I see the problem here and why all the ladies are giving me the
face! 
Ya'll stuck on this line...
I didn't think that was the point of the convo.
My mind frame is different! 
Wifey v. The Jump Off
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I see the problem here and why all the ladies are giving me the
face! Ya'll stuck on this line...
I didn't think that was the point of the convo.
My mind frame is different! 
Let me break it down...
Men have a complex. I'll admit it. All women are ho's except their woman. Their woman is a pristine virgin that has only been touched by them. If she has had sex it was only with one guy who she was in a long term relationship with and us being men just have to accept that and strongly move on.
Now with that being said...if YOU are my woman you should know nothing about all this freaky shit that I want to do. I do this to the "loose" women who will sleep with anybody and are very good at what they do. They are damn near professional!
Now if I were to say ask you to do anal and you don't even squirm? Or if I ask you for oral and you blow my damn mind? Or if I ask you to ride on top and you look like you could win the bullfighting championship 4 years in a row...then I have to rethink that "pristine" shit!
Real talk. Men don't want to accept the fact of a well experienced girl being theirs. This is what your man is trying to tell you.
Preach on brother
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Man i'am with SS on this one i still don't get it.
I understand what you're saying Andey but i don't understand the purpose or logic behind not wanting your wife to fuck you like a pornstar the first time you get her in bed.
Like robert De Niro said " My wife kisses my kids with that mouth." So you go ahead and ATM your wifey I'll stick with doing that shit to the jump off.
Man i'am with SS on this one i still don't get it.
I understand what you're saying Andey but i don't understand the purpose.
Aight...five points...
First I am not saying me. I have no problem with a woman with experience. Hell maybe you can teach me a thing or two ladies.
Second some dudes do. The OP seemed to have this problem with her man and I was explaining his behavior for her to understand.
Third why some men have this problem is not beyond my realm of logic. I used to think the same way until I got out in the world.
Fourth is all I want my girl to do is respect herself and respect the fact that I respect her. That's it. I don't want to know my girl past at all but a lot of women tell there past too quick by all the freaky shit they want to do up front. Save some of that and create a mystery. Use it to keep the relationship fresh. Just because I ask for oral don't mean you got to suck the skin off my dick the first time. Work up to that shit. I won't be mad that you are getting better.
Fifth...goddamn ya'll is hard on a dude when he tell the truth on a topic!!!
My wife is freaky ass hell. We broke out the handcuffs 2 days ago. She gives maliciously vicious head, and the pussy is great. She learned the head game when she was with me. I don't see what the big deal is.
She has a past, same as me. Before we got married, we had some periods where were were dating on and off (you know how it can be sometimes). She fucked other people, and so did I, but that was then. You couldn't pay her to give her pussy to another ninja now (unless we talkin 6 figures, but I can't blame her cause I'd do the same ) She learned a trick or two with someone else, and so did I (She gave me the "Where'd you learn that position?" question.) It's hot fuckin and suckin when we get downnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. We understand what it takes to be married and stay married.
I guess my question for yall is, why would you deny yourself the freaky shit you want to do with your wife. Then be mad cause your not getting enough /any head, anal, or whatever your into. Why get married to someone who you don't want to do freaky shit, and then be unhappy. You'll be one of these clowns who is divorced in less than a year.
We know what we like, and sometimes we push the barrier and experiment. IMHO, some of yall have some ass backwards ass thinking. Maybe yall think your girl is to good to do freaky shit. Then the woman you have no feelings for you let suck ya balls, swallow your cum, and do all that freaky shit you dream about doing. FYI, unless you been cuffing her since middle school, your girl has most likely already done plenty of freaky shit. Stop fooling yourself.
But, wifey having a ruined asshole is not a good look, so we don't do anal. Its not that I think she is to good to do anal, but I don't want to take away from my wifes sex appeal by giving her a floppy asshole. The same way I wouldn't beat my wife and knock her teeth out. It would take value away from her. Just my 2.
She has a past, same as me. Before we got married, we had some periods where were were dating on and off (you know how it can be sometimes). She fucked other people, and so did I, but that was then. You couldn't pay her to give her pussy to another ninja now (unless we talkin 6 figures, but I can't blame her cause I'd do the same ) She learned a trick or two with someone else, and so did I (She gave me the "Where'd you learn that position?" question.) It's hot fuckin and suckin when we get downnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. We understand what it takes to be married and stay married.I guess my question for yall is, why would you deny yourself the freaky shit you want to do with your wife. Then be mad cause your not getting enough /any head, anal, or whatever your into. Why get married to someone who you don't want to do freaky shit, and then be unhappy. You'll be one of these clowns who is divorced in less than a year.
We know what we like, and sometimes we push the barrier and experiment. IMHO, some of yall have some ass backwards ass thinking. Maybe yall think your girl is to good to do freaky shit. Then the woman you have no feelings for you let suck ya balls, swallow your cum, and do all that freaky shit you dream about doing. FYI, unless you been cuffing her since middle school, your girl has most likely already done plenty of freaky shit. Stop fooling yourself.
