You ever lose respect for a close friend?

[playahaitian]

Oh I got one. Imma keep it short.

Mfkr doesn't know, when he goes out of town for work his girl takes his fancy foreign whips to go on dates with other mfkrs.

What he did know: She was fucking another dude. Went through her phone saw texts...etc.
Calls other dude and says, "whatever hold you have on her, let her go." She still fucking side dude. He sees hickey's on her body: "you gotta cover those when we fucking." Flies her out on a romantic weekend getaway, nice patio views, jacuzzi.....only rubs the buns.....
She gets back in town bangs side dude twice that week.....

They're still together..... things only ended cuz after a year and a half of it, ole boy wrote a "Dear Barbara, this is Shirley"-esque text to the side dudes wife. But love makes you do some crazy things.

"Who are I to judge?" Haha

I got nothing... NOTHING.

Wow.

But I will say this much

I really hope this ends the silly constant bullsh*t generalization about women being illogical over emotional blah blah blah

Men can be just as bad even worse

PEOPLE are that way period

This who alpha male beta male levels pseudo psycho Venus vs Mars sh*t?

Every single person is different yeah there are vast commonalities but to say all women are this and all men are that is just dumb.

That being said... THIS level of cuck tales truly shocked the hell out of me.

 

[playahaitian]

My older cousin did something close to that. I think I told this story before. We were at a family cook-out and he was telling us why his marriage ended. He was a long-haul trucker, and one night, he got home a day earlier than he was supposed to. When he went to his bedroom, there was his wife and another dude asleep in their bed. He said he sat at the foot of the bed and started crying, and his crying woke them up. Dude was naturally shook, so he started to slowly get dressed. My cousin was close to one of the dude's shoes, and the guy asked my cousin to pass him his shoe, AND HE DID IT. The minute he said that part, my uncle/his dad (RIP) slapped the dogshit out of him, and the next thing you know, these grown ass men are rolling around in a gravel driveway (the country), the women folk are yelling and screaming, and my pops and uncles are trying separate them. Shit was hilarious. His pops was so ashamed, you could see the disappointment in his eyes.

He had enough heart to fight the man that raised him...

But not the man who screwed his woman? He instead sat there in tears inhaling they postcoital funk?

Tears of a clown bars

 

[SmoothD]

Yup.
Over money, of course.
Fantasy Football.
Won the championship, and didn't want to pay ($500)
Finally paid and shorted me $100 saying other people didn't pay.

 

[guyver]

He had enough heart to fight the man that raised him...

But not the man who screwed his woman? He instead sat there in tears inhaling they postcoital funk?

Tears of a clown bars

I disagree. That man fucked his wife, but he never touched him. Not saying I agree with crying at the foot of the bed or handing him his clothes, but truthfully no one knows how they will react until the moment comes. End of the day, that man didn't owe him anything. I'll even say him fucking his wife in their house was over the top, but your wife fucking another man in your house proves she or that man aren't worth it. I'd also understand if he did fight the guy under those circumstances. No matter how you choose to handle the situation someone is going to say you did it wrong.

Plus in My mind, anyone who knowingly fucks in another man's house is holding or has relationships with those who do and will. If that isn't you, let that man go on his way and leave your wife if you really feel away. No need to lose your life ( jail or literally death) over a woman who choose another. I never fucked a woman in there home because some women lie about their status and some men don't know when the relationship is over.

His father actually touched him. I don't care who you are or what you've done for me. Keep your hands to yourself. It would be different if his father laughed or just used harsh words and the son hit the father first, but that doesn't seem to be the case. The son was defending himself from a threat provoked by the father. He had a lifetime to instill his values in his son. If he is disappointed in his son, he should hit himself for the perceived failure or go find the man that disrespected his son.

 

[playahaitian]

I disagree. That man fucked his wife, but he never touched him. Not saying I agree with crying at the foot of the bed or handing him his clothes, but truthfully no one knows how they will react until the moment comes. End of the day, that man didn't owe him anything. I'll even say him fucking his wife in their house was over the top, but your wife fucking another man in your house proves she or that man aren't worth it. I'd also understand if he did fight the guy under those circumstances. No matter how you choose to handle the situation someone is going to say you did it wrong.

