Yet another "AINT NO BLACK MEN LEFT" forum starring Jacque Reid

[bgbtylvr]

So basically, these ho's are like 33 year old runningbacks with some thread on the tires, but still wanna be featured in the offense instead of working with their roster spot?

Damn. Delusional hoes who, at a later stage in life, realize they men they feel they deserver, THEY no longer measure up to. There is a time and place for women of any race to be at her peak. And there is time when, after you've let yourself go, dated the worst men possible, and NOW want to be open minded about your place in a relationship that women of color want to then try to expose black men for not wanting them, when for so many years, from his earliest and developmental years, that same black man was not appreciated by the same black woman who NOW feels she needs to come back to her senses and date, is NOW in her league, when he was always what she needed, but never what she wanted. Til the day i day, a black woman will be my #1 endeavor, but as long they they feel they can shit on us, date around us, then realize we WERE meant to be, then slither back TO us, i will stand my ground and let those bitches know that i am what i am, what she needs, deserves and better recognize as her man before she ever insists that i prove to her my worth. Sorry the white girls suck dick, get tramped out, lick balls, ass and swallow while you watch self-serving black cinema that tells you you have to nothing to acquire, date and eventually marry and covet the black man that i am when, for so long, tried to show you who i was and what i wanted to build with you, but the media, music, and society convinced you was not enough for you. Top notch black men are right there for you, but we don't jump through hoops, feed you ego, or cape for you. We know our worth. We know yours. if you exaggerate your yours at the same time that i am trying to portray mine to you, we will miss each other and never become what you should be: black queen and king.

 

[True Real Info]

Most black matriarchal minded women (and those women only) seem to pretend not to understand how men date and marry....

for 80-90% of men, they get what they can....they know this, don't respect these men and don't want those men, until they are over 35 and can't catch the man in the top 10-20%....

instead of owning up to their bad decisions, they blame the men in the bottom 80-90% for not wanting them, now that those men are in the top 10%....

these women know whats up, they pretend not to in order to save face IN FRONT OF MEN....

all the good game I get comes directly from women who love and care about me, be it a parent, relative,cousin,etc.....DO NOT FALL FOR THIS OKEYDOKE!!!!

Its a ploy, a straw man argument that is meant to take the focus off of her decisions and choices in life......they know whats up behind closed doors, will laugh with each other and at black men that want them....

this is also a ploy to give an excuse to get with a white dude....most of these types of women don't respect black men in general, let alone successful black men in particular......thats the rub, they don't don't respect the men they want...they are in the same lane as the natural hair girls who pretend to be all "black self love" but watch scandal every thursday and get trained on by white dudes and euros...

these type of women are the opposite of those black women who date white boys,get ran through, they try to find a black man to marry, one thing to observe is that they ALWAYS find a black man to marry....black men as a group are the least demanding of all races, given our collective situation in society, many women know this and either like it because they can relax or take advantage of it and shit on us...like some of our "sistas"

if they were men they would be called losers....but hey i guess having a vagina has its perks...

black men, as a group, always have and always will fuck,date,marry and be with until death black women moreso than any other group.....these women want it to be one way....hopefully they will be phased out within the next few generations...

 

[True Real Info]

Damn. Delusional hoes who, at a later stage in life, realize they men they feel they deserver, THEY no longer measure up to. There is a time and place for women of any race to be at her peak. And there is time when, after you've let yourself go, dated the worst men possible, and NOW want to be open minded about your place in a relationship that women of color want to then try to expose black men for not wanting them, when for so many years, from his earliest and developmental years, that same black man was not appreciated by the same black woman who NOW feels she needs to come back to her senses and date, is NOW in her league, when he was always what she needed, but never what she wanted. Til the day i day, a black woman will be my #1 endeavor, but as long they they feel they can shit on us, date around us, then realize we WERE meant to be, then slither back TO us, i will stand my ground and let those bitches know that i am what i am, what she needs, deserves and better recognize as her man before she ever insists that i prove to her my worth. Sorry the white girls suck dick, get tramped out, lick balls, ass and swallow while you watch self-serving black cinema that tells you you have to nothing to acquire, date and eventually marry and covet the black man that i am when, for so long, tried to show you who i was and what i wanted to build with you, but the media, music, and society convinced you was not enough for you. Top notch black men are right there for you, but we don't jump through hoops, feed you ego, or cape for you. We know our worth. We know yours. if you exaggerate your yours at the same time that i am trying to portray mine to you, we will miss each other and never become what you should be: black queen and king.

