Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’

[KingTaharqa]

Asking a question like this on a porn board is like going to McDonald's and asking for a healthy meal. Biased population here...

Agreed. But you will find this same sentiment online in other places like social media, its not just BGOL. Red pill is all over youtube and men are discussing this offline. It is very real and will be felt the next generation at least. The average single man just doesnt see the benefit anymore but is fully aware of the consequences if it doesnt work out.

 

[roots69]

The conditioning and programming is working like a charm!! The name of the game has always been to destroy the family unit by all means!! This is just part of the plan playing out!!

 

[kogalee muhammad]

STORY: My father raped his daughter. And I am their baby. My story.

White Jesus!

 

[tallblacknyc]

My approach and reasoning does not involve buying pussy, although I have nothing against it and understand why it works so effectively. Buying pussy seriously changes and influences the work that needs to be done internally to become a magnanimous self confident man. Once money is removed, you're back to square one. NO PUSSY GETTING MOFO. My approach is teaching you how to fish so you can feed your dick all the pussy it needs perpetually. Buying the fish is one approach, learning to fish and attracting the fish is another...

My two cents...

Message

 

[darth frosty]

One of my homeboys married a bitch with 3 kids...they had 1 together...they got divorced she left him broke he filed for bankruptcy and lost his house and destroyed his credit

Another homeboy has been a postal worker out the service for 20yrs plus...his wife said she didn't feel like being married anymore...he wrote her a check for $80k to stop her from taking half of his 401k...he got off easy

My homegirl works for the EPA...2wks ago she said her husband is going to take half of her 401k...approximately $120k because she was the breadwinner...and since he moved out he hasn't even helped with their 2 kids

Marriage is just a business for bitches...and I don't believe in paying for love...my homeboys dad was a truck driver for YEARS...had hella money...met a woman married her got a house built in the country and she divorced him took the house and most of his cash...he just retired from driving trucks at 82

Fuck marriage...I fuck women all over the world and in the US and have it my way

Mannn this hurts my heart and it didn't even happen to me.

One of my friends got divorced cause his wife was pissed at a transgression of his... FROM 20 YRS AGO?!?

She not only took half his pension, dude builds race/muscle cars as a hobby she had the judge make him sell his camero and split with her

Similar to his

 

[DAHITMAN]

divorce is a scary thing to think about when it happens to you.

You will always lose in court.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

The conditioning and programming is working like a charm!! The name of the game has always been to destroy the family unit by all means!! This is just part of the plan playing out!!

These words have haunted me since I read them yesterday afternoon. After much thought it occurred to me that the best way to destroy any person, family, or community is to create a state of desperation and scarcity. If you can accomplish this people destroy themselves.

For instance, if I offer to buy your car for $100 you would probably tell me to kiss your ass. However, if your wife needed a life-saving operation and you were $100 short not only would you sell me the car, you would be grateful for the offer. Best of all, when you had no transportation to get to work you'd have nobody but yourself to blame for your poverty. It also puts you in a state where I can continually manipulate and rip you off for my own gain. All I would have to do is find a way to manufacture the conditions that would lead to your wife needing this life-saving operation in the first place.

the only way to save ourselves is to carefully examine and recognize the traps that being used to put us in this condition.

 

[roots69]

These words have haunted me since I read them yesterday afternoon. After much thought it occurred to me that the best way to destroy any person, family, or community is to create a state of desperation and scarcity. If you can accomplish this people destroy themselves.

For instance, if I offer to buy your car for $100 you would probably tell me to kiss your ass. However, if your wife needed a life-saving operation and you were $100 short not only would you sell me the car, you would be grateful for the offer. Best of all, when you had no transportation to get to work you'd have nobody but yourself to blame for your poverty. It also puts you in a state where I can continually manipulate and rip you off for my own gain. All I would have to do is find a way to manufacture the conditions that would lead to your wife needing this life-saving operation in the first place.

the only way to save ourselves is to carefully examine and recognize the traps that being used to put us in this condition.

Aint that the truth bro!! I understand everything your saying.. However, you know how hard it is to get the masses to see what going on right in front of their faces?? Its almost impossible.. If they dont see it on tv or someone from entertainment industry says it, they aint hearin it!! Even when you give them the answers and point it out to them, the majority of the people will say NAH!! Then look at you as if your speaking in sum foreign tongue or something!!