Plus in My mind, anyone who knowingly fucks in another man's house is holding or has relationships with those who do and will. If that isn't you, let that man go on his way and leave your wife if you really feel away. No need to lose your life ( jail or literally death) over a woman who choose another. I never fucked a woman in there home because some women lie about their status and some men don't know when the relationship is over.

His father actually touched him. I don't care who you are or what you've done for me. Keep your hands to yourself. It would be different if his father laughed or just used harsh words and the son hit the father first, but that doesn't seem to be the case. The son was defending himself from a threat provoked by the father. He had a lifetime to instill his values in his son. If he is disappointed in his son, he should hit himself for the perceived failure or go find the man that disrespected his son.

I respect it.

First off please know it's jokes

I think the funk part made that clear.

I cannot and nobody here can do some type of full psychological analysis deep dive on a person from a bgol post.

We ALL NEVER know the truth of our reactions in those moments

But we all like to pretend and imagine what we would do.

Would I do life in prison because I caught my partner with another man?

I hope not. I hope I would be smart enough to just leave.

But I don't know.

But I could never hit my dad ever period

We have gotten into it sure but nope never happen

Not my mom either. Not my wife.

Actually I never hit my children.

So again we all assume what we would do in any given situation

But I can tell you hitting my pops, wife, mom, kids...for whatever reason. Hit me first whatever?

Nope.

 

[KunningLinguist]

moral...never be surprised over what a human does....

ANYBODY is capable of anything under the right circumstances

 

[woodchuck]

I disagree. That man fucked his wife, but he never touched him. Not saying I agree with crying at the foot of the bed or handing him his clothes, but truthfully no one knows how they will react until the moment comes. End of the day, that man didn't owe him anything. I'll even say him fucking his wife in their house was over the top, but your wife fucking another man in your house proves she or that man aren't worth it. I'd also understand if he did fight the guy under those circumstances. No matter how you choose to handle the situation someone is going to say you did it wrong.

Plus in My mind, anyone who knowingly fucks in another man's house is holding or has relationships with those who do and will. If that isn't you, let that man go on his way and leave your wife if you really feel away. No need to lose your life ( jail or literally death) over a woman who choose another. I never fucked a woman in there home because some women lie about their status and some men don't know when the relationship is over.

His father actually touched him. I don't care who you are or what you've done for me. Keep your hands to yourself. It would be different if his father laughed or just used harsh words and the son hit the father first, but that doesn't seem to be the case. The son was defending himself from a threat provoked by the father. He had a lifetime to instill his values in his son. If he is disappointed in his son, he should hit himself for the perceived failure or go find the man that disrespected his son.

I actually agree with all of this. Nice POV. His dad was one of those old school cats, so I guess he felt some way about hearing his son do that. As for the part in red, you're spot on. No one knows EXACTLY what they'd do in a fucked up situation. We SAY or THINK what we'll do, but when it's "Go!" time, shit comes at you fast.

 

[guyver]

I respect it.

First off please know it's jokes

I think the funk part made that clear.

I cannot and nobody here can do some type of full psychological analysis deep dive on a person from a bgol post.

We ALL NEVER know the truth of our reactions in those moments

But we all like to pretend and imagine what we would do.

Would I do life in prison because I caught my partner with another man?

I hope not. I hope I would be smart enough to just leave.

But I don't know.

But I could never hit my dad ever period

We have gotten into it sure but nope never happen

Not my mom either. Not my wife.

Actually I never hit my children.

So again we all assume what we would do in any given situation

But I can tell you hitting my pops, wife, mom, kids...for whatever reason. Hit me first whatever?

Nope.

We view it differently. I get that some people honor and respect their parents not matter what. I don't understand it but I know people who were abandoned by both parents who still give them all the love and respect in the world. It's also not for me to question.

As the father, your responsibility is to lead by example regardless of the age of your child. Respect should be given by all parties at all times especially once your child has reached adulthood. The father choose to disrespect his son and the son followed his example. You can't ask for or expect what you are not giving.

