Experiencing A BIPOLAR Women

[ljinsane]

Thanks. Yes, it's a bitch, but there are moments where I see light at the end of the tunnel. It is a lot of fucking work, but I have to rebuild. I'm a screenwriter by trade, so I've pitched this bullshit to a couple of studios, but they don't want a film that puts women in a negative light because they are the primary viewing audience. It gets to a point where you get tired of talking about it. Your friends get tired of hearing it, and advice no matter how good just sounds like words. I just want this bitch to go away.

When it got to this point I knew it was time for me to file for divorce. I feel your pain bruh. I moved, got 50/50 custody of my lil girl, kept my address from the bitch. She still found out where I live now...came to my house banging on the door in the middle of a Saturday with my lil girl in tow. I was like wtf? I did not even bother to answer the door. And this was a damn near a week after she hit me with her car in front of my mother's house on labor day...after she showed up unannounced and we told her to leave. I'll be getting full custody soon and hopefully won't have to worry bout her ass too much after that especially once the divorce is final.

 

[water]

When it got to this point I knew it was time for me to file for divorce. I feel your pain bruh. I moved, got 50/50 custody of my lil girl, kept my address from the bitch. She still found out where I live now...came to my house banging on the door in the middle of a Saturday with my lil girl in tow. I was like wtf? I did not even bother to answer the door. And this was a damn near a week after she hit me with her car in front of my mother's house on memorial day...after she showed up unannounced and we told her to leave. I'll be getting full custody soon and hopefully won't have to worry bout her ass too much after that especially once the divorce is final.

 

[THEONE7]

Bump

 

[Whistler]

Been there, done that. What you are describing is Borderline Personality Disorder with narcissistic traits. Old girl lies? Loves to be in drama? Must be the center of attention? Doesn't take ownership for any of her short comings? Bounce, it is not worth it. That pretty package contains a MONSTER on the inside.

 

[J.E.T.S]

If you are with a woman born between December 1st and January 30th... Get rid of them now. All Bi-polar and full of shit.

Every single one that I been with got on the knucklehead tip at some point. They like to creep it up on you.

 

[Action Jack]

I don't mean to sound like Yacuub or anything, but I noticed that several of the descriptions of these women include the term "light-skinned." My psycho had a white mother and black father, about 5'9, legs for days, and would fuck anywhere, anytime (picture a lighter version of Mary Jane from "Half-Baked."). She would lie about shit so trivial that I can't tell you much about the chick because unless I could verify it personally, it's subject to being complete bullshit. I sorta realized it at the time, but man, at first the chick was unreal! We met and fucked immediately and often. Lost touch for about a year. She came back to town and again we fucked immediately and often. Then one day came to my job (back when I was struggling; didn't have a car), picked me up in a white Bronco II suv, took me to the crib and handed me the keys. "It's for you."

Just like that. Needless to say, she had my undivided attention.

A year later we were still together, and it was a 750 Katana. Just like that. Everybody thought I had it going on with this bitch. She looked good but it was torture, like testing all of your psychological limits at once. I started writing shit down because she had that Jedi Mind Trick shit down pat.

MY Dumb Ass: "Didn't you pay the light bill?"

Loca: "No, I paid the gas bill."

MY Dumb Ass: "Oh, I thought you said you'd paid it...ok, well, here's some more money because I'm stupid."

Loca: "Ok, baby. I love you." (immediately goes off to probably get a room to fuck a co-worker)

Oh yeah, she had scammed that Bronco. So imagine my surprise to get off work one day months later and my parking spot was empty. Repo'd. Oh well, wasn't really mine anyway.

The 750 was a scam, too. I hear muhfuckas in my garage one Saturday morning, I run out to the kitchen in a towel and I'm looking at three white people in my garage looking at my bike.

CAC #1: "Oh, we're sorry. We're here to pick up the motorcycle."

CAC #2: "'She' said nobody would be here. We're with blah-blah-blah Financial, etc."

My cell phone rings. Its her, telling me some shit about how its temporary or some shit. Truth is they hadn't been paid in months and were threatening legal action. Repo'd.

