You Ever Met A Chick That DIDNT Want Oral??

I know that I've had some bad experiences when it came to receiving head:

1) I'm very sensitive down there, and some men seem to want to go all crazy on me!!! I don't like my clit sucked on and so much pressure applied to that area. For her, it may feel that way too. Feel her out and see if she likes it slower and gentler.

2) I cum easily, and I know, if a man is doing the right thing down there, I'm going to cum too quickly. So, I like switching it up...

3) Some men just aren't good at it, and it feels like a waste of time...for me. I know he may be enjoying it, so I'll do it for the sake of his enjoyment. But, in all honesty, I may be thinking, "Please...no more!"

4) Just like some women may give a half-ass blow job, some men give some half-ass oral sex...they're not committing to it and a woman can pick up on that...

C/S
 
Interesting that she is willing to risk a possible pregnancy or something else by doing this than allow you to give her oral.

I hope that you will take MoB's advice and take your time and communicate with her. Otherwise just give it up.


Peace

LS I think she's the one who's rushing things. I do believe he needs to take control and slow her down. I've known women with similar problems. Sit down on the couch and in 2 minutes their sucking away. That's ok for a jumpoff but this is an established relationship. What she's doing is cheapening the experence for herself and for him.

Yeah there's times we all want to just get to it but from what I'm getting for her this is the norm. He's thinking about a future with this girl. If this doesn't get corrected I can see problems in the future sexually because he already knows there should be much more.
 
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Damn. You summed it up right there Mo Betta. She's not just some sidepiece to me, nah mean? So I'm definately willing to work with oral. Cause in the totality of a relationship, it's not priority #1. But I mean, my viewpoint is, if you're planning on being with your significant other for a possible future together, then it ain't nothin' wrong with being freaky with each other.

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That's why I said depending on how old she is. If she's 30 acting like that, it's different from a twenty year old

Oh yeah, sorry. We're both in our early 20's.
 
Shit...a girl better not tell me she doesn't like to get licked. if that pussy is shaved and it smells right I'm like acid....I'll eat through your jeans.
 
Lil dick guys nortoriously rely apon the girl to like oral sex. If the guy is confident in his sex game taking one part of it out won't matter.:hmm:
 
Worst case scenario: she may think she has a herpe outbreak. Check her bathroom cabinets....

If your lucky maybe she thinks she has a yeast infection, vaginosis, or just finished or starting her period and doesnt think she is clean....
 
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No seriously...This is one area I can not help in...My thoughts?
COMMUNICATION!!!

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I don't like receiving oral, and it has nothing to not liking my body or the way I taste. It's just not my thing, and I would rather get to the penetration.
If you want to receive more oral sex from her, maybe you should just tell her that. In fact, since ya'll have been dating for a while, there should be a certain level of comfort, and maybe you should just have a talk about sex. Tell her the way you feel. Maybe she'll be more receptive once she knows where you're coming from.

I have never liked anyone "going down" on me. I do love to please my boo that way though:yes:

Different strokes for different folks;)

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I can't decide if this is a pro or a con. Why would a woman NOT like a can going down on them :dunno:
 
Some females have been taught that oral sex is a "dirty" thing. When and where I grew up it was an extremely taboo thing for one to have happen to you. There are still some of those taboos till this day.
However, you should try to be more communicative with your girl. Communicating to her that this is something that you enjoy and that your only want is to please her should be opening the door to her letting you know what her reasons are.

Let her be the lead with it if she does want to try again. Have her tell you what feels good or doesn't. Start off slowly and maybe she can get a better feel for it. Take your time to explore her allowing her to adapt to the feel of a tongue,mouth, lips on her. Its probably a mental thing bredren.

Respect her wish if in the end she truly doesn't change her vibe regarding oral.






Peace

yeah had once once..... She wanted to wait for marriage... She wouldn't let me and she wouldnt do it to me... it was just straight fuck action...
 
Shit...a girl better not tell me she doesn't like to get licked. if that pussy is shaved and it smells right I'm like acid....I'll eat through your jeans.

:lol::lol::lol: the kind of man i like!

Lil dick guys nortoriously rely apon the girl to like oral sex. If the guy is confident in his sex game taking one part of it out won't matter.:hmm:

that's not (always) true...men like to please their woman in every way they can. in no way did this guy indicate or imply that he RELIED on oral.
 
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that's not (always) true...men like to please their woman in every way they can. in no way did this guy indicate or imply that he RELIED on oral.

Yeah, thanks. Apparently Digital Angel didn't read the entire post before he/she put up their comment. How the hell am I RELYING on oral when I've been dating my girl for over a year and went down on her like 4 times??

I said I could see a future for me and her and when you with somebody that special you ain't supposed to mind giving them oral. I even said it's not my favorite thing in the world to do, but I like to please my woman in every way possible.

And because since she's not really comfortable giving me oral, maybe she'll relax if I do it to her and show her it ain't that big of a deal.
 
Yeah, thanks. Apparently Digital Angel didn't read the entire post before he/she put up their comment. How the hell am I RELYING on oral when I've been dating my girl for over a year and went down on her like 4 times??

I said I could see a future for me and her and when you with somebody that special you ain't supposed to mind giving them oral. I even said it's not my favorite thing in the world to do, but I like to please my woman in every way possible.

And because since she's not really comfortable giving me oral, maybe she'll relax if I do it to her and show her it ain't that big of a deal.



