Ladies, how often do you get holla'd at?

[militantmidget]

Why should I give them my number so they can lie and front and use me for sex and or money

Fuck bm I'd rather entrust my heart and vagina to a pack of fuckin wolves... at least the wolves will be more gentle when they rip me apart

now, now, Lonestar...I didn't say give every dude some play. All I was saying was how will you know if a good guy is there for you if you close yourself off. Then again, maybe you're right. Maybe you were meant to be by yourself. It happens sometimes in life. But I think that giving in is too easy. But you're a woman, so you see more trife stuff from dudes then I would ever see.

Maybe you should try spending time with guys that like the same stuff as you or at least share similar interests and experiences.

 

[LoneStar29]

now, now, Lonestar...I didn't say give every dude some play. All I was saying was how will you know if a good guy is there for you if you close yourself off. Then again, maybe you're right. Maybe you were meant to be by yourself. It happens sometimes in life. But I think that giving in is too easy. But you're a woman, so you see more trife stuff from dudes then I would ever see.

Maybe you should try spending time with guys that like the same stuff as you or at least share similar interests and experiences.

Because if he is black I can bet money that he is not a good dude and he is out to hurt me in some way ... this is a guarantee

 

[B-Witty]

Because if he is black I can bet money that he is not a good dude and he is out to hurt me in some way ... this is a guarantee

maybe the problem is u...........! if the same thing keeps happening over and over again by different guys... whats the constant in the situation? U....! maybe u need to assess urself look in the mirror b 4 u prejudge us all.... becuz all of us dudes aint ALL JERKS and etc etc...... im a good dude and nice guys finish last for some of the same reasons u say u wont give a brother the time of day.....! Know better and u will do better boo..... dont give up on all of us guys we good ones still out there...~!

 

[LoneStar29]

maybe the problem is u...........!

Yes the problem is me I was retarded enough to have faith in bm

 

[militantmidget]

Yes the problem is me I was retarded enough to have faith in bm

lol....that's fucked up. You act like the melanin in us makes us bad people. Don't believe the hype. You need to open up yourself to dating different types of black men. Also u need to look for compatibility with dudes since u looking for something serious. I can tell you one thing. If your taste in white men is the same as the black men, you will continue to run into the same problems.

 

[LoneStar29]

I can tell you one thing. If your taste in white men is the same as the black men, you will continue to run into the same problems.

No I wont lol cuz my taste has never been shallow ... hopefully other races of men will appreciate what I have to offer as opposed to taking advantage of it like kneegrows do

 

[YH Dafirm Diplomat]

lonestar if u see this check ya messages

 

[melonpecan]

Why should I give them my number so they can lie and front and use me for sex and or money

Fuck bm I'd rather entrust my heart and vagina to a pack of fuckin wolves... at least the wolves will be more gentle when they rip me apart

 

[Drayonis]

I'm done I still wont be dating black men ... they are a constant and consistent disappointed and I am over them ... I have zero faith in them and dont want to waste my time on them cuz they are users and NEVER bring anything but pain to my life

You should just turn Lesbian and call it a day. Women will never hurt you like that boo boo.

 

[melonpecan]

You should just turn Lesbian and call it a day. Women will never hurt you like that boo boo.

 

[militantmidget]

No I wont lol cuz my taste has never been shallow ... hopefully other races of men will appreciate what I have to offer as opposed to taking advantage of it like kneegrows do

That's what I'm saying. You make it seem like because these men of not black hopefully they will appreciate what you have to offer. I don't see how them not having black skin will make them appreciate you more. I could be wrong, but I think you hold black men to a different standard than dudes of other races. If you can find a white guy that likes you for you, you can find a black guy who does the same. My question to you is does the black guy have to look or act a certain way while the white dude gets a pass cuz he's white.

 

[melonpecan]

That's what I'm saying. You make it seem like because these men of not black hopefully they will appreciate what you have to offer. I don't see how them not having black skin will make them appreciate you more. I could be wrong, but I think you hold black men to a different standard than dudes of other races. If you can find a white guy that likes you for you, you can find a black guy who does the same. My question to you is does the black guy have to look or act a certain way while the white dude gets a pass cuz he's white.

How tall are you?

 

[militantmidget]

You should just turn Lesbian and call it a day. Women will never hurt you like that boo boo.

That ain't happening. She loves men especially BLACK MEN too much. She just needs to open up her selection criteria. She'll be aight.

 

[LoneStar29]

That ain't happening. She loves men especially BLACK MEN too much. She just needs to open up her selection criteria. She'll be aight.