The son came to the man he respected with information that most men would take to their grave. Instead of being a better man and giving his son advice or doing something to the man who disrespected his family, he further embarrassed his son in front of their family. I'm not going to judge someone by a story that may be missing details or a single event, but im not hearing something that says the father should be respected that day. This was a grown man; not a child who needed to be disciplined for inappropriate behavior.

Generally speaking, not all mothers or fathers are good parents or deserving of respect. You don't get points for being responsible, taking care of your kids or just giving life. You can choose to do otherwise but the expectation is that you raise your kids to the best of your ability. The reward is how your child views you as an adult who is no longer dependent on you. Hopefully that care and respect you put into your kids is returned to you in your old age.

I recently had a talk with my father about my grandfather. My father said, my grandmother should have never had one child with him and should have left him before having more. I jokingly responded I feel bad for grandma, but her leaving means I don't exist, so im happy to hear she took one for the team. I appreciate my grandfather part in creating my father who would later created me, but he’s not entitled to any respect based on what I was told. My father has never raised his voice or used disrespectful language in a dispute with me ever, so in turn he gets the same from me regardless of how passively disrespectful he can be.

 

[guyver]

I actually agree with all of this. Nice POV. His dad was one of those old school cats, so I guess he felt some way about hearing his son do that. As for the part in red, you're spot on. No one knows EXACTLY what they'd do in a fucked up situation. We SAY or THINK what we'll do, but when it's "Go!" time, shit comes at you fast.

I'm not completely judging either person. In my mind it was a party so were there drinks involved or there was more of a build up that lead to the fight etc.... I get the thought of respecting your parents, but swinging on me is where I draw a line lls.

In the son's defense, it could have just been a reaction to being hit and under other circumstances he would not have fought his father. To your point, once you get hit you aren't necessarily thinking about who the person is.

 

[Z MONSTER]

One of my homeboys was stationed in Norfolk. I was 3hrs away at Cherry Point, NC. So I call him up a went to see him one weekend. We met at the mall (I think it was called Military Circle) then went to a club. He told me he live in an aprtment off base and I could crash there for the night. So we get to the apartment and theres a naked white dude sitting at the table drinking liquor. The white guy got up went into the bedroom and slammed the door. After that I bounced and got me a room at a motel. I been knowing him since 9th grade. The last I heard is he married a dude.

 

[dbluesun]

One of my homeboys was stationed in Norfolk. I was 3hrs away at Cherry Point, NC. So I call him up a went to see him one weekend. We met at the mall (I think it was called Military Circle) then went to a club. He told me he live in an aprtment off base and I could crash there for the night. So we get to the apartment and theres a naked white dude sitting at the table drinking liquor. The white guy got up went into the bedroom and slammed the door. After that I bounced and got me a room at a motel. I been knowing him since 9th grade. The last I heard is he married a dude.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Former coworker that I knew from around 2006 - 2011. We got along great. She worked weekends PT at a place I was oncall at. I would fill in there occasionally and we hit it off immediately. She was a few years older than me. She could easily have been a BGOL fam' member ... we were always talking hiphop, sports, news & current events. Had plenty of time to talk during off-peak hours at work as things were quieter.

Anyway ... long story short ... she was making strides in her health. Losing weight / increasing exercise / trying to clean up her overall routine. Things seemed to be pointing in the right direction for her ... but she had quietly developed pretty serious drug addiction. Started missing work alot ... people tried reaching out but she wasn't too receptive (and people were unaware of the drug issues). She ended up robbing a number of her close friends (AWAY from the job) and stole from a handful of her regular PT / FT coworkers there at that job (I heard about that after the fact from people). She also stole quite a bit from her mom (early-60s who had been recovering from cancer) and grandma respectively.

She asked me for money back in late-2011 (before I knew about all this shit) but I politely declined. Never got taken by her.

She ended up moving out of province in late-2011 or early-2012 and has ghosted everyone and flown under the radar.