But, wifey having a ruined asshole is not a good look, so we don't do anal. Its not that I think she is to good to do anal, but I don't want to take away from my wifes sex appeal by giving her a floppy asshole.
The same way I wouldn't beat my wife and knock her teeth out. It would take value away from her. Just my 2.
I agree with Iron. Shit Wifey material and freak material in 1 package is a win win situation. Respectful woman that candle express herself sexual
PEACE !!!!
not that i am married but i would think that
your wife would just nag nag and nag some more then after all that nagging only want to give you some booty on her time and schedule
your jumpoff already konw the deal and she basically just wants to fuck
To me, this is the real answer to your question. New pussy (just like new dick) is great. Not just the literal new pussy, but the experience of a NEW woman.
Some men will never be satisfied...always looking at the green grass on the other side of the fence.
See i'am still lost.
And i agree with Gtkid.
Penancestare put it in lamest terms.
Why go out and look for "new pussy" when you have a wife that'll do anything?
Dude who say that don't know the meaning of wife at all.
Ya'll have dealt with some fucked up dudes in ya'll time. Or I'm just too damn loyal and determined to make shit work. I haven't decided.
Because sometimes women show all they cards too damn quick Iron. This is what I have been saying the whole time.
We are talking a committed relationship of length right here. If you have thrown every trick you know at a brother in less than a year then you have some potential for growth, but it is very limited.
Take your time is all I'm saying and the relationship will last longer. Give it two or three months of straight lace fucking before you start to give out that fire head. Let him beg you for a month or two before you swallow. Tell dude you don't like it from the back even though you do.
Make the man want you ladies. Because you know he do. If he don't then you shouldn't be there anyway.
Because sometimes women show all they cards too damn quick Iron. This is what I have been saying the whole time.
We are talking a committed relationship of length right here. If you have thrown every trick you know at a brother in less than a year then you have some potential for growth, but it is very limited.
Take your time is all I'm saying and the relationship will last longer. Give it two or three months of straight lace fucking before you start to give out that fire head. Let him beg you for a month or two before you swallow. Tell dude you don't like it from the back even though you do.
Make the man want you ladies. Because you know he do. If he don't then you shouldn't be there anyway.
whaaaaaaat?!
isnt that the all time favorite excuse to get a jump off...cause thier girl isnt freaky enough
Dude who say that don't know the meaning of wife at all.
Ya'll have dealt with some fucked up dudes in ya'll time. Or I'm just too damn loyal and determined to make shit work. I haven't decided.
Andey this is not my personal experience. This is just something I've noticed.
whaaaaaaat?!
isnt that the all time favorite excuse to get a jump off...cause thier girl isnt freaky enough
That's over time though. I mean if you been with a girl 3 years you know if she suck dick or not. You feel me?
Now if you are head liking dude then here come jump-off saying she will do it. Bam you caught up.
Now if you know your man love head then that's where you start. But you don't have to suck, lick balls, slob, no hands, full spit gargling, slurp, deep throat and swallow all on the first time!
I'm not trying to shit on you PC. I'm just saying at first I didn't realize that this was an anti-jump off discussion so I think ya'll got me wrong.
If the debate is about new pussy vs. old an old man once told me that if a nigga grew two more inches on his dick then he could turn that old pussy into new pussy easy!
That's over time though. I mean if you been with a girl 3 years you know if she suck dick or not. You feel me?
Now if you are head liking dude then here come jump-off saying she will do it. Bam you caught up.
Now if you know your man love head then that's where you start. But you don't have to suck, lick balls, slob, no hands, full spit gargling, slurp, deep throat and swallow all on the first time!
damn
my philsophy was to make sure i took care of home and made sure he didnt want for anything
im freaky by nature but i also realize what i wont do the next bitch will...
so u saying that we should hold out on the tricks for awhile...like months...good lawd!
damn
my philsophy was to make sure i took care of home and made sure he didnt want for anything
im freaky by nature but i also realize what i wont do the next bitch will...
so u saying that we should hold out on the tricks for awhile...like months...good lawd!
I'm just saying ease into it. I mean if you in it for the sex then do you...but if you want the brother to stick around and you throw the kitchen sink at his ass first month don't be surprised if he go creep off somewhere else. He got everything he could have ever wanted out of you in one trip.
Now that's when the nothing beats new pussy thing starts coming up.
I'm just saying ease into it. I mean if you in it for the sex then do you...but if you want the brother to stick around and you throw the kitchen sink at his ass first month don't be surprised if he go creep off somewhere else. He got everything he could have ever wanted out of you in one trip.
Now that's when the nothing beats new pussy thing starts coming up.
I feel you on this. It's a good look to not do everything at once. I know I like it when a guy surprises me with some freaky shit.
