YOU Ever BUSTED One of Your Chicks CREEPING,,,

[gameboy]

Ok I gotta story too....damn after readin' some of this shit, now I know why I'm the way I am with women.

Married this chick, high school sweetheart, good girl, I thought....she was real passive, kinda quiet, but turns out she was just sneaky with hers. In a million years I never would have figured out she was a $2 ho, I don't know if it was denial or if I was just in love with the chick or wanted to believe her.

Anyways, after we get married, I go on tour in the Army, They cut me orders to IRAQ, we're writining each other everyday once the mail starts flowin' and like somebody else said, "Everything started to slow down"..."My Pimp senses go off-flashin' a ho alert alarm". Since I'm 10,000 miles away, I can't prove a damn thing, so I'm stuck with speculating. Letters trickle in from here, used to be 3-4 a week, now it's 1 every 3-4 weeks. I beg her for some pictures of my daugter for 3 months, she finally sends them, but no letter, no how you doin' nothin'...this is my wife now.

So we got 1 call a week using the MARS system and I decide to call my sister, she's always good for spreading news.

Me: He sis, how are things back home
sis: fine, how you hoildin' up
Me: I'm cool can't wait to come home though
sis: I hate to be the one to tell you this but XXXXXX is pregnant by XXXXX
Me: Huh
sis: Yea, your wife is pregnant by another man.

Damn, talk about devastated, and I was 10,000 miles away, wasn' shit I could do about it. about a month later I got mail from her, Divorce papers in the mail....WOW!!!! one of the lowest points in my life only because I had put so much trust in her. Learned to never trust a bitch ever again and with good reason, I've never dated or married one who hasn't cheated...EVER...Well One to my knowledge

I gotta another one that's just as bad, but I don't feel like typin' it cause it was just Trifling.

deadly combination,,, those quiet chicks are hard to read, & usually do the most dirt,,, & i read somewhere that close to 90% of military spouses cheat,,, fucked up story though,,, that had to sting bad while you were over there fighting a war

 

[Rossini]

YOU BE RUNING FORM WHITE PEOPLE.CASE CLOSED
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?p=4486873#post4486873

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07-23-2008, 01:51 PM
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Cousin of Jena 6 defendant tasered to death in Louisiana
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Posted By killasmooth
Re: Cousin of Jena 6 defendant tasered to death in Louisiana

I seen this happen plenty of times in these lil country towns, only thing you can do is pack up an move, cant beat them crackas. I aint never running from no one. but i see them whiteys got u shook.

Thats a whole different scenerio buddy, a whole town full of crooked/racist white police/judicial system is different then 1 man.

 

[destrehan]

Not busted in the act, but busted nonetheless. Me and wifey been together for a long time and I was responsible for our cell phone bills. I was going over her bill trying to figure out why she kept going over her minutes. I was planning on upping her rate plan until I kept seeing one number taking up a huge amount of minutes. I called her on it and she lied, not even thinking about me working at the same phone company at the time. I told her I'd pull the calls and they would show the whole conversations, and she still acted innocent. Came home from work with a stack of old work orders in a company mail envelope, and she confessed while crying(didn't even ask to see my proof). She told me she always felt like I was up to something, and this was payback. She also had found emails from our son's 3rd grade teacher that were semi-incriminating.

I know a lot of people here saying they had 2 and 3 chicks on the side, but I was just trifling. I was fucking with 2 at work on separate shifts, 1 in our apartment complex, ghetto assed escort services and them damn Asian massage parlors(happy ending included). I was also messing with them almost full service strip clubs, countless off the street jump offs while attempting to literally build a library of porn. Since you get what you put out there and karma being a bitch and all, I just charged it to the game. I couldn't even kick her out because of it plus we got a toddler that I'm really attached to. Even though I didn't really get busted, how could I fault her for doing the same thing I did but only 50 times worse than her. I think karma would get me again if I put her out. Wrong is wrong and fair is fair. 2 wrongs don't make a right,but do 3 wrongs make a left?(yeah that was stupid cuz we all know 3 rights make a left) Plus I learned from the old cats that it's cheaper to keep her. So now we just pretty much roommates that fuck, and having a live in maid is a plus. I might fuck off every now and then, but not like before. So until I'm ready to start romancing another woman and going through those motions that come with starting over, I'm cool. I don't trust women at all anymore, so I'm not even gonna waste my time starting over right now. I'm not on cloud 9, but I'm not miserable because we get along fine. Plus since she thinks she got 1 foot out the door, guess who gets treated like a king now

damn son you worse than i was. good luck with all that.

 

[big pimp]

Thats a whole different scenerio buddy, a whole town full of crooked/racist white police/judicial system is different then 1 man.

i aint runing from nobody and dam sure not no whitey. thats how they want u to be a scared nigga.and in my case i have to be smart i dont need to sitting in jail over a bitch.

 

[Rossini]

i aint runing from nobody and dam sure not no whitey. thats how they want u to be a scared nigga.

Nah I aint about to stay in a town where they can tase me to death and get away with it, sorry.

 

[darkninja7000]

Women have a different level to their cheating.

They be on some other shit, they be crossing all kinda lines.