No I do not love bm

no I wont become a lesbian

my standards for white men are like a million times more than my standards for bm ... a wm needs to be able to recognize and admit shit about his own people before i fuck with him ... I dont do white privilege

Drayonis is a bitch btw I just wanted to add that in

 

[Drayonis]

Drayonis is a bitch btw I just wanted to add that in

 

[militantmidget]

No I do not love bm

no I wont become a lesbian

my standards for white men are like a million times more than my standards for bm ... a wm needs to be able to recognize and admit shit about his own people before i fuck with him ... I dont do white privilege

Drayonis is a bitch btw I just wanted to add that in

That's not true. You love all of us here on the board. Ok atleast some of us. LOL...I do not believe the white man's koolaid has quite yet taken its effect on you. There is still hope.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

That's what I'm saying. You make it seem like because these men of not black hopefully they will appreciate what you have to offer. I don't see how them not having black skin will make them appreciate you more. I could be wrong, but I think you hold black men to a different standard than dudes of other races. If you can find a white guy that likes you for you, you can find a black guy who does the same. My question to you is does the black guy have to look or act a certain way while the white dude gets a pass cuz he's white.

But wouldn't it be easier and less heart breaking, emotionally draining to find a white man or another race?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

That's not true. You love all of us here on the board. Ok atleast some of us. LOL...I do not believe the white man's koolaid has quite yet taken its effect on you. There is still hope.

You say the white man's koolaid. As if white men did the damage to her. You're excusing what black men have done to make her think this way?

 

[LoneStar29]

That's not true. You love all of us here on the board. Ok atleast some of us. LOL...I do not believe the white man's koolaid has quite yet taken its effect on you. There is still hope.

There are other races of men out there besides white you know lol I dont find white men that attractive, I would prefer another non black besides white

 

[LoneStar29]

You say the white man's koolaid. As if white men did the damage to her. You're excusing what black men have done to make her think this way?

Exactly LOL wm have nada to do with anything I feel

To be honest the older I get and the more I learn about white people the more I dislike them in a general sense ... they can be very evil corrupt people ... I really couldnt see myself seriously dating a white guy unless he was like the revolutionary type and even that might be an issue since I am not physically attracted to most of them ... I dont even get how bm can find ww sexually attractive, I find most of them to be bland ... I think whites are the most unattractive while everyone else thinks they are the best

 

[YH Dafirm Diplomat]

i think lonestar is beautiful...and im a "BM"

 

[militantmidget]

You say the white man's koolaid. As if white men did the damage to her. You're excusing what black men have done to make her think this way?

White people did a serious number on us in the African diaspora. It's the reason black people have so much self hate for one another. Now I do not condone what men in her past did to Lonestar, but those men are just as brainwashed as she is. Hell, I'm just as brainwashed. If you are a black american especially, you've never known a true black nation. Our culture to this day is a bastardization of american culture. The more we continue to identify with the culture and values of our ancestors and African brethren the better off we will be.

 

[militantmidget]

There are other races of men out there besides white you know lol I dont find white men that attractive, I would prefer another non black besides white

Well that's a different story indeed. Shit go and get you a chinese man. Them dudes hook up some fried wings and rice. Maybe we can get the BGOL discount.

 

[militantmidget]

Exactly LOL wm have nada to do with anything I feel

To be honest the older I get and the more I learn about white people the more I dislike them in a general sense ... they can be very evil corrupt people ... I really couldnt see myself seriously dating a white guy unless he was like the revolutionary type and even that might be an issue since I am not physically attracted to most of them ... I dont even get how bm can find ww sexually attractive, I find most of them to be bland ... I think whites are the most unattractive while everyone else thinks they are the best

WW Generally - NO. I don't dig them

WW with curves and they have dark features (Italian, French, Spanish) - YES

BW Generally - ABSOLUTELY

BW with curves and they have very dark skin or light skin with natural hair and painted toes - If she says NO, I might have to impose myself on her. (No sexual assault)

 

[LoneStar29]

i think lonestar is beautiful...and im a "BM"

Thank you YH

that is a dope shoe collection btw

White people did a serious number on us in the African diaspora. It's the reason black people have so much self hate for one another. Now I do not condone what men in her past did to Lonestar, but those men are just as brainwashed as she is. Hell, I'm just as brainwashed. If you are a black american especially, you've never known a true black nation. Our culture to this day is a bastardization of american culture. The more we continue to identify with the culture and values of our ancestors and African brethren the better off we will be.

I am not brainwashed damnit ... I do not think whites or their influence are better than black or other races ... I do not allow the white standard of beauty to define me ... I'm not brainwashed in any way

 

[YH Dafirm Diplomat]

why thank you miss. and all "BM" arent bad, u just havent ran into the right one. because the right one would make all these things u speak of a thing of the past. dont let a few assholes ruin it for the rest of the able and willing, whoever that may be for u. just kno...there is always one out there ready to treat u like a queen. u just gotta let em.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

White people did a serious number on us in the African diaspora. It's the reason black people have so much self hate for one another. Now I do not condone what men in her past did to Lonestar, but those men are just as brainwashed as she is. Hell, I'm just as brainwashed. If you are a black american especially, you've never known a true black nation. Our culture to this day is a bastardization of american culture. The more we continue to identify with the culture and values of our ancestors and African brethren the better off we will be.

