good laugh....fuck it keep it up.


Addressing....no one addresed fngers last post that ethered any and every last post in here. He didn't need to addres anyone wth a direct quote....that posts addresed everyone one of u racist ass I'll disown my kids prejudice heartless people.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I KNEW they wouldnt address him

These pussies only go after women with different opinions on here

Always. I've seen the trend now. If you're a man with a differing opinion? They don't speak. But a woman? Sexism as well as self hatred is so prevalent it's atmosphere thick.

 

[FamoBenton]

It saddens me to admit this but in 99% of the cases I'm not for it. In an overwhelming number of instances black men or women who date white people do so bc they suffer from a massive deep seeded inferiority complex; that they themselves don't even recognize. To most, being with a white person offers more access or acceptance... all of the sudden they're exceptional compared to other blacks. This holds true for asians, indians, and many other minority groups that date exclusively white.

With all that said, It's impossible for me to accept anyone who's involved interracially that doesn't acknowledge, accept, and understand the influence that race has played and the trauma it continues to cause. Religion, law, politics, art, literature, and even science are satiated with cue's that blacks are inferior. If you in any way don't acknowledge, understand, recognize, and address this you can't comprehend the implications of dating outside of your race and you have no business doing so.

As a parent of two black boys it troubles me. My wife and I talk about it all the time and have concluded that in 99% of the cases parents accept and justify interracial relationships bc they've raised their kids in predominately white environments. In many instances the parents failed to expose and reinforce their kids to significant black experiences (happens on here all the time... black colleges are inferior, etc. we just discount our shit: summarily). WE ARE THE ONLY GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT VIEW OURSELVES THROUGH THE LENSE OF OUR FORMER OPPRESSOR/ SUBJUGATOR CONTROLLER, ETC. WE WE'RENT ALLOWED TO COMMUNICATE FOR SO LONG THAT THE MISTRUST IS ALMOST CELLULAR AND OUR VANTAGE OF OURSELVES IS THROUGH WHITE PEOPLES LENSE.

On a deeper level black families, for a majority of the time spent here, have existed in a perpetual state of instability. We've, for too long, found ourselves dependent upon the benevolence of our oppressors for safety.

Great post. I'm purposely quoting this so that everybody (men and women) with a myopic view on the subject can see the big picture.

But the sad part is...they won't.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I'm not suggesting that you should have "something in your life that can exist fine out side of your sphere" at all... your sphere is your sphere, and what you choose to have in it is entirely up to you.

The question about the EMT was me trying to see if your disdain/dislike/hatred towards white people was so strong that you would refuse some sort of emergency assistance if you needed it... (although I had a feeling that you were gonna say something like what you said... that you're surrounded by your own personal team of black EMTs & doctors 24/7, lol.) and if you would refuse it, was it purely because you're honoring your husband's wishes, or did you experience some racism from white people that made you that way... I was just trying to understand your thinking a little better.

The thing i'm saying is the POINT of living in a black community is for everyone to participate. And care for 1 another. I don't HATE white people. I'd rather improve black people. We as black people have helped improve white people enough. There's a lawyer we're connected with as well who's established and is pretty good. The only problem we have is with getting things done in this area without whites saying we can't because of "zoning" issues. And then them wanting to put black commissioners in our business who all they want to do is get paid. And run to the whites and tell them what we're doing is a BAD thing.

The connection that people don't understand is that there's a bigger picture than just YOU. That's the problem we've faced from the beginning. It's not just YOUR happiness. Black men are supposed to be something they clearly are NOT. Which those Umar Johnson threads were supposed to be about.

Do you realize that if you lived in a black community and used the resources in THAT community what you could accomplish? Black families could be together and happy. They could build black responsible children together. They could work together to get black children educated and into college? But i understand that to many black men it's all about what they can stick their dicks into. Fuck the future.

 

[LoneStar29]

Always. I've seen the trend now. If you're a man with a differing opinion? They don't speak. But a woman? Sexism as well as self hatred is so prevalent it's atmosphere thick.

Exactly!!!!!!!!

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

what's this thread about?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

what's this thread about?

Your love of white women.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

Your love of white women.

who's

 

[Upgrade Dave]

You didn't specify who you were really speaking of. That's what was hard to understand. And black women can tow the line when properly guided. Which is what many of them really want.

Re-read it, I was specific.
I fully agree. Women in general just like to be led by competent men. Some men don't understand that and a lot of women deny it and make their own lives difficult.

The problem is expecting women to lead is not going to work. They're not supposed too. And if i remember right you've said you don't care about anyone else but your family. So why would you have expectations of black women, at all?

Because my son will probably marry one. My brother will marry one. I spend a lot of time around them, professionally and socially so I expect Black women to be productive, well adjusted people.
I don't expect women to lead their men, that would be unnatural, I expect them to be able to lead themselves and not just let shit happen to them and play the victim role. You can't control what happens around you but you can control how you respond. If you respond to life's difficulties with bitterness and anger, you're failing. I expect women, same with men, to understand what they're doing to fuck up their own lives and fix it.
If that's expecting too much, that would explain why so many women have fucked lonely lives.

