I see what you're saying but at the same time, it's not just about wetter it's right or wrong. it's also about how it looks. it shouldn't be about that but that's just how it is. no one wants to be a fool and no one wants to even look like a fool/sucker. yes it's insecurity but at the same time it's human.
would yall b cool w/another man bringin ur wife/girlfriend home from work?
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1. I would need to know why if she has a man he isn't there to pick her up!
2. If you don't want your woman to go off with another man, don't put her out there. I mean a man or woman is going to do what they want but if you are on point with your relationship then your significant other is going to have less of that free time to go find someone else to fuck with like that.
3. I try to keep my ride on point so that i do not have to rely on anyone to get me where I need to go but if I need a ride and my man ain't offering before I ask then he would be fired anyway so he wouldn't need to wait to see me get out of some other man's ride.
4. Just becuase some dude offers up the dick doesn't mean that a female is going to take it.
2. If you don't want your woman to go off with another man, don't put her out there. I mean a man or woman is going to do what they want but if you are on point with your relationship then your significant other is going to have less of that free time to go find someone else to fuck with like that.
3. I try to keep my ride on point so that i do not have to rely on anyone to get me where I need to go but if I need a ride and my man ain't offering before I ask then he would be fired anyway so he wouldn't need to wait to see me get out of some other man's ride.
4. Just becuase some dude offers up the dick doesn't mean that a female is going to take it.
Its like this....
If some dude bringing her home from work....I'm going to go hire an IN HOME maid.....
Basically HELL NAH!!!
If some dude bringing her home from work....I'm going to go hire an IN HOME maid.....
Basically HELL NAH!!!
I'd be cool with it, because if she working nights on the weekend then I'm probably out trying to fuck somebody else. I damn sure don't want her calling me for a ride fuckin' my pussy gettin' up.
Shiiiiid...That's enough right there to make me flip out. I aint trying to have some cat offer my old lady the soul pole. I'm jealous about mine.
The women who men dont want to fuck dont get offered free rides
Cosign
I've never seen a pretty girl walking unless she was working out
And yes, its fucked up
I mean, in the beggining everything might be innocent, but then One of them might be a little Hot and them women lips start looking a little better in the car, ALONE...
Then you notice how attractive her legs and hips are...
Then she might notice something she likes in you...
Then it might start as a simple hug or kiss good nite.......Still innocent....
Then you start caring about office politics and suddenly you share your lunches and your days...
Then She only can Fuck her Husband or boyfriend and you can only fuck your wife...
Then it becomes a problem.....
Been there...Done That..
I use to work with this lil big tit Puerto Rican chick who i would give a ride home from work everyday, she had a boyfriend that she lived with and dude didn't even have a car, he would get rides from work with his co-workers and got off work a couple hours after she did. anyway almost everyday after work me and her would stop off at this spot in the park and fuck like animals in my backseat. she told me this dude couldn't even stay in the pussy 1 min without cumming she was sexually frustrated and needed to cum she told me. she would tell me "i need to nut a couple times before i go home papi, that mutha fucka is gonna be like wham bam, thank you maam"This shit went on for a couple years and that lame ass dude she lived with was clueless the whole time It was fun while it lasted, bitch had the biggest prettiest tits
A lot of wisdom in this thread, but I picked this jewel right here. You can tell that some of you have real experience with this subject, and I can't believe no one is looking at the whole picture.
I had a friend that took a coworker home from work, but she didn't clear it with her boy friend first. Her boyfriend was livid when she pulled up in homeboys car, because she didn't even call him first. But the twist is that homeboy that gave her a ride was married, and his wife saw them in the car together. Now the whole thing could have been innocent, don't know. But I do know that it became a problem.
See what I mean..
damn it does look bad...
I've been brought home by other chicks...
and wifey has been brought home by other dudes...
I trust her.
because if what ever she's doing...
she's doing it and i can't stop her...
but at the same time wifey is one to catch the bus in a heartbeat fuck a cab she at the bus stop and she'll wait for me for as long as it takes...
but then again i'm on my job so when she needs a ride i'm giving it to her point blank. I don't care if it's too fucking wisconsin...if i don't wanna drive then i'll buy a plane ticket
she needs it...
she gets it.
period.
I've been brought home by other chicks...
and wifey has been brought home by other dudes...
I trust her.
because if what ever she's doing...
she's doing it and i can't stop her...
but at the same time wifey is one to catch the bus in a heartbeat fuck a cab she at the bus stop and she'll wait for me for as long as it takes...
but then again i'm on my job so when she needs a ride i'm giving it to her point blank. I don't care if it's too fucking wisconsin...if i don't wanna drive then i'll buy a plane ticket
she needs it...
she gets it.
period.
Recently started working nights; comes home late being dropped off by another dude. From the outside looking in it looks like ol'girl is getting it in.