More and more lies. Fights over lies. My missing tools and her broke-ass mother's sudden appearance--coincidence? Pawn shop slip says not. This kind of shit happened all the time. Good times mixed with horrible, life-changing moments of baffling lapses in logic.

I escaped this wretched succubus during Hurricane Rita. When Houston evacuated, every hotel room in a 600 mile radius was booked and we wound up in Birmingham, Alabama. I picked a fight with her, grabbed my shit and left her ass at the hotel. My cursor to god, I felt as free as Andy Dufresne at the end of "Shawshank."

Oh, and I think she may have been married the whole time we were together.

Sorry I'm rambling, but whatever mistakes I've made in the past are now lessons learned. And whatever knowledge I can pass on to another that can draw something from it and avoid this bullshit is all worth it to me. Shit, if you're in Houston I'll help you move.

 

[marcvoi]

I don't mean to sound like Yacuub or anything, but I noticed that several of the descriptions of these women include the term "light-skinned." My psycho had a white mother and black father, about 5'9, legs for days, and would fuck anywhere, anytime (picture a lighter version of Mary Jane from "Half-Baked."). She would lie about shit so trivial that I can't tell you much about the chick because unless I could verify it personally, it's subject to being complete bullshit. I sorta realized it at the time, but man, at first the chick was unreal! We met and fucked immediately and often. Lost touch for about a year. She came back to town and again we fucked immediately and often. Then one day came to my job (back when I was struggling; didn't have a car), picked me up in a white Bronco II suv, took me to the crib and handed me the keys. "It's for you."

Just like that. Needless to say, she had my undivided attention.

A year later we were still together, and it was a 750 Katana. Just like that. Everybody thought I had it going on with this bitch. She looked good but it was torture, like testing all of your psychological limits at once. I started writing shit down because she had that Jedi Mind Trick shit down pat.

MY Dumb Ass: "Didn't you pay the light bill?"

Loca: "No, I paid the gas bill."

MY Dumb Ass: "Oh, I thought you said you'd paid it...ok, well, here's some more money because I'm stupid."

Loca: "Ok, baby. I love you." (immediately goes off to probably get a room to fuck a co-worker)

Oh yeah, she had scammed that Bronco. So imagine my surprise to get off work one day months later and my parking spot was empty. Repo'd. Oh well, wasn't really mine anyway.

The 750 was a scam, too. I hear muhfuckas in my garage one Saturday morning, I run out to the kitchen in a towel and I'm looking at three white people in my garage looking at my bike.

CAC #1: "Oh, we're sorry. We're here to pick up the motorcycle."

CAC #2: "'She' said nobody would be here. We're with blah-blah-blah Financial, etc."

My cell phone rings. Its her, telling me some shit about how its temporary or some shit. Truth is they hadn't been paid in months and were threatening legal action. Repo'd.

More and more lies. Fights over lies. My missing tools and her broke-ass mother's sudden appearance--coincidence? Pawn shop slip says not. This kind of shit happened all the time. Good times mixed with horrible, life-changing moments of baffling lapses in logic.

I escaped this wretched succubus during Hurricane Rita. When Houston evacuated, every hotel room in a 600 mile radius was booked and we wound up in Birmingham, Alabama. I picked a fight with her, grabbed my shit and left her ass at the hotel. My cursor to god, I felt as free as Andy Dufresne at the end of "Shawshank."
Oh, and I think she may have been married the whole time we were together.

Sorry I'm rambling, but whatever mistakes I've made in the past are now lessons learned. And whatever knowledge I can pass on to another that can draw something from it and avoid this bullshit is all worth it to me. Shit, if you're in Houston I'll help you move.

good read bro

 

[BestCreW35]

Been there, done that. What you are describing is Borderline Personality Disorder with narcissistic traits. Old girl lies? Loves to be in drama? Must be the center of attention? Doesn't take ownership for any of her short comings? Bounce, it is not worth it. That pretty package contains a MONSTER on the inside.

Yeah she was a gorgeous beast, abusive , evil chick that played sweet for like 6 months.

 

[BestCreW35]

If you are with a woman born between December 1st and January 30th... Get rid of them now. All Bi-polar and full of shit.