They'll pick up the phone to talk to their man while they layin up in the bed next to another ninja...pussy still got nut in it.

They'll introduce you to tha dude too, and not blink once, and you'll never know.

Half the time you've met that dude she fuckin, you just didnt know.

They grimey like that. They love the thrill of it.

Dudes cheat but there's certain lines we wont cross, certain things we wont do.

Women have no concept of lines, they let their emotions take control and they dont give a fuck.

Be doing all kinda shit, Inviting you to a party knowing her man gonna be there, huggin you and shit all in front of her man like y'all best buddies, knowing she just let you nut in her mouth the day before.

I've been the side ninja, so you get to see the shit first hand. That shit can fuck with your head though, cuz you'll never look at women the same again.

word! son hit it dead on the head. one day this chick i was messin with was on the phone with her fiance while she was lettin me fuk her up her ass! unreal! i was a young dude back then and yeah it was grimey but it is what it is. everything my man said in his post is true!

 

[gameboy]

Not busted in the act, but busted nonetheless. Me and wifey been together for a long time and I was responsible for our cell phone bills. I was going over her bill trying to figure out why she kept going over her minutes. I was planning on upping her rate plan until I kept seeing one number taking up a huge amount of minutes. I called her on it and she lied, not even thinking about me working at the same phone company at the time. I told her I'd pull the calls and they would show the whole conversations, and she still acted innocent. Came home from work with a stack of old work orders in a company mail envelope, and she confessed while crying(didn't even ask to see my proof). She told me she always felt like I was up to something, and this was payback. She also had found emails from our son's 3rd grade teacher that were semi-incriminating.

I know a lot of people here saying they had 2 and 3 chicks on the side, but I was just trifling. I was fucking with 2 at work on separate shifts, 1 in our apartment complex, ghetto assed escort services and them damn Asian massage parlors(happy ending included). I was also messing with them almost full service strip clubs, countless off the street jump offs while attempting to literally build a library of porn. Since you get what you put out there and karma being a bitch and all, I just charged it to the game. I couldn't even kick her out because of it plus we got a toddler that I'm really attached to. Even though I didn't really get busted, how could I fault her for doing the same thing I did but only 50 times worse than her. I think karma would get me again if I put her out. Wrong is wrong and fair is fair. 2 wrongs don't make a right,but do 3 wrongs make a left?(yeah that was stupid cuz we all know 3 rights make a left) Plus I learned from the old cats that it's cheaper to keep her. So now we just pretty much roommates that fuck, and having a live in maid is a plus. I might fuck off every now and then, but not like before. So until I'm ready to start romancing another woman and going through those motions that come with starting over, I'm cool. I don't trust women at all anymore, so I'm not even gonna waste my time starting over right now. I'm not on cloud 9, but I'm not miserable because we get along fine. Plus since she thinks she got 1 foot out the door, guess who gets treated like a king now

this is exactly why i'm glad i'm divorced,,, married sex was so boring to me, that i was creeping like crazy (i guess for excitment),,, ironically, now that i'm single, i don't even have the desire to do half the creeping i did while married,,,

and once you become roommates with your wife, what's the point?,,, glad i got out before i had kids with her,,, i did so much dirt, i know that karma isn't even half way finished with me yet,,, that's why i laugh when kats said i was catching feelings for that chick (earlier in this thread),,, i'm already expecting my dirt to come back,,, so i don't trust any of them

 

[gameboy]

word! son hit it dead on the head. one day this chick i was messin with was on the phone with her fiance while she was lettin me fuk her up her ass! unreal! i was a young dude back then and yeah it was grimey but it is what it is. everything my man said in his post is true!

i used to mess with this african chick,,, her husband worked the graveyard shift,,, in order to check up on her, he would call at random times at night to see if she was at home (& not out creeping),,, little did he know that i was at his crib, while he was calling her,,, sometimes with my dick in her mouth during the call,,, that was years ago,,, i would never roll like that now

 

[Rebel-INS]

Hell yeah bitch was fucking my brother, and my best friend, it aint faze me since I was fucking 20 different chicks on the side though.

 

[BDR]

Pimpslap is a grimy nigga

 

[itwazuntme]

The brotha with the long post made me think. The biggest SIMP move possible is to fight or kill a man over a woman. Killing a man over a woman takes away your life as well because you have to spend the rest of your life in prison. It is not the dudes fault your woman cheated. Some brothas fail to grasp that concept.

Real Talk righ there Brown...real talk

 

[itwazuntme]

long story, but gotta get it off my chest

I had been tellin' my wife at the time that I knew somethin' was goin on... but she insisted on being caught instead of being honest. She claimed that she was out bowling with co-workers twice a week, but it was too obvious cuz whenever we'd go bowling with friends her back would always hurt the next day. Whenever she'd go 'bowling' with co-workers she'd come home like she'd been at the damn spa, all refreshed. Anyway, I sat at home ere’ night for weeks knowing that she was doin’ something but I just couldn’t prove it. I looked at her and honestly asked her if there was something wrong and she lied. I promised her that I would file for divorce if I ever discovered infidelity. Then she had the nerve to try and say that I should pray about my insecurities. I then decided that enough was enough.