The only point I disagree with is about what white girls do compared to black women. Don't think for a second these types of chicks and licking balls,getting trained on ,etc. The dudes they are doing it with just aint black men.......

 

[True Real Info]

my point is that these women won't admit to things in public amongst men that they FEEL are beneath them, behind close doors, amongst other women they feel comfortable with, they really let loose, these women then tell their relatives (like myself) to avoid these types at all costs......

 

[simonmarcel]

The PhD sista was the only one to acknowledge that systematic racism is the main reason for the dysfunctionality in black relationships.

 

[Joe Money]

The ones that get me the most, are the ones with a Kid or Kids.....They really go in on the no black men left thing.

I had this conversation the other day....black women are bitter because black men are tired of their bullshit...

like the woman said in the video..she calls it "just trying to help a black man become more"....but we call it bossy. Black women want someone that they can "train up" to be what THEY want him to be. Instead of letting that man be a man, the man that he wants to be. And if you don't like that move on to the next.

I told the bitch she don't want a man you want a puppy....go get one of those

 

[Dirty Hubcaps]

Kenya Moore is the latest member on the "where's the good menzz" train

http://www.centrictv.com/entertainm...-bachelors-are-gay-in-jail-or-unemployed.html



Agree Or Disagree? Kenya Moore Believes Most Eligible Black Bachelors Are Gay, In Jail Or Unemployed
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Moore: 'For Black women, we just have to be open because there’s not a lot of eligible bachelors, that are Black.'

Camille Travis
POSTED: 05/28/2015 08:30 AM EDT
Filed Under Celebrity News, dating, Kenya Moore, Relationships

Kenya Moore has been having a tough time in the love department.


In the past month, we’ve seen the "Real Housewives of Atlanta" star face the humiliating reality that the man she was seeing was married. After much trial and error, it seems Moore has tapped out on dating. Or maybe she’s tapped out on dating a certain type of man?


DID PORSHA DROP A HINT ABOUT KENYA MOORE'S MARRIED MAN?


In an interview with Hello Beautiful, Moore weighed in on dating outside her race considering most Black men (she says) "are gay, in jail [or] don’t have a job," among other issues.


She stated:


"For Black women, we just have to be open because there’s not a lot of eligible bachelors, that are Black, for us to choose from anymore. If you take away the ones that are gay, in jail, this is a real issue. Statistics show why we don’t have the choices. You take the ones that are gay, in jail, don’t have a job, the ones that are already married and the ones that are dating and marrying outside our race, what do you have left? You don’t have much to choose from. The nicest thing is that you have options."


So we have to ask: does Moore have a valid point? Or is she just another bitter Betty? Sound off!


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[Joe Money]

^ These women just need to admit that they let the game pass them by.

 

[MadWun]

I love this song.



Delusional ass women...