Every single one that I been with got on the knucklehead tip at some point. They like to creep it up on you.

Yes, that's what happened to me. My first and only Capricorn!

 

[King of Pain]

Yes, that's what happened to me. My first and only Capricorn!

Lol! 12/5!

 

[King of Pain]

I hope you get peace of mind and things work out for you!

Thanks. It's funny. A bunch of her family and friends wrote declarations of support for her to the custody evaluator. I know its petty, but them motherfuckers sat up in my house eating my food, smiling and shit. I've paid their bills, and helped them with a lot of shit. I know they are just supporting their own, but....bitches.

 

[big pimp]

Naw, she's probably just a Leo, Aries or Pisces or some shit... Newsflash bruh, Most women are "bipolar" in some form or fashion...

Seriously tho. Find out if she has a good relationship with her father and mother. Thats the #1 rule before getting emotionally involved with a woman.. Has she ever been raped or molested? Many women suffer from psychological issues due to rape/molestation or abandonment (or all three).

^^^

 

[BestCreW35]

Lol! 12/5!

12/31..... unfuckin believable!

 

[THEONE7]

I would really like to hear more peoples experience with Bipolar Black females Cause this is really like therapy and insight for me, but I do know that you must learn from the lessons in order for them to actually be effective . It is very troubling and even sad to know that the mental health situation with our people is really messed up


Like I said, keep the knowledge and experiences coming, many are watching and learning

 

[BestCreW35]

I would really like to hear more peoples experience with Bipolar Black females Cause this is really like therapy and insight for me, but I do know that you must learn from the lessons in order for them to actually be effective . It is very troubling and even sad to know that the mental health situation with our people is really messed up


Like I said, keep the knowledge and experiences coming, many are watching and learning

Right, this should be a sticky, there are many reading this post but afraid to open up on their situations!

 

[THEONE7]

Right, this should be a sticky, there are many reading this post but afraid to open up on their situations!

Very true. I think this thread is very valuable for all of us. I was amazed to see that many people have experience this situation and it has helped quite a bit. Thank you to everyone that gave their knowledge and personal experiences!

 

[THEONE7]

Bump for the value!

 

[half_dead]

I have a bipolar sister. She's hard to deal with. Whenever she gets a boyfriend I feel bad for the guy because they don't know what they are getting in to and I'm not gonna warn them.

 

[Naha-Nago]

I hope you get peace of mind and things work out for you!

*two cents*

 

[BestCreW35]

I have a bipolar sister. She's hard to deal with. Whenever she gets a boyfriend I feel bad for the guy because they don't know what they are getting in to and I'm not gonna warn them.

Describe how she acts bro!!

 

[THEONE7]

I have a bipolar sister. She's hard to deal with. Whenever she gets a boyfriend I feel bad for the guy because they don't know what they are getting in to and I'm not gonna warn them.

Yea break it down

 

[True Real Info]

I would really like to hear more peoples experience with Bipolar Black females Cause this is really like therapy and insight for me, but I do know that you must learn from the lessons in order for them to actually be effective . It is very troubling and even sad to know that the mental health situation with our people is really messed up


Like I said, keep the knowledge and experiences coming, many are watching and learning

not sure if bipolar but:

know this lady,married to this dude 20 years who has an "ice queen" type demeanor. She knows how to move around socially and is very educated,but she plots and plans on all her relationships to control the direction she wants them to go in. when she is not satisfied with her husband,she,according to her "makes her middle son massage her feet" and she has admitted to making erotic noises as he does it. the boy is only like 5 years old and does not know anybetter. He seems confused alot about things. She also is very passive aggressive with her husband and makes fun of her children. If she is called out about it, given her education,she backpedals and is very articulate with her response.She designs it to make perfect sense so that she is absolved of any responsibility. I had to cut her off, she is seemingly sociopathic. I have reported her to folks about her incestuous behaviors with her son....her husband stopped that process though via claiming it was a lie...

I used to mess with another woman like that, who then backpedaled when I asked her to admit wrong she did to me as there was wrong I did to her. same characteristics,in med school,smart,articulate,but something is "off" about her and it aint cuz she is a lil hood...

