Wifey v. The Jump Off

[YouLikeMyStyle]

Why is it that some men feel that wifey, the woman they respect, love, etc., is a person they should look at as less sexual? They think all the nasty ish should be done with the jump off.

I've talked to more than one man about this and this opinion always shocks me. I respect the fact that a man can respect all of my non-sexual attributes, but I still want him to do all the nasty ish with me.

Thoughts?

 

[REMINGTON_BLACK]

Why is it that some men feel that wifey, the woman they respect, love, etc., is a person they should look at as less sexual? They think all the nasty ish should be done with the jump off.

I've talked to more than one man about this and this opinion always shocks me. I respect the fact that a man can respect all of my non-sexual attributes, but I still want him to do all the nasty ish with me.

Thoughts?

Your not going to understand it. But think about this: you have been someones jump (wither you know it or not) off and all that nasty stuff he did with you isn't being done with his main girl/wife.

 

[doggish_098]

the responses should be interesting on this one. The op has hidden freak potential that is not being brought out.

 

[mrjody]

Nothing
Beats
New
Pussy

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

Your not going to understand it. But think about this: you have been someones jump (wither you know it or not) off and all that nasty stuff he did with you isn't being done with his main girl/wife.

shut up and answer the question.

 

[dredhed0]

most guys don't want to think of there wife as a freak!!! it's a horrible double-standard, but that's the bottom line.

 

[doggish_098]

shut up and answer the question.

what kind of things that you feel you should be doing that the jump off is doing?

 

[REMINGTON_BLACK]

shut up and answer the question.

How can you tell me to stop and go at the same time? lol

 

[REMINGTON_BLACK]

Nothing
Beats
New
Pussy

man you aint never lied about that

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

most guys don't want to think of there wife as a freak!!! it's a horrible double-standard, but that's the bottom line.

but shouldn't a man be happy if his wife is a freak tho? that he has all of that to himself?

what kind of things that you feel you should be doing that the jump off is doing?

any nasty lil thing you can think of: fuckin in random places, anal...anything

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Let me break it down...

Men have a complex. I'll admit it. All women are ho's except their woman. Their woman is a pristine virgin that has only been touched by them. If she has had sex it was only with one guy who she was in a long term relationship with and us being men just have to accept that and strongly move on.

Now with that being said... if YOU are my woman you should know nothing about all this freaky shit that I want to do. I do this to the "loose" women who will sleep with anybody and are very good at what they do. They are damn near professional!

Now if I were to say ask you to do anal and you don't even squirm? Or if I ask you for oral and you blow my damn mind? Or if I ask you to ride on top and you look like you could win the bullfighting championship 4 years in a row...then I have to rethink that "pristine" shit!

Real talk. Men don't want to accept the fact of a well experienced girl being theirs.

This is what your man is trying to tell you.

 

[Escalade]

Why is it that some men feel that wifey, the woman they respect, love, etc., is a person they should look at as less sexual? They think all the nasty ish should be done with the jump off.

I've talked to more than one man about this and this opinion always shocks me. I respect the fact that a man can respect all of my non-sexual attributes, but I still want him to do all the nasty ish with me.

Thoughts?

Sweetheart (hoping that u r actually a female), I can't answer that question. I wish my wife would do all that "nasty ish". If she would, I would never even think about another female. But then, that's just me. I don't know what some of these cats r talking bout, MEN always want a woman/wife who is a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed. At least, the men I know.

 

[dredhed0]

Let me break it down...

Men have a complex. I'll admit it. All women are ho's except their woman. Their woman is a pristine virgin that has only been touched by them. If she has had sex it was only with one guy who she was in a long term relationship with and us being men just have to accept that and strongly move on.

Now with that being said...if YOU are my woman you should know nothing about all this freaky shit that I want to do. I do this to the "loose" women who will sleep with anybody and are very good at what they do. They are damn near professional!

Now if I were to say ask you to do anal and you don't even squirm? Or if I ask you for oral and you blow my damn mind? Or if I ask you to ride on top and you look like you could win the bullfighting championship 4 years in a row...then I have to rethink that "pristine" shit!

Real talk. Men don't want to accept the fact of a well experienced girl being theirs. This is what your man is trying to tell you.

that about sums it up. no one wants to think about the amount of "man hours" a woman has to put in so that she's good @ oral.

 

[REMINGTON_BLACK]

that about sums it up. no one wants to think about the amount of "man hours" a woman has to put in so that she's good @ oral.

preach. I never ask a girl how many guys she's been with because immature or not, 1 is to many for me. Just as long as she doesn't have kids or stds

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Still makes no sense to me. But doesnt wifey need to do those freaky things in order to keep you from straying??

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

Still makes no sense to me. But doesnt wifey need to do those freaky things in order to keep you from straying??

that's what im saying?!

