Real talk! These bruhs don’t hear you tho.
Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’
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Yeah, I know. And it is sad. Sadder still is I know cats in their 50s still tryna be pimps. I mean, damn, if you ain't got it by now...
Man I dated a 45 year old a few years back talking about she wanted an allowance! I was 35. If that was the case I’d go get a 25 year old.
I hear ya. I don't know where these women get these ideas from. Yet they'll be the first ones to scream about equality if that narrative suits their agenda.
These bishes starting to wear they welcome out with the Killa..got a hoix that wanted a 2800 dollar Louis purse..and she got a Mayne...she couldn't get that..so she came with her car broke.. couldn't get that...she said her dryer broke...I bailed for the hills...fuck these bishes..brah
Correct. They planted the seed of you don’t need him. You’re better than him and you can do better than him-here’s some money and roof over your head until you do.
In a perfect world welfare was temporary and justified in cases or widowers and men unable to provide due illness. It quickly devolved into women with poor pussy practices getting checks. There is little incentive to be mindful of your pussy usage if a check comes after your fuck it all up. That is main catalyst in why women don’t value their bodies, the men they lend them to, or fear the consequences of their shit life decisions. Somehow, still, the man is blamed for all it and she is reward.
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Correct. Cookie cutter hoes who work harder on being pretty than having any moral fiber. They say the loudest person is the weakest, now we’re in a era of the prettiest women being just that-weak.
Right on, write on!!
I was born in the projects in 64 and my folks moved out in 76.. The majority of the families had men at the head of the household and by 77 the majority of those families were broke up(mine was one of them)!! Sum sad shit those assholes pushed on those families!!
Your spot on about the welfare system!! The fucked up part is, they cut back the funding for those families and turned around and gave corporate welfare to these billion dollar industry and farmers. The people dont say one fucking word about it!! And its in the billions of dollars!! I better stop, im getting pissed thinking about it.. Good reply bruh
I am looking at what people are saying the pros and cons are, and it' snot weighing out. Most of that stuff you can get single. It look slike most of ya'll don't even know what a marriage is to be honest
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being on welfare. However, anybody who accepts it has to understand that they no longer have control over their income. It can be raised, lowered, or cut off completely at the government's whim. They can also cause you to break up with your significant other, make questionable paternity accusations, control how much money your teenage children can learn at their own jobs, and a million smaller things designed to keep you broke, desperate, and making bad decisions.
I don't know who first coined the phrase farewell checks but they were absolutely right. It is one of the most insidious debt traps ever created.
No doubt DB!! It is a big ass trap.. But like all traps, theirs a way to get out and around them..
my mom was on welfare. Growing up a lot of my meals came from the food bank. Believe it or not, one of the first things she did to get out of this trap was quit going to church. Once she stopped letting the church elders God shame her her depression started to ease. This helped her break a prescription addiction which helped her find a meaningful job. in the process she realized that she had a gift for photography and now regularly sells pictures to Getty images.
Of course this whole process took nearly 20 years and wasn't nearly as simple as described, but it shows what happens when one throws off the shackles of everything they are "supposed" to do and be.
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What I tried to tell cats is when you have real $ you get pussy for free. I have never paid for hair or nails or shopping for a woman i wasn't living with. Casual hoes get dick and happy meals, maybe some drink but no extras. Gotta prove worth first.
Giving up on marriage is in no way synonymous with love. It’s a tiny aspect of coupling, not a measure of how much I love you or are willing to sacrifice to show you that I love you. It’s a head game and a trap. Men still want to love and be loved more than anything else. We want commitment, we don’t want a contract stating you get half my shit. Too many get fat, lazy, combative and because of that I lose half my shit??? Men are wising up. That simple.
Leave marriage the hell alone. Because a bitch shouldn't cost you money. And if a broad is costing you more than she is bringing in and if she is not down with you having multiple wives that are ALSO bringing in more money, then you need to leave her the hell alone anyway. Let a bitch know that you are the boss and to stay in your stable, she's got to pay the cost.
DB, I luv hearing your mother story!! Sounds like she snapped outta the illusion and found her inner self.. When I was 15yr old, I thought basketball( I havent touched a basketball since) was my ticket out and I poured my life into it. Well, I shattered my right tibia and that ended my dream and I went into a dark spot for 2 yrs. It was during those dark years of trying to figure out what I was going to do with my life. I found myself and realized the Creator gave me a few gifts at birth, a good sense of discernment and the ability to see something and tear it apart and rebuild it. Then I had to combine everything together and use it to my advantage, for the most part it worked out. Oh yeah, I realized no one is coming to help us and we have to help each other( this country and leaders know this. thats why they spend billions to keep us divided and bumping heads with each other)!! So to this day, I tell people to be honest with themselves and find themselves and combine the gifts(we all are born with gifts, its up to us if we us them or not) you were born with and build from there!! Sum listen, most dont.. Anyway, I understand your mothers story!!
Your so right, it takes time to get outta that trap they enjoy putting people in! Its not easy(easy is your worst enemy) and it takes time. If you think about it, time is really all we have!!
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That is a myth bro. If you were lame before you had money you will be lame after you have money. Why do you think so many rich dudes hire escorts and usually end up marrying some chic who looks like a porn star? If you are nerdy and don't know how to talk to girls money will not change that.
Facts. Fear of rejection isn’t erased by money, only fame, because it eliminates the need to be anything but what they already know you as. A broke famous man with get more women than a rich nice guy. Common factor: fear of rejection and no game.
Ol good for one thing hoe went into the LV store with me and asked for a LV purse too. I said hell naw
she said well why we in here? I said for my sister. I’m looking for her, not you! Mf walked out and I walked on
Why you even go in???? You set the tone. You entertained the bullshit. You already was at a loss.Ol good for one thing hoe went into the LV store with me and asked for a LV purse too. I said hell naw
Ol good for one thing hoe went into the LV store with me and asked for a LV purse too. I said hell naw
These hoix getting outta hand...brah
All they get is hard dick & bubblegum fam
Maybe a 2 for $20 if the head game proper.
I'm going back to the ol skool game that got me where I'm at...that right there..get down..brah
My little white Bitch tried to question me yesterday about my socials....
As soon as I peep’d her little funky ass attitude tru text I stopped responding. Like bitch I don’t owe you shit. All you get is this dick when i come tru so you trying to have a attitude over social media is lame.
Might end up letting her go all together. That Clingy shit she tryin to be on. And that’s that shit I don’t like
I have a somewhat unpopular opinion but overall people period ain't shit.
We have now generations of women(black especially) who did not have a positive male role model in their lives. Therefore these women do not even know what a healthy relationship looks like. How can a female dictate to men what a 'real' men is supposed to be when she had none in her youth?
We have generations of young men who ironically were raised in a fatherless household and some of this has manifested into conscious(aware) and unconscious(unaware) contempt towards feminine energy. So to all the women out there raising boys without a father or a positive male role model you are likely to end up with men who don't know what their roles should be.
We have now generations of women(black especially) who did not have a positive male role model in their lives. Therefore these women do not even know what a healthy relationship looks like. How can a female dictate to men what a 'real' men is supposed to be when she had none in her youth?
We have generations of young men who ironically were raised in a fatherless household and some of this has manifested into conscious(aware) and unconscious(unaware) contempt towards feminine energy. So to all the women out there raising boys without a father or a positive male role model you are likely to end up with men who don't know what their roles should be.
ANSWER: FUCKED! ALL THEY WAY AROUND!
Facts