Ladies, how often do you get holla'd at?

[LoneStar29]

nah she lets bgol distort her reality. she sees us droolin over these pretty phat ass bitches an starts thinkin in her mind " i dont look like this. black men wont like me " then on top of that you got niggas tellin her noone wants to be with a single mom.

Shut up

 

[Rossini]

Shut up

the truth hurts

 

[militantmidget]

I could've worded it better
yes, women and men should feel good and holla at whoever they want.

but cats are so thirsty that very average women that don't bring anything to the table walk around with like their god's gift to the world. seeing the responses in here, I see why. not one day going by without cats trying to holla holla.

then when a real dude comes the ego is so inflated its difficult to have a real convo without them expecting everything handed to them on a silver platter. that's the reason women walk with their head down, on the phone(not really) and avoiding eye contact at all cost. its builds up barriers between us which is hard for well-meaning cats to break through sometimes

these days I try the reverse of what everyone else is doing. which is not being thirsty and let her choose

i just think men are too thirsty in general and I don't know why. supposedly women outnumber men, so why act that way

Fine women don't outnumber men. Realistically the ratio is rather even. The problem is that once women reach their 30's their value starts to diminish in the eyes of their male counterparts. All of a sudden you have 30-36 year old dimes competing with 20-27 year old dimes. It only gets worse as those women get older too. I guess the real issue is that women regardless of age always want a winner, a man with financial stability, status, and all. Men only reach these levels of success by 25-30 typically. If we all reached it by 18 then you would see a more even balance of older men sticking with older women since the young boys would be instant competition.

As for the thirstiness of guys hollering at girls, that's what men do. Hell if it was legal dudes would beat a woman over the head and kidnap her like back in the caveman days. Men love pussy. For most men pussy is not in high supply. It's not like your average bgol member where dime pussy is literally thrown at them every second of everyday. Some guys work for the good stuff, some guys take whatever they can get, and some extra thirsty guys just simp and trick for pussy. It is what it is.

Same thing with women. Some women are hoes with only their bf. Some will fuck you and me just because she loves dick. Some women will only fuck if you got money or weed. Some won't fuck unless it's pussy. People like what they like. IMHO the best thing to do is link up with someone with the same interests and just go from there.

 

[LoneStar29]

the truth hurts

Oh really?? *blank stare*

So you genuinely believe that I meet great loving black men every day but have decided to base my opinion on what some assholes on bgol think instead???

Boo, this is the single stupidest thing you have ever written on here

 

[Rossini]

Oh really?? *blank stare*

So you genuinely believe that I meet great loving black men every day but have decided to base my opinion on what some assholes on bgol think instead???

Boo, this is the single stupidest thing you have ever written on here

Your reason for not dating black men is stupid tho.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

becuz it makes females conceited... i done seen niggas holler at females then she hittem with the stank face and roll her eyes. you know why she did that? cause she got niggas tryna get at her all the time an done got the big head

It couldn't have been she didn't like him? It couldn't have been his approach was not to her liking?

Thank you.


What are you suppose to do with the women who aren't 'gassed' enough?

These bgolians are the oddest people on the internet.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I could've worded it better
yes, women and men should feel good and holla at whoever they want.

but cats are so thirsty that very average women that don't bring anything to the table walk around with like their god's gift to the world. seeing the responses in here, I see why. not one day going by without cats trying to holla holla.

then when a real dude comes the ego is so inflated its difficult to have a real convo without them expecting everything handed to them on a silver platter. that's the reason women walk with their head down, on the phone(not really) and avoiding eye contact at all cost. its builds up barriers between us which is hard for well-meaning cats to break through sometimes

these days I try the reverse of what everyone else is doing. which is not being thirsty and let her choose

i just think men are too thirsty in general and I don't know why. supposedly women outnumber men, so why act that way

You're definitely right about women building walls. I know a woman who does everything she can to avoid eye contact with men. If 1 approaches her she damn near breaks into a run to try to get away from them. If you want to approach her you better have your running shoes on. She's attractive she's curvy, and she stays around black people most of the time. So yes black men DO pursue her with vigor. Every woman in here has told you guys we get hit on constantly. Most of the time it's by unattractive seemingly uncouth men.

This reminds me, i was having a discussion with an older gentleman who's saying how much he just hates sistas riding with him because they never smile. I asked him who are you to think that we're supposed to smile at you? How arrogant of you to think that we're supposed to be happy and mirthful just for the sake of your happiness? Maybe we're having fucked up days and we're deep in our own thoughts. Maybe that train ride is the only decent part of our day? Where we get to be alone and in our brains with no one bothering us?

I've seen a woman say no thanks to a guy and get his drink in her face. Just off of a low monotone "no thank you". I've been in the club where i've seen guys pester women and follow them around, and it's not cute. It's not funny. It's scarey. Because you have no idea what this guy is going to do.