I doubt you will be addressed. They hate the black family here the majority do. They hate themselves. They do not want to see black families progress.

I didn't answer him because he had a well thought out, reasonable answer. If you want a response on this board, you have to be an asshole and say crazy shit. See how LS gets pages and pages of responses and even gets threads dedicated to her. Crazy gets attention on this board, maturity and reason, not so much.

who's

Apparently, yours.

 

[lazarus]

Is the percentage that important to you? How about I say in an overwhelming majority of instances people who enter into interracial relationships do so bc of a deep seeded inferiority complex.

And nothing I've said is bullshit which is why you'll try to find any trivial reason to call it such.

its bullshit for many reasons. a) no pyschologist believes this b) you are not an expert in this field c) you cannot speak for individuals d) your dumbass theory then suggest if you are not a racist and love all women then you hate yourself. you make no logical sense.

 

[LoneStar29]

its bullshit for many reasons. a) no pyschologist believes this b) you are not an expert in this field c) you cannot speak for individuals d) your dumbass theory then suggest if you are not a racist and love all women then you hate yourself. you make no logical sense.

Most bm date IR cuz they believe what they are told about bw being inferior to other races of women ... there are thousands of posts on here to support this point

/thread

 

[lazarus]

lonestar you have got to be the dumbest bitter bitch i ever met. you must have got raped by a white man. your Arguments make no logical sense and are based in emotion lile a typical bitch. reading is fundamental. even the post below you are talking out your ass and making it up as you go. any census projection shows blacks maintimg the same percentage about while whites lose big time. minorities will be the majority. if anyone has a self problem, its your low self confidence, understandable because no white man would want your blackass with a bastard. if you are mad about who someone else dates then you got issues

 

[LoneStar29]

lonestar you have got to be the dumbest bitter bitch i ever met. you must have got raped by a white man. your Arguments make no logical sense and are based in emotion lile a typical bitch. reading is fundamental. any census projection shows blacks maintimg the same percentage about while whites lose big time. minorities will be the majority. if anyone has a self problem, its your low self confidence, understandable because no white man would want your blackass with a bastard. if you are mad about who someone else dates then you got issues

Nigga what???

This post reads like someone on the short bus wrote it

I have no fuckin clue what you are trying to say in this post

Unless you can find someone who has higher than a 3rd grade education to debate me on your behalf then I guess I win rotfl

 

[Sowada]

lonestar you have got to be the dumbest bitter bitch i ever met. you must have got raped by a white man. your Arguments make no logical sense and are based in emotion lile a typical bitch. reading is fundamental. even the post below you are talking out your ass and making it up as you go. any census projection shows blacks maintimg the same percentage about while whites lose big time. minorities will be the majority. if anyone has a self problem, its your low self confidence, understandable because no white man would want your blackass with a bastard. if you are mad about who someone else dates then you got issues

this will now become a 20 pg thread

 

[Top_Bunk]

lonestar you have got to be the dumbest bitter bitch i ever met. you must have got raped by a white man. your Arguments make no logical sense and are based in emotion lile a typical bitch. reading is fundamental. even the post below you are talking out your ass and making it up as you go. any census projection shows blacks maintimg the same percentage about while whites lose big time. minorities will be the majority. if anyone has a self problem, its your low self confidence, understandable because no white man would want your blackass with a bastard. if you are mad about who someone else dates then you got issues

No white man is going to raise a black boy who is already growing into his own person....most people want to already have had an influence on the child like when they are really young. So no white man will wife her up.

 

[LoneStar29]

No white man is going to raise a black boy who is already growing into his own person....most people want to already have had an influence on the child like when they are really young. So no white man will wife her up.

Who said I was looking for a father for my son to begin with

And I will admit that black men do not like or want me but that is not true for white men and other races, I meet alot of men from other races who appreciate the qualities I have that black men take for granted or dont even want to begin with

Just cuz bm dont value me doesnt mean other races feel the same way

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re-read it, I was specific.
I fully agree. Women in general just like to be led by competent men. Some men don't understand that and a lot of women deny it and make their own lives difficult.

Well i don't believe you were. But i'm not going back to look so i'll take your word for it. MOST men don't understand it. Especially most black men don't understand that women want to be lead by competent men. And women can deny it all they like. But the truth is buried in them. It shows in their actions.

Because my son will probably marry one. My brother will marry one. I spend a lot of time around them, professionally and socially so I expect Black women to be productive, well adjusted people.
I don't expect women to lead their men, that would be unnatural, I expect them to be able to lead themselves and not just let shit happen to them and play the victim role. You can't control what happens around you but you can control how you respond. If you respond to life's difficulties with bitterness and anger, you're failing. I expect women, same with men, to understand what they're doing to fuck up their own lives and fix it.
If that's expecting too much, that would explain why so many women have fucked lonely lives.