Not sure whatever became of the robbing / stealing from people close to her. Googled her name a few times ... all I could find was an outdated .PDF document that was unrelated, a private Facebook acct, and an IG profile with 5 - 10 pictures (all heavily filtered) that was last active some 3 - 5 years back.

Shitty situation all-around.

 

[^SpiderMan^]

One of my homeboys was stationed in Norfolk. I was 3hrs away at Cherry Point, NC. So I call him up a went to see him one weekend. We met at the mall (I think it was called Military Circle) then went to a club. He told me he live in an aprtment off base and I could crash there for the night. So we get to the apartment and theres a naked white dude sitting at the table drinking liquor. The white guy got up went into the bedroom and slammed the door. After that I bounced and got me a room at a motel. I been knowing him since 9th grade. The last I heard is he married a dude.

 

[Cannibal]

Ever see someone virtue signaling on Facebook or Instagram but you know theyre a piece of shit offline? That's shit is a trip! Postin inspirational videos Talkin bout FACTS! 100..fire emojis..bicep emojis.. where the hypocrite and full of shit emojis at? Ol piece a shit abandon ya kids as toddlers garbage ass bitch made nigga.

I see couples doing this shit all the time. Women posting pics of their hubby's and how much the love 'em and would die for 'em blaazaay skippy while I know they out here fucking multiple niggas and vice versa.

 

[Better]

My best friend was a sista out of VA. Highly educated and very successful entrepreneur.

She is one of those people whose life depends on appearing perfect to everyone. She work out all the time, takes ridiculous care of her body, and is ALWAYS READING ABOUT SOMETHING.

She also has an extreme need to be right. Now, I don't want to make it seem like she is a bad person, but those are a few flaws that I think she has.

We have had a lot of conversations, and will sometime disagree. I don't get upset if she disagrees with me. I don't think I'm always right, and even in situations where I think I am, I'll just let it be.

She is not that person.

I've felt for awhile that she has an issue with me, but she won't come out and say what it is. I can't pinpoint what it is. Maybe it's multiple things.

Sometimes I think the white women bother her, but I also think she doesn't care. I don't think she wants to be with me, but I think it offends her on some level that I'm not fully sure of. Maybe it bothers her sometimes.

I also think it bothers her that, I'm not even remotely close to being as formally education as she is, nor as well read - but I end up debating her into silence on many subjects. Not because she lacks intelligence, but I feel I am considerably more capable of a debater than she is.

WELL ... when I disagree with her on a topic, she starts to get loud and flustered. I'll usually bring the conversation to a close.

If she is very passionate about a topic, and feel like she is not 'winning', she will hit below the belt. She will go AT ME. I never go AT HER.

We haven't spoken in a month now, because she stopped debating me and tried to invalidate my worth as a person, in order to invalidate my opinion in a debate. Then she starts going off about me fucking the 'white man's leftovers', and how she's traveled more places, achieved more and studied more in her life.

She's done this before, but not to the extreme she did it this last time. I was able to come back after a few weeks, but not this time.

I say this respectfully, but fuck that bitch. There are a lot of things I could've said to her over the past two decades that I chose to not say, because I didn't think it was productive. It's like, I valued the friendship I have with this person, and I know she isn't the type that's open to being criticized, so I choose to keep those comments to my self.

I had major respect for this woman for years, but going THAT low because you think you're losing an argument is a deal breaker for me.

 

[dugington]

Remember that stretch of time when every dude in the hood was 'flipping houses'?

Well he was getting any and everybody to use their names for whatever he was doing. Old people, young people, bums, whoever.
He fucked up a lot of simple-minded, but generally good folks' credit up and they aint get shit out of it.

I don't knock nobody's hustle, but when you doing people dirty who you grew up around and don't deserve it, that talks to me about your character.

It tells me that if you could just figure out a better scheme.......I'd be next.

 

[djkidrich]

I gotta situation kinda like that, my closest childhood friend hits me one day when I’m home from traveling for work and lays on me that he knows his chic is cheating, he put a GPS on her car and the dude lives near me. So I strap up like commando and ask him for the app so I could follow them. I get pics of his chics car at dudes fuck hut and pics of her giving him shit like clothes and food. This goes on for a week.
I forward the pics to homie and he’s appreciative, he divorces the chic and he moves on with life. 4 years later we’ve only spoken once and not in person.
This mufucka likely can’t look me in the eye anymore and I don’t have a judgmental bone in my body. So fuck it.