Yesterday i had to attend to business. I wore jeans and a printed T. From the car to the front door i got a guy saying something to me. I'm a serious muncher so i went to Potbelly's to get a sandwich. Silly me it was lunchtime. I got a guy trying to give me his number in there. I'm not thinking about your number. I'm thinking about my delicious sandwich. I'm trying to decide if i want salami, roast beef today, buffalo chicken with extra cheese. EXTRA EXTRA CHEESE. Him approaching me is breaking me out of my world of beautiful delightful treats.

But this is something every woman learns to deal with in her own way. It's a minor annoyance to me. To this woman i know it's a terror inducing panic attack.

 

[LoneStar29]

Your reason for not dating black men is stupid tho.

My reason for not wanting to date bm anymore is cuz I get mistreated alot by them regardless of the effort I put into it ... how is that stupid

Whats stupid is you thinking I am treated like a queen offline but hate bm cuz of what I read on here .... now THAT is fuckin stupid

 

[Rossini]

My reason for not wanting to date bm anymore is cuz I get mistreated alot by them regardless of the effort I put into it ... how is that stupid

Whats stupid is you thinking I am treated like a queen offline but hate bm cuz of what I read on here .... now THAT is fuckin stupid

lotta women get mistreated, hell us men get mistreated, we just move on to the next one, everybody aint the same.

 

[LoneStar29]

lotta women get mistreated, hell us men get mistreated, we just move on to the next one, everybody aint the same.

Boo....please

You have men like DiamondDuece on here with pics in their sigs of ww talkin bout you dont have to settle for bw when you can get ww cuz they treat you so good and have such better attitudes ... I NEVER saw you tell any of them that was stupid ... this entire board is built off the premise that if bw dont treat you well you should move onto another race cuz they WILL treat you better guaranteed

But GOD forbid I say the same thing...all of a sudden I'm stupid and everything ever done to me was deserved and my fauilt and I didnt make the right choice and I purposely picked a guy I kenw would dog me out or I musta only dated thugs blahblahblah

FOH

 

[Rossini]

And i dont care what you say, you use our opinion to formulate your on opInion on black men, i can tell by how you respond to alot of shit we say, a nigga say some shit you dont like then here you go "YALL HATE BLACK WOMEN!!" GETTIN ALL WORKED UP AN SHIT.

 

[Rossini]

Boo....please

You have men like DiamondDuece on here with pics in their sigs of ww talkin bout you dont have to settle for bw when you can get ww cuz they treat you so good and have such better attitudes ... I NEVER saw you tell any of them that was stupid ... this entire board is built off the premise that if bw dont treat you well you should move onto another race cuz they WILL treat you better guaranteed

AND THATS EXACTLY WHAT IM TALKIN ABOUT, FUCK WHAT THESE NIGGAS THINK, HALF THESE NIGGAS SQUARES ANYWAY.. AN I DONT HAVE SIGS TURNED ON BTW.. BUT I THINK MOST OF THE BLACK MEN ON HERE CAN AGREE WITH ME ON ONE THING, EVEN IF WE GET CHEATED ON OR MISTREATED BY BLACK WOMEN WE STILL STAYIN DOWN WITH BLACK WOMEN, A NIGGA MIGHT WANNA DABBLE IN SOME WHITE PUSSY HERE AN THERE THO

 

[militantmidget]

You're definitely right about women building walls. I know a woman who does everything she can to avoid eye contact with men. If 1 approaches her she damn near breaks into a run to try to get away from them. If you want to approach her you better have your running shoes on. She's attractive she's curvy, and she stays around black people most of the time. So yes black men DO pursue her with vigor. Every woman in here has told you guys we get hit on constantly. Most of the time it's by unattractive seemingly uncouth men.

So, how does she keep herself from being alone? Does she have a boyfriend? What guy will she be receptive to?

 

[LoneStar29]

And i dont care what you say, you use our opinion to formulate your on opInion on black men, i can tell by how you respond to alot of shit we say, a nigga say some shit you dont like then here you go "YALL HATE BLACK WOMEN!!" GETTIN ALL WORKED UP AN SHIT.

Wow you must really think I'm a lame then cuz only a complete moron would base their opinion on things online as opposed to their own experiences

It sucks that you are dismissing all my experiences and what I have been through in my life

but whatever you have your mind made up so no reason to continue this conversation

Think whatever the fuck you want, I dont care

 

[dHustla]

Your name is militantmidget...just thought I'd ask. Thank you for obliging.






Lone, I don't know what Black men has done to you outside of this place but you have to understand that there is nothing wrong with a good Black Man, you need to get from off around the misguided Black Man. It's hard I know but it seems like you are scarred. You can't get anywhere unless you heal.