 

[Dannyblueyes]

Aint that the truth bro!! I understand everything your saying.. However, you know how hard it is to get the masses to see what going on right in front of their faces?? Its almost impossible.. If they dont see it on tv or someone from entertainment industry says it, they aint hearin it!! Even when you give them the answers and point it out to them, the majority of the people will say NAH!! Then look at you as if your speaking in sum foreign tongue or something!!

Best we can do is be the answer.

For instance, I have been trying to elevate my DJ sound for the last 2 months. So far I've been largely stagnant. There only ever seems to be enough time or energy to keep up with my current clientele. Then a few days ago you came along with a thread about the psychological impacts of television. It was stuff most people already know, but something clicked. Since then I've massively reduced my habit. I'm reading more, concentrating better, and sleep is easier. Now there's so much time I'm going crazy trying to fill it. The stagnation is still there, but I can feel it weakening.

When breaking the traps wait for others to ask how you did it. Ignore the ones who say it was luck and teach those willing to learn

 

[knightmelodic]

A lot of these young ladies don't bring anything to the table.
Can't cook, don't want to pay bills.
Why would a man marry a girl like that?
She cost more than she's worth.

Amen brother. They think because they have instagram followers that's enough.

 

[Entrepronegro]

So true bro.

I had one hinegirl...Bitch is 34 works at apple but her passion is “dance”

I’m like you’ve been stripping since you were 21 or some shit....you’re 34 now...when are you gonna give up the pole? She told me as long as her body’s tight and as long as she can dance she’ll always be able to make money in the strip club

In the back of my mind I’m already thinking you’re damn near over the hump in stripper years...you’ve already put 10+ years in this shit and haven’t gotten saved yet? She still auditions for music videos and shit. The most recent one being ‘Money’ by Cardi B...


Bitch never has any future plans or ideas, doesn’t know how to cook much, and has a “ go with the flow” attitude on life. I had to let her ass go late last year. She even told me she was just trying to hang around me and my son because “you got a plan and I’m trying to ride the wave”


Bum. Ass. Bitch

You trippin dawg you should have been getting money from that hoe. You a different dude than me. I would have had her getting money for me in the streets too and in the strip joint. You didn't play your position right on this one.

 

[Moving Target]

What do men get out of marriage? Serious question

NOT A COTDAYUM THING!!!

ALL THIS IS REAL TALK. THIS WESTERN CULTURE HAS MADE MARRIAGE NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE TO BE SUCCESSFUL BC OF FEMINISM KILLING CHILVARY, SOCIAL MEDIA UPPING THE ATTENTION WHORING FACTOR TO UNPRECEDENTED LEVELS, AND OVERALL WOMEN HAVING NO REAL IDEA OF HOW TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP....THIS I CAN HAVE IT ALL, SELF ENTITLED , ATTENTION WHORING, METOO HAVING, WITH NO RESPONSIBILITY NOR ACCOUNTABILITY FOR OUR ACTIONS ATTITUDE HAS GOTTEN WOMEN FUCKED UP IN THE REAL WORLD.

FACTS: WOMEN HAVE SEX WHEN THEY WANT AND GET MARRIED WHEN THEY CAN!!!
WOMEN CONTROL SEX AND MEN CONTROL MARRIAGE. THERE IS NOR REASON IN WESTERN CULTURE TO GET MARRIED ANY MORE. THERE ISNT ONE BENEFIT FOR A MAN TO GET MARRIED. ESP WHEN 70% OF ALL DIVORCES ARE FILED BY WOMEN. THEN MEN GET FUCKED UP IN COURT AND LEGALLY ASS RAPED FOR 18 YEARS OR MORE ....AND ALIMONY...SHIIITT.

WOMEN'S SHELF LIFE IS SHORTER THAN MENS TOO. A MANS SEXUAL MARKET PLACE VALUE GOES UP AS HE GETS OLDER IF HE DOING WHAT HE IS SUPPOSED TO ....WOMEN, ONCE THEY HIT THE WALL IN THEIR 30S...ITS A WRAP....NO MAN WITH NO PLAN = A LONELY WOMAN WITH A BUNCH OF CATS.

MY FRAT BROTHER HAD HIS LAST KID AT 53 AND HIS WIFE WAS 35. THAT PROVED T ME RIGHT THERE THAT MEN CAN WAIT A HELL OF A LOT LONGER TO GET MARRIED....WOMEN ON THE OTHER HAND HAVE HIGH RISK PREGNANCIES THE OLDER THEY GET.....THE BABY IS HIGH RISK OF DEVELOPMENTAL ISSUES.

