Why are age gap relationships frowned upon but sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships are not?
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Because women have the illusion of "control" in the sugar daddy relationship.
The benefits are seen as transactional....instant gratification.
The reward outweighs the risk.
Age-gap relationships are actual relationships.
Like all relationships, they involve work and expectations from both sides.
There are more risks involved.
In other words, a woman could leave an age-gap relationship empty-handed or worse with a new burden.
The benefits are seen as transactional....instant gratification.
The reward outweighs the risk.
Age-gap relationships are actual relationships.
Like all relationships, they involve work and expectations from both sides.
There are more risks involved.
In other words, a woman could leave an age-gap relationship empty-handed or worse with a new burden.
The difference between the those types of relationships is generally about one thing:
Money.
In my mind, I see them as:
#1. Sugar Daddy/Sugar Momma relationships.
They are defined by wealth and status. The younger person is with the older person primarily because they're either kept, their lives are being financed or they're being well paid. (Hollyweird/billionaires/sport figures)
#2. Middle Age Player/Cougar relationships.
They tend to be more frowned upon because society views them as predatory or as "cradle robbing" for the older person and "gold digging" for the younger. (Retired athletes/models, older celebrities, online influencers)
#3. Lastly, there are the May/December relationships.
They are real, however, they simply make people feel uncomfortable because the age gap is just too great and people can't see pass it or fail to see what the parties involved have in common. (The rest of society...)
Money.
In my mind, I see them as:
#1. Sugar Daddy/Sugar Momma relationships.
They are defined by wealth and status. The younger person is with the older person primarily because they're either kept, their lives are being financed or they're being well paid. (Hollyweird/billionaires/sport figures)
#2. Middle Age Player/Cougar relationships.
They tend to be more frowned upon because society views them as predatory or as "cradle robbing" for the older person and "gold digging" for the younger. (Retired athletes/models, older celebrities, online influencers)
#3. Lastly, there are the May/December relationships.
They are real, however, they simply make people feel uncomfortable because the age gap is just too great and people can't see pass it or fail to see what the parties involved have in common. (The rest of society...)
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People look down at both.. more people probably look at the sugar daddy situation as some sucker/fool with a gold digging/ prostitute .... More dudes would give you props for being a older dude that can get younger pussy cause they feeling you than cause the broad is using you as a piggy bank... Don't get it twisted if you an older cat that can get some young pussy cause you piping it right other broads would be curious about you to cause the easiest way to pussy is through other pussy
then if that’s the case the younger women that are also grossed out by it why do they hate it?Women hate it; men congratulate it. If I took you to a garage and showed you a Honda, Mercedes and a Roll Royce and told you the payment is $500 no matter which car you choose…that’s why old bitches hate it.
Because we are conditioned never to question power.
Old pervs and Greedy Hoes
Ninja, reading that sentence took me to dark place.
I added commas for you. I think, based on what think you asked, why do young girl hate gap relationships. And, if that’s what you’re asking, it’s because young women don’t WANT an older man, just his resources and protection. Most likely won’t have to work. Young girls aren’t so much “into” older men, they appreciate his style, what’s he’s built, his knowledge, and the soft life off being with him. They don’t dream about it, they accept it because the dudes they get wet for cannot provide shit but a wet ass and they’re tired of that being all it is with them.There are hella risks being in a sugar daddy relationship. I would argue that it’s the opposite.
Most sugar daddies are married. And the sugar baby is a side thing. The risks are extremly great if the wife ever finds out. Or if the man suspects the woman is going to tell the wife. You have vindictive sugar daddies how do we not remember about P Diddy & Cassie? It definitely ain’t all fun and sweet and glamour and lights as it seems.
If a man has money and is over paying for pussy he is the one that has control.
Steve McNair was playing his sugar baby side bitch.
Buy her a luxury car and you pay for her car payments. And if she act up stop paying cuz you know with her job as a waitress she can’t keep paying for that brand new Counthach
Don’t fat women with money get preyed on though? By dusty bums that need a place to stay and only own a X Box 360 & PS 2?
tons of women are actually legit getting preyed on. Nurses are also…..to me the easiest women to prey on and manipulate are single mothers.
