Why do niggas disrespect Legacy_Infinity?

I must say that is by choice, I teach my son and daughter martial arts EXACTLY the same, I teach them almost everything exactly the same except for when I must express what they CAN'T DO exactly the same because of gender. Such as how my daughter sits when in certain clothing, a dress as opposed to shorts or pants and I explain to her why, other than such things they are two little PEOPLE and are treated as such.

You teach girls to be ladies. You teach boys to be gentlemen. Good dad! :yes: There's things beyond that though. There are things i can't teach a boy. And there are things you can't teach a female. If that were the case...NO BALANCE.

Their mothers by CHOICE will do opposite something I do that is CLEARLY working just to be contrary or because they take no PRIDE in building someone up for that sole purpose alone and not for what they GET out of it.

Who chose those females?

You've SEEMED to have accepted this americanized/or modernized concept of motherhood, it's definitely not how any of the native peoples of the world to this day raise their children with the coddling, cooing and snuggling. The famous spartan quote was said by a mother "Come home with your shield or upon it." It speaks volumes of what the mind supposedly was of a woman, a mother back then, "I'd rather my child die as a man than live as something LESS than a man."

I'm not a spartan. I'd rather my sons not be dead. Or if they were to pass i'd hope they passed for a very good cause. My husband was the warrior in this family. He taught the boys all of that. Courage, valor, honor.

What is your definition of nuturing a child?

What is your definition of nuturing a young male?

What is your definition of nuturing a young female?

NO trap here so I'll say straight out that the answer to each should be different obviously but still relatively the same in my opinion.

Building their bodies and spirits. Showing them the soft arts, the healing arts. The mental aspects of their own spiritual nature. Teaching the ways and history of their people. Feeding their bodies with healthy love energy they consume through food.

With a young man he gets nurtured by helping him understand that he doesn't have to be ice cold, a feelingless automaton. We don't need men with glacier ice in their veins. ;) :lol:

With a young woman? She gets nurtured by the sharing of experiences from a woman's perspective. Knowledge that i have about things that she's grown and matured enough to understand at that point. You begin putting the finishing touches on their growth at this point. Hopefully, ideally....Females would be being courted by young men. And she needs to be nurtured in how to be emotionally prepared for this attention and new experiences she's going to be receiving.

That's my job as their mother. So far i've only got 1 teen girl and 2 teen boys. And they're maintaing pretty well. They had the benefit of their father their entire lives. In their life. In their ears and minds everyday.
 
Taking into consideration that this is a porn board, I have a hard time understanding why we run female members off the board.

I mean we like women, right?

If they come here on their own I would think we would treat them nice, get some knowledge on the things we don't understand about women and shit, they might show us a titty or an ass shot once or twice if we behave (especially the fact that we love homegrown).

I guess it just goes to show you the mentality of many of the posters here and the experience they have with women.

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As we the older brothers have distanced ourselves from the daily inane comments that have become the norm, it seems some feel they are now the spokespeople for us all. They do not speak for us all and maybe its necessary we continue being a presence make our opinions known.

I've seen hundreds of women come and go on this board from every social level imaginable. They all leave because they refuse to deal with the mentality of the guys here. I can't say I blame them. What type of porn board chases away women?

Sinnamon Love a present active BGOL member and pornstar refused to post a video because of the vibe she gets from this board. Ironic when a female pornstar won't share a video on a male dominated porn board. We are her customer base! :smh:

To the women who have elected to remain active I salute you all. The disrespect shown you is not justified nor shared by us all. Trust me not all the male members here share the same views.
 
Taking into consideration that this is a porn board, I have a hard time understanding why we run female members off the board.

I mean we like women, right?

If they come here on their own I would think we would treat them nice, get some knowledge on the things we don't understand about women and shit, they might show us a titty or an ass shot once or twice if we behave (especially the fact that we love homegrown).

I guess it just goes to show you the mentality of many of the posters here and the experience they have with women.

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As we the older brothers have distanced ourselves from the daily inane comments that have become the norm, it seems some feel they are now the spokespeople for us all. They do not speak for us all and maybe its necessary we continue being a presence make our opinions known.

I've seen hundreds of women come and go on this board from every social level imaginable. They all leave because they refuse to deal with the mentality of the guys here. I can't say I blame them. What type of porn board chases away women?