I installed a caller ID box in the basement on a phone jack... then each night when I got home I would compare the numbers called on the cordless phones in the bedroom and living room to the box in the basement that she didn't know about... of course I was quickly able to figure out which number she was deleting... instead of confronting her, I just called my connects at Cellular One and ran a trace on the number... had dudes name, address, DOB, SS# and ere'thing... I drove past his crib one night that she was supposedly 'working late' and her car was there in his driveway. The car I had bought for her. I was really boiling at that point. Little did they know that I was sitting there with my loaded 9mm in lap. I had already figured out what I was gonna do. I was gonna kill her. I didn't give a damn who caught it... but SHE was the main one who was gonna get it... if dude had been there to walk her outside or something, I woulda got him too, but he wasn't my target...

I called both my moms and pops separately and told them what I was about to do. I don't know why I called my parents, I guess it was the pain eating me up inside and out of respect for them, I wanted to let them know that I was at rock bottom and that I appreciated all their love and support since birth. Kind of like a "I know you've done all you can for me and this is not your fault" type of closing. Of course they pleaded with me to calm down, drive from the scene and not resort to the violent act I had promised. I then powered off my cell phone off and sat with my finger on the trigger. I remember the day like it was yesterday... July 26, 1999. I waited and waited and waited. I must've sat there for close to 3 hours but her and dude never emerged. There's no way they could've known I was there cuz I had borrowed my buddy's SUV and was sitting on a side street about 4 houses down from dude's house.

After contemplating my options and knowing full well that after gunning them both down, I'd either go to prison or be killed in a shootout with police while on the run, I decided against it and drove home. I think what hit me in the heart was knowing that our 2 kids would've be left without their parents. I kept seeing my 5 yr old daughter's face and hearing her say "Why did you do that to mommy?" It wouldn't have been fair for me to leave them alone in this world with in-laws or someone other than one of us caring for them. I think that was God looking down on me. Honestly, I had no conscience about shooting either one of them, had I seen them. Wouldn't ya know who came home 20 minutes after I got home. It was hard to look at her that night, but I sucked it up and showed no emotions at all in front of her and played it cool.

Imagine bustin' ya azz to provide for your family and then find out that your wife is runnin' around with another dude. Not just a one time deal, but an ongoing affair. We had been together for 7 years and her tryst with dude was at least a few months. All cuz I was in last semester at Howard U. tryna make the situation betta for my family (her + 2 kids). Her older son was not my biological, but I treated him as blood and as my own child. No, I wasn't bringing in the $$$ I had the previous 5 years working FT, but I was back at Howard tryna finish up my BA. Sad part is that she was the one who inspired me to go back to Howard and finish up my degree. Yeah, I was not home as I would've liked to have been... but I was in school FT, working PT and doing an internship. Wasn't like I was out partying. I actually talked to the guy she was having the relations with. I called him the very next day on his cell and said these exact words "So... you're f**king my wife?". He then responded... "Oh,, this must be (my govt name)". Talk about me being shook, the cat knew of me and my name. Dude and I talked for like 20 minutes. He said that she told him that she was divorced. Told him that she was still in the house for the sake of the kids and that we slept in separate bedrooms. It was a tense convo, but one that enlightened us both. He confirmed a lot of things that I had suspicions about, like 'business trips', 'late hours', new tires on her car and extra money she had received. That cat was straight up being played by her but dude straight up wanted to marry her. I couldn't help but laugh at that notion.

The single most important thing that I learned from my divorce (okay okay, I learned this in my Anger Management class when I was going through the divorce) was that you can only control yourself. You do not control what any other person does. If your wife/partner wants to walk outta the door what are you gonna do… physically stop them??? That works on occasions (temporarily), but in the long run someone will end up in jail and 90% of the time it’s the man. For the most part, you just have to use good ole common sense in making decisions on the type of person that you decide to be involved with. People sometimes snicker when I admit to going to Anger Management. But those classes every Monday for 6 mos, probably saved my life. Everyday, I re-considered my thoughts of killing her. Seriously. I needed a place to relax and let my thoughts go. In that class I was in the fellowship of other brothas who were going through similar circumstances and we kinda leaned on each other and became friends.

I never asked my ex-wife why. It didn't matter to me. She betrayed me. After giving her numerous chances to come clean, she refused. I honestly was prepared to try and work things out, even if she had admitted cheating. it woulda hurt, but I would've tried. Til this day, she never admitted to what she did. Wasn't an issue for me about why anyway. I believe in the sacredness of vows, but when one person refuses to admit their wrong, you can't move forward no matter how much you love them. In that case, you must go on with your life. I was criticized by the 'God fearing' members (grandparents, uncles aunts, etc) of my family who didn't believe in divorce, but I shook them off with one question. "Would you rather I sit in a corner, cry my eyes out and contemplate murder or suicide or do what's right for me, file divorce, move on with life and eventually find someone who'll not only love and respect me, but someone who deserves my love and respect?" Room kinda went silent after that.

