Well, technically you're NOT. Since, you wrote that.
My momma always told me if you have nothing to say then don't say anything at all.
But I've never been good at following the rules so I never can really keep my mouth shut.
I call bullshit btw.
Ladies, how often do you get holla'd at?
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My momma always told me if you have nothing to say then don't say anything at all.
But I've never been good at following the rules so I never can really keep my mouth shut.
I call bullshit btw.
What are you calling bullshit on?
All of this bullshit.
I tried to ask...but that's ok. If folks wanna keep they little conversations to certain people that's fine. Because everything here applies to noone and everyone at the same time.
Smh.
Oh you didnt know??
BW are all mind readers and we know ahead of time the moment we meet a guy wether he is good or not...we dont need to get to know him or nothing
And bm they NEVER lie..they are always honest from jump and tell us their real intentions of just wanting to fuck and thats it and we give in cuz we are thirsty and horny and have no other options since no other race wants us
I understand. I just think it's odd, this seems to be a "here" specific phenomena. No matter what, BM get a pass. They get excused. BW and WM? They're always to blame. While bm just seem to get off scott free. Black men are never responsible for the things they've done. How they are. But BW are. BW seem to come with inboard abilities and sensors that black men don't. BW have to be able to overcome any "programming" by the whites. But bm aren't capable of.
I don't believe any of that, but that's how many men seem to think underneath their other bull.
LoneStar29
Banned
All of this bullshit.
I tried to ask...but that's ok. If folks wanna keep they little conversations to certain people that's fine. Because everything here applies to noone and everyone at the same time.
Girl if you have something to say just say it, you dont need an invite lol
BM are sweet innocent victims who can do no wrong while bw are the anti-chist ... we should know all and be all from birth but bm's imperfections are adorable apparently
This thread could of been interesting but got sidetracked into another bs tired ass topic.
So bs that you responded to it. To write your bs tired ass response to said topic. Instead of saying something important you added.........................................................?
Wow, calm down its not that serious sista, retract the claws. The thread was interesting at the time before all the bs, bw bm shit, I was hoping to gain alittle insight into the subject matter but was disappointed that it was sidetracked into the same bs that has littered the main board.
How tall are you?
6'3". Why do you ask?
However emotional level of excitement you were when you posted what you wrote originally? Is the same level i was when i responded. It's never that serious but people still come with their useless statements. It's not that serious for me to respond to you but it was that serious for you to respond to the thread with nothing to add?
7 women posted and gave their views. Men came in and began making it personal. And then you come in with criticism. And then tried to play the "i'm too cool to actually post anything of value, i'm just going to criticize the thread. What i had to say was that important.
No one's keeping you from asking anything. Saying what you feel about the topic.
Yeah that's right, but you should have stated BW AND BM have to be able to overcome the "programming" (which is very real BTW). And speaking from experience, I have seen personally more instances where women gave trifling ass dudes the time of day and everyone and they momma knows dude is trifling except for the girl that actually likes him. Sometimes it's so obvious it's ridiculous. Now I will say I have seen the upstanding brotha who is the gentleman and all treat a woman like shit after the fact. Instances like these even I was fooled, but I see much more of the former especially with BW. But I think this has to do with our current youth culture of smoke weed, shoot a nigga, fuck a bitch but fuck a bitch, and my personal favorite "the kid is the mother's problem". Shit is really fucked up.
As i said, i don't believe ANY of those things. Each and every 1 of us in this 21st century America is responsible wholly and totally for our actions. Everyone of us is responsible for the things we learn because the information is there.
But pretending that 1 group(women) should be more susceptible. Or more responsible then the other. Is ridiculous. And Lonestar doesn't strike me as the type to go after drug dealers, hoodlums, gangsters, and guys who just in general useless to society.
I didn't say women should be more responsible. I say the same thing to men who get stupid ass hoodrats pregnant. Then wonder why they get put through the child support hustle. I tell them niggas don't fuck something if you ain't willing to deal with the consequences. It's the same for women too. Be careful of the dudes you choose because it's some shady niggas out in these streets. It sounds to me that you don't think women should be held accountable for their actions.
Man, I used to wonder the same thing but reality says otherwise. I've seen smart women from GOOD households with worse niggas than what you mentioned. And some dudes don't have to even be criminals.
Your name is militantmidget...just thought I'd ask. Thank you for obliging.
Lone, I don't know what Black men has done to you outside of this place but you have to understand that there is nothing wrong with a good Black Man, you need to get from off around the misguided Black Man. It's hard I know but it seems like you are scarred. You can't get anywhere unless you heal.
I know you didn't say it. But it's what you imply. And i was speaking of that's how this board comes off as. I said in my earlier post, it's what the men on this board imply. That the woman has to be responsible and have uncanny precognitive abilities. While the men just seem to get a pass with everything. It's this board in general.
You men must simply realize that living life as black women isn't some kind of easy ticket. You men have no compassion or sense of empathy. That's definitely how it comes off anyway.
I thought he was short as well. I wonder how many little men are on bgol?
