Again, you can tell a fake smile from a sincere one if you really look. The eyes tell even more. I don't know what else to tell you.
Why Black Men are Dating Other Races
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Again, you can tell a fake smile from a sincere one if you really look. The eyes tell even more. I don't know what else to tell you.
I NEVER SAID THAT!!!! I said that I did not watch the video. I am speaking about men in general who complain about black women being hoodrats, ignorant, etc. and say that they will not date black women because of X, Y and Z. talk about spin
and I have a 3 in 4 chance of running into a liar, abuser, baby momma drama haver, a broke scunt, a thief, a playa, etc.
it works both ways...
But it is acceptable for the black woman to use her past negative experiences to dictate how she deals (or doesnt deal) with me?
Rather hypocritcal, dont you think..
Fellas women have a soldier/hive mentality
Women can speak in broad terms about other women "womanhood"
HIve
Until you call them on something then its
"Oh that may be them, but not me"
Individual Soldier
I don't like those odds either. Where did you pull them from?
sigh......
My kindergarten teacher told me
"nothing gets solved if everybody points fingers"
DO they teach that in the islands?
WHAT?!?!?! Do you not understand what I am typing? I'm starting to think this is an act you are putting up...
I said very specifically that even though I have had negative experiences with black men, I will always be with black men. That is very different from a man who says he has negative experiences with black women and therefore will not date them. mrjody, I can't do this no more
Sorry babe. Not talking to you...I just hit reply on your deal.
I was speaking in general. Wont happen again..
and what are you doing in here right now?
all of it is a 2 way street. ALL OF IT.
people should take every person as an individual and not make broad sweeping generalizations about an entire large group of people based on their experience with one or a few.
and what are you doing in here right now?
all of it is a 2 way street. ALL OF IT.
people should take every person as an individual and not make broad sweeping generalizations about an entire large group of people based on their experience with one or a few.
Youre right sweetie..
Ive made my attempt at reconcilliation for for the year...
Can I have my merit badge now?
Very good vid.
But I fear it is a wasted effort, as the intended audience is unreceptive....
it's hard for everyone to find someone compatible and that is the plain naked truth right there. hopefully someday we will all be linked up and happy.
The thing is, if one doesn't do the things he is speaking about then we just don't fit into the stereotype. All those vids are about a stereotype.
it's hard for everyone to find someone compatible and that is the plain naked truth right there. hopefully someday we will all be linked up and happy.
Youre right.
So until I find my queen, Ill busy myself with her chaimbermaids....
Youre right.
So until I find my queen, Ill busy myself with her chaimbermaids....
at this point I am different. I am holding out for my king. I am tired of pawns.
at this point I am different. I am holding out for my king. I am tired of pawns.
I'am right here.
Youre right.
So until I find my queen, Ill busy myself with her chaimbermaids....
...Unadulterated comedic response at its finest.
No no no, I think you've misunderstood my post. I am in NO way saying that things you're complaining about are inherent in Black women. All I'm saying is that if there is someone who proceeds by the belief that attitude is inherent in Black women and for that reason they don't want to date me, that's fine. I absolutely don't believe that's the case, but it takes way too much effort to convince people who are firm in their beliefs otherwise. Besides, I've always learned that actions speak louder than words, so I'd rather be an example of a Black woman that doesn't have an attitude or whatever the negative belief is, than spend my life speaking words to convince the man.
The point I was making is that if Joe Schmo isn't going to date me, I'm not going to cry and claim all ninjas aint shit. I'm going to keep doing me and eventually I will find a Black man who appreciates what I have to offer, as I will him, and that will be a good day.
So finally, can the two be seperated? Of course. The fact of the matter is that they don't necessairly always come together in the first place.
I did not see the attitude in her post at all
She said if one man doesn't want her she doesn't care cause theres another one who will and there are plenty of black men who love black women.
Please point out the "attitude"
To me she is very positive as opposed to "there are no good men out there" which many many females feel is the case.
Thanks girl!
lol @ this topic and all responses! Black men are dating other races because they can; it's that simple. My observation has been that the more educated a black man is, and the more varied his options, the more likely it is that he will date outside of his race. It's not my preference to date outside, but I can understand the argument some of my friends make; the socio-economic advantages of dating outside [particularly a white woman] are VERY real.Similar threads
