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A Woman Who Dreamed of Flying with the Marines
by Chris Arnold

All Things Considered, February 14, 2007 · Capt. Jennifer Harris lived her dream of flying with the air wing of the Marines in Iraq, where she piloted Sea Knight helicopters on combat rescue missions.

After three tours of duty, Harris was due back in her hometown of Swampscott, Mass., this week. But last week, she was killed aboard a Sea Knight that was shot down by Sunni insurgents northwest of Baghdad.

Audio: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=7407239

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Soldier Dies Two Months Into an Iraq Tour


All Things Considered, April 9, 2007 · The volatile region of the Al Anbar province in Iraq claimed the life of a young soldier from Maine on March 13th. 21-year-old Angel Rosa joined the Marines just last year and his death during combat operations came barely two months into his first tour in Iraq.

Friends and family describe Rosa as a proud Puerto Rican-born man, an accomplished athlete, gregarious, a natural leader. Angel and his wife, 21-year-old Elise Rosa, were married less than a year ago.

From member station MPBN, Jeanne Baron reports from Portland, Me.

LISTEN: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=9483915

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August 24, 2007

In a rare opinion article, an Army sergeant complained that the U.S. flag flew at half-staff in Afghanistan for the Virginia Tech victims but the same honor isn't given to fallen U.S. troops.

An Army sergeant complained in a rare opinion article that the U.S. flag flew at half-staff last week at the largest U.S. base in Afghanistan for those killed at Virginia Tech but the same honor is not given to fallen U.S. troops here and in Iraq.

In the article issued Monday by the public affairs office at Bagram military base north of Kabul, Sgt. Jim Wilt lamented that his comrades' deaths have become a mere blip on the TV screen, lacking the "shock factor" to be honored by the Stars and Stripes as the deaths at Virginia Tech were.

"I find it ironic that the flags were flown at half-staff for the young men and women who were killed at VT, yet it is never lowered for the death of a U.S. service member," Wilt wrote.

He noted that Bagram obeyed President Bush's order last week that all U.S. flags at federal locations be flown at half-staff through April 22 to honor 32 people killed at Virginia Tech by a 23-year-old student gunman who then killed himself.

"I think it is sad that we do not raise the bases' flag to half-staff when a member of our own task force dies," Wilt said.

According to the Defense Department, 315 U.S. service members have died in and around Afghanistan since the U.S.-led offensive that toppled the Taliban regime in late 2001, 198 of them in combat.

NATO's International Security Assistance Force said that the flags of all its troop-contributing nations are flown at half-staff for about 72 hours after the service member's death "as a mark of respect when there is an ISAF fatality."

Sgt. 1st Class Dean Welch, who works with Wilt at the U.S.-led coalition public affairs office, said the essay is a "soldier's commentary, not the view of the coalition and not the view of the U.S. forces."

Welch added that such outspoken opinion pieces are rare.

Wilt suggested that flags should fly at half-staff on the base where the fallen service member was working and in the states where they hail from. He said some states do this, but not all of them.

He wrote that the death of a U.S. service member is just as violent as those at the university last week, but it lacks the "shock factor of the Virginia massacre."

"It is a daily occurrence these days to see X number of U.S. troops killed in Iraq or Afghanistan scrolling across the ticker at the bottom of the TV screen. People have come to expect casualty counts in the nightly news; they don't expect to see 32 students killed," he wrote.

"If the flags on our (operating bases) were lowered for just one day after the death of a service member, it would show the people who knew the person that society cared, the American people care."

Copyright 2007 Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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I agree with this painfully true statement. It never really hit home
for me until I read the names of the deceased. 100's of brave young
men and women have died behind the lies and agenda of one man.
You can agree or dissagree with that war all you want, but the numbers
dont lie. Was this worth it.........................by the way
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Home Wasn't Far from Fallen Marine's Heart
by Bianca Vazquez Toness

All Things Considered, May 20, 2007 · Marine Lance Cpl. Walter O'Haire was supposed to turn 21 this week. But family and friends spent his birthday attending a funeral for the fallen Marine in Rockland, Mass. O'Haire was killed in combat in Anbar province, after only 6 weeks in Iraq.