.....

 

[dHustla]

I wonder...that would be a great poll.



And shoe sizes. Anything less than a 12.

6'2" here, 227 lbs, size 13

 

[dHustla]

I could've worded it better
yes, women and men should feel good and holla at whoever they want.

but cats are so thirsty that very average women that don't bring anything to the table walk around with like their god's gift to the world. seeing the responses in here, I see why. not one day going by without cats trying to holla holla.

then when a real dude comes the ego is so inflated its difficult to have a real convo without them expecting everything handed to them on a silver platter. that's the reason women walk with their head down, on the phone(not really) and avoiding eye contact at all cost. its builds up barriers between us which is hard for well-meaning cats to break through sometimes

these days I try the reverse of what everyone else is doing. which is not being thirsty and let her choose

i just think men are too thirsty in general and I don't know why. supposedly women outnumber men, so why act that way

And the doors of the chuuch are open!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

So, how does she keep herself from being alone? Does she have a boyfriend? What guy will she be receptive to?

She is a widow. She's not receptive to any guys. Another woman i knows reads BGOL and is mortified at the things she sees here. I've said in another post, you guys should spend a week as a woman. Just to see what it's like. All the things we internalize and think of. All the things we notice.

I don't feel this way, but i can understand how black women can feel that black men are a threat instead of a protection.

 

[dHustla]

lotta women get mistreated, hell us men get mistreated, we just move on to the next one, everybody aint the same.

Boo....please

You have men like DiamondDuece on here with pics in their sigs of ww talkin bout you dont have to settle for bw when you can get ww cuz they treat you so good and have such better attitudes ... I NEVER saw you tell any of them that was stupid ... this entire board is built off the premise that if bw dont treat you well you should move onto another race cuz they WILL treat you better guaranteed

But GOD forbid I say the same thing...all of a sudden I'm stupid and everything ever done to me was deserved and my fauilt and I didnt make the right choice and I purposely picked a guy I kenw would dog me out or I musta only dated thugs blahblahblah

FOH

Sweetheart, I'm a black man and I have NEVER fucked a white woman before in my life. I love me a black woman! On SO many levels! I don't even like to see white folks in my porn. Men or women. I don't like to see white men fucking black women. I'm not really attracted to white women, I think it's the pale skin and the lack of features. (think halle berry) Just too plain, they all look alike.
Now I said that to say that maybe you read too much into the antics that you witness on here. Just as much as Halo talks about honkys, therealjondoe talks about being white and loving black women.. There is some truth in all things comedy, but don't take things to heart.

AND THATS EXACTLY WHAT IM TALKIN ABOUT, FUCK WHAT THESE NIGGAS THINK, HALF THESE NIGGAS SQUARES ANYWAY.. AN I DONT HAVE SIGS TURNED ON BTW.. BUT I THINK MOST OF THE BLACK MEN ON HERE CAN AGREE WITH ME ON ONE THING, EVEN IF WE GET CHEATED ON OR MISTREATED BY BLACK WOMEN WE STILL STAYIN DOWN WITH BLACK WOMEN, A NIGGA MIGHT WANNA DABBLE IN SOME WHITE PUSSY HERE AN THERE THO

He tellin' you the truth in bold

And he does have a point, I've noticed that some things, maybe just certain things strike a nerve w/ you. And when you reply it reads like ......

Wow you must really think I'm a lame then cuz only a complete moron would base their opinion on things online as opposed to their own experiences

It sucks that you are dismissing all my experiences and what I have been through in my life

but whatever you have your mind made up so no reason to continue this conversation

Think whatever the fuck you want, I dont care

Baby, stand down! We understand you've been hurt and it appears that you are still hurt to some extent, but don't put yourself in a self-imposed prison. Psychologically or emotionally. It's not healthy, and honestly, life is too short. Don't give those that hurt you the power to continue to take from you... and that's what happens when you allow the hurt that they caused to dwell inside of you and dictate your decisions. They may have controlled you (in some way) in the past, but you, more than anyone else, control your future.

Take a break from men altogether. Work on you. Be selfish with yourself, do what you like to do. Don't do it out of spite, do this out of height! Overstand, sweetie. Work on yourself psychologically, emotionally (heal yourself, pampering helps), physically (it helps mind & body), and mentally (read more, intellectually explore).

You'll be good as new in no time, back to humping & dumping and before you know it you'll be head over heels for some guy w/ dreds that lives in atlanta and is self employed.

 

[melonpecan]

6'2" here, 227 lbs, size 13

It couldn't have been she didn't like him? It couldn't have been his approach was not to her liking?



These bgolians are the oddest people on the internet.