You would be surprised at the perception that some people have of you man and from where you are standing you are just doing your duty as a friend. I had a close friend man we used to talk every damn day, closest thing to a brother on this earth.. The thing with this guy was that he always shit where he worked. Always fucking up with women at his job bitches fighting over him and all kinds of relationship drama. One day we are sitting in the living room at my house and he says "Rich you always got your shit together man never no drama with you it makes me feel bad when I am around you". I just shrugged it off as he was just going thru one of his self imposed issues again. Shortly after that this dude ghosts me man, changes his number, stops coming by, quit his job, moves out of state. I like you are one of the most non judgemental cats around. Hurt a bit man , just don't understand what was going through his head

 

[djkidrich]

My best friend was a sista out of VA. Highly educated and very successful entrepreneur.

She is one of those people whose life depends on appearing perfect to everyone. She work out all the time, takes ridiculous care of her body, and is ALWAYS READING ABOUT SOMETHING.

She also has an extreme need to be right. Now, I don't want to make it seem like she is a bad person, but those are a few flaws that I think she has.

We have had a lot of conversations, and will sometime disagree. I don't get upset if she disagrees with me. I don't think I'm always right, and even in situations where I think I am, I'll just let it be.

She is not that person.

I've felt for awhile that she has an issue with me, but she won't come out and say what it is. I can't pinpoint what it is. Maybe it's multiple things.

Sometimes I think the white women bother her, but I also think she doesn't care. I don't think she wants to be with me, but I think it offends her on some level that I'm not fully sure of. Maybe it bothers her sometimes.

I also think it bothers her that, I'm not even remotely close to being as formally education as she is, nor as well read - but I end up debating her into silence on many subjects. Not because she lacks intelligence, but I feel I am considerably more capable of a debater than she is.

WELL ... when I disagree with her on a topic, she starts to get loud and flustered. I'll usually bring the conversation to a close.

If she is very passionate about a topic, and feel like she is not 'winning', she will hit below the belt. She will go AT ME. I never go AT HER.

We haven't spoken in a month now, because she stopped debating me and tried to invalidate my worth as a person, in order to invalidate my opinion in a debate. Then she starts going off about me fucking the 'white man's leftovers', and how she's traveled more places, achieved more and studied more in her life.

She's done this before, but not to the extreme she did it this last time. I was able to come back after a few weeks, but not this time.

I say this respectfully, but fuck that bitch. There are a lot of things I could've said to her over the past two decades that I chose to not say, because I didn't think it was productive. It's like, I valued the friendship I have with this person, and I know she isn't the type that's open to being criticized, so I choose to keep those comments to my self.

I had major respect for this woman for years, but going THAT low because you think you're losing an argument is a deal breaker for me.

I feel you there man, there is a limit to what a man will take from any woman....

 

[The Plutonian]

I learned in my younger years, the quickest way to lose a friend or things to go awkward is to meddle or give your opinion on him (your friend) and his woman.

Many years ago, dude I worked with, we were tight, so, his girl at the time and mine, used to hang out. She tried to hook up my girl with a "side dude", a friend of "her side dude". My girl told me and said don't tell my friend. I promised I wouldn't. But one night smoked trees with him, thinking we cool, told him.

Said don't tell her, just watch situations. Well he did. He later flipped on me, said me and my girl were trying to break them up. To this day stopped talking to me.

But I learned never let a chick, mess with my friendship with someone, so I don't comment on it to them. To each his own. He gotta lay in that bed he made, but lost madd respect for that.

They still together today I last heard, but she believe in having her cake and eating it too. She believes in having multiple dudes for multiple reasons.

I stay out of people biz and just keep the relationship with a friend just at that, reserve my opinions to myself. Quickest way to kill a friendship. Giving comment about something you see wrong in their relationshit. You will lose every time. In the end.