WOMEN IN THE US HAVE FUCKED THEMSELVES AND DONT EVEN REALIZE IT...ITS GOING TO KILL THE WEDDING INDUSTRY BC THERE IS NO REAL REASON TO GET MARRIED.

FEMINISM GOT WHAT THEY WANTED, NOW THEY GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT.

MEN ARE LOGICAL BEINGS AND IF IT DONT MAKE SENSE...WHY DO IT?

 

[Mt. Yukon]

True/Not true.

Pussy is in abundance for a very small minority. Pussy is not as readily available as you think to most men. There was a study I came across about a year ago that had the ratio at 25% of the men are sleeping with 75% of the women or something very close to that. My own sexual experiences give credence to this stat. Last year I realized that I slept with 13 women and most of my boys were around 1 or none.

Wait... What??? How old are is your circle??? Like 11??? How do grown men go an entire year and not fuck 1 new bitch???

 

[LennyNero1972]

Love is a battlefield.

 

[APOPHIS]

Wait... What??? How old are is your circle??? Like 11??? How do grown men go an entire year and not fuck 1 new bitch???

Lack of confidence is a big crux for men wanting pussy.

 

[roots69]

Best we can do is be the answer.

For instance, I have been trying to elevate my DJ sound for the last 2 months. So far I've been largely stagnant. There only ever seems to be enough time or energy to keep up with my current clientele. Then a few days ago you came along with a thread about the psychological impacts of television. It was stuff most people already know, but something clicked. Since then I've massively reduced my habit. I'm reading more, concentrating better, and sleep is easier. Now there's so much time I'm going crazy trying to fill it. The stagnation is still there, but I can feel it weakening.

When breaking the traps wait for others to ask how you did it. Ignore the ones who say it was luck and teach those willing to learn

We are the answer.. My motto is... Aint nobody coming for us!! We are who were waiting for!!

Good luck with your DJ career.. Im sitting here listening to Black Milk and trying to figure out how this young kat how he's able to come up with his sound.. Anyway, Im getting off course..

Bruh, Im glad you picked up on what I was layin down and it helped you out!!

 

[2 ONE 3]

You trippin dawg you should have been getting money from that hoe. You a different dude than me. I would have had her getting money for me in the streets too and in the strip joint. You didn't play your position right on this one.

She was broke nigga


No car

No crib


I got my homegrown tho

I played my position perfect with this hoe fat boy

 

[Entrepronegro]

She was broke nigga


No car

No crib


I got my homegrown tho

I played my position perfect with this hoe fat boy

Where did all her stripper money go?

Was she on drug?

 

[Maurice]

Getting married is just being a trick under contract.

 

[BGLR1212000]

Getting married is just being a trick under contract.

If yall stop paying ALL the bills in the house, and don't let society(or a woman), tell yall what to do, maybe you'd get something out of your marriage.

 

[Mt. Yukon]

If yall stop paying ALL the bills in the house, and don't let society(or a woman), tell yall what to do, maybe you'd get something out of your marriage.

I'm responsible for the house and everything associated with it. (Taxes, maintenance, HOA dues etc...) My wife pays the bills, and buys the food. Our arrangement works for us.

I personally don't see how any man is signing up to do it all, and have his wife bring nothing to the table. Fuck that, not in today's America. The Yukon squad is a team. Everything we do is for the team. Too many marriages are 2 people trying to make it that never buy into the team concept. Shit ain't about individual shit once you say I do. You succeed/fail together. If she don't understand that then don't marry the bitch.

 

[bgbtylvr]

The conditioning and programming is working like a charm!! The name of the game has always been to destroy the family unit by all means!! This is just part of the plan playing out!!

The family unit involves two people on the same path sharing equal blame and credit due. Marriage is on the decline because women don’t value their own pussies. Every nigga smashing, she already got kids, most women are fat, and the successful women act like men are just trinkets to them. I live in a building full of these bitches. Highly successful with little respect for black men. You rarely hear Asian or Hispanic women shitting on their men singular or collectively. Too many women have mad outward flaws that prevent men from digging any deeper off rip.

Attitude
Obese
Attention whores
Green, red, blonde, weave
Kids
Old goes trying to be young
Too many guy friends/ no female friends
Bad credit
Mediocre jobs/income but expect greatness from men
Cheaters
Liars
Tattoos
Social media/phone addicts

No system is behind all this. These females are simply lackluster. The upstanding women are lazy, while the thots and hoes are in shape. They need to swap motivations. How are you a fat, lazy successful women hating on gram chicks, when the gram chick stay in the gym, watch what they eat, keep their looks tight??? Thats half the battle!!!! Give a fuck your health! I’ll smash a conceited bitch before I marry a homely chick.