Sinnamon Love a present active BGOL member and pornstar refused to post a video because of the vibe she gets from this board. Ironic when a female pornstar won't share a video on a male dominated porn board. We are her customer base! :smh:

To the women who have elected to remain active I salute you all. The disrespect shown you is not justified nor shared by us all. Trust me not all the male members here share the same views.

I co-sign completely. :yes:
 
I keep poppin in hoping for a pic but ain't shit yet I guess? I ain't all shit without a pic of homegirl.
 
As Far As I Know?

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Okay I get what you mean. But yeah the way you got people in here virtually shaking LI and the rest of the females hands, you got dudes waiting for her to slip up so they can attack(I'm neither anymore, I see she plays devils advocate too much just for the sake of women, shes on ignore). Thats just the way it is. If that runs Desire and other attractive women away...Guess thats just BGOL. If they have Toughskin like you and Coco and onyx then they'd fit in. If they cant handle putting Random internet people on ignore then maybe this aint right for them.

But I get you.

;)

I think most of the women here now can tough it out. I know some doing it big in life so they aren't here as much, which is cool. But I can tell there are a lot of female lurkers here...but we neeeever see em...

melon join us

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Yeah that's definitely a response that no one should think of smh Basically a

"wtf?"


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Warning next time!

Aren't you the one trying to convince your wife to have a threesome?

Tell him to take pics

Melon ain't wit' it. :smh:

:cool:

When I get ready. It'll be here. With purpose of course. But then again with so many folks from the A here ya'll probably either know me or we met before...you just don't know it :D

Desire seemed to sum up why pretty succinctly.

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And :lol: @ CT

and :) @ Mo



I gotta wash hair.​
 
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;)

I think most of the women here now can tough it out. I know some doing it big in life so they aren't here as much, which is cool. But I can tell there are a lot of female lurkers here...but we neeeever see em...



:lol::lol::lol:



:puke:

Warning next time!



Tell him to take pics



:cool:

When I get ready. It'll be here. With purpose of course. But then again with so many folks from the A here ya'll probably either know me or we met before...you just don't know it :D



:yes:


And :lol: @ CT

and :) @ Mo



I gotta wash hair.

Get on cam.
 
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;)

I think most of the women here now can tough it out. I know some doing it big in life so they aren't here as much, which is cool. But I can tell there are a lot of female lurkers here...but we neeeever see em...



:lol::lol::lol:



:puke:

Warning next time!



Tell him to take pics



:cool:

When I get ready. It'll be here. With purpose of course. But then again with so many folks from the A here ya'll probably either know me or we met before...you just don't know it :D



:yes:


And
:lol: @ CT

and :) @ Mo



I gotta wash hair.

Come on now lil lady, show good ole CT those thangs...:cool::lol::cool:
 
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Help me out brotha, I am NOT good with the acronyms.



And ain't posting pics and talking shit the motto of the board? :cool:

like dudes said, "As Far As I Know"


i don't run behind stalking your posts and shit, but i figured you like the atmosphere, and not really trying to rock the boat.

when i see lonestar and/or LI post, i may ask a question, but i no longer see the point in the back-and-forth.
as others has said, folks use the anonymity of here to get more reckless than they would be online.
 
The end. Legacy have a 45% approval rate. Still cool by me. Make sure I'm PM'ed first when Melon show off dem thang thangs. :yes:
 
You guys absolve males for all kinds of shit. lol You don't hold males accountable for anything. You think of yourselves as the victims and these big bad horrible females are just taking advantage of you. :hmm:

Stop it. How is it that there are men out there who don't go through these types of things with baby mamas? There's a guy on this board, had plenty women. No kids.

How is it that these guys can avoid scandalous hos. And be responsible with their sperm. NOT get caught up. But others do?

I remember once i said here, i can hold my legs open all day and invite any and every cummer. You're not mindless drones who see pussy and just respond by ejaculating in it mindlessly. I'm sorry to be the 1 to tell you this. You have control of where your sperm goes.


I'm sorry. Just the way it is. Once you give it to me. It's mine. To do with as i so please. If you don't like this set up....don't be careless with it.


I fully agree that there seems to be a lot of cats crying victim here and we do need to be more careful where we leave our sperm.


Aren't you the one trying to convince your wife to have a threesome?

No, never even approached her with it and never said I did.

