Interracial Relationship Documentary. Are you for it or against it???

[Upgrade Dave]

They wouldn't outwardly be upset they'd support me but that isn't the point though, im not scared of possible repercussions i just realize honestly we aren't really that far removed. like i said my mom and dad went to schools with white kids until they became a certain age and then had to go to all black schools segregated
my grandmother rode on the back of the bus
its not as long ago as some of us make it seem
wounds too fresh i suppose

I understand that but with that thinking, when will we be?
For me, I'm not greater than God and if God sent me a person to complement me, who am I to reject that person because of some fake shit like race?
My mother was one of those troublemakers from the 60s. I have uncles and aunts on my father's side who tell me my mother opened their eyes to a lot and changed their thinking. I'll never forget her forcing me and my brother as very young boys to watch "Eyes on the Prize" and us being pissed off. Years later, we couldn't get enough of it. But the lesson I got was: it's not okay to be like "them". White folks love and need racism and classism and materialism and sexism. They love to divide themselves into groups and hierarchies so they can discriminate. Unfortunately, many of us are dying to be just like them and have adopted their worst traits.

Why is it only black people that cape for other races, from the way most of you are playing voltron defendor of the CAC, You would honestly think these becky's cape for you the same way....but noo they are probably ashamed of you to their families. Maybe the 300 pound ones will cape for you because no one wants them.

Who are you talking about? I don't see anyone defending White people. I see men defending the choices of free people to live as they see fit.

C/S. Anyone who actually believes the black race is in danger of "dying out", or simply spouts that shit because they think (not something these people are especially good at doing) it will help their bullshit argument (even though black/non-black couples are less than 10%) is a complete idiot.

When I hear some broad spout that shit, I know what she's really saying and why. Women are the most selfish creatures on the planet and whatever views they may hold, have more to do mainly with the following:

a. Being told something enough times (mainly via the media) as the female mind is like silly putty due to it's malleability. This is why a big part of Hitler's success was getting the hearts and minds of the women.

b. Their circumstances and how it affects them (i.e. can't keep a man for whatever reason, getting butthurt over seeing black men with broads of other races/ethnicities). This is more of a driving factor in the formation of their views than actual convictions based on a critical analysis of their observations, or an introspective, critical look at their experiences. For a lot of women (like the one you're addressing), ideology is nothing more than a facade.

In short, these broads are full of shit.

The number 1 cause for death for black men is another black man. Put that with, the one who're marrying white women. Put that with the brothers in prison. Put that with the brothers dying of AID's. And put that with the ones who are homosexual.

There aren't enough of you.

I thought the number 1 killer of Black men was heart disease.

 

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I thought the number 1 killer of Black men was heart disease.

percent

1) Heart disease 26.6
2) Cancer 24.5
3) Unintentional injuries 6.5
4) Chronic lower respiratory diseases 5.3
5) Stroke 4.4
6) Diabetes 2.8
7) Suicide 2.3
8) Influenza and pneumonia 2.2
9) Alzheimer's disease 1.9
10) Kidney disease 1.7


Again, this whole thread took a complete left. It was never about just black and white, that's what most people made it to be.

So this is what I learned, from a lot of people in this thread-



-If you date outside your race, you're less pro black, coon, or sell out.

-If you have mix kids, they will have identity issues

-If you date outside your race, you can't help the black communities or help build them.

-If you date outside your race, you're disrespecting your ancestors.

-If you date outside your race, you will be look as a nigg*r by your partner.

If you date outside your race, you will blah blah blah ...etc

 

[LoneStar29]

That bitch is Retarded

Half the guys on here hate bw but still post on BLACK GIRL online

If they can still be here then so can I.......

Why is it only black people that cape for other races, from the way most of you are playing voltron defendor of the CAC, You would honestly think these becky's cape for you the same way....but noo they are probably ashamed of you to their families. Maybe the 300 pound ones will cape for you because no one wants them.

Quoted for emphasis

 

[Upgrade Dave]

percent

1) Heart disease 26.6
2) Cancer 24.5
3) Unintentional injuries 6.5
4) Chronic lower respiratory diseases 5.3
5) Stroke 4.4
6) Diabetes 2.8
7) Suicide 2.3
8) Influenza and pneumonia 2.2
9) Alzheimer's disease 1.9
10) Kidney disease 1.7

So I'm not trippin'?

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

So I'm not trippin'?

nope, but whatever happen to looking for ,Physical attraction, Honesty, Emotional and mental strength, Faithfullness, Uniqueness, truthfulness, great conversation, intimacy on demand, shared experiences, being kind heart, humble, compassion, openmindedness, effort, friendship, LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST, INTIMACY AND FIRENDSHIP, Commitment, compromise, compassion, trust, passion, sexual compatibility and Unconditional love.