No little man complex here. Just a brotha who wants more from his community.
This is the first time, I will agree with you on anything. We do expect an extra degree of psychic ability from our women. The onus can't always be on the women to do the right thing. The reason we say that though, is because the women more times that not get stuck with all the negative shit from making bad decisions.
For instance a woman with a kid, in many ways is stuck. Men don't want them because they already have a kid. But we can see a dude with 3-4 kids for 3-4 different women dating a new chick that's fly and for some reason she doesn't seem to care that he's a baby making machine.
I wonder...that would be a great poll.
And shoe sizes. Anything less than a 12.
Woah there.
I would care. Unless there is some other circumstances for four kids with four different women and he on the prowl again he must be damn special if I would even THINK about being number 5. Women take things like that into consideration, hood rats do not.
You know how many dudes I know that have a bunch of kids and still be getting new girlfriends that are willing to be stepmoms??? Tons!
When it comes to single mothers though, the consensus among most dudes is NO WAY. And the dudes who usually get with them are usually on some simp shit. One cat I know (works as a security guard) hooked up a chick that had 5 kids by 4 different dudes. Homie was a virgin when he met her, they stay in a 2 bedroom apartment where he sleeps on the floor and cry's about how they won't let him play his Xbox.
You know how many dudes I know that have a bunch of kids and still be getting new girlfriends that are willing to be stepmoms??? Tons!
When it comes to single mothers though, the consensus among most dudes is NO WAY. And the dudes who usually get with them are usually on some simp shit. One cat I know (works as a security guard) hooked up a chick that had 5 kids by 4 different dudes. Homie was a virgin when he met her, they stay in a 2 bedroom apartment where he sleeps on the floor and cry's about how they won't let him play his Xbox.
She a dummy for not keeping her life together and he a dummy for thinking that worn out pussy was something great.
But he was a virgin, so he'll live and learn long as he don't give her number 6.
No wonder women walk around with the big head/shit don't stink/self-entitlement type of swag
fellas stop gassing them up
and Lonestar
damn girlhow many failed relationships does it take to get you to this point
As soon as i find out a guy has more than 1 "babymama". He's in the friend or jump off category. I could never in my life be with a man who's gotten 2 different women pregnant and he's looking at me. I just couldn't do it. I'm an assume the worst type of person also. If you tell me you've got 2 babymom's and you're not with either of them, then i'm going to just assume you're not taking care of them. Which further makes you a bad choice to BE with.
Why? Why shouldn't a woman feel good about herself or attractive to someone? Why shouldn't a guy holla at a woman he likes? I never understood that "stop gassing them up" sentiment.
Why? Why shouldn't a woman feel good about herself or attractive to someone? Why shouldn't a guy holla at a woman he likes? I never understood that "stop gassing them up" sentiment.
Thank you.
What are you suppose to do with the women who aren't 'gassed' enough?
LoneStar29
Banned
I care too most definately
I dont date men with multiple "baby mothers" ... I'd rather date a guy who had 5 kids with one woman than a guy who has 3 kids with 3 women
There are always exceptions to the rule though I might give a pass to a guy with maybe 2 if he was married or in really long term relationships with both ... I like to learn alot about the men I date, I ask many questions (not all at once though) so if I notice a pattern where he is having kids with different women after short term relationships I will not touch that man with 100 foot pole
Thank you.
What are you suppose to do with the women who aren't 'gassed' enough?
You should just turn Lesbian and call it a day. Women will never hurt you like that boo boo.
yea thats her best bet
becuz it makes females conceited... i done seen niggas holler at females then she hittem with the stank face and roll her eyes. you know why she did that? cause she got niggas tryna get at her all the time an done got the big head
I could've worded it better
yes, women and men should feel good and holla at whoever they want.
but cats are so thirsty that very average women that don't bring anything to the table walk around with like their god's gift to the world. seeing the responses in here, I see why. not one day going by without cats trying to holla holla.
then when a real dude comes the ego is so inflated its difficult to have a real convo without them expecting everything handed to them on a silver platter. that's the reason women walk with their head down, on the phone(not really) and avoiding eye contact at all cost. its builds up barriers between us which is hard for well-meaning cats to break through sometimes
these days I try the reverse of what everyone else is doing. which is not being thirsty and let her choose
i just think men are too thirsty in general and I don't know why. supposedly women outnumber men, so why act that way
nah she lets bgol distort her reality. she sees us droolin over these pretty phat ass bitches an starts thinkin in her mind " i dont look like this. black men wont like me
" then on top of that you got niggas tellin her noone wants to be with a single mom.
i'd love to meet her
first you qualify her
if she brings good qualities to the table and is a cool women build her esteem up.
show her a good time and treat her well
its not rocket science
less thirst is needed. cats see a big ass walking down the street and damn near sprain their ankles running over to holla holla holla. make sure she's worth it before you roll out the red carpet
just my opinion
i'd think ladies would appreciate that
maybe they would be able to walk down the street without getting marriage proposals constantly
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