And if I did and we did, that would be what goes on in my house and would be our business and wouldn't affect you and yours in the least. Stop obsessing about other people's marriages and make your own is straight.
Notice how I never ask you about your situation? It's because I don't give a fuck, my shit is moving along nicely.
 
You teach girls to be ladies. You teach boys to be gentlemen. Good dad! :yes: There's things beyond that though. There are things i can't teach a boy. And there are things you can't teach a female. If that were the case...NO BALANCE.



Who chose those females?



I'm not a spartan. I'd rather my sons not be dead. Or if they were to pass i'd hope they passed for a very good cause. My husband was the warrior in this family. He taught the boys all of that. Courage, valor, honor.



Building their bodies and spirits. Showing them the soft arts, the healing arts. The mental aspects of their own spiritual nature. Teaching the ways and history of their people. Feeding their bodies with healthy love energy they consume through food.

With a young man he gets nurtured by helping him understand that he doesn't have to be ice cold, a feelingless automaton. We don't need men with glacier ice in their veins. ;) :lol:

With a young woman? She gets nurtured by the sharing of experiences from a woman's perspective. Knowledge that i have about things that she's grown and matured enough to understand at that point. You begin putting the finishing touches on their growth at this point. Hopefully, ideally....Females would be being courted by young men. And she needs to be nurtured in how to be emotionally prepared for this attention and new experiences she's going to be receiving.

That's my job as their mother. So far i've only got 1 teen girl and 2 teen boys. And they're maintaing pretty well. They had the benefit of their father their entire lives. In their life. In their ears and minds everyday.

Well written.....

What things can't you teach a boy and what things can't I teach a female? Only thing that springs to mind is being able to understand what someone is FEELING, I can read text on what happens to a girl having her period yet I as a male can't relate to what that FEELS like, nor what it feels like to be pregnant or any such female "CONDITION". Other than that what couldn't I possibly teach or explain or break down to a child regardless of their gender?

I don't swim well, my daughter is a water baby, I could LEARN how to swim better for my kids benefit, it would be far more sensible to let them learn from someone who is far more proficient at swimming. My point is, I can't teach what I don't know personally, there is nothing that prevents me from l;earning what I don't know to teach my child it but it is more optimal for my child to learn things I'm not very good at from someone who is.

There is nothing on this earth that I think a woman can teach a child that I cannot, it's all a matter of commitment to do what needs to be done, gender is no barrier.

Now in Yoruba culture there are things the female is not supposed to do, doesn't mean I couldn't teach my daughter the ritual regardless for knowledge purpose. Again other than things of biological nature, there is nothing seperating us from teaching our children.

Bobby Fischer's mother comes to mind now that I write this, you should look her up, woman spoke crazy langauages, PHD's, all types of education and had damn near every type of job when he was growing up.
 
So she has some views which the board doesn't find popular? And the point is what?

How many other people said slick shit which all of you enabled? To the point the fucker now has a religious cult in parody of him? To the point where a large amount of you admit to having no love for black women (not those whores and bitches that you see here in content, good black women in general) for someone elses shit.. hell, you even let Halo get all Nazi on this board...


Many of you talk shit to her because you see her as the black woman representative, the same thing all of you hate when they do. She is not going to have the same views as a man... because she.is.not a man....

What everybody is missing is that yeah, she has a different point of view. Hate or not some people will disrespect her about it, same way they go at Nzinga.

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I fully agree that there seems to be a lot of cats crying victim here and we do need to be more careful where we leave our sperm.

AFAIK nobody is saying the dude knocking the stupid women up isnt at fault. People are saying hes stupid for doing it and the way she raises the kid that he knocked her up with is stupid and irresponsible. People get mad at LI because she still places the blame on the dude.
 
The end. Legacy have a 45% approval rate. Still cool by me. Make sure I'm PM'ed first when Melon show off dem thang thangs. :yes:

Nnnnnnnoooooo, my brotha, you gotta get your own...:lol:...I already reserved my place in the Mel Titty line. First come, first served. :lol:. Come on Mel, let me get mine so the rest of the people can get those...

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AFAIK nobody is saying the dude knocking the stupid women up isnt at fault. People are saying hes stupid for doing it and the way she raises the kid that he knocked her up with is stupid and irresponsible. People get mad at LI because she still places the blame on the dude.