Our gym in my building is dope. Everything you need. Guess who’s in there: white women. Couple white birches even got personal trainers that come work em out. Black girls on a bike pedaling slow as fuck. LMAO! White hoes and thots got medicine work, killing it in that gym!

Nobody wants to lose half their shit to a fat lazy broad. Fact: men with fat wives become fat like them eventually.

 

[tallblacknyc]

The family unit involves two people on the same path sharing equal blame and credit due. Marriage is on the decline because we don’t value their pussies. Every nigga smashing, she already got kids, most women are fat, and the successful women act like men are just trinkets to them. I live in a building full of these bitches. Highly successful with little for black men. You never hear Asian or Hispanic women shitting on their men singular or collectively. Too many women have mad outward flaws that prevent men from digging any deeper off rip.

Attitude
Obese
Attention whores
Green, red, blonde, weave
Kids
Old goes trying to be young
Too many guy friends/ no female friends
Bad credit
Mediocre jobs/income but expect greatness from men
Cheaters
Liars
Tattoos
Social media/phone addicts

No system is behind all this. These females are simply lackluster. They upstanding women are lazy, the hoes are in shape. They need to swap motivations. How are you are fat, lazy successful women hating on gram chicks, when the gram chick stay in the gym, watch what they eat, keep their looks tight. I’ll smash a conceited bitch before I marry a homely chick.

Our gym in my building is dope. Everything you need. Guess who’s in there: white women. Couple white birches got personal trainers that come work em out. Black girls on a bike pedaling slow as fuck. LMAO! White hoes and thots got medicine work, killing it in that gym!

Nobody wants to lose half their shit to a fat lazy broad. Fact: men with fat wives become fat like them eventually.

this tae bo thing made millions of dollars back in the late 90s... It was a bunch of exercises that you could literally do in your home...it made millions on paper and made millions for the bootleggers... Until the late 90s lot of gym membership was anywhere from 60- hundreds of dollars a month... Most minorities didn't use gym due to high prices but thanks to things like calisthenics that was our main exercises for decades, along with sports, jumprope, exercise equipment at home... Till this day many people use this type of workout, cause it's cost efficient, the ability to do it at on pace...so many people don't use gyms but still workout on some old school methods... Lot of sloppy looking white bitches out here but lil rants kinda seem one sided and kinda as s kissing to white women and very insulting towards blackwomen... Juss commenting from my pov of these lil verbal monologue

 

[bgbtylvr]

this tae bo thing made millions of dollars back in the late 90s... It was a bunch of exercises that you could literally do in your home...it made millions on paper and made millions for the bootleggers... Until the late 90s lot of gym membership was anywhere from 60- hundreds of dollars a month... Most minorities didn't use gym due to high prices but thanks to things like calisthenics that was our main exercises for decades, along with sports, jumprope, exercise equipment at home... Till this day many people use this type of workout, cause it's cost efficient, the ability to do it at on pace...so many people don't use gyms but still workout on some old school methods... Lot of sloppy looking white bitches out here but lil rants kinda seem one sided and kinda as s kissing to white women and very insulting towards blackwomen... Juss commenting from my pov of these lil verbal monologue

Cool.

 

[roots69]

The family unit involves two people on the same path sharing equal blame and credit due. Marriage is on the decline because women don’t value their own pussies. Every nigga smashing, she already got kids, most women are fat, and the successful women act like men are just trinkets to them. I live in a building full of these bitches. Highly successful with little respect for black men. You rarely hear Asian or Hispanic women shitting on their men singular or collectively. Too many women have mad outward flaws that prevent men from digging any deeper off rip.

Attitude
Obese
Attention whores
Green, red, blonde, weave
Kids
Old goes trying to be young
Too many guy friends/ no female friends
Bad credit
Mediocre jobs/income but expect greatness from men
Cheaters
Liars
Tattoos
Social media/phone addicts

No system is behind all this. These females are simply lackluster. The upstanding women are lazy, while the thots and hoes are in shape. They need to swap motivations. How are you a fat, lazy successful women hating on gram chicks, when the gram chick stay in the gym, watch what they eat, keep their looks tight??? Thats half the battle!!!! Give a fuck your health! I’ll smash a conceited bitch before I marry a homely chick.