Whites have done an incredible job on blacks in this country. I'm not disputing that. But you put how she feels on whites. Not the actions of those black men. As if to say, how she feels about black men who've done the things they've done to her should be excused. She's not going to excuse them because that's just not how most women are built. If i stab you 75 times you're going to be angry at ME. You're not going to say, well white people fucked her mind up so she's not to fault.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Thank you YH

that is a dope shoe collection btw




I am not brainwashed damnit ... I do not think whites or their influence are better than black or other races ... I do not allow the white standard of beauty to define me ... I'm not brainwashed in any way

But there's more than 1 form, category of brainwashing. Maybe not in outer looks, but maybe to say in thoughts on religion. Morality.

 

[militantmidget]

Whites have done an incredible job on blacks in this country. I'm not disputing that. But you put how she feels on whites. Not the actions of those black men. As if to say, how she feels about black men who've done the things they've done to her should be excused. She's not going to excuse them because that's just not how most women are built. If i stab you 75 times you're going to be angry at ME. You're not going to say, well white people fucked her mind up so she's not to fault.

The reason why Im saying that is because she keeps saying BM hurt her. I'm saying the reason why those guys fucked her over is because they were assholes (yet she gave them the time of day, so she needs to account for her role as well) and not because they were black. Other races of men can and will treat her like shit. But when they do it, she will say these dudes are assholes irregardless of the color of their skin. She needs to open up her circle. I have a strong inkling that she continues to give the same men play. I think she needs to try something different.

 

[melonpecan]

...


...I'm speechless right now.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

The reason why Im saying that is because she keeps saying BM hurt her. I'm saying the reason why those guys fucked her over is because they were assholes (yet she gave them the time of day, so she needs to account for her role as well) and not because they were black. Other races of men can and will treat her like shit. But when they do it, she will say these dudes are assholes irregardless of the color of their skin. She needs to open up her circle. I have a strong inkling that she continues to give the same men play. I think she needs to try something different.

The most fascinating thing about this board to me is that guys always act as if you all come with these warning tags and signs. Labels, that we women are able to read before we even speak to you. This is what you must believe when you say these things like "she gave them the time of day." As if the guy wore a sign saying, "i'm going to take advantage of you, i only want to be around you to have sex, i only want to play this game with you." You guys do not come with warning labels. And you don't come with instruction manuals. And just as you excuse those men who do what they do? You do not extend that same excuse mechanism for the woman.

Saying, they were programmed to be the jerks they were, why does she have to have super asshole detection abilities? Where is the understanding for that?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

...


...I'm speechless right now.

Well, technically you're NOT. Since, you wrote that.

 

[LoneStar29]

why thank you miss. and all "BM" arent bad, u just havent ran into the right one. because the right one would make all these things u speak of a thing of the past. dont let a few assholes ruin it for the rest of the able and willing, whoever that may be for u. just kno...there is always one out there ready to treat u like a queen. u just gotta let em.

That sounds nice but its too late for me YH...sorry

The reason why Im saying that is because she keeps saying BM hurt her. I'm saying the reason why those guys fucked her over is because they were assholes (yet she gave them the time of day, so she needs to account for her role as well) and not because they were black. Other races of men can and will treat her like shit. But when they do it, she will say these dudes are assholes irregardless of the color of their skin. She needs to open up her circle. I have a strong inkling that she continues to give the same men play. I think she needs to try something different.

Oh please ... bm are encouraged to date other races when they have issues with bw .. noone tells them to look within or to give bw another chance...noone tells them they'll have the same issues with white bitches...bm are taught that if they have issues with bw that a white slut will save him. You have coons like Halo and Diamond Duece promoting that in their siggys at this moment talkin out dont settle for black girls cuz white ones treat you good

Yet if a bw has those sorts of thoughts about dating out when she has issues with bm all of a sudden its all her fault for everything and she was treated how she deserved and if black losers dont like her noone will

This is why I do not take advice from or trust kneegrows ... ya'll only EVER have your own best interests at heart and will work Klan overtime to make a sista feel like shit... as far as I am concerned bm are my greatest enemies, noone has spent more time telling me I am a piece of shit than bm

BM<<<<<<<<<<<<<

 

[LoneStar29]

The most fascinating thing about this board to me is that guys always act as if you all come with these warning tags and signs. Labels, that we women are able to read before we even speak to you. This is what you must believe when you say these things like "she gave them the time of day." As if the guy wore a sign saying, "i'm going to take advantage of you, i only want to be around you to have sex, i only want to play this game with you." You guys do not come with warning labels. And you don't come with instruction manuals. And just as you excuse those men who do what they do? You do not extend that same excuse mechanism for the woman.

Saying, they were programmed to be the jerks they were, why does she have to have super asshole detection abilities? Where is the understanding for that?

Oh you didnt know??

BW are all mind readers and we know ahead of time the moment we meet a guy wether he is good or not...we dont need to get to know him or nothing

And bm they NEVER lie..they are always honest from jump and tell us their real intentions of just wanting to fuck and thats it and we give in cuz we are thirsty and horny and have no other options since no other race wants us

 

[YH Dafirm Diplomat]

ummm.no. i aint goin for that, pm me wen u have time.