Experiencing A BIPOLAR Women
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He DID..just as i did..hell most do but...then once i saw that something was WRONG with this chic i too thought i could help her or at least i wanted to.
You are dead on with it..and it hurts like hell to have someone like this in your life or to be in a relationship with KNOWING you can't help this person in a sense..it can be emotionally devastating IF one lets themselves go and falls in love with such a woman.Some women just aren't cut out to be in a long term relationship..in most cases these type of women are destined to be alone...for the most part..and NO cape can save them..they need medical attention they so desperately will not seek
YES it would be fairThe crazy one I had was a Capricorn
Yeah she might be boring but at LEAST you can sleep with both eyes close when your around her..AND you'll liveDamn bruh...dropping jewels in here.
I had one that I just could not be nice to..otherwise she would act like all these broads ya'll are talking about. (She was an Aries too..)..LOL.
I would go through a cycle with her..where if I started reverting back to my normally nice persona..she would start getting crazy. The worse I treated her..the nicer she was.
She had the bomb pussy..best I've ever had. I also noticed that if I fucked the shit out of her (I mean slap/choke/take the pussy/treat her like a smut)..she would be all lovey dovey for about 5 days.
When I had enough and tried to leave..I thought she was gonna kill me..and then herself.
I have a nice regular boring girl now..
MAn I got to this thread late.
12 month relationship with a bipolar, manic depressant with multiple (7) personalites, 3.5 years to get her out of my life and 2 suicide attempts when I did try to leave.
This girl was great whe she was up there but the problem was she went through moods and personalities quicker than a Formule 1 racing car throuh the gears.
Dude step, it don't get better.
12 month relationship with a bipolar, manic depressant with multiple (7) personalites, 3.5 years to get her out of my life and 2 suicide attempts when I did try to leave.
This girl was great whe she was up there but the problem was she went through moods and personalities quicker than a Formule 1 racing car throuh the gears.
Dude step, it don't get better.
Then even seeing the lack of control especially when it comes to sex and the need for intimacy with various people is alarming This should also be examined..most guys will not ADMIT this too happened in their relationship with these type of women. IT'S NOT YOU..it's THEM..and no matter how good or how long you hit it this will still happen outside of your relationship..sometimes you find out about it and sometimes you are totally unaware this has even taken place..but when or IF you find this out it too can be devastating to say the least.Sad when you think about it, the whole mental disorder subject. Being in the situation myself and sincerely wanting to help the person shows me that it can be a huge headache and emotional roller coaster...
Then even seeing the lack of control especially when it comes to sex and the need for intimacy with various people is alarming This should also be examined..most guys will not ADMIT this too happened in their relationship with these type of women. IT'S NOT YOU..it's THEM..and no matter how good or how long you hit it this will still happen outside of your relationship..sometimes you find out about it and sometimes you are totally unaware this has even taken place..but when or IF you find this out it too can be devastating to say the least.
So true! This whole subject matter is very deep and interesting. When it comes to YOUR emotions also it is very important that YOU are in check with them...TRY not to get caught up in LOOKS/APPEARANCE!
I resent this
Bipolar people, in general, can have massive mood swings that can last from a few days to a few months long, alternating between the "euphoric" state of mania to the low of depression. Sounds like, with the lying, maybe she has more of a personality disorder, though.
Besides the daddy questions, see if you can start a convo about whether or not she hs ever seeked help (i.e., therapy or counseling) in the past. Put it on you, like, you've considered it or are considering it so you don't put her on the offense. If you're truly interested in her, hopefully, she'll be honest and come clean about some things. If not, and you're just trying to hit it, bipolar disorder can be truly stressful for family/friends of a person to deal with and takes a HELL of a lot of patience and understanding.
Be careful not to "Martyr Yourself" for this chic. This is just a simptastic situation waiting to happen. She's might not be the threat, but you might be a threat to yourself, because of your feelings for her. Obviously you have feelings for her because you made a thread about it. Malicious bipolar "quips" are a motherfucker, especially coming from a pretty chic.. Them shits can resonate inside a mans fragile ego like shotgun pellets inside a crystal vase..
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I would say from my experience that these boys have lived through this to. All the advice you need is here in these four posts.
My girl had a break down after watching the hospital amputate all of her brothers limbs trying to save him from meningitis, the baby died in the end and she ended up having a breakdown and being sectioned for 6 months. Tis happenned about 2 years before i started seeing her, she manged to hide it for from me for about 6 months, I was suspicious at 3 months. If they do not keep up with their medication then you got serious problems, they need to maintain a regular sleeping pattern and be aware various foods and additives can be triggers.
I don't remember to much about her medication but Lithium comes to mind.
So what does “being sectioned” mean?
The term “being sectioned” refers to the use of a part of the Mental Health Act to gain legal permission to give someone compulsory assessment or treatment for a mental health problem. Nigel Turner explains in his Hyperguide to the Mental Health Act. He says “The Mental Health Act 1983 is, like any other Act of Parliament, divided into sections. This has coined the term “being sectioned” to mean being compulsorily admitted to hospital.”
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WOW! So the breakdown really does play a role in how stable they are afterwards it seems.
I read all of the stuff in this post alot it has become my dam therapy!
This post should be a sticky!!!!