People will be surprise how far they will get, if they had a strong supportive parnter, no matter what color he or she is

 

[Upgrade Dave]

nope, but whatever happen to looking for ,Physical attraction, Honesty, Emotional and mental strength, Faithfullness, Uniqueness, truthfulness, great conversation, intimacy on demand, shared experiences, being kind heart, humble, compassion, openmindedness, effort, friendship, LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST, INTIMACY AND FIRENDSHIP, Commitment, compromise, compassion, trust, passion, sexual compatibility and Unconditional love.

People will be surprise how far they will get, if they had a strong supportive parnter, no matter what color he or she is

Amen


Though to be honest, I don't believe in romantic unconditional love.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I understand that but with that thinking, when will we be?
For me, I'm not greater than God and if God sent me a person to complement me, who am I to reject that person because of some fake shit like race?
My mother was one of those troublemakers from the 60s. I have uncles and aunts on my father's side who tell me my mother opened their eyes to a lot and changed their thinking. I'll never forget her forcing me and my brother as very young boys to watch "Eyes on the Prize" and us being pissed off. Years later, we couldn't get enough of it. But the lesson I got was: it's not okay to be like "them". White folks love and need racism and classism and materialism and sexism. They love to divide themselves into groups and hierarchies so they can discriminate. Unfortunately, many of us are dying to be just like them and have adopted their worst traits.

Interesting post. So your mother SEEMED TO BE down for the cause and you basically rejected it? I've watched that myself. It's true though each person takes something different out of each thing. See your quote below. You take it as that. I see it as totally different.

Who are you talking about? I don't see anyone defending White people. I see men defending the choices of free people to live as they see fit.

I thought the number 1 killer of Black men was heart disease.

I misspoke. The number 1 killer of black people is black people.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

percent

1) Heart disease 26.6
2) Cancer 24.5
3) Unintentional injuries 6.5
4) Chronic lower respiratory diseases 5.3
5) Stroke 4.4
6) Diabetes 2.8
7) Suicide 2.3
8) Influenza and pneumonia 2.2
9) Alzheimer's disease 1.9
10) Kidney disease 1.7


Again, this whole thread took a complete left. It was never about just black and white, that's what most people made it to be.

So this is what I learned, from a lot of people in this thread-



-If you date outside your race, you're less pro black, coon, or sell out.

-If you have mix kids, they will have identity issues

-If you date outside your race, you can't help the black communities or help build them.

-If you date outside your race, you're disrespecting your ancestors.

-If you date outside your race, you will be look as a nigg*r by your partner.

If you date outside your race, you will blah blah blah ...etc

Who has ever stopped you from fucking all the white women you've wanted to your hearts content? Who has ever stopped you from marrying a white woman? Who has stopped you from doing whatever it is you've wanted with a white woman?

You want to be white women, go ahead. Nobody can stop you. But there are those of us who care about where we're headed as a people. And there are those of us who don't. Your posts indicate you don't. All you care about is where you can stick your dick. Which no one can stop that. What are you exactly upset about? What exactly are you arguing against?

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Interesting post. So your mother SEEMED TO BE down for the cause and you basically rejected it? I've watched that myself. It's true though each person takes something different out of each thing. See your quote below. You take it as that. I see it as totally different.

My mother didn't "seem to be" anything. She was and is. Where do you see me rejecting anything? In fact, I've followed closely in her footsteps. She made her children and family her first priority because I can't save anyone else if my shit is burning down around me.

I misspoke. The number 1 killer of black people is black people.

Yep.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

nope, but whatever happen to looking for ,Physical attraction, Honesty, Emotional and mental strength, Faithfullness, Uniqueness, truthfulness, great conversation, intimacy on demand, shared experiences, being kind heart, humble, compassion, openmindedness, effort, friendship, LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST, INTIMACY AND FIRENDSHIP, Commitment, compromise, compassion, trust, passion, sexual compatibility and Unconditional love.

People will be surprise how far they will get, if they had a strong supportive parnter, no matter what color he or she is

People(black) will be surprised how far they will get, if they had a strong supportive partner(who is also black). Look at the video i posted. I know you might not like it. Because he speaks about black unity.

He speaks about black men and women together. Working together. To improve us as a people.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

You want to be white women, go ahead. Nobody can stop you. But there are those of us who care about where we're headed as a people. And there are those of us who don't. Your posts indicate you don't. All you care about is where you can stick your dick. Which no one can stop that. What are you exactly upset about? What exactly are you arguing against?

