Why do women feel that they shouldn't be hit?

I may be a hypocrite on this issue....
If I hit my dude knowing he can kick my ass, I cant cry and call the police because I he did....Here in Indiana if a woman hits and he hits her back..If the police come, both parties go to jail.
Having said that...I feel that it is morally wrong for a man to hit a woman. Told you I was a hypocrite:dunno:

is that you in your sig!:eek:
 
I agree with just about everyone on the board. I dont see anything wrong with a man defending himself against a woman. I just think it depends on the way in which he does so... If I hit a dude Im not expecting him to not respond but NOT by punchin me in the face. Maybe shakin the hell outta me or something...

Why can't he punch you like you punched him? Are you not responsible for your actions? Are you somehow less of a person because you don't know wrong from right? You know the police will fuck you up if you hit them and you refuse to. But you'll hit a man? Mind games. :smh:

A little calmer version of this if I may LD...:D

Honeydip you said that if you hit a man you expect him to respond but not by punching you in the face. What you are missing in that is the word "respond". When you are angry do you always respond the way you mean to?

What I am saying is if your hit was enough to cause a response from this man and his response is to lay hands back on you...he is in no more control of that response then you were with the initial punch.

The thing with women is that they don't realize what will bring that type of response from any man. It's like walking into a nuclear power plant, getting angry and flipping all of the switches and pushing all of the buttons. If you don't know what the hell you are doing and you hit the one that causes a meltdown who's fault is that???
 
Thank you Andey for niceing that up for me there. I hope it gets answered/addressed.

I think this all ties into the whole "I don't wanna swallow" thing too. Connected and shit.
 
It's been said over and over.

Women do need to be protected, but the pendulum has swung so far to the other side, that a woman can beat your ass for half an hour, call the police, start crying and get YO ass thrown out. Do that seem fair?

It's not fair to call a man a bitch or an idiot if he don't leave an abusive chick because, NO ONE blames a chick for not leaving an abusive dude.

If you don't wanna get hit, keep ya hands to yaself.I ain't finna go to the movies and smack the biggest mofo there and then start running that "he bigger than me and should know better" rap, so women better start getting cooler heads.
 
so wait, and maybe this should be another topic, but are women equal to men or not?

Physically, no (in most cases). Is that a mystery?

Men are violent by nature. Women aren't. It's a mismatch (as crime figures show).
 
Ok everyone needs to take notes on this. Its going to be my Public Service Announcement.

I have spent over 20 years as MP in the Army, a cop in the Atlanta area, a corporate security guy and now I am self employed as a PI and security consultant.

There is NO excuse for psychical violence against your partner. Ever! Woman puts her hand on me in a non consensual manner and its over right then and there.

Abuse is learned behavior. Let me say this again. Abusers think its ok because they have watched it happen in their family. Women who are abused come from homes where abuse took place. Men who abuse watched it go on as well.

If you are in a family situation where abuse is going on you will think that is normal and draw those kind of people to you.

It is a cycle of violence that is hard to break. First time it happens needs to be the last. Get help. Right then and there. Dont pass go dont collect @200. Get help. Otherwise it goes on and on.

In closing I will say this again.... There is NO reason what so ever that justifies abuse to your partner!

OH yeah it can be mental not just physical.
 
im not condoning violence (against males or females) either, but ive seen women act up that if i was a man i would slap the shit out them! and yes there are definitely times a dude needs to be slapped up. something extreme would need to have gone down....i wouldnt not hit my man bc hed kill me, but out of respect.

idk...im half n half...
 
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