Woman refuse to split the bill at a restaurant with friends and is only paying for her own tab.

I'm mad at the approach. He should have just asked me to buy him food and not mentioned the shitty ass leather bag that a chick bought for him, but gave to me, so that she wouldn't have leverage over him, but then used it as leverage against me.

Also, my limit at that cafe is $10 ($4 for the tea + $6 for the tip). I buy lunch elsewhere.

The total bill for the day came up to $46. Nigga didn't eat the fucking pancakes he ordered because he had to run to take a shit, as the eggs he ate earlier had given him the runs. The whole thing fuck me over.
Also, let's not forget the fact he was begging you like a homeless dude on the streets and pretty much laughing and telling that story to others about how he played you to buy him some food acting broke as shit.
 
It be your own peoples. C'est la vie.
Lesson learned.
Yeah, when I was young back then, I've made that same mistake which is why they don't try that shit with me now. If you can 't keep it real with me about your situation and want to beg for shit then it's best to get the fuck outta my face.
 
Those are some SHIT friends :smh:

I'm not paying for your drinks and decadence.

I'm paying for my shit and leaving a nice tip on that and THAT'S IT!!!
Yup, that's how it supposed to be. Especially when they don't tell you that shit earlier about everyone would need to pay for their own food. I'll tell the waiter to give me my tab of what I've ordered, so, that I can pay for my own food.

So, if the restaurant sues them for non-payment for not buying their food, oh well.
 
I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.
First them hoes played you and now your boy? Bro, you’re too old for this BS.
 
Yeah, when I was young back then, I've made that same mistake which is why they don't try that shit with me now. If you can 't keep it real with me about your situation and want to beg for shit then it's best to get the fuck outta my face.

He is one of those SGents type—always dressed to impress on playboy shit. Can't lie, dude could dress his ass off and gets hos. Haha!
But always broke!!!! Gatdamn! Why is it always the cats that dress like a million bucks that's always broke?

Damn, I'm here on BGOL venting and outing shit like it's a therapy session. :lol:
 
He is one of those SGents type—always dressed to impress on playboy shit. Can't lie, dude could dress his ass off and gets hos. Haha!
But always broke!!!! Gatdamn! Why is it always the cats that dress like a million bucks that's always broke?

Damn, I'm here on BGOL venting and outing shit on BGOL like it's a therapy session. :lol:
Them pimps will play you like a fool if you let em.

It's no different when them pastors be doing the same shit. :lol:
 
I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.


Take Sonny's advice. Cut him off. He's outta your life and it only cost you a few hundred dollars worth of food.
 
I’m with her, if my food costs less than $30 and y’all niggas drank and are like kings and queens. Then I’m not paying 80+ dollars for you fuckers food.

We don’t have to split the bill, just pay for what you ate and don’t expect people to help you pay for YOUR portion.
 
My biggest restaurant fuck up was back in the day. Grandma passed in 2008 and the funeral was just before my bro’s 25th birthday. I said to my pops we should arrange to have a brunch / lunch with family afterward as local and out of town relatives were in town. Lift everyone’s spirits a bit. Lunch went well. Good meal. Around 15 people came. Several of them had deluxe coffees and beers, those mofos.

Bill comes and I go to split it with pops. He goes that’s on you ... it was your idea. And he was right. We never agreed to split the tab, haha.

I was only working PT and oncall at that moment, so I took the hit on the CC. Told my bro happy bday, that was your gift. We had a laugh in the car and he was appreciative. RIP to grandma - she would have laughed too at my financial fuck-up at Milestone’s.
 
My biggest restaurant fuck up was back in the day. Grandma passed in 2008 and the funeral was just before my bro’s 25th birthday. I said to my pops we should arrange to have a brunch / lunch with family afterward as local and out of town relatives were in town. Lift everyone’s spirits a bit. Lunch went well. Good meal. Around 15 people came. Several of them had deluxe coffees and beers, those mofos.

Bill comes and I go to split it with pops. He goes that’s on you ... it was your idea. And he was right. We never agreed to split the tab, haha.

I was only working PT and oncall at that moment, so I took the hit on the CC. Told my bro happy bday, that was your gift. We had a laugh in the car and he was appreciative. RIP to grandma - she would have laughed too at my financial fuck-up at Milestone’s.

It only takes one time to learn your lesson
 
I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.
You saw one of your boys, he saw

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I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.
In all seriousness, he was wrong bringing up old shit just to get free food. That was foul and I'd cut'em off too if I were you.

I can't imagine if I'm chilling somewhere not eating or drinking and a friend up to me talking about I'm hungry.