Not speaking for finger here


I'm arguing against the idea that who you are attracted to/date/marry makes you less passionate about the conditions of Black people. Many great Black Americans who have broken down barriers for the masses of Black folks, from abolition to today, have had non-Black spouses. This type of projection is seen by many as a false dichotomy.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

People(black) will be surprised how far they will get, if they had a strong supportive partner(who is also black). Look at the video i posted. I know you might not like it. Because he speaks about black unity.

He speaks about black men and women together. Working together. To improve us as a people.

And we can't do that with a non-Black spouse?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

My mother didn't "seem to be" anything. She was and is. Where do you see me rejecting anything? In fact, I've followed closely in her footsteps. She made her children and family her first priority because I can't save anyone else if my shit is burning down around me.

Yep.

So you agree, then. There aren't enough black men to "waste"? And of course i said SEEMED TO BE. Because of the limited information i gleaned from THAT POST. I didn't want to make an assumption. You know how it goes around here. I see you rejecting her beliefs by your posts. Or maybe we have different definitions of down for the cause then?

You keep emphasizing how you will only care for your family and ALL you can do is just this or that. Is that what you gleaned from that documentary? ALL You can do is care about your family? You can't control what happens around you talk is defeatist to me and is not what i gleaned from those who came before us. You can control it. You can change what's going on.

 

[LoneStar29]

And we can't do that with a non-Black spouse?

Well there have been many brothas in the civil rights movement who had ww and still fought the good fight so yeah its possible

But why leave bw out of the equation if you are trying to improve black people?? Why build with someone who is entitled already instead of building with someone who needs you??? I never understood that

I dont understand the fascination with whites overall ... I really feel they are the least attractive of all races ... it annoys me that so many people have drunk the koolaid regarding them

 

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Who has ever stopped you from fucking all the white women you've wanted to your hearts content? Who has ever stopped you from marrying a white woman? Who has stopped you from doing whatever it is you've wanted with a white woman?

You want to be white women, go ahead. Nobody can stop you. But there are those of us who care about where we're headed as a people. And there are those of us who don't. Your posts indicate you don't. All you care about is where you can stick your dick. Which no one can stop that. What are you exactly upset about? What exactly are you arguing against?

When did I say anything about fucking all the white women or marrying a white woman? Why when a black person talks about dating outside their race, it automatically have to be a white person with you? Guess what, my girl is a black women, but that doesn't stop me from thinking outside the box. Life is too short and if people can find a person that will support and love them no matter what color they are, then I'm all for it! You know what I'm against, Stop it! And for the man in the video, I actually sat down and talked to him in maryland.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Not speaking for finger here


I'm arguing against the idea that who you are attracted to/date/marry makes you less passionate about the conditions of Black people. Many great Black Americans who have broken down barriers for the masses of Black folks, from abolition to today, have had non-Black spouses. This type of projection is seen by many as a false dichotomy.

I think it definitely does show that. It shows where your true heart lies. Action always betray words. Who a man takes as his spouse, his most trusted and beloved. Is what his heart truly reflects. I can go on and on. But like i said to Mo, i'm not here to change minds. I was just asking finger basically why he feels the need to defend his love of whites so staunchly.

And we can't do that with a non-Black spouse?

No. You can't.
No you can't.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Well there have been many brothas in the civil rights movement who had ww and still fought the good fight so yeah its possible

But why leave bw out of the equation if you are trying to improve black people?? Why build with someone who is entitled already instead of building with someone who needs you??? I never understood that

I dont understand the fascination with whites overall ... I really feel they are the least attractive of all races ... it annoys me that so many people have drunk the koolaid regarding them

Nobody leaving black women out of the equation, but sometimes black women or black men can't help who they fall for. That is what this thread is all about, period. Lets not make this thread more than for it is .......

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

And we can't do that with a non-Black spouse?

You can and I will explain more, when I get off of work....

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

When did I say anything about fucking all the white women or marrying a white woman? Why when a black person talks about dating outside their race, it automatically have to be a white person with you? Guess what, my girl is a black womenPOIDH, but that doesn't stop me from thinking outside the box. Life is too short and if people can find a person that will support and love them no matter what color they are, then I'm all for it! You know what I'm against, Stop it! And for the man in the video, I actually sat down and talked to him in maryland.

Life is not too short. Life is long. And arduous. Especially for black people in America. And in America the ones who are a danger to black people are white people(and other black people). No i DON'T know what you're against. I believe firmly though that you show yourself to be against black unity and the black community. All the things you say show me that. This post quoted shows me that.

