I didn't speak on whether her manner of rearing him was positive or negative I just was pointing out her resume so to speak as well as being an activist. It seems she was unable to convey an emotional balance to Bobby, she seemed very Vulcan-like.
As for what is termed today being a man or being a woman, that's just too much to try to pin down, I know my daughter will be a bad bitch cause of her father's teachings, on relationships and all that. As to what she chooses to do with that knowledge is all on her but she won't be able to say she went through world with blinders, no sir! Honestly I don't want my daughter to be like any woman I can think of and I definitely want my son to be better than I am, as a PERSON moreso than anything else. I am envious of the Dalai Lama and I've been up close and personal with him both times he was in NYC over last five years publicly. I think I would value him differently if he were permitted to have female relationships, kids, then I would know if he was truly able to deal with the struggles of being pulled in multiple directions.
Anyhow, back to thread, ..........Yeah Legacy blames men for a lot, it is logical in most cases, some are a bit off....especially the sperm bank one.....