So much bitterness and frustration in her tone.
Some people just get tired; but never of their own mistakes.
Humans are creatures of habits. So when i hear people say shit like, "I didnt know he/she was this way until later on", all i can do is smdh.
If you communicate with people...LISTEN.....OBSERVE....etc etc...you'll find out what the deal is. But the problem is most of us only see what we want to see. The shit that we like. The superficial shit.
Like seriously....
Folks work on their bank accounts more than they work on their characters.
Converse with some "successful person" about something other than how to make money and a lot of times theyll sound like idiots. And thats because when successful SHALLOW people get into positions whereas they can no longer HIDE behind their monies..they become uncomfortable. It knocks them off their square.
Thats one of many reasons why a lot of rich people become depressed. That money can never fix your REAL ISSUES.
Most of us, Men and Women, go after what we want instead of what we need. thats why most relationships dont work.
Being with one person for 20+ years is rough shit. You have some couples out there that have been through all kindS of shit...but are stil together for 50+ years...but that shit is rare now ah days.
I think most of us force ourselves into being in committed relationships; for many reasons. But most times its isnt natural.
You got a lot of depressed folks in monogamous relationships. Thats why u gotta get all those urges out your system...fix your issues... before u settle down. OR....if u cant get "IT" out your system....partner with someone whos on your page and get into an open relationship. Sometimes having an open relationship can keep the family structure together if both the Male & females emotions dont get involved and both parties play the game accordingly.
Example....I eat clean 6 days out of the week...but on Thursday i fulfill my urges and eat all type of diabetes causing foods. That one cheat day keeps me balanced for the rest of the week. And as of right now im the healthiest that ive ever been.
Sometimes u just have to find a method that works FOR YOU. Everyone is different.
Some people just get tired; but never of their own mistakes.
Humans are creatures of habits. So when i hear people say shit like, "I didnt know he/she was this way until later on", all i can do is smdh.
If you communicate with people...LISTEN.....OBSERVE....etc etc...you'll find out what the deal is. But the problem is most of us only see what we want to see. The shit that we like. The superficial shit.
Some people think being successful means you have it all together. You still have to consider a person's mentality.
Like seriously....
Folks work on their bank accounts more than they work on their characters.
Converse with some "successful person" about something other than how to make money and a lot of times theyll sound like idiots. And thats because when successful SHALLOW people get into positions whereas they can no longer HIDE behind their monies..they become uncomfortable. It knocks them off their square.
Thats one of many reasons why a lot of rich people become depressed. That money can never fix your REAL ISSUES.
Sometimes men AND women be looking for unicorns, and not realizing that a pony will do.
Most of us, Men and Women, go after what we want instead of what we need. thats why most relationships dont work.
Being with one person for 20+ years is rough shit. You have some couples out there that have been through all kindS of shit...but are stil together for 50+ years...but that shit is rare now ah days.
I think most of us force ourselves into being in committed relationships; for many reasons. But most times its isnt natural.
You got a lot of depressed folks in monogamous relationships. Thats why u gotta get all those urges out your system...fix your issues... before u settle down. OR....if u cant get "IT" out your system....partner with someone whos on your page and get into an open relationship. Sometimes having an open relationship can keep the family structure together if both the Male & females emotions dont get involved and both parties play the game accordingly.
Example....I eat clean 6 days out of the week...but on Thursday i fulfill my urges and eat all type of diabetes causing foods. That one cheat day keeps me balanced for the rest of the week. And as of right now im the healthiest that ive ever been.
Sometimes u just have to find a method that works FOR YOU. Everyone is different.
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