 

[Timbucktu225]

Why don't these women just go and be the duck happy somewhere! If black men NO longer fulfill their needs I'm sure some eligible men of ANY OTHER RACE CAN MAKE THEM HAPPY! Look at EVE she married a Caucasian Billionaire and didn't look back! If this "black love" thing is causing these women so much havoc and agony, Why do they stay? I mean truthfully it seems to not be working out for them and instead of complaining come up with a solution to the problem! My mother and others have always told me two solid rules to live by 1. To thine own self be TRUE, 2. The life you save maybe you're OWN!......The problem with these women such as Jacquie Reid is that they think they are modern day martyrs for black love and if they are WE as black men are in SOME DEEP SHIT(relationship wise)! When will they realize black men don't Care about fancy degrees or the fact you excel in WHITE CORPORATE AMERICA not necessarily because of your smarts but rather because of how submissive you are to what you perceive as POWER in this world you will see black men have love for you through your sneaky, maniacal, devious bitchy ways! STOP TRYING TO SAVE ME, SAVE YOURSELF, LETS SEE HOW FAR YOU GET SOMEWHERE ELSE, IF BLACK MEN FEEL THAT "DESPARATE FOR YOU" WE WILL "STRAIGHTEN UP OUR ACT AND COME FOR YOU"THESE CHICKS MAD CAUSE THE "TOP NOTCH" GUYS GOT BETTER OPTIONS AND THEN WENT MGTOW ON YO ASS (DEREK JETER)

 

[chitownsfinest]

Good man?!?...hmm, I'll bite

I consider hubby a good guy because he accepts me, flaws and all. Doesn't (and didn't) try to change me...not out in these streets being unloyal to me...had ME on the couch in MY place, telling me what's up and making me question my actions towards the beginning of our relationship...it was, like, HE gave me the talk I needed: here's this good guy in front of me, and I'm clowning the dude because I didn't like his accessories?!? (Yes, that was an ACTUAL hangup I had when we were first dating...mind you, this is now over four years ago)

Now, one of the major things that brought us closer was he was the main caretaker for his dying father - here's this man, doing literally EVERYTHING for his dad (bathing, feeding, etc.) I went through the declining health and eventual death of my father prior to that and I felt EVERYTHING he felt. Yet, he was doing EVERYTHING I didn't have the strength to do for my own father. I saw that love and patience he had and was, like, damn - this is a GOOD man. Once I opened myself up to that...BOOM!

OK...here's my issue. What did you bring to the table? It appears that you got lucky. Most "good men" don't have the energy to fight thru a woman's bullshit issues When the city if filled with attractive women who have nothing to offer but pussy and problems. What's wrong with having the man you "want" and the man you "need" being the same person?!?

And to all of the "where are the good men at" chicks? They are with good women. Instead of complaining, try becoming a good woman.

 

[brickwall92]

Im not dissing a UPS worker. AT ALL. They make a quality paycheck. But allot of uppity chicks aint trying to chose one if theyre standing beside a dude making 6 figuares. All signs can point to the UPS worker, but Id bet money theyde still take their chances with the other dude.

Ok... ,but why even deal with an "uppity chick ' ?

 

[JofromthaNO]

OK...here's my issue. What did you bring to the table? It appears that you got lucky. Most "good men" don't have the energy to fight thru a woman's bullshit issues When the city if filled with attractive women who have nothing to offer but pussy and problems. What's wrong with having the man you "want" and the man you "need" being the same person?!?

And to all of the "where are the good men at" chicks? They are with good women. Instead of complaining, try becoming a good woman.

My point was, at that time I met him, I was a bit delusional about what I needed and wanted. A woman/man can be uncertain of what they want in life and someone come along and help them see what they needed to see all along - I feel like he really helped me with that. I'm okay with admitting that I didn't know what I wanted from him, even when we first started to date. But, as I saw more of his character, his personality, I realized he was much more than I pegged him for and I'm glad I took the time to get to know him...

In terms of what I bring to the table...well, I'm not bad looking

Seriously, I'm intelligent, I keep a nice home and know how to take care of home. I have a good career and am passionate about what I do - I also have a good sense of humor and don't let so much get to me...I stay above the bullshit and don't bother myself with things that aren't worthwhile...it's saved me many headaches and prevented drama from entering my life. He's attracted to my enthusiasm, sense of humor and ability to laugh at myself. We're a good complement to each other

 

[MistaPhantastic]

Disagree. It's very true for us. Every single 1 of us have been told to lower our standards and accept whatever comes along. No matter what you've done with your life as a woman. You're still only good enough for some dude who can barely keep a job picking up cans on the highway.