This just happened to me recently. Reconnected with a homeboy I haven’t seen since 1993. Helped do his VA claim and we used to talk last year almost daily. I helped him get paid about 15k back pay plus 70% or $1700 for life until they throw the dirt. Dude wasn’t fucking his wife since he’s diabetic. In over 3 years? What?! Wife was coming to the A getting dug out and where they live. Asked me what do I think? Told him she getting piped down. The wife of her side piece tracked him down crying. Had receipts, meet up times, texts, places etc. Lady came to him crying about her husband and his wife. He asked me what would I do? I said bro, I’d be out! I’ve been through that before already. Y’all had 15 good years! His calls trickled off then he wouldn’t answer or return my calls or text and I’m cool with it now. It is what it is. If he ever did call me back I’d just tell him man let’s leave the good times we spent as brothers at that. Enjoy your life.

 

[keone]

Damn it gotta be ALWAYS?

can't be usually?

Inevitably?

Unfortunately?

He right tho
Recently got disappointed again
People are going to be people.
But in OP case is their lives he cool with
Wouldnt even sweat it

 

[The Plutonian]

I disagree. That man fucked his wife, but he never touched him. Not saying I agree with crying at the foot of the bed or handing him his clothes, but truthfully no one knows how they will react until the moment comes. End of the day, that man didn't owe him anything. I'll even say him fucking his wife in their house was over the top, but your wife fucking another man in your house proves she or that man aren't worth it. I'd also understand if he did fight the guy under those circumstances. No matter how you choose to handle the situation someone is going to say you did it wrong.

Plus in My mind, anyone who knowingly fucks in another man's house is holding or has relationships with those who do and will. If that isn't you, let that man go on his way and leave your wife if you really feel away. No need to lose your life ( jail or literally death) over a woman who choose another. I never fucked a woman in there home because some women lie about their status and some men don't know when the relationship is over.

His father actually touched him. I don't care who you are or what you've done for me. Keep your hands to yourself. It would be different if his father laughed or just used harsh words and the son hit the father first, but that doesn't seem to be the case. The son was defending himself from a threat provoked by the father. He had a lifetime to instill his values in his son. If he is disappointed in his son, he should hit himself for the perceived failure or go find the man that disrespected his son.

I’m not hitting or getting into no altercation with another dude taking his turn on some used up pussy. It was never mines to begin with. Only my turn, now it’s his turn. See, the thing with me is I think forward. By the time a hoe step out on me and try to hit me with the “dear John” I’ve already done run the score up like the showtime Lakers. And nope I’m not telling her nothing I’ll just dissolve our relationship. Over 8 billion people on this planet son. My dick will find some new strange pussy to park in. And yes, another woman’s lips will be wrapped around this dick cause well it ain’t gonna suck itself!

 

[850credit]

OP hasn't been online since that suicide by cop thread

 

[D24OHA]

Damn......
Has anyone had any dms or contact with @nawlinsn931 since February 9th?!

 

[Darkness's]

Me and lightbright were never friends and i dont have any respect for him whatsoever.

 

[yasky777]

You would be surprised at the perception that some people have of you man and from where you are standing you are just doing your duty as a friend. I had a close friend man we used to talk every damn day, closest thing to a brother on this earth.. The thing with this guy was that he always shit where he worked. Always fucking up with women at his job bitches fighting over him and all kinds of relationship drama. One day we are sitting in the living room at my house and he says "Rich you always got your shit together man never no drama with you it makes me feel bad when I am around you". I just shrugged it off as he was just going thru one of his self imposed issues again. Shortly after that this dude ghosts me man, changes his number, stops coming by, quit his job, moves out of state. I like you are one of the most non judgemental cats around. Hurt a bit man , just don't understand what was going through his head

This is exactly it! My older brother always said my homie was a pussy and mentally weak and I would stand ups for him thinking my brother was just being on some wack shit. Nah Big Bro was correct. My homie was always soft never taking risks and afraid to face his fears unless it was in a classroom.