 

[THEONE7]

not sure if bipolar but:

know this lady,married to this dude 20 years who has an "ice queen" type demeanor. She knows how to move around socially and is very educated,but she plots and plans on all her relationships to control the direction she wants them to go in. when she is not satisfied with her husband,she,according to her "makes her middle son massage her feet" and she has admitted to making erotic noises as he does it. the boy is only like 5 years old and does not know anybetter. He seems confused alot about things. She also is very passive aggressive with her husband and makes fun of her children. If she is called out about it, given her education,she backpedals and is very articulate with her response.She designs it to make perfect sense so that she is absolved of any responsibility. I had to cut her off, she is seemingly sociopathic. I have reported her to folks about her incestuous behaviors with her son....her husband stopped that process though via claiming it was a lie...

I used to mess with another woman like that, who then backpedaled when I asked her to admit wrong she did to me as there was wrong I did to her. same characteristics,in med school,smart,articulate,but something is "off" about her and it aint cuz she is a lil hood...

Interesting

 

[BestCreW35]

not sure if bipolar but:

know this lady,married to this dude 20 years who has an "ice queen" type demeanor. She knows how to move around socially and is very educated,but she plots and plans on all her relationships to control the direction she wants them to go in. when she is not satisfied with her husband,she,according to her "makes her middle son massage her feet" and she has admitted to making erotic noises as he does it. the boy is only like 5 years old and does not know anybetter. He seems confused alot about things. She also is very passive aggressive with her husband and makes fun of her children. If she is called out about it, given her education,she backpedals and is very articulate with her response.She designs it to make perfect sense so that she is absolved of any responsibility. I had to cut her off, she is seemingly sociopathic. I have reported her to folks about her incestuous behaviors with her son....her husband stopped that process though via claiming it was a lie...

I used to mess with another woman like that, who then backpedaled when I asked her to admit wrong she did to me as there was wrong I did to her. same characteristics,in med school,smart,articulate,but something is "off" about her and it aint cuz she is a lil hood...

This right here sounds like the person i was dating also.

 

[bigirl]

Mr bipolar had a 4 day long episode a few days ago. It was pretty epic I dont even feel like writing about it in any detail because I am relishing the calm after the storm quiet and peaceful like nothing ever happened and you best believe I aint saying a word.

 

[Sango]

It was still funny tho. But the most bipolar women i've been with were Scorpios

This!!!

 

[Lucky7s]

Bump...my Pops say leave high yella women alone, most have been molested or raped and are fucked up in the head...plus too much white bloodline.

He may have a point because I don't know ONE yella bitch that is NOT nuts!

 

[kwazdog]

Bump...my Pops say leave high yella women alone, most have been molested or raped and are fucked up in the head...plus too much white bloodline.

He may have a point because I don't know ONE yella bitch that is NOT nuts!

I dont think it's due to race mixing as much as it is the twisted value that our community has been conditioned to place on light skin and the hatred that the "west" has for darker skin. Many people view "lightskin" as a beauty and means of escape sexually and even physically, an escape from something or someplace other than in their own darker skin and the manufactured stigma that comes along with it in this backwards society. Wanting to "get up in that" "light skin", leads to the molestation of many young lightskin girls. Thats why many of them broads is crazy as fuck by the time they become of age. Shit is sad on all fronts... Not all light chicks are mixed with white white, thats not the only way to be "light" but that doesn't matter to many... Most black ppl don't want children that look like them, lighter skin folks too, consciously and/or subconsciously . When I see a married couple where both husband and wife are darker complected I feel good for various reasons, I'm not gonna lie. It's kind of a rare sight in certain parts of the country.

 

[mariano42]

not sure if bipolar but:

know this lady,married to this dude 20 years who has an "ice queen" type demeanor. She knows how to move around socially and is very educated,but she plots and plans on all her relationships to control the direction she wants them to go in. when she is not satisfied with her husband,she,according to her "makes her middle son massage her feet" and she has admitted to making erotic noises as he does it. the boy is only like 5 years old and does not know anybetter. He seems confused alot about things. She also is very passive aggressive with her husband and makes fun of her children. If she is called out about it, given her education,she backpedals and is very articulate with her response.She designs it to make perfect sense so that she is absolved of any responsibility. I had to cut her off, she is seemingly sociopathic. I have reported her to folks about her incestuous behaviors with her son....her husband stopped that process though via claiming it was a lie...