Yep. While at the same time, taking every effort to minimize (as much as possible) the female's role in the situation (almost to the point of absolution). The simplicity of "If she doesn't give the sorry nigga the pussy, she doesn't get pregnant" evades her. In her mind, such a statement absolves men of their responsibility (something cats have NOT been doing on this board despite claims to the contrary).
 
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Well written.....

What things can't you teach a boy and what things can't I teach a female? Only thing that springs to mind is being able to understand what someone is FEELING, I can read text on what happens to a girl having her period yet I as a male can't relate to what that FEELS like, nor what it feels like to be pregnant or any such female "CONDITION". Other than that what couldn't I possibly teach or explain or break down to a child regardless of their gender?

I can't teach a boy to be a man. You can't teach a girl to be a woman. There's more to raising a woman than just the outer things. Same with a boy into a man. I can't teach him how to think like a man. How to behave like a man. Women shouldn't raise boys by themselves. They invariably develop motivations, and sensibilities like a female. Some guys who don't know the benefit of a real man as a father may get upset about this. But i'm not lying and i'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings. It's just the natural way of things.

I don't swim well, my daughter is a water baby, I could LEARN how to swim better for my kids benefit, it would be far more sensible to let them learn from someone who is far more proficient at swimming. My point is, I can't teach what I don't know personally, there is nothing that prevents me from l;earning what I don't know to teach my child it but it is more optimal for my child to learn things I'm not very good at from someone who is.

This is why my kids had a father. And i'd never have a child without their father. Since he passed, they have ACTIVE uncles, Grandfather, older cousins, Other young men to look up to my husband mentored. All those young fellas looked up to my husband and consider it their personal responsibility to be there for the kids.

You can't learn what can't be taught bo. Don't get me wrong, i know the reality of TODAY. And in TODAY single parenting is just way over reaching dual parenting.

So i applaud single parents who are trying to do everything they CAN to do the best they can.

There is nothing on this earth that I think a woman can teach a child that I cannot, it's all a matter of commitment to do what needs to be done, gender is no barrier.

I disagree. But i admire your gumption. :yes:

Now in Yoruba culture there are things the female is not supposed to do, doesn't mean I couldn't teach my daughter the ritual regardless for knowledge purpose. Again other than things of biological nature, there is nothing seperating us from teaching our children.

In other cultures it's acknowledged that the female has a stronger tie to the spirit realms than males do. Most males. There's males who are just as connected. And i believe that feeling...can't be taught. That's something that can be explained to a female child, and as she grows and matures as her mother i can tell her what to listen for and how to understand what's being said to her. I know these things because i've experienced them myself.

Bobby Fischer's mother comes to mind now that I write this, you should look her up, woman spoke crazy langauages, PHD's, all types of education and had damn near every type of job when he was growing up.

Know all about her, lol My daughter did a paper on him and read his autobiography. She's read his papers and all that jazz.

Now i have to ask, you don't think this was a detriment to Bobby? Growing up pretty shiftless without a father? To me the boy had no balance and no direction. He was a champion grandmaster chess player but over all he was unhappy with life. I'm sorry this isn't happiness to me. And it's unbalanced.

His mother did him no favors. Seemingly.


Blessings to your children BTW.


Thank You! And Blessings and prosperity to you and yours Sir!

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No, never even approached her with it and never said I did.

And if I did and we did, that would be what goes on in my house and would be our business and wouldn't affect you and yours in the least. Stop obsessing about other people's marriages and make your own is straight.
Notice how I never ask you about your situation? It's because I don't give a fuck, my shit is moving along nicely.

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AFAIK nobody is saying the dude knocking the stupid women up isnt at fault. People are saying hes stupid for doing it and the way she raises the kid that he knocked her up with is stupid and irresponsible. People get mad at LI because she still places the blame on the dude.

Cowards aren't accustomed to people pointing the light at their cowardice. Truth hurts.
 
Yep. While at the same time, taking every effort to minimize (as much as possible) the female's role in the situation (almost to the point of absolution). The simplicity of "If she doesn't give the sorry nigga the pussy, she doesn't get pregnant" evades her. In her mind, such a statement absolves men of their responsibility (something cats have NOT been doing on this board despite claims to the contrary).

The simplicity of the females not getting pregnant if "you" were responsible with your sperm....eludes you.
 
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