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Still makes no sense to me. But doesnt wifey need to do those freaky things in order to keep you from straying??

Yeah Sexy...but I need to teach you those things. It's a growth process. If you come in on the end of a mean ass learning curve then what can I show you that another man hasn't. You feel me? Let me teach you even if you already know.

In the mean time I'm gonna talk about or watch movies or whatever of them "ho's" I was talking about earlier...it's just the way we are.

 

[thismybgolname]

Why is it that some men feel that wifey, the woman they respect, love, etc., is a person they should look at as less sexual? They think all the nasty ish should be done with the jump off.

I've talked to more than one man about this and this opinion always shocks me. I respect the fact that a man can respect all of my non-sexual attributes, but I still want him to do all the nasty ish with me.

Thoughts?

Not all women are willing to do the nasty ish that they should be doing if they're Wifey or Wifey material.

 

[Escalade]

Still makes no sense to me. But doesnt wifey need to do those freaky things in order to keep you from straying??

That was pretty much my point. Especially when we run across females that look like that pic of yours. Wifey better be on top of her game.

 

[doggish_098]

sooooo your saying your married and you cant get your husband to have sex with you on the kitchen counter or stick it in your ass.

 

[mal the magnificient]

euorpean thinkingi believe, i see it in alot of their cultures

 

[DeSiRe]

whaaaaat

i still dont understand this logic

so are highly sexual women destined to be jump offs

 

[Andeyhollawho]

whaaaaat

i still dont understand this logic

so are highly sexual women destined to be jump offs

Nah, nah, nah...that's not what I am saying. I am talking about perception. Perception is 20/20 on the front end and fucked up on the backside.

Look...I really want me a pristine girl in public and a freak in public. But most men can not deal with the freak side up front like that.

I NEED my girl/wife/boo whatever to do all the shit I can see in a porno and more for me to be truly happy. Ya'll right. But what you have to do is seperate the act from the training!

 

[Iron]

I must be the exception because all the freaky things that my wife did when she was some dudes jump off she better do with me and then some.

I don't want no inexperienced chick. I've had them. It's fun to break them in sometimes, but when i want some head. I want some head dammit! No cum dodging, scrunched up ewwww faces. I want her to ride me like it's gonna be her last time fucking.

You all can waste energy trying to train these women and trickin yourself into thinking she was only with one guy before she met you.

While y'all doing that i'm gonna be tying her to the bed post and pouring hot wax on her chest while she sucks me off.

 

[Escalade]

I must be the exception because all the freaky things that my wife did when she was some dudes jump off she better do with me and then some.

I don't want no inexperienced chick. I've had them. It's fun to break them in sometimes, but when i want some head. I want some head dammit! No cum dodging, scrunched up ewwww faces. I want her to ride me like it's gonna be her last time fucking.

You all can waste energy trying to train these women and trickin yourself into thinking she was only with one guy before she met you.

While y'all doing that i'm gonna be tying her to the bed post and pouring hot wax on her chest while she sucks me off.

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

I must be the exception because all the freaky things that my wife did when she was some dudes jump off she better do with me and then some.

I don't want no inexperienced chick. I've had them. It's fun to break them in sometimes, but when i want some head. I want some head dammit! No cum dodging, scrunched up ewwww faces. I want her to ride me like it's gonna be her last time fucking.

You all can waste energy trying to train these women and trickin yourself into thinking she was only with one guy before she met you.

While y'all doing that i'm gonna be tying her to the bed post and pouring hot wax on her chest while she sucks me off.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

I must be the exception because all the freaky things that my wife did when she was some dudes jump off she better do with me and then some.

I don't want no inexperienced chick. I've had them. It's fun to break them in sometimes, but when i want some head. I want some head dammit! No cum dodging, scrunched up ewwww faces. I want her to ride me like it's gonna be her last time fucking.

You all can waste energy trying to train these women and trickin yourself into thinking she was only with one guy before she met you.

While y'all doing that i'm gonna be tying her to the bed post and pouring hot wax on her chest while she sucks me off.

Cuz but do you REALLY want to fuck Pinky cuz.

Off the bat? I'm just saying the ladies have to let dudes play some shadow games sometimes. I may be fucking Pinky, but I need her to act a little bit at first. I'm gonna talk about it all day, but if the first night I say "let's do anal" she start telling me about the correct lube and angles and shit I'm gonna be like what the fuck?

My scenario...I bring up anal because it's taboo with so many women...I say "anal". After some discussion we agree to go to the store and look at some lube because we want it to be enjoyable. I pick one, she pick one, we go with hers to make her comfortable (right? ), we head to the crib. All she got to do is put herself in her perferred position on the sly and we in there. I don't need tips and pointers and shit and stories about how her last man used to make her cum if we did it this way.