Most women's "standards" are misguided and defined by white men to unwittingly keep them under control. Your "standards are designed to keep you unhappy and serving them because you have no other alternatives. In other words, your standards are WRONG. Your so-called holy book tells you that everyone is EQUAL IN GOD'S EYES, so if you put yourself above others, you are committing the sin of arrogance.
Not religious? Good. Then your "standards" are nothing but a list of base desires that you adhere to for no other reason than following your animalistic base desires. That makes you much less evolved than you believe yourself to be. Not a big believer in science? Okay.
Society itself is nothing but a paradigm of rules and structure designed to keep people busy. Everything that you believe in is the idea of someone else that came before you and the basis of "standards" is nothing but a reflection of the rules created by the governing body of the region you live in and the era you live in. People on the other side of the world view all American women as godless sluts and regardless of your education or wealth, are therefore "not worthy" of their men in any way. They are governed by the "standards" of the society they live in just like you are ruled by the so-called "standards" that dictate your region and your society.

Bibliologically, scientifically and psychologically, your idea of standards is wrong. You are simply trying to justify operating in pursuit of your base desires set upon you by some childhood princess story told over and over and reinforced by the society that you live in.
If men lived by that same misguided set of rules, we would not marry at all. Many many men "of means" marry women who have less than them. Many of them "settle" (to use your words). Now that many black women are starting to make more than their male counterparts, they still believe they can hold on to the false set of standards that they lived by when the situation was reversed. When you start to believe in a gender-biased caste system, you ultimately become a victim of it yourself.

Every value you base your criterion on for your mating relationship is wrong. Looks fade. Money fades. Education is a false marker as it is only as useful as needed at the moment.(Example: In the late 90s/early 00s there were a couple of years were there was saturation of educated employees in the tech industry. Educated people couldn't find jobs. All of the dot-com jobs dried up. You ended up with a lot of educated people whose skill sets were not needed. Education is only as useful as it is needed.)
If you aren't basing your search for a mate on immaterial traits of substance (will that person stick with you when times are hard, is that person a fit father figure, is this person someone you can spend the rest of your life with, etc. then you are doing it wrong. Period.

 

[Timbucktu225]

Most women's "standards" are misguided and defined by white men to unwittingly keep them under control. Your "standards are designed to keep you unhappy and serving them because you have no other alternatives. In other words, your standards are WRONG. Your so-called holy book tells you that everyone is EQUAL IN GOD'S EYES, so if you put yourself above others, you are committing the sin of arrogance.
Not religious? Good. Then your "standards" are nothing but a list of base desires that you adhere to for no other reason than following your animalistic base desires. That makes you much less evolved than you believe yourself to be. Not a big believer in science? Okay.
Society itself is nothing but a paradigm of rules and structure designed to keep people busy. Everything that you believe in is the idea of someone else that came before you and the basis of "standards" is nothing but a reflection of the rules created by the governing body of the region you live in and the era you live in. People on the other side of the world view all American women as godless sluts and regardless of your education or wealth, are therefore "not worthy" of their men in any way. They are governed by the "standards" of the society they live in just like you are ruled by the so-called "standards" that dictate your region and your society.

Bibliologically, scientifically and psychologically, your idea of standards is wrong. You are simply trying to justify operating in pursuit of your base desires set upon you by some childhood princess story told over and over and reinforced by the society that you live in.
If men lived by that same misguided set of rules, we would not marry at all. Many many men "of means" marry women who have less than them. Many of them "settle" (to use your words). Now that many black women are starting to make more than their male counterparts, they still believe they can hold on to the false set of standards that they lived by when the situation was reversed. When you start to believe in a gender-biased caste system, you ultimately become a victim of it yourself.