But i'm seriously remembering you saying on multiple occasions you dont care about your community. You don't care about your people. You only care about your family. Which is fine. I've said before that not everyone is going to be down. Your idea that your son will marry a black woman doesn't make you want to see upliftment and betterment of your people? Grandchildren?

I was taught that you can live a selfish life until you involve other people in your it. You can think it's all about you, until you have children who have no choice. And from that point on you have to think about your environment. What you want them to learn. And what you want them to care about and do for their futures. So you have to care about what's going on around you. And you have to effect the things that you can. In such case. The neighborhood you live in.

I understand many don't share this sentiment. I used to not share this sentiment until i saw it actually work.

I didn't answer him because he had a well thought out, reasonable answer. If you want a response on this board, you have to be an asshole and say crazy shit. See how LS gets pages and pages of responses and even gets threads dedicated to her. Crazy gets attention on this board, maturity and reason, not so much.

She's not crazy. She's passionate and slinging back the same mud that's been slung at her.



Apparently, yours. [/QUOTE]

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

No white man is going to raise a black boy who is already growing into his own person....most people want to already have had an influence on the child like when they are really young. So no white man will wife her up.

While i don't think white men are the answer. It's not really true that they won't "wife up" black women with kids. It's becoming more prevalent. Much to my chagrin.

Who said I was looking for a father for my son to begin with

And I will admit that black men do not like or want me but that is not true for white men and other races, I meet alot of men from other races who appreciate the qualities I have that black men take for granted or dont even want to begin with

Just cuz bm dont value me doesnt mean other races feel the same way

They're projecting.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

leave the kids out of it smfh
fall back on that shit

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Well i don't believe you were. But i'm not going back to look so i'll take your word for it. MOST men don't understand it. Especially most black men don't understand that women want to be lead by competent men. And women can deny it all they like. But the truth is buried in them. It shows in their actions.

On that, we fully agree. The most successful couples I've met are the ones who understand that.

But i'm seriously remembering you saying on multiple occasions you dont care about your community. You don't care about your people. You only care about your family. Which is fine. I've said before that not everyone is going to be down. Your idea that your son will marry a black woman doesn't make you want to see upliftment and betterment of your people? Grandchildren?

Let me be very clear on this because I actually remember our conversation on that.
I care very much about my community but I understand what I can control and what I can't. What other people do in their homes with their families is out of my control so I don't spend serious time thinking about them.
I can't better or uplift anyone outside my immediate circle so I don't worry about it. I hope to teach my son through my and my wife's example of what to expect from a wife and I hope he finds a good partner like I did, with her ethnicity being secondary.

I was taught that you can live a selfish life until you involve other people in your it. You can think it's all about you, until you have children who have no choice. And from that point on you have to think about your environment. What you want them to learn. And what you want them to care about and do for their futures. So you have to care about what's going on around you. And you have to effect the things that you can. In such case. The neighborhood you live in.

Outside my family and very close friends, these are people who I care about to some extent but only because my family is exposed to them, particularly my son.

She's not crazy. She's passionate and slinging back the same mud that's been slung at her.

No, she's crazy. Not saying a lot, hell most, of her antagonists aren't as crazy but she's one of them.
There are passionate people here, like yourself or Heat Mizer, that's not what's happening with her.

 

[Mentor B]

what's this thread about?

It's about how people don't even know you but still concerned about who you fuck regarding race.

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[Upgrade Dave]

It's about how people don't even know you but still concerned about who you fuck.

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[LoneStar29]

It's a thread highlighting just how many coons there really are on bgol


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I fixed that for you

 

[lazarus]

stupid response. you just got hit with real shit and now you are resorting to juvenile tactics.

You dont have any black pride, lets just keep it real

You praise ONLY the beauty of mixed women and are happy that the black race is dying out in north america and that everyone will be mixed

you're a coon...lets just face it



@ the bolded

Coons like you worship and have babies with ww so your kids are half black ... guaranteed your son will also be a coon and do the same so his son will be 1/4 black ... then your coon grandson will do the same and so on and so forth until there is no more blackness to see in your particular gene pool

This is what is happening right now at an alarming rate

The day I cape for white folks is the day that institutionalized racism no longer exists ... you coons are ride or dying for mothafuckas who STILL till this day do all they can to keep your black ass down and their white asses up but here you go on your knees with the white mans dick in your mouth gargling and caping hard as fuck just so you can have the chance to stick your little dried up raisin dick in his herpes invested slut daughters cunt

Bitch you are a fail of epic porportions

Nigga what???

This post reads like someone on the short bus wrote it

I have no fuckin clue what you are trying to say in this post

Unless you can find someone who has higher than a 3rd grade education to debate me on your behalf then I guess I win rotfl

 

[CT's Finest]

As far as interracial relationships go, love who you love. Be attracted to who you are attracted to. My only issue is for the self hating people of the world. For example black people who won't date (or even associate with) other black people due to that self hatred. That makes no sense to me. But in the end, who someone else is with is their business. So if you happen to be with someone outside your "race", and you're happy, I respect it and I am happy for you.