If I knew they were on hard times I'd help'em out. But they're not gonna guilt trip me.
 
It only takes one time to learn your lesson


Agreed. I was pissed off for a few days, but saw the big picture thereafter. I can look back and laugh.

One of the best feelings now is being able to treat family members to dinners out. Picking up that tab and not stressing like back in your 20s when money was tighter.

Looking forward to taking some loved ones out for some meals in the next 6 - 8 weeks.
 
I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.
1. If you ain't eating and I don't have any money, I AIN'T EATING!!!!! The fcuk I look like having a dude by me food! It would be one thing if we both eating and you pick up the check. We boys. But you just buy me food??? He better put some work in and BRING you some pussy!!!
2. This ya boy?
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1. If you ain't eating and I don't have any money, I AIN'T EATING!!!!! The fcuk I look like having a dude by me food! It would be one thing if we both eating and you pick up the check. We boys. But you just buy me food??? He better put some work in and BRING you some pussy!!!
2. This ya boy?
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Yeah, since the days of milk crate backyard basketball.

He got his head on his shoulders, but his money situation is funny. He never acquired the skill sets or made the moves over the decades to raise his value. He's a former runner. Back-and-forth trips to Boston to VA moving weight.
Bruh is 45.
 
I had a similar issue about 12 years ago with a party of 13. I ordered around $30 worth of food, and when the bill arrived, it was $1200. The lady friend who invited me to join the group guilt-tripped me into splitting the cost.

Never again!

That's about $92.31 per person. For you, that's 30 bucks plus $60 (200%) tip. You may have had that waitress considering parking lot head to thank you :lol: :roflmao:


AYOOOOOOOOOOOO :roflmao: :roflmao3: :lol: :popcorn: :popcorn: :roflmao: :roflmao3: :lol:

But fam, it's good to not hold that in, though.

I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.
 
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He sounds like a bitch but those are the kind of guys women like to manipulate and control them. I wouldn't have paid for shit and then lie to him saying I gotta go to the bathroom to dip out of there without him knowing.

Also them begging dudes be lying to get you to spend on them because they think you're rich but be having money on the side for some bitch but not for themselves. Well nigga you're gonna starve to death .

So True.

@APOPHIS, I think your boy would be better off with a sugar mama. Yeah, she may snatch his sense of manhood and sometimes have him jump through hoops as her Sugar Boy, but she'll keep his belly full, after he makes faces at her instead of you :lol:

He could easily pull that shit off.
He turns heads regularly wherever he walks into a room full of women.

6'2+ mofos be living life on cheat mode. :lol:


APOPHIS' Homey: "AYO WTF? Did they forget the cheese on my sandwich?"

Sugar Mama: "NO. It was made how I ordered it!! Oh you wanted cheese on that? :rolleyes: Listen, next time, don't dial it in, when eating my pussy. I want passion when you do that!! I know you were in your lil feelings about something I said earlier or whatever but a bitch got needs, too!!"

APOPHIS' Homey: "But, BAEEEE {makes pouty face}!!"

Sugar Mama: "You want a perfect brunch and I want a perfect MUNCH, SHIT! {Shrugs her shoulders}. Don't let that sammch get cold!!

ADOPHIS' Homey: 'My bad, my bad {quickly picks up sammich to eat}"
 
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So True.

@APOPHIS, I think your boy would be better off with a sugar mama. Yeah, she may snatch his sense of manhood and sometimes have him jump through hoops as her Sugar Boy, but she'll keep his belly full, after he makes faces at her instead of you :lol:

He could easily pull that shit off.
He turns heads regularly wherever he walks into a room full of women.

6'2+ mofos be living life on cheat mode. :lol:
 
I gotta vent!

Just last week I was at a cafe working and one of my boys came through and sat next to me to catch up. Mind you, I haven't been at this cafe for almost 4-5 months despite it being down the street from my place and neither has he. We both know the staff quite well. He sat there and chatted while I was trying to focus on work, and then about 20 minutes in, dude starts complaining about how hungry he is. I pay him no mind. He keeps yapping about needing to eat. I respond, then get some food. He says I ain't got no money. I avoid him. He keeps mentioning that shit! He then mentions a leather bag he gave me despite me never asking for it.

Instead of asking me like a man to cover his cost for the food. He whines like a bitch and makes faces about needing to eat and how broke he is. I finally give in and get this bumb nigga some food. I feel so fucking used. I'm seriously thinking about cutting him off, as this wasn't his first time doing this to me.
You got ho’ed
 
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