See all this talk about "Heyyyy just choose who loves youuuu". Is detrimental. Because it plays upon the black american mentality of inferiority.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Nobody leaving black women out of the equation, but sometimes black women or black men can't help who they fall for. That is what this thread is all about, period. Lets not make this thread more than for it is .......

Yes you can help who you fall for. You can be properly educated on your history and properly instilled values beneficial to your community.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

So you agree, then. There aren't enough black men to "waste"? And of course i said SEEMED TO BE. Because of the limited information i gleaned from THAT POST. I didn't want to make an assumption. You know how it goes around here. I see you rejecting her beliefs by your posts. Or maybe we have different definitions of down for the cause then?

Then you see what you want, reality be damned.
There aren't enough Black men to waste with crime and drugs and reckless behavior. Who they marry (talking like Black women don't marry non-Black men) is completely unrelated to their work. If Clarence Thomas was a man who stood on the shoulders of his predecessors and fought for the betterment of Black folks, I would be a huge fan, White wife notwithstanding. There are plenty of Black fools who sell out Black folks all the time with the Blackest wife they could find who co-signed their foolishness.
Even focusing on this like it matters is another case of Black folks worrying about minor shit they can't control but doing considerably less about things they can, another mindset I reject.

You keep emphasizing how you will only care for your family and ALL you can do is just this or that. Is that what you gleaned from that documentary? ALL You can do is care about your family? You can't control what happens around you talk is defeatist to me and is not what i gleaned from those who came before us. You can control it. You can change what's going on.

Nonsense. When did you come to this viewpoint? I remember vividly you having a very different one before. We even chopped it up on SOL

I said
LI,
Frankly, that's bullshit. You're either in control of your life (as best you can be) or you're a victim. We live in the exact same world you do, nothing imaginary about it. When you take the reins of your life you don't worry about "optimal conditions", you take what is and make it work. Don't cop out like that.

You said
Mr. Dave, i disagree. This is something very close and personal to me. So i will say nothing further other than, it's silly to ME to believe that you can maintain any relevant control over your life. You don't control anything.


Now I'm the defeatist????
I'm saying: my first priority is my family and then the circle goes outward in relation to how much exposure my family has to these people. I do what I can economically by supporting local Black businesses as often as I can. But if you looking for someone to mentor kids and stuff, that's not me. I'll take care of mine so the mentor types can spend time with other more needy children.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Life is not too short. Life is long. And arduous. Especially for black people in America. And in America the ones who are a danger to black people are white people(and other black people). No i DON'T know what you're against. I believe firmly though that you show yourself to be against black unity and the black community. All the things you say show me that. This post quoted shows me that.

See all this talk about "Heyyyy just choose who loves youuuu". Is detrimental. Because it plays upon the black american mentality of inferiority.

Amen to the bolded. So if you find someone who is willing and able to slog through with you and isn't a detriment, you better snatch them up and tell the outsiders talking shit to kiss your Black ass because when the shit hits the fan, they won't be there, your spouse will (if you choose right).

Yes you can help who you fall for. You can be properly educated on your history and properly instilled values beneficial to your community.

You can have all that and still fall for someone who's not Black.

 

[Top_Bunk]

This shit is about funny as it is sad.....this thread was ethered with stats about 7 posts ago and someone had to find some other arguement to try to pick and divert attention away from the fact that they were 1000% wrong

 

[Upgrade Dave]

I think it definitely does show that. It shows where your true heart lies. Action always betray words. Who a man takes as his spouse, his most trusted and beloved. Is what his heart truly reflects. I can go on and on. But like i said to Mo, i'm not here to change minds. I was just asking finger basically why he feels the need to defend his love of whites so staunchly.

Only to the simple to project their feelings onto other people.

No. You can't.
No you can't.

History says you're wong.

This shit is about funny as it is sad.....this thread was ethered with stats about 7 posts ago and someone had to find some other arguement to try to pick and divert attention away from the fact that they were 1000% wrong

That's how the board works, snitch.

 

[Top_Bunk]

Life is too short for those that have many goals....for those that have none time is slow. So both of u are right.


There are not enoug hours in a day to do what I want to do and things I want to learn....that's wy some people don't sleep.

When I was depressed....hours would go by slow....anyone with kids and they are trying to make theirlife better and yours and handling 401 k's and staying healthy working out, dealing with crisis helping others should know life is too short. Tat's why people multi task....but life is short and long depends on how ambitious u are.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Life is too short for those that have many goals....for those that have none time is slow. So both of u are right.