Fortunately, I'm here to talk about it, which let's you that I wised up and drove from away from the house that night cuz I realized that my life wasn't worth losing cuz ONE woman who betrayed me... but being on the other end of a cheating spouse hurts like hell and can drive folks to kill... trust me... I'm not a hood type cat who grew up on corners or nothin'... but I was a hurt husband who owned a gun. I advise my fellow brothas not to deal with married women. Don't look at a man's stature and assume he won't do something should he find out. A heart hurt will resort to anything when broken. The puzzy aint worth losing your life. That's from both perspectives... from the boyfriend/husband aspect and the playas who love to deal with married sistahs.

Geezus...gawd almighty, are you my conscience telling this story? cause this is the "Story Just as bad" that I was gonna tell. The same EXACT shit happened to me...college, kid that wasn't mine that I was raising, cut in income, phone call and all....I mean verbatum.....Bitches are GRIMY with theirs - all I can say is now, I treat them like old boys saying..."The pussy aint yours, it's just your turn" I can't even go there with the I love you shit anymore....sad, just sad.

Til this day, she never admitted to what she did

That's a female for you...her pussy gives her immunity from guilt and any open admission. She supposed to spread her legs and suck your dick until you forget...slave minded...and blinded.

I advise my fellow brothas not to deal with married women

GOOD advice...I personally have been approached by married and seperated women. I DID not and WILL not go there with a married or seperated spouse. She could be fine as wine, butt nekkid with a drippin' wet pussy....I promise you I'd walk away. I remember how I felt and I would NEVER ever wish that on another man or put another man in that position. Shit, my ex pulled the we're sleeping in seperate beds I'm there for the kids too...so why is it ok not to wait until she is completely out the house or talk the ex-husband to seeif that's what's really goin' on.

 

[Studio718]

long story, but gotta get it off my chest

Til this day, she never admitted to what she did.

Yo dawg, Till this day my ex refuses to admit/apologize or acknowledge that she did anything wrong.

And that right there is what gets my heated.
I would have forgiven the bitch and try to make amends had she come clean.

Now thinking about it, women are grimey.

I'VE FUCKED EVERY SINGLE EX OF MINE, THAT WAS IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP...EVERYONE!!!.

This one bitch Noelle used to ride me, while on the phone with her new man...giving him smooches and shit...scandalous.

You live and learn...

 

[itwazuntme]

Damm that's fuck up. speaking of visitation right i got screwed also. and paying a shit load of child support. keep youre head up.

Yea me too....anotha dude got my wife at the time pregnant and I'm paying child support, no visitation and my now grown daughter is like a stranger to me. Shit the court treated her like she was the victim.... There is a special place in hell for women like this and the members of the family court. America really doesn't have to ask itself why she is in the position she's in, just look at the family courts and that answers that question. Plus women can have orgy's on film and present it to the court and just say, "I was havin' a good time see your honor, I'm an adult my child wasn't present and it hurt no one" ....the court will say..."judgement for the wife...she did nothing wrong here...You sir better pay up and stop over-reacting, your wife was just having an orgy party with 8 dudes...I see nothing wrong with her being bukkaked and anally sodomized by 6 men if your child wasn't present and you were at work trying to pay the bills....maybe sir you should try staying home some more and making her happy"...."look what you made her do, you made her cry..that'll cost you an additional $200 a month"

 

[itwazuntme]

yo nah i can't believe that evil bitch told you to pray about your insecurities, that shit got me straight heated just off reading it.


and she STILL won't admit it even though you talked to dude???????


WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

insecurities and independent are sista's new buzz words...shit is played out though...they need to come at anotha' angle. If they're using buzzwords, they're up to something. After a while you gotta look at women like this and figure they are lost, just career ho's...I did to my ex-wife and she been tryin' to find the next best thing ever since...while I'm movin' on with my degree's and my son....shit I think Imma have a girlfriend for life...fuck marriage.

 

[itwazuntme]

Not busted in the act, but busted nonetheless. Me and wifey been together for a long time and I was responsible for our cell phone bills. I was going over her bill trying to figure out why she kept going over her minutes. I was planning on upping her rate plan until I kept seeing one number taking up a huge amount of minutes. I called her on it and she lied, not even thinking about me working at the same phone company at the time. I told her I'd pull the calls and they would show the whole conversations, and she still acted innocent. Came home from work with a stack of old work orders in a company mail envelope, and she confessed while crying(didn't even ask to see my proof). She told me she always felt like I was up to something, and this was payback. She also had found emails from our son's 3rd grade teacher that were semi-incriminating.