And why yall keep talking about her taking the bus obviously the OP said it was late at night who would want their chick on the bus late at night? Man yall don't even be thinking about how yall sound with that shit
trust issues?....if i was married you(female) it was for a good ass reason and its obvious I trust you enough not to even question that B/S...
next i'm not a overbearing B/F...i'll be damn to be lurking behind my girl every minute or concerned about a cat talking to her or driving her home....cats will always try to talk to your girl...thats life....I just treat her right....fuck her right and do what i have to do and thats all that is needed....
if she is interested in him then thats.....
1. her being dishonest and if it leads to sex a hoe...cut your losses...
2. something YOU ain't doing....that he is....
as long as i know I'm being a good man i have nothing to worry about....
next i'm not a overbearing B/F...i'll be damn to be lurking behind my girl every minute or concerned about a cat talking to her or driving her home....cats will always try to talk to your girl...thats life....I just treat her right....fuck her right and do what i have to do and thats all that is needed....
if she is interested in him then thats.....
1. her being dishonest and if it leads to sex a hoe...cut your losses...
2. something YOU ain't doing....that he is....
as long as i know I'm being a good man i have nothing to worry about....
shit muhufucka, when i answer 90 percent of the questions here, i'm just offering advice about situations i ain't never been in.
i'm a real man playa and have always handled mine, so neither my wife nor girlfriend needed another nicca for shit. Not because i would be jealous, but that's just the example my pops set; a real nicca handles shit for him and his gal.
The OP is 27 years old worrying about shit i didn't have to worry about when i was 17.
nicca i was a lawyer at 26 so i don't know what it's like worrying about another nicca doing for your gal, cause I AIN'T NEVER BEEN THAT NICCA.
Hell no,unless it's her brother or father or me.
Don't fool yourself brothers,just imagine it was you dropping her arse home every day and you see her in all kinds of sexy outfits.She sits down and her skirt rises up,from there on in unless she's proper ugly you'll be wanting and better yet waiting to smash.
People are gonna do what they're gonna do. Why waste time worrying about it? If you're suspicious or you catch her out of pocket, that's your get out of jail card. Nothing personal, just business. Sky up or kick her out. Life is to live, man; not spend time on people who bring you down.
Every man sizes up the women he sees every second of everyday and decides who could get it and who can't.
Some join the list with extended contact others remove themselves.
The only thing that stops some is what are the consequences?
The lack of communication was the problem,both his and her fault for not saying anything.
And why yall keep talking about her taking the bus obviously the OP said it was late at night who would want their chick on the bus late at night? Man yall don't even be thinking about how yall sound with that shit
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Ah, the pontificating rogue scholars of BGOL. I'm out.
I'm out.
the only way a man is driving her home is if the he is a homo
I remember dating my wife a long time ago when we both had no ride. We would meet up at the bus stop. Even when I was off, I used to catch the bus and meet up with her at the bus stop, ride the bus with her and walk her home. There were times, though, when she caught a ride with other people. Most of them were women. One time, though, it was with a man. A man I knew. A man whose wife I knew. Not some random dude.
See, it's not that I don't trust my wife. It's just that I wouldn't trust some man driving my wife home. He may want some payback and put my wife or girlfriend in an uncomfortable situation.
See, it's not that I don't trust my wife. It's just that I wouldn't trust some man driving my wife home. He may want some payback and put my wife or girlfriend in an uncomfortable situation.
ok so to all the men who have an issue w/ their woman being drove home by a guy which is....nvm i wont go there again
anyway
what are her other alternatives? what solutions will you be providing? <-- that is what needs to be addressed. if you have no solutions for her, and i'm talking safe solutions then don't complain.
i'll check back later for them
anyway
what are her other alternatives? what solutions will you be providing? <-- that is what needs to be addressed. if you have no solutions for her, and i'm talking safe solutions then don't complain.
i'll check back later for them
Solution #1: Find a female to drive her home.
Solution #2: Drive her home yourself.
Solution #3: Give her cab fare.
Solution #4: Meet her at the job and ride public transportation together
Solution #5: Get your paper together and buy another car.
Solution #6: Find a family member that's close to her and get them to drive her home.
Solution #7: Google a car pooling club and sign her up.
Solution #8: Try to get her some work where she can have daytime hours.
Solution #9: Arrange your schedules to where you both can share one vehicle.
Solution #10: Arrange time to meet this guy and his wife or girlfriend in order to ensure that this guy isn't harmful to your relationship.
u missin the point. no man should be doin for YOUR woman something that you should be doin.....transportation included
I see what you're saying, also. But if you can recognize that it's not about the other dude or your woman and it's about you and your stuff, then fix it. People really have to stop giving in to their baser selves. If your woman is triflin', she's going to be triflin'.
neggas trying to bubble wrap their broads to prevent them from fucking. as a man i would hope that she riding around in a neggas car is her last resort.
Only if he was gay.
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