Bianca Vazquez Toness from member station WBUR reports.

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Morning Edition, July 4, 2007 · Kimel Watt, born in Jamaica, felt stuck in Brooklyn and wanted to see the world. So he joined the army. Last month, a roadside bomb killed the 21-year-old sergeant in Baghdad. He was made a U.S. citizen, posthumously.

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A Young Artist Dies in Iraq, 20 Years Old



All Things Considered, July 11, 2007 · Jonathan Rossi loved drawing. The 20-year-old had designed several of his own tattoos and had hoped to work one day for Disney as a cartoonist. But then the Florida resident decided to join the Army. He died earlier this month in Iraq when a roadside bomb exploded.

John Sepulvado reports from member station WUSF in Tampa, Fla.


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South Dakota Soldier Dies in Second Iraq Tour
by Johanna Sailor

Morning Edition, July 16, 2007 · South Dakota native, Robb Rolfing, graduated from Vassar College with a degree in Physics and Astronomy. But he always dreamed of being a Green Beret. Staff Sgt. Rolfing survived his first deployment to Iraq, but not his second. He was killed while patrolling in Baghdad.

Johanna Sailor reports for member station South Dakota Public Radio

AUDIO: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=12000043

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Soldier Killed in Iraq Was Budding Sports Reporter
by Fred Kight

All Things Considered, July 17, 2007 · Chris Rutherford was a high school sports star who went on to college to write about sports. He also had a sports show on an Ohio radio station.

Now, the station and the local newspaper are reporting on Rutherford, an Army lieutenant killed in Iraq.

Rutherford put his journalism degree on hold to serve his country, and folks from his hometown, Newport, say the 25-year-old did it with a smile.

Fred Kight reports from member station WOUB.



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No, i just realized the vast majority of people on this board agree with your view regarding the military, so why keep doing it.
 

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Thanks to QueEx and Greed for the small outlets of news in regards to personnel who have fallen in service for their country. Really shows the human element to a soldier rather than just a statistic.
 

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Thank you. There are all kinds of people in the world; some appreciate the sacrifice those in military service make (regardless of the politics that placed them in harms way); and some never will.

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Small Texas Town Mourns Fourth Iraq Casualty
by Julie Moody

Weekend Edition Saturday, July 28, 2007 · Pvt. Ron Joshua Jr. is the fourth person from the small Texas town of Pflugerville to die in Iraq. Friends and family from the Austin suburb buried the 19-year-old soldier this week. Julie Moody of member station KUT reports.

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Virginia Lays to Rest a Soldier-Poet Killed in Iraq
by Jack Zahora

All Things Considered, August 24, 2007 · Scott Kirkpatrick loved poetry, and he loved performing his work for others. But after the Sept. 11 attacks, he went from poet to soldier. Kirkpatrick joined the military because he wanted to make a difference in the war on terrorism. The 26-year-old Army sergeant from Virginia died earlier this month in Iraq when a bomb blew up as he searched a house. He was buried Thursday.


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On February 20, 2005, an IED exploded underneath LCpl Merlin German's humvee in Fallujah. He was blown out of the turret but he was on fire. After some very brave Marines got to him and put the fire out on their buddy, Merlin was left with 3rd degree burns over 97% of his body. The soles of his feet and the top of his head were the only areas not burned. The IMSFF remembers vividly the day that Merlin flew in from Germany to BAMC. No patient there had ever lived with burns like this before, and no one expected him to survive. Nineteen months later, Merlin moved out of the hospital and eventually moved into a new home in San Antonio, where he continues to undergo additional surgeries and rehabilitation at BAMC.