I know a lot of people here saying they had 2 and 3 chicks on the side, but I was just trifling. I was fucking with 2 at work on separate shifts, 1 in our apartment complex, ghetto assed escort services and them damn Asian massage parlors(happy ending included). I was also messing with them almost full service strip clubs, countless off the street jump offs while attempting to literally build a library of porn. Since you get what you put out there and karma being a bitch and all, I just charged it to the game. I couldn't even kick her out because of it plus we got a toddler that I'm really attached to. Even though I didn't really get busted, how could I fault her for doing the same thing I did but only 50 times worse than her. I think karma would get me again if I put her out. Wrong is wrong and fair is fair. 2 wrongs don't make a right,but do 3 wrongs make a left?(yeah that was stupid cuz we all know 3 rights make a left) Plus I learned from the old cats that it's cheaper to keep her. So now we just pretty much roommates that fuck, and having a live in maid is a plus. I might fuck off every now and then, but not like before. So until I'm ready to start romancing another woman and going through those motions that come with starting over, I'm cool. I don't trust women at all anymore, so I'm not even gonna waste my time starting over right now. I'm not on cloud 9, but I'm not miserable because we get along fine. Plus since she thinks she got 1 foot out the door, guess who gets treated like a king now

I'm on the females side on this one, you're just foul..."Don't trust women" Nigga you shouldn't trust yourself...you aint even legit with this...

 

[gameboy]

Yo dawg, Till this day my ex refuses to admit/apologize or acknowledge that she did anything wrong.

And that right there is what gets my heated.
I would have forgiven the bitch and try to make amends had she come clean.

Now thinking about it, women are grimey.

I'VE FUCKED EVERY SINGLE EX OF MINE, THAT WAS IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP...EVERYONE!!!.

This one bitch Noelle used to ride me, while on the phone with her new man...giving him smooches and shit...scandalous.

You live and learn...

Brothaz need to realize that women almost never admit they cheated, just because you aksed them to tell you the truth,,, only 2 situations that a woman will confess is:

a) she's mad at you and wants to purposely hurt you
b) you back her down in a corner with evidence (like a pimpslap said in his reply about bringing a stack of paperwork home from the cell phone company,,, his wife lied also, until she thought he had evidence)

other than that,,, bitches will take that info to the grave with them

 

[itwazuntme]

Brothaz need to realize that women almost never admit they cheated, just because you aksed them to tell you the truth,,, only 2 situations that a woman will confess is:

a) she's mad at you and wants to purposely hurt you
b) you back her down in a corner with evidence (like a pimpslap said in his reply about bringing a stack of paperwork home from the cell phone company,,, his wife lied also, until she thought he had evidence)

other than that,,, bitches will take that info to the grave with them

Real Talk...they take the man code...."Never Tell" to a whole other level. My ex was standin' there pregnant and still wouldn't admit she cheated.... talkin' about "What are we gonna do". They can't take the words "You're Wrong" and getting an "I'm sorry" out of them, is like getting blood out of a rock. Because in her mind, her right as a female, is always to be a victim. Regardless of what goes down...she is the ultimate victim. I did it because of what you did....etc

 

[destrehan]

Yea me too....anotha dude got my wife at the time pregnant and I'm paying child support, no visitation and my now grown daughter is like a stranger to me. Shit the court treated her like she was the victim.... There is a special place in hell for women like this and the members of the family court. America really doesn't have to ask itself why she is in the position she's in, just look at the family courts and that answers that question. Plus women can have orgy's on film and present it to the court and just say, "I was havin' a good time see your honor, I'm an adult my child wasn't present and it hurt no one" ....the court will say..."judgement for the wife...she did nothing wrong here...You sir better pay up and stop over-reacting, your wife was just having an orgy party with 8 dudes...I see nothing wrong with her being bukkaked and anally sodomized by 6 men if your child wasn't present and you were at work trying to pay the bills....maybe sir you should try staying home some more and making her happy"...."look what you made her do, you made her cry..that'll cost you an additional $200 a month"

what state was this in? how did you not take this to supreme court? what kinda bum ass lawyer were you fuckin with fam?

 

[gameboy]

I'm on the females side on this one, you're just foul..."Don't trust women" Nigga you shouldn't trust yourself...you aint even legit with this...

i'm not mad at him,,, like i said, marriage brought out the worst in me as far a cheating goes,,, i think a lot of dudes are expecting the same popping sex for the rest of their life when they marry,,, but that never happens,,,

once you start hearing all those excuses like "i'm tired from working all day",,, didn't you have the same job before we got married bitch?

kats start drifting off into internet porn, then cheating,,, then totally disconnecting from wifey,,, now you are just roomates who can't stant each other,,, i see it happen all the time

 

[big pimp]

Yea me too....anotha dude got my wife at the time pregnant and I'm paying child support, no visitation and my now grown daughter is like a stranger to me. Shit the court treated her like she was the victim.... There is a special place in hell for women like this and the members of the family court. America really doesn't have to ask itself why she is in the position she's in, just look at the family courts and that answers that question. Plus women can have orgy's on film and present it to the court and just say, "I was havin' a good time see your honor, I'm an adult my child wasn't present and it hurt no one" ....the court will say..."judgement for the wife...she did nothing wrong here...You sir better pay up and stop over-reacting, your wife was just having an orgy party with 8 dudes...I see nothing wrong with her being bukkaked and anally sodomized by 6 men if your child wasn't present and you were at work trying to pay the bills....maybe sir you should try staying home some more and making her happy"...."look what you made her do, you made her cry..that'll cost you an additional $200 a month"

Damn that's fuck up i got a friend his wife did the same thing got pregnant by some other dude and she play that victim bullshit and she won everything from my friend he lost his home and now living with his parents and he is doing bad. women win in courts.