Every value you base your criterion on for your mating relationship is wrong. Looks fade. Money fades. Education is a false marker as it is only as useful as needed at the moment.(Example: In the late 90s/early 00s there were a couple of years were there was saturation of educated employees in the tech industry. Educated people couldn't find jobs. All of the dot-com jobs dried up. You ended up with a lot of educated people whose skill sets were not needed. Education is only as useful as it is needed.)
If you aren't basing your search for a mate on immaterial traits of substance (will that person stick with you when times are hard, is that person a fit father figure, is this person someone you can spend the rest of your life with, etc. then you are doing it wrong. Period.

Amen[emoji120]

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Most women's "standards" are misguided and defined by white men to unwittingly keep them under control. Your "standards are designed to keep you unhappy and serving them because you have no other alternatives. In other words, your standards are WRONG. Your so-called holy book tells you that everyone is EQUAL IN GOD'S EYES, so if you put yourself above others, you are committing the sin of arrogance.
Not religious? Good. Then your "standards" are nothing but a list of base desires that you adhere to for no other reason than following your animalistic base desires. That makes you much less evolved than you believe yourself to be. Not a big believer in science? Okay.
Society itself is nothing but a paradigm of rules and structure designed to keep people busy. Everything that you believe in is the idea of someone else that came before you and the basis of "standards" is nothing but a reflection of the rules created by the governing body of the region you live in and the era you live in. People on the other side of the world view all American women as godless sluts and regardless of your education or wealth, are therefore "not worthy" of their men in any way. They are governed by the "standards" of the society they live in just like you are ruled by the so-called "standards" that dictate your region and your society.

Bibliologically, scientifically and psychologically, your idea of standards is wrong. You are simply trying to justify operating in pursuit of your base desires set upon you by some childhood princess story told over and over and reinforced by the society that you live in.
If men lived by that same misguided set of rules, we would not marry at all. Many many men "of means" marry women who have less than them. Many of them "settle" (to use your words). Now that many black women are starting to make more than their male counterparts, they still believe they can hold on to the false set of standards that they lived by when the situation was reversed. When you start to believe in a gender-biased caste system, you ultimately become a victim of it yourself.

Every value you base your criterion on for your mating relationship is wrong. Looks fade. Money fades. Education is a false marker as it is only as useful as needed at the moment.(Example: In the late 90s/early 00s there were a couple of years were there was saturation of educated employees in the tech industry. Educated people couldn't find jobs. All of the dot-com jobs dried up. You ended up with a lot of educated people whose skill sets were not needed. Education is only as useful as it is needed.)
If you aren't basing your search for a mate on immaterial traits of substance (will that person stick with you when times are hard, is that person a fit father figure, is this person someone you can spend the rest of your life with, etc. then you are doing it wrong. Period.

And everyone. Including black men. Adhere to standards. The myth that you all just do whatever you want is created to make yourselves feel better about your situation. To build your self esteem. Everyone who lives in a society. And even some who don't. Adhere to standards. Even you. Especially you.(if you're black male). Have to follow the rules that society sets.

For an organism's survival it has to have a set of standards to follow to interact with other organisms. Black men in america for the most part don't want black women to have standards because they know most standards do not include them. And that goes against their own survival.

Black people need to have a set standard of how to deal with 1 another. How to deal women to men. And men to women. But i don't see how anything you guys want? Can possibly benefit black women in anyway. majority of black men are just as confused and lost as you claim black women are.

When there comes a day where you're telling men to pick up and wife crackhead chicks in the gutter? I'll be able to take you all seriously. But we know you're not going to do that. You guys have LISTS of reasons not to be with this or that type of woman.

 

[veritech]

Black men in america for the most part don't want black women to have standards because they know most standards do not include them. And that goes against their own survival.

u can't be serious.

 

[jack walsh13]

u can't be serious.

U can't be serious by not blocking this stupid bitch!!!! Add her to your ban list bro. Will change yo life fam.

