Experiencing A BIPOLAR Women

not sure if bipolar but:

know this lady,married to this dude 20 years who has an "ice queen" type demeanor. She knows how to move around socially and is very educated,but she plots and plans on all her relationships to control the direction she wants them to go in. when she is not satisfied with her husband,she,according to her "makes her middle son massage her feet" and she has admitted to making erotic noises as he does it. the boy is only like 5 years old and does not know anybetter. He seems confused alot about things. She also is very passive aggressive with her husband and makes fun of her children. If she is called out about it, given her education,she backpedals and is very articulate with her response.She designs it to make perfect sense so that she is absolved of any responsibility. I had to cut her off, she is seemingly sociopathic. I have reported her to folks about her incestuous behaviors with her son....her husband stopped that process though via claiming it was a lie...

I used to mess with another woman like that, who then backpedaled when I asked her to admit wrong she did to me as there was wrong I did to her. same characteristics,in med school,smart,articulate,but something is "off" about her and it aint cuz she is a lil hood...

This sounds more like Narcissistic Personality Disorder . Click the link.
 
thanks and this fits her to the T...I feel sorry for the kids...

one of the most dangerous type people to ever interact with...because they are so deceptive.

its kinda sad because it boils down to them being some evil shady muthafuckas that cent even help being that way.
 
one of the most dangerous type people to ever interact with...because they are so deceptive.

its kinda sad because it boils down to them being some evil shady muthafuckas that cent even help being that way.

Exactly right! You can't deal with them at all, ever. And they never have good relationships due to it! :smh:
 
All women are a bit nutty and if she isn't, all it takes is for something to happen to make her 'crack'. they don't handle challenges well, especially from the guy(s)they actually care about...

you obviously shouldn't be messing with broads that are clearly insane

but especially if she has been raped/abused

leave em alone

they will bring nothing but ruin to your life, stop savin em and save ya self from a waste of time and money

once a woman turns bitter,they are like black holes, nothing but a void on the inside surrounded by destructive energy.

real talk...I had a bitch..a SUPER BAD BITCH!! SHE was crazy as hell.had to let her go because of this! I hung in there 2 years to long...abusive as hell. She Changed ME INTO A LOONEY TUNE. Now I am trying to recover.
 
2 lying ass Crapicorns 1 lying ass Scorpiho and 1 lying ass Gemini bitch.

All were mixed

All were pretty with low self esteem

All but one faced the true Sinister and fell at his feet. The one that didn't was the one that taught me how to stop my heartbeat and deal with a woman without my emotions.

She is actually the only one I am friends with today. :lol:
 
2 lying ass Crapicorns 1 lying ass Scorpiho and 1 lying ass Gemini bitch.

All were mixed

All were pretty with low self esteem

All but one faced the true Sinister and fell at his feet. The one that didn't was the one that taught me how to stop my heartbeat and deal with a woman without my emotions.

She is actually the only one I am friends with today. :lol:

:smh::smh::smh::smh::smh:

I guess Caps are liars, from my experiences and others! :smh::smh:
 
Re: Experiencing A BIPOLAR Woman

Have any of you guys ever dated or met a Bipolar female before?
In real life or online?

I think i am dealing with one and i would like to know what your experiences were like with the female you were dating/sleeping with!

This one female i'm speaking on is very attractive, she's gorgeous, a red bone dime supreme and she was born rich, has a career and has dated very successful men in the past.

To make it short and to the point, i'm noticing extreme personality switches..very bad mood swings, happy one day, crazy attitude the next, jealousy and just alot of lies about thing's, it's like she's delusional or something and it's showing more and more. Becoming very selfish and irrational. Basically it's like she has a split personality. I've been reading thing's online about Bipolar people and 99% of the stuff fits her so now i'm trying to figure out if i should bail out of even being cool with her. :smh::smh:

Anyone ever experienced a Bipolar female before? Please tell me about the experience!​

Long time ago. It was everything that you described! Would sometimes go to sleep making crazy sex and when we'd get up for work, she might have a crazy woman attitude. I would be SMH! Sometimes, I would drop her off at work and she would be in a happy mood. Later, when I'd pick her up, she would have a shitty attitude with me.

Finally, I couldn't take it anymore (after she threatened me with violence). Although the coochy was FANTASTIC, I had to create a scheme (with the help of my landlord) to get her to move out! I never seen her again! Good Riddance!!!
 
When I first entered this thread I came in to get a laugh and learn something. However when I started reading all the posts and comments affected me deeply to the point I had to log off and take a break from BGOL. During that time off I started a daily journal for a small time period and I would summarize each week of the behavior patterns. After a while I could pin point when a argument was about to take place, I could even recognize lies by just carefully listening to the sound and pitch of her voice. I recommended professional help and as a loving husband I would attend all sessions and see if I had issues also. I set up the counseling and she refused to go so I went on my own.