 

[gameboy]

Yea me too....anotha dude got my wife at the time pregnant and I'm paying child support, no visitation and my now grown daughter is like a stranger to me. Shit the court treated her like she was the victim.... There is a special place in hell for women like this and the members of the family court. America really doesn't have to ask itself why she is in the position she's in, just look at the family courts and that answers that question. Plus women can have orgy's on film and present it to the court and just say, "I was havin' a good time see your honor, I'm an adult my child wasn't present and it hurt no one" ....the court will say..."judgement for the wife...she did nothing wrong here...You sir better pay up and stop over-reacting, your wife was just having an orgy party with 8 dudes...I see nothing wrong with her being bukkaked and anally sodomized by 6 men if your child wasn't present and you were at work trying to pay the bills....maybe sir you should try staying home some more and making her happy"...."look what you made her do, you made her cry..that'll cost you an additional $200 a month"

that's proof that time heals all pain,,, glad you can joke about it now,,, i know something like that never totally gets out of your system though,,, stay up

 

[kraize]

Yea me too....anotha dude got my wife at the time pregnant and I'm paying child support, no visitation and my now grown daughter is like a stranger to me. Shit the court treated her like she was the victim.... There is a special place in hell for women like this and the members of the family court. America really doesn't have to ask itself why she is in the position she's in, just look at the family courts and that answers that question. Plus women can have orgy's on film and present it to the court and just say, "I was havin' a good time see your honor, I'm an adult my child wasn't present and it hurt no one" ....the court will say..."judgement for the wife...she did nothing wrong here...You sir better pay up and stop over-reacting, your wife was just having an orgy party with 8 dudes...I see nothing wrong with her being bukkaked and anally sodomized by 6 men if your child wasn't present and you were at work trying to pay the bills....maybe sir you should try staying home some more and making her happy"...."look what you made her do, you made her cry..that'll cost you an additional $200 a month"

should have gotten her knocked off...would have saved you some money in the long run

 

[rush0]

 

[Web_Guru]

yo nah i can't believe that evil bitch told you to pray about your insecurities, that shit got me straight heated just off reading it.


and she STILL won't admit it even though you talked to dude???????


WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She pulled the ultimate female move right there.

Testing your manhood and blaming your insecurities.

Then she brought GOD into it, asking him to pray about his insecurities.

That's beyond ruthless, dawg.

Like I said earlier, women dont give a fuck, they'll do or say anything...no matter how low down and dirty

 

[pimpslap]

I'm on the females side on this one, you're just foul..."Don't trust women" Nigga you shouldn't trust yourself...you aint even legit with this...

Back then, I would've told you to your face not to trust me playa. I was a young dog. Pussy was calling me and bishes was serving that shit up like Venus and Serena. It took shit like this to check me and now I don't get down like that no more. Karma was paying me back and that's why I didn't bounce her ass off the curb. I'll take the hit if I'm being grimey too, but you gotta kick rocks if I was in love on some faithful shit.

 

[harlem1nyc]

Perfect my dude......Learn to walk away.....keep her as a friend...late night slide off....ROFLMAO

 

[BDR]

Damn you niggas are depressing

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Brothaz need to realize that women almost never admit they cheated, just because you aksed them to tell you the truth,,, only 2 situations that a woman will confess is:

a) she's mad at you and wants to purposely hurt you
b) you back her down in a corner with evidence (like a pimpslap said in his reply about bringing a stack of paperwork home from the cell phone company,,, his wife lied also, until she thought he had evidence)

other than that,,, bitches will take that info to the grave with them

look I'm not into games. But I've only said "I'm sorry" a couple times in my adulthood, and I said it cause I meant it. Other than that I always try to explain "there's a reason for whatever I did". Females never are sorry it's always something for why they try to make it hurt. They are no longer happy with taking your pride, they want ur sanity.

 

[Crown&Coke]

look I'm not into games. But I've only said "I'm sorry" a couple times in my adulthood, and I said it cause I meant it. Other than that I always try to explain "there's a reason for whatever I did". Females never are sorry it's always something for why they try to make it hurt. They are no longer happy with taking your pride, they want ur sanity.

Most of the time a woman will somehow try to make it your fault or turn it around on you. I had a girl cheat on me and then get mad saying "I told you I was sorry, why you still so mad at me, you dont have to treat me like this" as if I was supposed to just be like "oh you cheated....its cool baby, lets go to the movies"​

 

[melonpecan]

Ya'll is describing some of the scum of the earth when it comes to females- I guess I could be included in that.

I can see how most of you would say that for men cheating is a physical thing and that for the women it's emotional. There might be something to that.


My ass did wrong. I know I did. I let go of the best thing I ever had, the only person that I truly loved, over some bitchass emotions. What makes it worse it was shortly after the birth of our child. I had been trying to figure out why I became such a horrible person bent on destroying my family- that was until I had to try to take a moment to understand my feelings. I didn't want to cheat- it wasn't like I woke up that morning and was like "Im'ma go fuck some other dude." Women only do that shit to be spiteful; I ain't that chick. The feelings that I had during my infidelities weren't really feelings. I felt remorse and guilt for what I did/was doing but as far a feelings towards the other person, it wasn't there. I came to the realization this morning that perhaps, (because I had just had a child), that it had to do with postpartum depression.