You don't have to tell me twice

nah she lets bgol distort her reality. she sees us droolin over these pretty phat ass bitches an starts thinkin in her mind " i dont look like this. black men wont like me " then on top of that you got niggas tellin her noone wants to be with a single mom.

i'd love to meet her
first you qualify her
if she brings good qualities to the table and is a cool women build her esteem up.
show her a good time and treat her well
its not rocket science

less thirst is needed. cats see a big ass walking down the street and damn near sprain their ankles running over to holla holla holla. make sure she's worth it before you roll out the red carpet

just my opinion
i'd think ladies would appreciate that
maybe they would be able to walk down the street without getting marriage proposals constantly

See, most people in general don't really think like this. They just want a quick fuck and if they get sprung then oh well. Otherwise they just keep using for the pussy. This is part of the problem why I KNOW people jump into relationships for the wrong reasons. If you stopped that then maybe there would be more lasting relationships.

About the bold part, i would agree. Up until now I've had about three or four proposals and as I look back I wonder if they really knew me...I say this because women are so quick for that picture perfect marriage it can get you messed up. If I had said yes... Maybe that's why you see dudes doing what they do cause they know when it gets to a certain point chicks are desperate.

 

[Rossini]

dhustla feel what im sayin

 

[Rossini]

 

[LoneStar29]

dhustla feel what im sayin

STFU ... for real

you are really starting to piss me the fuck off

Truthfully I dont give a fuck what any of you think about me in this thread ... you can dismiss my experiences and throw everything in my face as much as you want (its to be expected from bm) but none of you have walked in my shoes or felt what I have felt so you can all go and fuck yourselves

Like really limiting everything I feel to just "get over what bgol says" is fucking retarded and beyond insulting

 

[Rossini]

STFU ... for real

you are really starting to piss me the fuck off

Truthfully I dont give a fuck what any of you think about me in this thread ... you can dismiss my experiences and throw everything in my face as much as you want (its to be expected from bm) but none of you have walked in my shoes or felt what I have felt so you can all go and fuck yourselves

Like really limiting everything I feel to just "get over what bgol says" is fucking retarded and beyond insulting

 

[LoneStar29]

Ok Ross

I see you

 

[militantmidget]

STFU ... for real

you are really starting to piss me the fuck off

Truthfully I dont give a fuck what any of you think about me in this thread ... you can dismiss my experiences and throw everything in my face as much as you want (its to be expected from bm) but none of you have walked in my shoes or felt what I have felt so you can all go and fuck yourselves

Like really limiting everything I feel to just "get over what bgol says" is fucking retarded and beyond insulting

Lonestar you're just wrong about black men. 100% wrong. Not every brotha is who you think they are. We all come with a different set of ideas, ideals, and intelligence (I know you like that triple I action I did). But if it helps you to keep believing that flawed rhetoric, just do you. But you will never be completely happy with all that negativity in your heart.

 

[dHustla]

STFU ... for real

you are really starting to piss me the fuck off

Truthfully I dont give a fuck what any of you think about me in this thread ... you can dismiss my experiences and throw everything in my face as much as you want (its to be expected from bm) but none of you have walked in my shoes or felt what I have felt so you can all go and fuck yourselves

Like really limiting everything I feel to just "get over what bgol says" is fucking retarded and beyond insulting

No one is discounting your feelings, experiences, or hurt. Simply saying that it happens to us all. You have to get back up and dust yourself off.

Re-read my post above

 

[Rossini]

No one is discounting your feelings, experiences, or hurt. Simply saying that it happens to us all. You have to get back up and dust yourself off.

Re-read my post above

exactly, i just gave up tryin to get that threw her head

 

[melonpecan]

Lonestar you're just wrong about black men. 100% wrong. Not every brotha is who you think they are. We all come with a different set of ideas, ideals, and intelligence (I know you like that triple I action I did). But if it helps you to keep believing that flawed rhetoric, just do you. But you will never be completely happy with all that negativity in your heart.

No one is discounting your feelings, experiences, or hurt. Simply saying that it happens to us all. You have to get back up and dust yourself off.

Re-read my post above

Lone, at least with some of the men this seems to be their point.

exactly, i just gave up tryin to get that threw her head

Perhaps she didn't get it because you threw it too hard

 

[Rossini]

Perhaps she didn't get it because you threw it too hard

Sometimes you have to throw it hard to get your point across, she knew what i was sayin, she just aint tryin to hear it, she thinks shes the only 1 going THREW(yea i spelled it like that bitch) her situation.

 

[melonpecan]

Well at least you know you a bitch

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

A tee ellllllllle!!!

 

[melonpecan]

A tee ellllllllle!!!

Woman, what on earth...

 

[LoneStar29]

Well at least you know you a bitch

I'm glad I know he's a bitch too now rotfl

 

[Rossini]

Well at least you know you a bitch

at least we know you a slut