Fellas im on my sixth session and I can honestly say it never has been me and I have parted ways. It was a very hard choice but like one brother mentioned my sanity is more important than anything. Im in the process of repairing relationships with friends and family that I had no clue had changed due to things she was telling them without my knowledge. Being damaged emotionally on a daily basis is very hard to detect unless you are surrounded by people who can recognize it and can expose subtle details that start to make sense. I was too busy to think and stop for a moment and just slow down. Im currently in the process of recovery and rebuilding everything around me one minute at a time.

Dayummmm homie, that 10 membership on BGOL is worth it, huh?:yes::yes:....life changing shit....
 
When I first entered this thread I came in to get a laugh and learn something. However when I started reading all the posts and comments affected me deeply to the point I had to log off and take a break from BGOL. During that time off I started a daily journal for a small time period and I would summarize each week of the behavior patterns. After a while I could pin point when a argument was about to take place, I could even recognize lies by just carefully listening to the sound and pitch of her voice. I recommended professional help and as a loving husband I would attend all sessions and see if I had issues also. I set up the counseling and she refused to go so I went on my own.

Fellas im on my sixth session and I can honestly say it never has been me and I have parted ways. It was a very hard choice but like one brother mentioned my sanity is more important than anything. Im in the process of repairing relationships with friends and family that I had no clue had changed due to things she was telling them without my knowledge. Being damaged emotionally on a daily basis is very hard to detect unless you are surrounded by people who can recognize it and can expose subtle details that start to make sense. I was too busy to think and stop for a moment and just slow down. Im currently in the process of recovery and rebuilding everything around me one minute at a time.

:eek: Yeah man emotional trauma is no joke, good thing you found out and you're trying to recover! :smh:
 
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I dont think it's due to race mixing as much as it is the twisted value that our community has been conditioned to place on light skin and the hatred that the "west" has for darker skin. Many people view "lightskin" as a beauty and means of escape sexually and even physically, an escape from something or someplace other than in their own darker skin and the manufactured stigma that comes along with it in this backwards society. Wanting to "get up in that" "light skin", leads to the molestation of many young lightskin girls. Thats why many of them broads is crazy as fuck by the time they become of age. Shit is sad on all fronts... Not all light chicks are mixed with white white, thats not the only way to be "light" but that doesn't matter to many... Most black ppl don't want children that look like them, lighter skin folks too, consciously and/or subconsciously .:( When I see a married couple where both husband and wife are darker complected I feel good for various reasons, I'm not gonna lie. It's kind of a rare sight in certain parts of the country.


I'm looking at alot of the post, and I'm like "Dam I'm lucky". :D You're right...the one comment alot of the posters make is She's fine, light skinned, mix etc. I do believe that being so called "beautiful" could be a bad thing for a women. She will always be looked at from a sex standpoint before what actually matters the most, and that's what type of person they really are. I have a nice looking smart cousin who was recently admitted for a mental breakdown, because she has been abused (games) by different men in the past.:( So we do play a role in the mental issues our women have.
 
When I first entered this thread I came in to get a laugh and learn something. However when I started reading all the posts and comments affected me deeply to the point I had to log off and take a break from BGOL. During that time off I started a daily journal for a small time period and I would summarize each week of the behavior patterns. After a while I could pin point when a argument was about to take place, I could even recognize lies by just carefully listening to the sound and pitch of her voice. I recommended professional help and as a loving husband I would attend all sessions and see if I had issues also. I set up the counseling and she refused to go so I went on my own.

Fellas im on my sixth session and I can honestly say it never has been me and I have parted ways. It was a very hard choice but like one brother mentioned my sanity is more important than anything. Im in the process of repairing relationships with friends and family that I had no clue had changed due to things she was telling them without my knowledge. Being damaged emotionally on a daily basis is very hard to detect unless you are surrounded by people who can recognize it and can expose subtle details that start to make sense. I was too busy to think and stop for a moment and just slow down. Im currently in the process of recovery and rebuilding everything around me one minute at a time.

Good luck on your situation bro. Glad you making it back.

This thread is just fucking heartbreaking. There's a lot of pain up in here... :smh:
 
Good luck on your situation bro. Glad you making it back.

This thread is just fucking heartbreaking. There's a lot of pain up in here... :smh:

:lol::lol::lol::lol:

Its not really funny but the way you worded it kills me. And i'm the one who started this whole post.

I will admit that a dude still gets mad about that bitch that pulled that stunt on me when i think about it but i know that she had mental issues, like i stated before beauty is nothing its all in the heart that counts and these females can be very vicious due to their past issues with men!
 