Now some of you might think that is a fucking cop out- cheat and not take responsibility for your actions, but blame it on something/someone else. I'm not like that. I fess up to what I did; I hurt people and I am not proud. I've been depressed before and probably the reason why I didn't notice it was because this was a different type of depression. One that wasn't centered on the daily chemical functions of my brain but had to do with my chemical imbalance as a woman. I say this because for some of the women you men may encounter, even if they do wrong, sometimes we have no reason why we act because we don't understand ourselves and everything that comes with it. No one is perfect, and I am the last to admit that I am. But sometimes it takes time for a woman to deal with things to figure out what it is she is dealing with.

Now I don't have all of the answers as to why women cheat. I still don't understand how men can cheat and then catch their girl and then loose faith in all women. But if there is some real love in that relationship with time and some talk the two of you should be able to make it to the root of the problem and try to rebuild something that was destroyed. At least I hope that.


Think of me what you will- whether its another bitch trying to justify her actions or someone who really sounds as though she has learned her lesson. I don't care. The only truths I know is that I hold one man in my heart and I always will. My pussy does not rule me like a dick rules a man. Some of you got bored with married sex- I wait for it. My cheating wasn't about having sex with another, (before that I had only had sex with one person), it was about running away from my home life. But why would I want to run away from something I had worked seven years to build? The only explanation I can give is that I was not in my right mind. Having been depressed-severely depressed- before my cheating period was on another level of depression because I felt dead inside. I couldn't understand how I could feel dead but still feel remorseful. I guess it's because being a cheater like I was at that time isn't who I am. Because I have never sought psychiatric help either before or after my pregnancy there was no way for me or anyone else to tell what was wrong with me; I just looked grimy.

I know when you catch your girl cheating you hurt. But for some chicks, they hurt to. Maybe I'm an exception; I don't know. But if I could do it all over again, I would and keep my family together. I was too stupid or blind and confused to realize that I had the best man willing to be with me in my life, and I fucked that up. I'm personally hoping that he will one day try to forgive me so that I can make it up to him. Or to begin to try to make it up to him, and my child. I have no right to ask you for anything but having an explanation for my confusions and knowing why I had mixed feelings at the time makes me confident in knowing I can be a better person. I think that if I had another child, even if I experienced postpartum depression again the same thing would not happen because I know what it feels like now.


...

 

[Allister]

Well..........seems to be like therapy so here goes:

I was dating this chick for about 3 years or so, great relationship, her family was cool with me, and mine her. Anyway, I had been through a lot with her, we worked at the same place where I was a manager and she was an hourly. I started having some beef with my managers about how they were treating the black folks on the job (they was firing folk for no reason) so I spoke on it, why is that important? Cause when they let me go, they promoted my girl and gave her my position...Anyway I was there when she pledged her sorority doin all types of shyt to help her out, crazy shyt, if you are part of a frat/soror ya'll do some wyld shyt anyway, she would call me for advice about her job, and it was like I was still runnin the place just from the phone. I wrote her senior thesis for her all types of simp shyt. Anyway we at her house one night chillin after she get off work, and goes off like "why can't I go out and kick it with other folk?" I was like "I never said you couldn't" so after that I find out through one of my work connects that she met this dude at a company party, and he work for the same place about a month later this one day, I didn't hear from her at all, I played it off and decided to go to bed early, I will never forget I literally had a spiritual intervention, I opened my eyes and it was like "get to her house" so Im in the car thinkin she was in trouble. Her car there, so I called on the cell no answer. She had a broken doorbell, so she always told me to come round back to knock on the window, so as I was goin to the back, I could see through the blinds two people in the bed! My heart and me sunk to the ground and I just sat there for a few minutes I could hear everything, so I called on the cell phone that I could hear from the inside, and she wouldn't pick it up, so I finally knocked on the window and everything just stopped she peeped through the blinds and cut off the t.v. and stuff and was tryin to act like she wasn't there, eventually she came to the front door and said if I didn't leave she was gonna call the police on me, and I was like what? She was like you can't be coming over here like this and I was thinkin about all the things I had done amd decided just to go home cause I was gettin angry. Long story short I used to preach the gospel................
.....Now I'm a black activist

 

[destrehan]

Ya'll is describing some of the scum of the earth when it comes to females- I guess I could be included in that.

I can see how most of you would say that for men cheating is a physical thing and that for the women it's emotional. There might be something to that.


My ass did wrong. I know I did. I let go of the best thing I ever had, the only person that I truly loved, over some bitchass emotions. What makes it worse it was shortly after the birth of our child. I had been trying to figure out why I became such a horrible person bent on destroying my family- that was until I had to try to take a moment to understand my feelings. I didn't want to cheat- it wasn't like I woke up that morning and was like "Im'ma go fuck some other dude." Women only do that shit to be spiteful; I ain't that chick. The feelings that I had during my infidelities weren't really feelings. I felt remorse and guilt for what I did/was doing but as far a feelings towards the other person, it wasn't there. I came to the realization this morning that perhaps, (because I had just had a child), that it had to do with postpartum depression.