The donors of IMSFF have helped the German family with a handicap van; they have kept Merlin's mom and dad at bedside; they have helped them keep their home in the Dominican Republic; they purchased a mattress recommended by his physical therapist; they helped with furniture for a temporary apartment; and provided great assistance with Merlin's new two-story house. Merlin and his wonderful family are living testaments to the power of the IMSFF, the capabilities of our military medical system, and the beauty of the indomitable human spirit.

Today, after two meritorious promotions, Sgt German is excited about a trip to NYC to visit his family and celebrate his 22nd birthday. The IMSFF staff and the Marine liaisons at BAMC describe Merlin’s personality as being full of life. He is cheerful, has a great sense of humor, and is mischievous enough to put a smile on the face of any general officer. What a blessing he is to all who know and love him!

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Marine Sgt. Merlin German, poses following during his
promotion ceremony at Brooke Army Medical Center in
San Antonio, May 21, 2007. German, 22, from Manhattan,
N.Y.; died April 11, 2008 at Brooke Army Medical Center
in San Antonio, Texas from wounds suffered during combat
in Anbar province on Feb. 22, 2005. (AP Photo/Eric Gay,
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By The Associated Press
May 2, 2008

A Marine sergeant who became a symbol of resilience as he strove to recover from a roadside bomb blast in Iraq that blanketed 97 percent of his body with burns has died, the Defense Department said. He was 22.

Sgt. Merlin German died April 11 at Brooke Army Medical Center in San Antonio, where he was continuing treatment for the injuries he suffered in combat on Feb. 22, 2005, the Pentagon said Thursday.

The former turret gunner was dubbed the "Miracle Man" for his determination in facing his wounds, which cost the former saxophone player his fingers and rippled his face with scars. He endured more than 40 surgeries, spent 17 months in a hospital and had to learn to walk again.

Meanwhile, he started a charity, Merlin's Miracles, to aid child burn victims and considered college and a career.

"Sometimes I do think I can't do it," he told The Associated Press last year. "Then I think: Why not? I can do whatever I want. ... Nobody has ever been 97 percent dead and survived, and lived to walk."

Born in New York City, German moved to its suburbs as a teenager. He enlisted in the Marine Corps in September 2003, according to his charity's Web site. He was medically retired four years later, the Defense Department said.

German had been stationed at Camp Pendleton, Calif. Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger announced that the state Capitol's flags would be flown at half-staff in German's honor, saying the sergeant's "courage and unfailing loyalty serve as an inspiration to Americans everywhere."



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A Life Filled with Promise Cut Short
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Capt. Torre Mallard searches a man pulled out of a house during a cordon-and-search
in Baghdad on Sept. 16, 2004.

All Things Considered
by Andrew Yeager
March 21, 2008

When Army Capt. Torre Mallard's life began, he was an Army brat. It ended in uniform on March 10, during his second deployment to Iraq. As the U.S. marks the fifth anniversary of the war, Mallard's friends and family in Anniston, Ala., gather to honor his dedication and determination.

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Wallace, N.C., Mourns Guardsman Killed in Iraq

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SSgt. Emanuel Pickett


National Public Radio
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Morning Edition, April 22, 2008 · Emanuel Pickett was a well-liked man in the small town of Wallace, N.C. He was the local butcher and a police captain, and he served in the National Guard. He was on deployment in Iraq when he was killed by mortar fire in Baghdad.

Catherine Welch reports from member station WHQR.

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A Soldier Who Documented Lives In Conflict
by Ann Dornfeld

Morning Edition, July 22, 2008 · When Cpl. Jason Bogar was killed in action July 13 in Afghanistan, he left behind a family in Seattle — and a wide-ranging record of his tours of duty. Bogar took numerous photos and videos of his work and of the families he met in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Bogar, who was 25, had already served one tour in Iraq when he was first deployed to Afghanistan. On Sunday, July 13, about 200 Taliban fighters breached a remote NATO compound in Kunar Province, Afghanistan. Nine U.S. soldiers were killed in the attack, the deadliest assault on U.S. forces in Afghanistan in three years.

That day, Bogar's family was notified that he'd been killed in action. Soon after, they flipped through photos he'd sent home from his three tours of Iraq and Afghanistan.