I'm looking at alot of the post, and I'm like "Dam I'm lucky". :D You're right...the one comment alot of the posters make is She's fine, light skinned, mix etc. I do believe that being so called "beautiful" could be a bad thing for a women. She will always be looked at from a sex standpoint before what actually matters the most, and that's what type of person they really are. I have a nice looking smart cousin who was recently admitted for a mental breakdown, because she has been abused (games) by different men in the past.:( So we do play a role in the mental issues our women have.

That's what fucks alot of men up, that face and exotic look. I was always into that since a young kid, the first young lady i ever kissed on the cheek was a Laker cheerleader back in 1982, Norm Nixons girlfriend that lived on my cousins block. (before he met Debbie Allen). Her and my neighbor who was light with long hair. :smh:
 
Been there done that if she on her meds she cool but if she not taking her meds move on is all i can say. Save you a whole lot of drama trust me......
I dont usually say shit but you right about the meds, once they come off that shit they turn into super crazy bitches dude
 
I believe there are a lot of women that have bipolar or a mental disorder, but have not been diagnosed.:smh:
 
I believe there are a lot of women that have bipolar or a mental disorder, but have not been diagnosed.:smh:

Well...I think more have this PMDD shit that is underdiagnosed. Don't make no sense!


What are the symptoms of PMDD?


Symptoms of PMS and PMDD can be similar but are more intense and debilitating in PMDD. The symptoms of PMDD also may vary among affected women. Some of the most commonly reported symptoms include:
The symptoms of PMDD are related to the menstrual cycle, typically occurring in the second half (luteal phase) of the cycle, and resolving within the first few days after the menstrual period has begun.
 
Repair mode is going well...

One thing i will say is when you actually leave you see just how fucked up they really are. Im standing back looking at all the manipulation that is going on, all the lies and evil jealous hateful ass shit that is going on. Its very scary to know you slept in the same bed with a person that evil....
 
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Repair mode is going well...

One thing i will say is when you actually leave you see just how fucked up they really are. I standing back looking at all the manipulation that is going on, all the lies and evil jealous hateful ass shit that is going on. Its very scary to know you slept in the same bed with a person that evil....

Can we get a re-cap? I can't go back through 7 pages...what your girl do? Try to kill your ass?
 
Can we get a re-cap? I can't go back through 7 pages...what your girl do? Try to kill your ass?

‘Me versus You’ mentality;
Competitiveness;
‘Tit for tat’ retaliations;
Striving for the ‘spotlight’ and attention;
Excessive generosity to outside people;
Uncomfortable when others are incurring attention or praise;
If can’t be centre of attention will either discredit or leave the experience;
May fake illnesses or problems to procure attention / sympathy;
Abusive verbal behaviour when angered or insecure;
Tendency toward violent and even criminal behaviour;
Inappropriate and inapplicable language in front of women and children;
Dark moods that affect others;
False promises;
Glorifies and falsifies achievements past and present;
Expects to be recognised and praised;
Finds others not complying with wants intolerable;
Extreme sensitivity to criticism;
Extreme defensiveness when confronted;
Pathological lying;
Disdain for rules, regulations, decency and morality;
Childish outbursts and behaviour;
Very little consideration for how behaviour affects others;
Extreme lack of compassion or sensitivity towards love partners (and others') problems;
Grossly unsupportive to familiars in times of need;
Brushes incidences under the carpet;
Uses allies real or imagined to back up claims and arguments;
Uses guilt and manipulation to influence love partners;
Doesn’t trust love partners;
Tendency towards unreasonable jealousy and possessiveness;
Capable of sexually degrading name calling;
Can steal, harm or hide property to sabotage love partners;
Uses vengeance, threats and intimidation to control ;
Uses excessive charm and manipulation to control;
Little (if any) sense of conscience;
Discredits love partners to gain attention / sympathy from others;
Will ‘attack’ when confronted or questioned;
Emotionally punishes love partners when feeling insecure;
Emotionally punishes love partners when they are struggling with issues, losses, grief or challenges;
Employs unpredictable and unaccountable behaviour;
Capable of ‘disgusting’ behaviour to gain the upper hand and control a situation;
Feels powerful and fulfilled when creating powerlessness in another;
Gross failure to apologise or have sympathy after creating tears, distress or trauma to the love partner.

100% on the money.....tried to kill me mentally
 
I have and that shit is dangerous, u got to ease your way out of that situation
 
For all that recall our earlier conversation (Pages ago) just wanted to give you an update. The court evaluator awarded me primary physical custody of my kids. The fight isn't over, but its a major victory. Thanks for the well wishes.
 
I dont usually say shit but you right about the meds, once they come off that shit they turn into super crazy bitches dude

sadly :( i know very few and i'm kin to very few women who are NOT on some type of mind-altering drug to avoid depression.

these women need to live in reality and stop comparing their lives to the shit they see on tv.

shit's pathetic.

but even worse, i have a bitch-made, faggot ass nicca following me around on this board... that's even more pitiful.

his problems are identical to your average female...that shit is waaaaay pitiful.
 
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