 

[KA$H]

It usually all comes out in the wash. It's usually the dark skin chick's that go looking for white boys, that end up making light skin babies that end up wanting dark skin mates. It's the circle that keeps our hue dynamic diverse

 

[militantmidget]

damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

u can't be serious.

Prove me wrong?

 

[Mello Mello]

Look. Plain and simple. Black women dont respect black men at all. They talk about us on these shows like we are a dwindling commodity. Like some object out of stock, like we are some feature only to enhance or mark a black woman's status, like a tote on her arm or some shit.

You are dealing with a mentality that believes they corner the market as most down trotten low on the totem pole and at the same time more successful and educated than black men.

None of this is about love or soul mates or finding equal matches or any bullshit like that. It is about power and acceptance.

It's about limiting the options of those that are deemed unworthy or unearned. It's gainig the power to limit black men's options only to black women as black women see fit and expanding black women's options so they feel acceptance from white and other men. They don't give a fuck about your black ass love. It's not good enough, especially when you aren't as educated as them or have more career success.

These black women sound like white men who are struggling to contain black males sexual prowess even though they have had access to black women (white men).

No one likes to see black men with options not even black women. She feels like she deserves a "good black man" all to herself, because all black women have had it the worst and have worked hard and struggled against all odds to be successful through obstacles that not even black men have had to endure and still be the "backbone" of the black community. Anyone who criticizes them is either 1.) insensitive or unsympathetic of the black woman's struggle or 2.) Jealous of black women's success and can't handle a real black woman. And if you try to make a black woman compete with other women about treating you with respect then you will be shamed as a self hater or sellout because everyone knows black women are the queens of the earth that can do no wrong. You just weak for not putting up with the foolishness. I mean she's only a harmless woman right.

As a black man how do you think you are going to get through to a mentality like that? When all of society is looking down on you as the "loser" of society yet the black woman who is perceived to be in worse shape than you outpaces you in employment and education.

With all their new found success women feel no responsibility to help those less fortunate than them. It's only about gloating about succes and lambasting those they feel superior than who don't have similar or better. There is no responsibility toward society. So she got the job before you did now she is the main bread winner and the man is the stay at home dad until he finds something suitable. But stay at home dads get no respect from women despite women fighting long to be respected as stay at home moms.

Women this era are becoming worse than the men they say they hated that held women back, and they only prove how right misogynist men really were.

I'll say it again this is about power. It's about optimizing her opportunities and limiting the options of those they deem unworthy and then limiting the options of those that are worthy only for themselves.

There are plenty of black men (decent, good, marriageable, educated), truth is these black women are caught up with exercising their options to see them until they are aged over or tired of chasing acceptance from white dicks on match.com, tinder and plenty of fish or wherever else white people congregate. Because black men just ain't good enough until they are.

 

[ShortyCumStain]

 

[HAR125LEM]

Look. Plain and simple. Black women dont respect black men at all. They talk about us on these shows like we are a dwindling commodity. Like some object out of stock, like we are some feature only to enhance or mark a black woman's status, like a tote on her arm or some shit.

You are dealing with a mentality that believes they corner the market as most down trotten low on the totem pole and at the same time more successful and educated than black men.

None of this is about love or soul mates or finding equal matches or any bullshit like that. It is about power and acceptance.

It's about limiting the options of those that are deemed unworthy or unearned. It's gainig the power to limit black men's options only to black women as black women see fit and expanding black women's options so they feel acceptance from white and other men. They don't give a fuck about your black ass love. It's not good enough, especially when you aren't as educated as them or have more career success.

These black women sound like white men who are struggling to contain black males sexual prowess even though they have had access to black women (white men).

No one likes to see black men with options not even black women. She feels like she deserves a "good black man" all to herself, because all black women have had it the worst and have worked hard and struggled against all odds to be successful through obstacles that not even black men have had to endure and still be the "backbone" of the black community. Anyone who criticizes them is either 1.) insensitive or unsympathetic of the black woman's struggle or 2.) Jealous of black women's success and can't handle a real black woman. And if you try to make a black woman compete with other women about treating you with respect then you will be shamed as a self hater or sellout because everyone knows black women are the queens of the earth that can do no wrong. You just weak for not putting up with the foolishness. I mean she's only a harmless woman right.