Now some of you might think that is a fucking cop out- cheat and not take responsibility for your actions, but blame it on something/someone else. I'm not like that. I fess up to what I did; I hurt people and I am not proud. I've been depressed before and probably the reason why I didn't notice it was because this was a different type of depression. One that wasn't centered on the daily chemical functions of my brain but had to do with my chemical imbalance as a woman. I say this because for some of the women you men may encounter, even if they do wrong, sometimes we have no reason why we act because we don't understand ourselves and everything that comes with it. No one is perfect, and I am the last to admit that I am. But sometimes it takes time for a woman to deal with things to figure out what it is she is dealing with.

Now I don't have all of the answers as to why women cheat. I still don't understand how men can cheat and then catch their girl and then loose faith in all women. But if there is some real love in that relationship with time and some talk the two of you should be able to make it to the root of the problem and try to rebuild something that was destroyed. At least I hope that.


Think of me what you will- whether its another bitch trying to justify her actions or someone who really sounds as though she has learned her lesson. I don't care. The only truths I know is that I hold one man in my heart and I always will. My pussy does not rule me like a dick rules a man. Some of you got bored with married sex- I wait for it. My cheating wasn't about having sex with another, (before that I had only had sex with one person), it was about running away from my home life. But why would I want to run away from something I had worked seven years to build? The only explanation I can give is that I was not in my right mind. Having been depressed-severely depressed- before my cheating period was on another level of depression because I felt dead inside. I couldn't understand how I could feel dead but still feel remorseful. I guess it's because being a cheater like I was at that time isn't who I am. Because I have never sought psychiatric help either before or after my pregnancy there was no way for me or anyone else to tell what was wrong with me; I just looked grimy.

I know when you catch your girl cheating you hurt. But for some chicks, they hurt to. Maybe I'm an exception; I don't know. But if I could do it all over again, I would and keep my family together. I was too stupid or blind and confused to realize that I had the best man willing to be with me in my life, and I fucked that up. I'm personally hoping that he will one day try to forgive me so that I can make it up to him. Or to begin to try to make it up to him, and my child. I have no right to ask you for anything but having an explanation for my confusions and knowing why I had mixed feelings at the time makes me confident in knowing I can be a better person. I think that if I had another child, even if I experienced postpartum depression again the same thing would not happen because I know what it feels like now.


...

i'm glad he didn't simp up and take your crazy ass back.

 

[destrehan]

Well..........seems to be like therapy so here goes:

I was dating this chick for about 3 years or so, great relationship, her family was cool with me, and mine her. Anyway, I had been through a lot with her, we worked at the same place where I was a manager and she was an hourly. I started having some beef with my managers about how they were treating the black folks on the job (they was firing folk for no reason) so I spoke on it, why is that important? Cause when they let me go, they promoted my girl and gave her my position...Anyway I was there when she pledged her sorority doin all types of shyt to help her out, crazy shyt, if you are part of a frat/soror ya'll do some wyld shyt anyway, she would call me for advice about her job, and it was like I was still runnin the place just from the phone. I wrote her senior thesis for her all types of simp shyt. Anyway we at her house one night chillin after she get off work, and goes off like "why can't I go out and kick it with other folk?" I was like "I never said you couldn't" so after that I find out through one of my work connects that she met this dude at a company party, and he work for the same place about a month later this one day, I didn't hear from her at all, I played it off and decided to go to bed early, I will never forget I literally had a spiritual intervention, I opened my eyes and it was like "get to her house" so Im in the car thinkin she was in trouble. Her car there, so I called on the cell no answer. She had a broken doorbell, so she always told me to come round back to knock on the window, so as I was goin to the back, I could see through the blinds two people in the bed! My heart and me sunk to the ground and I just sat there for a few minutes I could hear everything, so I called on the cell phone that I could hear from the inside, and she wouldn't pick it up, so I finally knocked on the window and everything just stopped she peeped through the blinds and cut off the t.v. and stuff and was tryin to act like she wasn't there, eventually she came to the front door and said if I didn't leave she was gonna call the police on me, and I was like what? She was like you can't be coming over here like this and I was thinkin about all the things I had done amd decided just to go home cause I was gettin angry. Long story short I used preach the gospel................
.....Now I'm a black activist

3 yrs and that's how she did you? arrrrghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!


man i am so glad i have so many examples of why my ass need to stay out of relationships!!!! hail to bgol!

 

[melonpecan]

You are entitled to your own opinion. I just don't believe how most of you are complaining how womens are cheating with no remorse and not taking responsibility and when someone do they crazy?

How the fuck does that sound?

And for you to imply that I might be crazy because I'm depressed displays your ignorance on the subject. But then again you can't give birth, so how would I expect you to understand?


I'm not condoning what I did or trying to find some way to justify it I'm just trying to give a different perspective. And if he were to take me back I would see it as a miracle, a blessing, and everything in between because the love of my life is a benevolent man and is a bigger man than most of you 'men' here. If he doesn't then my feelings for him still won't change. But if that makes him a 'simp' then so be it. I won't see him as anything other than a Man.