 

[djkidrich]

This just happened to me recently. Reconnected with a homeboy I haven’t seen since 1993. Helped do his VA claim and we used to talk last year almost daily. I helped him get paid about 15k back pay plus 70% or $1700 for life until they throw the dirt. Dude wasn’t fucking his wife since he’s diabetic. In over 3 years? What?! Wife was coming to the A getting dug out and where they live. Asked me what do I think? Told him she getting piped down. The wife of her side piece tracked him down crying. Had receipts, meet up times, texts, places etc. Lady came to him crying about her husband and his wife. He asked me what would I do? I said bro, I’d be out! I’ve been through that before already. Y’all had 15 good years! His calls trickled off then he wouldn’t answer or return my calls or text and I’m cool with it now. It is what it is. If he ever did call me back I’d just tell him man let’s leave the good times we spent as brothers at that. Enjoy your life.

I feel you man, I mean what the fuck? Dude asked you for your opinion and you were real with him. But because your honesty revealed to him the bitch made nature he had. He retaliates the only way he knows how, to lash out at YOU. This happened to me with a cool dude I knew a while back. I invited him over my crib one time when my wife had a female friend over. They hit it off man and next thing you know he moved in with her and her son who was 7 years old at the time. Fast forward a year and things turned bad over time and he would complain to me about her all the time. Then one day we were on the train going home from work (we used to work in the same area). He tells me that he moved out when she was at work. I recalled that he used to watch the boy when she was at work during the day as he worked nights. So I asked him what about the kid he said he was there when he moved out and he gave him the keys when he was done. I was like "yo that is traumatizing man I think you handled that kinda foul don't you think?" Dude jumped up and squared up on me man lol I did the same shit! I said yo you want to get your ass beat over this shit? He calmed down but things deteriorated between us over time till we just stopped talking. Some cats can't confront shit man

 

[Uncle John]

Yup.
Over money, of course.
Fantasy Football.
Won the championship, and didn't want to pay ($500)
Finally paid and shorted me $100 saying other people didn't pay.

Damn, I know this story.
Stopped playing (out of lack of respect) and dude took it further, ignoring fact that he uses Fantasy Funds for his fuck shit.

 

[850credit]

Fuck it. I need to vent/feel like sharing. When I get some time I'm going to unload on a former friend.

 

[lightbright]

Me and lightbright were never friends and i dont have any respect for him whatsoever.

Good to know.... and I would never consider a rooty tooty fresh n fruity Florida fag like you a friend or associate
sidebar: only your fag peers respect you, your gun game is legendary among them, you're an "OG fag " .... like Omar in The Wire

 

[HellBoy]

Yeap.

One of my good friends became a cop. I felt like it was a weird decision because we both we into IT and coding. We were still cool outside of that. After the cops/paramedics killed the black kid somewhere out West, he posted some shit on facebook about 'Blue lives matter' and some other tone-deaf shit. I told him about himself and haven't talk to him since. Over 30 years of friendship, gone.

 

[The Plutonian]

I feel you man, I mean what the fuck? Dude asked you for your opinion and you were real with him. But because your honesty revealed to him the bitch made nature he had. He retaliates the only way he knows how, to lash out at YOU. This happened to me with a cool dude I knew a while back. I invited him over my crib one time when my wife had a female friend over. They hit it off man and next thing you know he moved in with her and her son who was 7 years old at the time. Fast forward a year and things turned bad over time and he would complain to me about her all the time. Then one day we were on the train going home from work (we used to work in the same area). He tells me that he moved out when she was at work. I recalled that he used to watch the boy when she was at work during the day as he worked nights. So I asked him what about the kid he said he was there when he moved out and he gave him the keys when he was done. I was like "yo that is traumatizing man I think you handled that kinda foul don't you think?" Dude jumped up and squared up on me man lol I did the same shit! I said yo you want to get your ass beat over this shit? He calmed down but things deteriorated between us over time till we just stopped talking. Some cats can't confront shit man

Thing is we made a pact years ago. If I made it I’d look him up and share, if he made it he’d do the same. Guess his shit wasn’t true. I’m good with it. Me personally I’d never marry or keep a hoe who ain’t true to me.