In other words I got it wrong ladies...ya'll train me, but let me think I'm training you!

 

[Iron]

Cuz but do you REALLY want to fuck Pinky cuz.

Off the bat? I'm just saying the ladies have to let dudes play some shadow games sometimes. I may be fucking Pinky, but I need her to act a little bit at first. I'm gonna talk about it all day, but if the first night I say "let's do anal" she start telling me about the correct lube and angles and shit I'm gonna be like what the fuck?

My scenario...I bring up anal because it's taboo with so many women...I say "anal". After some discussion we agree to go to the store and look at some lube because we want it to be enjoyable. I pick one, she pick one, we go with hers to make her comfortable (right? ), we head to the crib. All she got to do is put herself in her perferred position on the sly and we in there. I don't need tips and pointers and shit and stories about how her last man used to make her cum if we did it this way.

In other words I got it wrong ladies...ya'll train me, but let me think I'm training you!

lol. I see what you're saying but I'd never have sex with a known pornstar. I need just a regular women a regular ol'freak not the neighborhood jump off or a dummy or that chick you can't take no where because dudes keep walkin' past and speakin'.

Seriously I don't care about what she did before me as long as she practiced it safely and she didn't put all of her bed room business out there. I don't want her tellin' me about the last dude she was with. How he did this that and the third. I won't tell her about the last women i was with. That's rude.

I like to get straight to the point no need for smoke and mirrors if you a freak that's fine with me. If her last dude had her swallowing everyday. We gonna take it to the next level and have her using my semen as salad dressing everyday for lunch.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

^^^^^^^^





I still think it makes no damn sense

 

[Andeyhollawho]

lol. I see what you're saying but I'd never have sex with a known pornstar. I need just a regular women a regular ol'freak not the neighborhood jump off or a dummy or that chick you can't take no where because dudes keep walkin' past and speakin'.

Seriously I don't care about what she did before me as long as she practiced it safely and her didn't put all of her bed room business out there. I don't want her tellin' me about the last dude she was with. How he did this that and the third. I won't tell her about the last women i was with. That's rude.

I like to get straight to the point no need for smoke and mirrors if you a freak that's fine with me. If her last dude had her swallowing everyday. We gonna take it to the next level and have her using my semen as salad dressing everyday for lunch.

I'm not saying Pinky as in the porn star I'm saying "Pinky" as in her level of experience right from the jump. But I get your point too.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

^^^^^^^^





I still think it makes no damn sense

What don't you get Sexy? I think you are thinking that I am talking about insecurity? I am somewhat, but what I am saying is every man want a freak, but won't admit that they are sleeping with one.

It's kind of like...how dudes on here are always downing so-called "fat women". But let Jill Scott or Angie Stone roll up on they ass in a club and they the first ones out the door with them!

It's just perception. Jill is fat until they want some coochie.

But explain your side in this whole thing so I'm just not stabbing in the dark. Seeing how I am the only man real enough to admit this "flaw" that some of us have.

 

[Shadow]

You don't even want to hear what I have to say on this one.....

Let's just say I need a certain level of nastiness in my sex.

Respectfully,

The one ninja who will flipfuck, sockittoyouass, candlewax, ridingsaddle type, backflippin' into the pussy, dickslinger BGOL Commission member.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

What don't you get Sexy? I think you are thinking that I am talking about insecurity? I am somewhat, but what I am saying is every man want a freak, but won't admit that they are sleeping with one.

It's kind of like...how dudes on here are always downing so-called "fat women". But let Jill Scott or Angie Stone roll up on they ass in a club and they the first ones out the door with them!

It's just perception. Jill is fat until they want some coochie.

But explain your side in this whole thing so I'm just not stabbing in the dark. Seeing how I am the only man real enough to admit this "flaw" that some of us have.

Its exactly what I stated before Andey,why is a jump-off even necessary if you are getting the freaky stuff done by wifey. The only answer I can understand is Mr. Jody's. The rest of yall are still making it seem like your wifeys have to be damn near pure and virginal

 

[PrincessC]

@ some of these replies.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Its exactly what I stated before Andey,why is a jump-off even necessary if you are getting the freaky stuff done by wifey. The only answer I can understand is Mr. Jody's. The rest of yall are still making it seem like your wifeys have to be damn near pure and virginal

I'm saying that men will think about other women doing that shit before they think of their woman doing it. Sometimes it's up to ya'll to sort of remind us men of what you got at home. The OP was asking why her man didn't seem to want to do the freaky stuff with her. I was just giving an answer.

No I don't think a man should go outside of a happy home or a committed relationship for anything. But at that same time ya'll got to try and ease that in there. Don't run up on me like...fuck me in my ass Andey. Just let me know the option is there. Feel me now?