Most of the images aren't of Bogar. They're portraits of Afghan children, many of them with eyes rimmed black with kohl that stare right into yours. In others, women peer suspiciously through jewel-colored headscarves. A baby clutches a fistful of his mother's pleated burqa in his dimpled fist.

"This is the razor wire that they would put around the encampment, and then two women in their burqas, almost like blue ghosts," Bogar's father, Michael Bogar, says of one picture.

"As he talked to my ex-wife, he said that he felt like sometimes he would see the women there and think it seemed like they were in bondage."

The elder Bogar, an interdenominational minister, says that his son was always artistic but that he was also unfocused and got into trouble as a teenager.

Jason Bogar enlisted when he was 17. He went to basic training right before the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks. He discovered photography during his first tour in Baghdad in 2003. After he got home, he volunteered twice to go to Afghanistan.

"There's an e-mail here, it's the second-to-the-last one he sent, from June 1, 2008," Michael Bogar says.

Reading from it, he quotes his son: " 'I really feel this is what I'm supposed to be doing. Some of the guys call me an idealist. But I do respect and want to help the little good that's left amongst this culture.' "

Stephanie Bell was a sort of stepmom to Jason Bogar — she was his dad's partner for five years. She says Bogar expanded from still photography to videography, even wearing a helmet-cam on his patrols. He showed them videos of what war really looked like.

"One thing that sticks in my mind was his joy of showing his work. And kind of just the joy in being able to create something beautiful and also say something at the same time and explain his work and have it seen."

Bell says that as serious as Bogar was about the military and his art, he could still act like a rambunctious kid.

"He would jump up behind me and scare me," she says, "and I would get upset when he would do that. And then, you know, you can't stay mad at him for very long. He would have me in laughter in a few seconds."

Before Bogar's last deployment, his father had been reading about what was happening in Afghanistan and how the Taliban were regaining strength in Pakistan. They talked about it in the backyard right before he left.

"And I gave him a big hug and said, 'Jason, I don't want you to go,' and started weeping. And he kind of looked at me a little bit frightened ... and he said, 'You OK?' And I said, 'No, I'm not OK.'

"I said, 'I'm really, really, really sad.' And he smiled and he said, 'Well, I guess that's a good thing,' and gave me this beautiful smile, like, 'That means you love me, doesn't it, Dad?' And it's like, yeah. Yeah."

Michael Bogar says Jason had started to enroll in art school. He wanted to travel the world, capturing stories of the cultures he encountered through film.

Ann Dornfeld reports from member station KUOW in Seattle.


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A sampling of the photographs taken by Cpl. Jason Bogar while on his three tours of duty:

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Stanciel's Cousin

Stanciel's cousin, Sonja Stanciel, lived with him while she was growing up.
Just a few years older than her, George Stanciel exerted himself as a father
figure for her family.

"He was the one who kept the Stanciel household together. He always
wanted us to do what's right and told us to strive forward even when
nobody else told us to," she said. "What he did - died fighting for his
country - he did the same thing for his family."

Sonja Stanciel said everyone knew whom to go to for wise words, advice
or help lifting their spirits - the man with the unforgettable smile.

"He wanted all of us to be successful in life, and he wanted all of us to
be proud of him because he was proud of us," she said. "He was a hero
to us."

Stanciel had been in the U.S. Army for nearly 19 years and was on his
second tour in Iraq.


Stanciel's Wife

His wife, Shequita Stanciel, said the two were looking forward to him
retiring in three years and being able to spend more time with their
11-year-old son and 8-year-old daughter.

Shequita Stanciel holds tight to the memory of the last time she sat
down and talked with her husband. It was in May when he looked at
her and told her everything would be all right. He promised to return
from Iraq.

She then thinks about the many times her husband told her, "I love
you all the time."

That phrase started off as an inside joke, she said, but it has meant
so much to her over the years.

"Even after we would have an argument, he said that to let me know
that he loved me no matter what," Shequita Stanciel said.