There are not enoug hours in a day to do what I want to do and things I want to learn....that's wy some people don't sleep.

When I was depressed....hours would go by slow....anyone with kids and they are trying to make theirlife better and yours and handling 401 k's and staying healthy working out, dealing with crisis helping others should know life is too short. Tat's why people multi task....but life is short and long depends on how ambitious u are.

As explained in the movie "Deep Blue Seas", that's the real world example of the Theory of Relativity.

 

[Top_Bunk]

As explained in the movie "Deep Blue Seas", that's the real world example of the Theory of Relativity.

Never seen it. Explain....I'm all ears no argements

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Never seen it. Explain....I'm all ears no argements

It's very similar to what you just said

Put your hands on a hot stove for a second, it seems like a hour

Put your hands on a hot woman, a hour seems like a second.

Relativity.

 

[brickwall92]

Half the guys on here hate bw but still post on BLACK GIRL online

If they can still be here then so can I.......

Just the name of the site... it's not a black womans board..

This site caters to black men mostly ... most of the posters claim black... use terminology like cac and talk about things relevant to black men. That's like me going to a black womans board and bitching about what they say...This is the black mans barbershop... you can't come to the shop and bitch about what we say... if we had a more firm barbershop owner he'd kick your crazy ass out

 

[lazarus]

You're just as racist as whites because we know good and fucking well she can't be racist. She can retaliate, but she can't be racist, UNLESS it's against her own in the defense of whites, and that sir is you. You're the racist. You don't sit here and defend whites as this young woman is dealing with issues because of whites. You're the racist and the idiot. Whites aren't defending your black ass. When you date white girls keep your head and stay down to earth and realistic, if you can't do that you shouldn't date outside of your race at all until you can develop internalized pride. You clearly have none.

typical jedi trick to call me the racist and say shit that makes no sense. and she doesnt have to be white she could be asian. a lot of u have issues. getting head from a woman that isnt black doesnt mean u denounce your race. that is the most stupid thing i ever heard. im a black liberal, against discrimination of all kind, and wat to improve black conditions in america. that said my intelligence is too high to judge someone based on skin pigmentation. thats the dumbest shit ever. bitter bitches immediately make it a white/black issues and the rest of you are dick monitering.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Just the name of the site... it's not a black womans board..

This site caters to black men mostly ... most of the posters claim black... use terminology like cac and talk about things relevant to black men. That's like me going to a black womans board and bitching about what they say...This is the black mans barbershop... you can't come to the shop and bitch about what we say... if we had a more firm barbershop owner he'd kick your crazy ass out

Good analogy.

 

[brickwall92]

Who said I was looking for a father for my son to begin with

And I will admit that black men do not like or want me but that is not true for white men and other races, I meet alot of men from other races who appreciate the qualities I have that black men take for granted or dont even want to begin with

Just cuz bm dont value me doesnt mean other races feel the same way

Fellas flip this around and have a black man say this...

Black women do not like or want me ,but this is not true for white women and other races... I met many women from other races who appreciate the qualities I have that black women take for granted or don't want to begin with..

Wouldn't this hypocrite bitch and call black men coons for this statement I've seen her do that before to black men on here who say white women feel them more so that's why they date them

 

[Top_Bunk]

Just the name of the site... it's not a black womans board..

This site caters to black men mostly ... most of the posters claim black... use terminology like cac and talk about things relevant to black men. That's like me going to a black womans board and bitching about what they say...This is the black mans barbershop... you can't come to the shop and bitch about what we say... if we had a more firm barbershop owner he'd kick your crazy ass out

Right.....blackgironeline is just the name. The women complain that we don't post black women....

Black women is not the main theme nor the second or even fourth.

Nobody comes to black girls on line too actually look for black girls.

That's like eating apple jacks and saying "you cliam u don't like apples so why u eating apple jacks".

 

[Top_Bunk]

I learned something in this thread....

That is that u can't reason with legacy. No matter how many facts u throw at her. She will ignore it.....but trth be told she is not as dumb as she sounds. She justs sounds dumb because she speaks about shit she knows nothing about as if she does while most of us would just shut up.

She doesn't care about being judged. We all have our own ignorance she just isn't affraid of showing hers.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Right.....blackgironeline is just the name. The women complain that we don't post black women....

Black women is not the main theme nor the second or even fourth.

Nobody comes to black girls on line too actually look for black girls.

That's like eating apple jacks and saying "you cliam u don't like apples so why u eating apple jacks".

I did. Years ago, I was just getting on the internet and typed in "black girl" and this site came up.
I do think Black themed porn is the main focus of the site with all porn as an added attraction.