I used to mess with another woman like that, who then backpedaled when I asked her to admit wrong she did to me as there was wrong I did to her. same characteristics,in med school,smart,articulate,but something is "off" about her and it aint cuz she is a lil hood...

thats not bipolar.


i think ninjas in here is misusing the word bipolar and don't really know what it means. calling confused women bipolar instead of just being confused and stupid. I dealt with atleast 4 bipolar people in my life time to know their characteristics. you can tell in here who dealt with bipolar people and who know what it really is.

 

[BestCreW35]

thats not bipolar.


i think ninjas in here is misusing the word bipolar and don't really know what it means. calling confused women bipolar instead of just being confused and stupid. I dealt with atleast 4 bipolar people in my life time to know their characteristics. you can tell in here who dealt with bipolar people and who know what it really is.

Explain it exactly then mariano.

 

[Chess005]

All women are a bit nutty and if she isn't, all it takes is for something to happen to make her 'crack'. they don't handle challenges well, especially from the guy(s)they actually care about...

you obviously shouldn't be messing with broads that are clearly insane

but especially if she has been raped/abused

leave em alone

they will bring nothing but ruin to your life, stop savin em and save ya self from a waste of time and money

once a woman turns bitter,they are like black holes, nothing but a void on the inside surrounded by destructive energy.

 

[BestCreW35]

All women are a bit nutty and if she isn't, all it takes is for something to happen to make her 'crack'. they don't handle challenges well, especially from the guy(s)they actually care about...

you obviously shouldn't be messing with broads that are clearly insane

but especially if she has been raped/abused

leave em alone

they will bring nothing but ruin to your life, stop savin em and save ya self from a waste of time and money

once a woman turns bitter,they are like black holes, nothing but a void on the inside surrounded by destructive energy.

Good words bro! Very true also, my ass learned my lesson.

 

[Osca Lee]

When I first entered this thread I came in to get a laugh and learn something. However when I started reading all the posts and comments affected me deeply to the point I had to log off and take a break from BGOL. During that time off I started a daily journal for a small time period and I would summarize each week of the behavior patterns. After a while I could pin point when a argument was about to take place, I could even recognize lies by just carefully listening to the sound and pitch of her voice. I recommended professional help and as a loving husband I would attend all sessions and see if I had issues also. I set up the counseling and she refused to go so I went on my own.

Fellas im on my sixth session and I can honestly say it never has been me and I have parted ways. It was a very hard choice but like one brother mentioned my sanity is more important than anything. Im in the process of repairing relationships with friends and family that I had no clue had changed due to things she was telling them without my knowledge. Being damaged emotionally on a daily basis is very hard to detect unless you are surrounded by people who can recognize it and can expose subtle details that start to make sense. I was too busy to think and stop for a moment and just slow down. Im currently in the process of recovery and rebuilding everything around me one minute at a time.

 

[4North1Side2]

When I first entered this thread I came in to get a laugh and learn something. However when I started reading all the posts and comments affected me deeply to the point I had to log off and take a break from BGOL. During that time off I started a daily journal for a small time period and I would summarize each week of the behavior patterns. After a while I could pin point when a argument was about to take place, I could even recognize lies by just carefully listening to the sound and pitch of her voice. I recommended professional help and as a loving husband I would attend all sessions and see if I had issues also. I set up the counseling and she refused to go so I went on my own.

Fellas im on my sixth session and I can honestly say it never has been me and I have parted ways. It was a very hard choice but like one brother mentioned my sanity is more important than anything. Im in the process of repairing relationships with friends and family that I had no clue had changed due to things she was telling them without my knowledge. Being damaged emotionally on a daily basis is very hard to detect unless you are surrounded by people who can recognize it and can expose subtle details that start to make sense. I was too busy to think and stop for a moment and just slow down. Im currently in the process of recovery and rebuilding everything around me one minute at a time.

Good for you.

 

[the Imm font]

Re: Experiencing A BIPOLAR Woman

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