Our gym in my building is dope. Everything you need. Guess who’s in there: white women. Couple white birches even got personal trainers that come work em out. Black girls on a bike pedaling slow as fuck. LMAO! White hoes and thots got medicine work, killing it in that gym!

Nobody wants to lose half their shit to a fat lazy broad. Fact: men with fat wives become fat like them eventually.

Your not going to get a argument outta me on that!! I agree with what you said.. However, the destruction of the family started in the mid to late 60's.. They didnt come out and say, were going to destroy the family unit.. All they did was plant the seeds of destruction thru conditioning and programming!! Thats all Im saying..

 

[trstar]

Amen brother. They think because they have instagram followers that's enough.

But you ain’t trying to wife an IG chick

 

[peterlongshort]

Love is a battlefield.

It is. I feel bad for the younger cats.

The family unit involves two people on the same path sharing equal blame and credit due. Marriage is on the decline because women don’t value their own pussies. Every nigga smashing, she already got kids, most women are fat, and the successful women act like men are just trinkets to them. I live in a building full of these bitches. Highly successful with little respect for black men. You rarely hear Asian or Hispanic women shitting on their men singular or collectively. Too many women have mad outward flaws that prevent men from digging any deeper off rip.

Attitude
Obese
Attention whores
Green, red, blonde, weave
Kids
Old goes trying to be young
Too many guy friends/ no female friends
Bad credit
Mediocre jobs/income but expect greatness from men
Cheaters
Liars
Tattoos
Social media/phone addicts

No system is behind all this. These females are simply lackluster. The upstanding women are lazy, while the thots and hoes are in shape. They need to swap motivations. How are you a fat, lazy successful women hating on gram chicks, when the gram chick stay in the gym, watch what they eat, keep their looks tight??? Thats half the battle!!!! Give a fuck your health! I’ll smash a conceited bitch before I marry a homely chick.

Our gym in my building is dope. Everything you need. Guess who’s in there: white women. Couple white birches even got personal trainers that come work em out. Black girls on a bike pedaling slow as fuck. LMAO! White hoes and thots got medicine work, killing it in that gym!

Nobody wants to lose half their shit to a fat lazy broad. Fact: men with fat wives become fat like them eventually.

All of this.

As an old head, I kinda blame rap music for some of this shit. When rap hit the mid 90’s alot of that shit was poisom to black youth.
C Delores Tucker was right.

 

[2 ONE 3]

Where did all her stripper money go?

Was she on drug?

She only stripped part time. She only has A cup titties so she gets looked over a lot even tho she got a slim curvy frame.

 

[Entrepronegro]

She only stripped part time. She only has A cup titties so she gets looked over a lot even tho she got a slim curvy frame.

Damn. She need to think about getting them tits enlarged then. These hoes should know dudes wanna see tits jumping and asses bouncing in the strip club.

 

[2 ONE 3]

Damn. She need to think about getting them tits enlarged then. These hoes should know dudes wanna see tits jumping and asses bouncing in the strip club.

She been looking for a sponsor to get them done for YEARS. Niggas just know she ain’t about shit.


That’s why so many pump and dump

 

[Entrepronegro]

She been looking for a sponsor to get them done for YEARS. Niggas just know she ain’t about shit.


That’s why so many pump and dump

She need to go Mexico or some shit like that and get it done on the low low.

Atleast she can finance the service and pay on it once she start making good bread at the club.

 

[lexdiamonnyc]

Survived one marriage. Will never make the same mistake again! It’s absolutely not necessary to me married to have a successful relationship!!!

 

[killagram]

How you sleep with 13 women and you didn’t throw any to your boys? Man almost every new chick I hit, I hook my boy up with either her buddy or her, and they do the same. That’s how we get more women.

Shit...I ain't no pimp..I'mma playa..they gonna have to get they own pussy...brah

 

[knightmelodic]

But you ain’t trying to wife an IG chick

It's not that. It's the attitude that they needn't be anything more than fly. Sorry, but I've fucked lots of fly chicks and I find as I get older I need more than just looks in a partner.

 

[trstar]

It's not that. It's the attitude that they needn't be anything more than fly. Sorry, but I've fucked lots of fly chicks and I find as I get older I need more than just looks in a partner.

I agree with you. Those “look at me chicks”, are nice arm candy, but very little else.
The sad thing is that they never age out. I’m a little older than most cats on the board, and there are mid 40 year old chicks, still working to land a dude and live the “rich and famous “ life.