Maybe I am different then becuz I want my wife to fuck like a pornstar. Thats why you see guys in unsatisfied marriages now. I would rather have a wife do all that shit I like and be happy rather than be sitting here with this fake notion that she is not supposed to do that and be unhappy. That shit is just stupid.
This is what i'm saying sort of, but you know a lot of dudes ain't like that.
Now in a marriage? I don't think it's shit a wife should not do for her husband sexually in a marriage.
It's because lower class niggas are as ignorant, misogynistic and sexually repressed as any greasy wife-beater-wearing Italian who ever pushed a fruit cart around the lower east side of Manhattan circa 1901.
Quoted for the truth. I'll have to come back and share my experience with this. The short of it is...certain women don't want to do certain things because they want to save something special for potential marriage. An admirable sentiment, but it won't keep most men.
Because he doesnt have a clue.... tell him what u want..shyt remember ask and u shall recieve!
Go peep the movie I think I love my wife with Chris Rock.....
personally i been around the block and I am like this - men are wired for sex... and we are visual simulate... but i dont know what yall women want cuz yall got such a hard time communicating......shyt i think that why Black men date outside their race 9 out of 10 time.. cuz they got no inferior napolean complex...
but the bottom line... i recall a woman that was a freak ....that shyt get old after a while.... and the problem is not u but it is us....
Let's not put all the blame on the husband. Some women do all that freakish shit before the marriage.I guess they feel that now that they're married she no longer have to be the freak, that they don't have to do it anymore. They don't do nothing appealing anymore. You look stupid when you tap on her shoulder in the middle of the night trying to get some. Now she wants to get mad when you find a person that used to be just like them. Women knows that men think about sex all day long and know what pleases their man. But they don't do anything about it.
The whole girlfriend/whore dichotomy is so ridiculous… you don’t want a virgin cuz she’s probably not experienced enough to know your needs and fill them… but you end up with an aggressive woman who's been active for a few years and can take care of you in every way, shape or form and you get a complex… I don’t get it... if your woman enjoys certain things, enjoy them with her without thinking in the back of your head "I wonder how she learned this" or "I wonder who many times she's done this"... the brotha that's sittin' at home beatin' his meat to BGOL 5 times a day cuz his wife is a boring azz sexual prude would love to trade places with you... cats need to grow up maaaaaaaan!!!!!!
a-men nothing like that nu-nu
First response I heard that makes any sense at all. The rest of you guys are full of shit. "I want my wife to be a 'decent' woman..." FUCK YOU!!! I have reached the point in life where, wifey or no, if we are going to fuck, it had better be REAL "freaky" (what the hell does that mean anyway? What's "freaky" about sex???) or I don't want to waste my time. I would just as soon watch some good porn and jerk off as to be bored to tears with some silly ass fully grown woman trying to keep up appearances. HOW IN THE FUCK CAN YOU KEEP UP APPEARENCES WITH ALL OF YOUR CLOTHES OFF AND MY DICK IS IN YOUR MOUTH? Jeez I see why so many folks have fucked up relationships because of this kind of silly ass, kiddie bullshit. We are FUCKING ADULTS. If my woman wants me to fuck her in the ass, and I want to fuck her in the ass, so what? Who gives a shit. And guys, just face the fucking facts: you have no idea if your girl fucked 10 guys or 10,000 before you met. You will never know. She may be washing the cum of your best friend out of her hair on whil you are on your way home from work. I have seen this shit happen. And no, it's not because I have been hurt, because I have never found out about my woman fucking around or having a past I didn't know about. But you just don't know.My wife is freaky ass hell. We broke out the handcuffs 2 days ago. She gives maliciously vicious head, and the pussy is great. She learned the head game when she was with me. I don't see what the big deal is.
I guess my question for yall is, why would you deny yourself the freaky shit you want to do with your wife. Then be mad cause your not getting enough /any head, anal, or whatever your into. Why get married to someone who you don't want to do freaky shit, and then be unhappy. You'll be one of these clowns who is divorced in less than a year.
We know what we like, and sometimes we push the barrier and experiment. IMHO, some of yall have some ass backwards ass thinking. Maybe yall think your girl is to good to do freaky shit. Then the woman you have no feelings for you let suck ya balls, swallow your cum, and do all that freaky shit you dream about doing. FYI, unless you been cuffing her since middle school, your girl has most likely already done plenty of freaky shit. Stop fooling yourself.
But, wifey having a ruined asshole is not a good look, so we don't do anal. Its not that I think she is to good to do anal, but I don't want to take away from my wifes sex appeal by giving her a floppy asshole.
Bottom line: she is with you now, you guys groove. She gives you world class pussy. JUST FUCKING ENJOY IT. Fuck her, suck her, lick her, spank her ass, cum in her face, call her a filthy, nasty slut while you pull her hair. What the fuck ever. Just let's PLEASE get over this holier than thou bullshit fantasy where your dick is the only dick to ever be in her mouth.
Damn...
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