I had two females in my life that I knew were diagnosed bipolar and it is was a very stressful time in my life, they were both very beautiful black women, drop dead gorgeous but when that switch flipped in there head, it did not matter where they were, Restaurants, social affairs, on the road driving with family, on there job, it amounted to a catastrophic meltdown, leading to verbal and sometimes physical abuse,Knives, Machetes,fingernails,(which they claim you broke while digging out your face) Thrown drinks,food, spit, can be there weapon of choice. you are always on your guard not to set them off,and you never know what does, loving them is a daily chore, you can be faithful to them to the max and it does not matter, They can easily pair you up with your cousin, sister in law or anyone with a pussy. medicating them long term is a long term suicidal watch. The last one I had threw me out of my own crib!! put all my belongings in front of my JOB, man I was embarrassed but I was relieved when I did not have to come home to her that night. Restraining order!! "I'm sorry I'll be good if you come back home", "I was just mad you came home late" "let's go away together" A next sweetie on my job who felt bad for my situation took me in, and Ive been with her ever since in peace at night and day.Rest in Peace Vesta
Rest in Peace Vesta
WOW!!!
Trust me I am not trying to take in there but...this is also a SPIRITUAL problem. It is good to hear other peoples experience concerning this issue...it is MIND BLOWING!
WOW!!!
Trust me I am not trying to take in there but...this is also a SPIRITUAL problem. It is good to hear other peoples experience concerning this issue...it is MIND BLOWING!
It's no joke, especially when a crazy female resorts to only e-mailing you and lying to you.
I won't quote the whole Narcissist post but that shit struck all kinds of nerves with me. I just got out of a situation with a woman who was the archetype of that shit. Women like this will have you questioning your sanity and common sense. Nothing is worth that.
Be careful not to "Martyr Yourself" for this chic. This is just a simptastic situation waiting to happen. She's might not be the threat, but you might be a threat to yourself, because of your feelings for her. Obviously you have feelings for her because you made a thread about it. Malicious bipolar "quips" are a motherfucker, especially coming from a pretty chic.. Them shits can resonate inside a mans fragile ego like shotgun pellets inside a crystal vase..
This shit right here is truth
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Living_With_a_Narcissist
HOLY SHIT. This shit is the truth.
This information has just made the whole world better.
This explains a lot.
WOW
HOLY SHIT. This shit is the truth.
This information has just made the whole world better.
This explains a lot.
WOW
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I had this mixed chick one time, strong 8. Curly hair, phat ass nice piece. On the first date, shorty told me she was paranoid schizophrenic. It was a good date, but we never kicked it again, I just don't have time for the drama.
Just an update for anyone interested. Yesterday was my daughters 7th birthday. It was her mothers court appointed time so I wasn't invited to her party. She told my daughter I was too busy to come to her party. It hurt, but there isn't much I can do except continue the fight. This shit is the worse pain I can imagine because I don't see an end to it. But there is one. I just hope it comes soon.
Damn!!!
Thanks. I just remember reading posts where brothers would say "don't get married", etc. And I always felt like that philosophy was short sighted. The black family, blah,blah was what was truly in my heart. I never had that, so the fantasy, almost like a womans, was to have a stable family. So, I worked my ass off, and you know what? All of it is gone. Because I chose poorly and I allowed that "fantasy" to cloud my judgement.
That's so dam cold! She's so looney that she's already starting to corrupt the kids mind, obviously trying to get the kid to hate you!
These looney women can be extremely unreasonable man, its just a dam shame that they are ill on that level, just evil and miserable!
And you deserve that bro, like all of us good men do!
Just pray to God and hopefully this storm will pass you up soon!
Damn, you goin' through it, ain't you???
Right, just imagine going through what HE is going through. These females can be ruthless man, ill ass chicks!
Thanks. Yes, it's a bitch, but there are moments where I see light at the end of the tunnel. It is a lot of fucking work, but I have to rebuild. I'm a screenwriter by trade, so I've pitched this bullshit to a couple of studios, but they don't want a film that puts women in a negative light because they are the primary viewing audience. It gets to a point where you get tired of talking about it. Your friends get tired of hearing it, and advice no matter how good just sounds like words. I just want this bitch to go away.
Yep, that's why i gave up and had to quit talking about it!
What's a trip is the chick i was talking about was a dam screenwriter.
Something I got from the link above:
"Girls and women pursue relationships with boys and men because they think males aren’t interested in having relationships. It isn’t uncommon for a female to pursue a commitment from a male she doesn’t even like, much less want to spend the rest of her life with.
Many females don’t even know how to receive kindness or love from males. More often than not they believe longing is the primary component in love.
Even though I focused on married women who were having affairs, I did occasionally interview single women. Listen to what a couple of the single females had to say about the males with whom they were involved.
One woman had been dating her boy- friend for a year and a half and she desperately wanted to marry him. During our interview she said, “We really don’t have that much in common. I don’t like how much he drinks and we really don’t have very good sex, but I love him.”
Another woman said, “He treats me like shit and he never wants to spend time with me. Our whole relationship is about him.” I asked this woman if the sex was good, because I thought maybe that was why she stayed in the relationship. She replied, “The sex is terrible. He won’t touch me. If I want to get off, I have to get myself off.”
This particular woman was beautiful. She would have a difficult time finding a man who wouldn’t like to be with her. At the end of our conversation I asked her why she wanted to marry the guy and she said, “Because I love him.”
Both of these women, if they haven’t already, will probably wind up marrying the men they were with at the time I interviewed them. And both women will probably not only divorce these men, they will blame the men for causing the divorce, even though throughout their courtship they continuously professed and ultimately convinced the men of their love.
Although these women might label themselves, “women who love too much,” the truth of the matter is, they don’t love these men. They love the pursuit. When we stop sympathizing with women in similar situations, we’ll start to see some change.
Once women realize that they often chase after commitment in the same way that men chase after sex—pursue and discard—women will stop seeing themselves as victims and will start taking responsibility for their choices."
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