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A Post of Honor

This post is not meant to lessen the service of other fallen heroes. It is just meant to emphasize the need for this nonsense to end, now!

source: Military Times

Navy Lt. Florence B. Choe
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Died:
March 27, 2009

35, of El Cajon, Calif.; died March 27 when an Afghan National Army soldier opened fire on personnel assigned to Combined Security Transition Command — Afghanistan at Camp Shaheen, Mazar-E-Sharif, Afghanistan. Also killed was Navy Lt. j.g. Francis L. Toner IV.

Afghan soldier’s slaying of 2 officers stuns base

By Andrew Tilghman
Staff writer

Lt. j.g. Francis “Frankie” Toner and Lt. Florence Bacong Choe were taking a Friday afternoon jog along a well-worn path on the outskirts of Forward Operating Base Shaheen in Afghanistan.

Then an Afghan Army soldier raised his military-issued weapon and fatally shot the two officers. A third Navy officer was also wounded in the shootings, said Air Force Capt. Elizabeth Mathias, a spokeswoman for U.S. Forces in Afghanistan.

The Afghan soldier fatally shot himself moments after the killings, Mathias said.

The shooting stunned the sailors and soldiers living on the base, who are there to “mentor” the Afghan troops.

“I really hope that this incident doesn’t just pass as two more service members killed in Afghanistan. I want everyone to know how they died and why,” said Lt. Michael Lucrezio, a medical service corps officer assigned to the base.

“The simple fact is that they were murdered in cold blood. The guy who shot them wasn’t some random bad guy who snuck on base wearing a stolen uniform; he was an army soldier who had been vetted through the [Afghan National Army] recruiting process and trained to their basic standards,” Lucrezio said in an e-mail to Navy Times after the shooting.

Afghan officials expressed condolences for the deaths. Afghan Minister of Defense Abdul Rahim Wardak said he was “saddened and deeply regretful this tragedy occurred,” and that the incident was under investigation, according to a military press release.

Meanwhile, back at home, a Navy chaplain and senior chief knocked on the door at the Toner’s family home in Rhode Island to relay news of the 26-year-old Seabee’s death.

“The irony is that he loved those people,” Sharon Toner, the officer’s stepmother, said of Toner in an interview. “His heart just went out to the children over there because they weren’t in school and they didn’t have shoes. The poverty over there really hit him hard.”

Toner’s family had expected him home for leave the following week, his stepmother said.

Toner was assigned to Naval Facility Hawaii at Pearl Harbor, where he lived with his wife, Brooke. He was on a one-year deployment to Afghanistan to help oversee reconstruction projects in an area north of the capital.

Choe, 35, was a medical service corps officer assigned to Naval Medical Center in San Diego, where she lived with her husband, Lt. Cmdr. Chong “Jay” Choe, a urology resident at the hospital, and their 3-year-old daughter, according to a statement from the hospital.

She was born at the same hospital while her father was a career sailor, said Sonja Hanson, a spokeswoman for the hospital.

Choe contacted a Navy recruiter just days after Sept. 11, 2001, Hanson said. She also was on a one-year deployment in Afghanistan, where she helped run the medical station that served U.S. troops as well as Afghan troops and civilians, Mathias said.

Choe’s family declined requests for an interview, Hanson said.

The Toner family is planning a memorial service at the Merchant Marine Academy on Long Island, N.Y., where Toner earned his bachelor’s degree in 2006, his stepmother said.

Toner was voted prom king at his high school and played football in college, his family said. He sought a Navy career immediately after his graduation.

“He was going to do a full 20 years. His long-term goal was to someday work at the Pentagon. He loved, loved the Navy, loved the Seabees and he never had any thoughts about doing anything else,” his stepmother said.

Sharon Toner said her stepson’s death was a “freak event.”

“I don’t see that as a reflection on the Afghan people. In America we have people right here — you read it in the newspaper every day, people murdering other people and doing things like that. That doesn’t reflect on the society as a whole,” she said.
 
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