As a black man how do you think you are going to get through to a mentality like that? When all of society is looking down on you as the "loser" of society yet the black woman who is perceived to be in worse shape than you outpaces you in employment and education.

With all their new found success women feel no responsibility to help those less fortunate than them. It's only about gloating about succes and lambasting those they feel superior than who don't have similar or better. There is no responsibility toward society. So she got the job before you did now she is the main bread winner and the man is the stay at home dad until he finds something suitable. But stay at home dads get no respect from women despite women fighting long to be respected as stay at home moms.

Women this era are becoming worse than the men they say they hated that held women back, and they only prove how right misogynist men really were.

I'll say it again this is about power. It's about optimizing her opportunities and limiting the options of those they deem unworthy and then limiting the options of those that are worthy only for themselves.

There are plenty of black men (decent, good, marriageable, educated), truth is these black women are caught up with exercising their options to see them until they are aged over or tired of chasing acceptance from white dicks on match.com, tinder and plenty of fish or wherever else white people congregate. Because black men just ain't good enough until they are.

 

[Mentor B]

Look. Plain and simple. Black women dont respect black men at all. They talk about us on these shows like we are a dwindling commodity. Like some object out of stock, like we are some feature only to enhance or mark a black woman's status, like a tote on her arm or some shit.

You are dealing with a mentality that believes they corner the market as most down trotten low on the totem pole and at the same time more successful and educated than black men.

None of this is about love or soul mates or finding equal matches or any bullshit like that. It is about power and acceptance.

It's about limiting the options of those that are deemed unworthy or unearned. It's gainig the power to limit black men's options only to black women as black women see fit and expanding black women's options so they feel acceptance from white and other men. They don't give a fuck about your black ass love. It's not good enough, especially when you aren't as educated as them or have more career success.

These black women sound like white men who are struggling to contain black males sexual prowess even though they have had access to black women (white men).

No one likes to see black men with options not even black women. She feels like she deserves a "good black man" all to herself, because all black women have had it the worst and have worked hard and struggled against all odds to be successful through obstacles that not even black men have had to endure and still be the "backbone" of the black community. Anyone who criticizes them is either 1.) insensitive or unsympathetic of the black woman's struggle or 2.) Jealous of black women's success and can't handle a real black woman. And if you try to make a black woman compete with other women about treating you with respect then you will be shamed as a self hater or sellout because everyone knows black women are the queens of the earth that can do no wrong. You just weak for not putting up with the foolishness. I mean she's only a harmless woman right.

As a black man how do you think you are going to get through to a mentality like that? When all of society is looking down on you as the "loser" of society yet the black woman who is perceived to be in worse shape than you outpaces you in employment and education.

With all their new found success women feel no responsibility to help those less fortunate than them. It's only about gloating about succes and lambasting those they feel superior than who don't have similar or better. There is no responsibility toward society. So she got the job before you did now she is the main bread winner and the man is the stay at home dad until he finds something suitable. But stay at home dads get no respect from women despite women fighting long to be respected as stay at home moms.

Women this era are becoming worse than the men they say they hated that held women back, and they only prove how right misogynist men really were.

I'll say it again this is about power. It's about optimizing her opportunities and limiting the options of those they deem unworthy and then limiting the options of those that are worthy only for themselves.

There are plenty of black men (decent, good, marriageable, educated), truth is these black women are caught up with exercising their options to see them until they are aged over or tired of chasing acceptance from white dicks on match.com, tinder and plenty of fish or wherever else white people congregate. Because black men just ain't good enough until they are.

I've been said this wasn't genuinely about true love and dedication to a matrimonial bond. But this is put more eloquently than I've ever said it.

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