Did this dumb fuck with 7 post just call me a he/she?????
First off don't know you don't care to. When I comment I'm posting in regards to people I know not you or ten fucks who look like you.
My original response pointed out the fact that little dick guys have to rely on oral sex. If that's not you then shut the fuck up!
Please don't make me go there...... SOL is usually such a NICE place........ Let's not get dirty.:hmm:
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:lol::lol::lol: the kind of man i like!



that's not (always) true...men like to please their woman in every way they can. in no way did this guy indicate or imply that he RELIED on oral.

You didn't resort to calling me a he/she so I can just level with you. I was only commenting on little dick guys. Not all men. I don't like oral but if I did my man has told me many times he loves to do it. And he is in no way little or lacking in his sex game:rolleyes:.
 
Lil dick guys nortoriously rely apon the girl to like oral sex. If the guy is confident in his sex game taking one part of it out won't matter.:hmm:

I don't know about that... Oral sex is a way to get your partner to a higher state of sexual arousal not a replacement for intersourse. Its a form of forplay.

With the statement your making a blow job would equate to replacing loose pussy.
 
I don't know about that... Oral sex is a way to get your partner to a higher state of sexual arousal not a replacement for intersourse. Its a form of forplay.

With the statement your making a blow job would equate to replacing loose pussy.

If I relied on my mouth to give my boo pleasure then your right I would be covering up for a Loose Puss. But I don't so.....your point has FAILED:hmm:.

I like to go down on him, when I feel the need to change it up I do it. I am multi orgasmic and it's just not as pleasurable for me. When a guy goes down on me I'm thinking how long do I have to act like this feels good pure and simple. I know it's foreplay but some, but to act as if it's required for all women???? I couldn't resist the urge to put in my measley two cents to say it's not:rolleyes:.



To this thread in general.....Opinions are like assholes everyone has one... why is the big news flash that my asshole doesn't look like yours:confused:
 
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If I relied on my mouth to give my boo pleasure then your right I would be covering up for a Loose Puss. But I don't so.....your point has FAILED:hmm:.

I like to go down on him, when I feel the need to change it up I do it. I am multi orgasmic and it's just not as pleasurable for me. When a guy goes down on me I'm thinking how long do I have to act like this feels good pure and simple. I know it's foreplay but some, but to act as if it's required for all women???? I couldn't resist the urge to put in my measley two cents to say it's not:rolleyes:.

To this thread in general.....Opinions are like assholes everyone has one... why is the big news flash that my asshole doesn't look like yours:confused:

That was a general statement not a personal statement nor was I implying anything directed at you. But I don't believe your point either concerning why men who give oral sex. I'm sure men do it because it brings their women pleasure. There's one other reason, its FUN! There's no greater feeling than driving your mate out of her mind with a few well placed flicks of the tounge or a little lip pressure and holding onto her hips while she rides a wave of estacy. So I doubt a guy is thinking to himself my dick is short so I must give her oral sex till she gets off. Its just a fun thing to do :yes:

But as you said your multi-orgasmic you are blessed. The last stat I remember was 43% of women are reported to be non-orgasmic. Most women are not multi-orgasmic. I'm sure most women appreciate the men that take that extra step to ensure their satisfaction regardless of what it might take.

So my point failed with you, ditto with me. But answer this, which would you rather have a man will do whatever it took to make you feel special and loved or one who didn't care if you got yours or not?

For myself every sexual experence is different. There's no game plan in place or guidlines that are followed. When it happens, it happens I just go with the flow and that's just the way it is. Oral or no oral I like it like that! :yes:
 
So my point failed with you, ditto with me. But answer this, which would you rather have a man will do whatever it took to make you feel special and loved or one who didn't care if you got yours or not?

For myself every sexual experence is different. There's no game plan in place or guidlines that are followed. When it happens, it happens I just go with the flow and that's just the way it is. Oral or no oral I like it like that! :yes:


I commend all those taking that extra time licking my fellow sistahs cookies until they burst with chocolate gooey goodness. I really am a lover and not a fighter. So Mo you are definetly "one better" today for sticking up for the guys out there who go down for no other reason than to please their mate. Let the truth be told if I like oral sex I'd probably be lesbian....so I guess my man would rather I remain the way I am:D. I made my original statement after reading someone say the girl wasn't into the guy that's why she didn't like it...sort of tit for tat I guess. But to all those my sistah's who love it be sure to catch an oral "o" for me since I can't do it:D.

As for this qoute:
"The last stat I remember was 43% of women are reported to be non-orgasmic"

No wonder alot of the nurses I work with are BITCHES
 
I commend all those taking that extra time licking my fellow sistahs cookies until they burst with chocolate gooey goodness. I really am a lover and not a fighter. So Mo you are definetly "one better" today for sticking up for the guys out there who go down for no other reason than to please their mate. Let the truth be told if I like oral sex I'd probably be lesbian....so I guess my man would rather I remain the way I am:D. I made my original statement after reading someone say the girl wasn't into the guy that's why she didn't like it...sort of tit for tat I guess. But to all those my sistah's who love it be sure to catch an oral "o" for me since I can't do it:D.

As for this qoute:
"The last stat I remember was 43% of women are reported to be non-orgasmic"

No wonder alot of the nurses I work with are BITCHES

DA I believe that 43% is due to women with sexual hangups, men who have no clue what they're doing, possibly arranged and forced marriages.

I myself have met women who claimed they never had an orgasm yet they did with me. (no brag) So I think much of it has to do with the wrong sex partners.
 
A woman that loves to give but doesn't like to receive...my type of woman.

Those are the best women god ever blow breath in.:yes:
 
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