I don’t understand how dating someone younger could be seen as prey and more or less then other women
There are women who don’t want an older man or his resources that think it is gross.
Ninja, reading that sentence took me to dark place.
How is a man 40 dating 25 year old bad. But 40 year old man goes to strip club and is in the presence of naked women some whom are as young as 17 19 22 lusting after them then all of a sudden it is ok.
Fat women with money are the outlier not the rule.
For every Precious there’s 1.4 billion younger girls with nothing to offer but beauty and inexperience.
Percentage wise, it’s far more easier and commonplace for young girls to be preyed on than Nurses, Single Mothers, Lizzo’s etc
Well if we using precious as an example most black women are overweight and closer to precious then they are to Kelly Rowland.
For every 2 million preciousness there are maybe 20,000 Kelly rowlands. Most women regardless of race are not beautiful. Avg looking is most women.
But in terms of the word prey….which I do think there are men that prey on young girls. R Kelly was one of them and you could clearly see those girls were brainwashed.
I don’t think they are the easiest to prey on and brainwash.
There are tons of preciousness out here. Tons of hopeless romantic women that think all men are gay or in jail and will do anything to keep a man even letting them abuse their kids.
So if it is all about brain washing then I don’t think young women are the easiest targets. Men who use women for their money are not going to prey on younger women. They are gonna prey in older women.
They want the wet ass though. Probably as much as we want to feel their ocean.
Ninja, reading that sentence took me to dark place.
When did wanting a submissive woman become a crime? Cuz that is what it sound like.
Submissive women are easier to mold……but what is wrong with molding a woman if you are exceptionally mature?
If you get your woman to convert religions isn’t that molding and manipulating?
Rather you convert her to carbon nation or the fruit of Islam. It still is molding.
Hell none of nature boy wives were significantly younger than him. But he preyed on women with daddy issues.
Lets not use the predator and prey analogy because it reduces all of these behaviors to animalistic behaviors which has a historical negative connotation.
I hate people who dumb themselves down
Men prey on younger women due to their ignorance and “innocence.”
Nobody, en masse, is preying on Precious.
Who do you think the song “Bills Bills Billls”
Is talking about? That has never been a new phenomenon of men searching for independent career women to leachh off of .
And normally these be the “miss independent HR boss chick” that is fat or built weird with no butt and stretch marks.
Why you think more women now then ever are the bread winner in households despot men still earn more then women?
It’s cute , cool and sexy when the old ass bitch has a 20 something year old on her arm , they even get playful names like cougar. But when a man does it he’s a pedophile weirdo that needs to date someone his age. I’ve seen people on line call 40 year old men perverts for fucking 25 year olds. Shits out of hand
They are frowned upon also
I think power dynamics more so come into play today.
If it's an older man, it's viewed as you taking advantage of a naive woman. Normally, the opposite is never viewed this way because men are viewed as dominant over women. Younger women are looked at negatively if the man is extremely old. (Anna Nicole Smith for example) at this point, the man is viewed as feeble.
As of late, we've seen this change for older women that date younger wealthy men. The only way I can understand why the man's finances would matter factor in is it isn't a mutual relationship. The women is using her years of experience to take away the naive younger man's money. If the woman is wealthy, the man is providing his youth no different than younger women. I don't understand why money equals man being naive and broke not so much but ....
I've seen parents of boys/younger men get upset about them dating older women.
Already was said but one is transactional. Under the best conditions both parties agree to sex or whatever for money. It shouldn't be an emotional attachment. The balance of power is mutual.
The other one gives the appearance of you taking advantage of someone lacking the experience to make informed decisions. Back in the day, people didn't use the term grooming. They would say you have to mode a woman. Potentially, you are manipulating the girl into something like threesoms. The girl wasn't bi, but you convinced her that this is what women do for the men they love. She wants to please you, so she complies. Worse case, it turns to the extreme of the Diddy shit. In general, the man is looked at as more knowledgeable, so the girl trust the man's guidance/decisions. Opposed to someone closer to her age who she'd likely challenge ideas that are presented to her.
The other one gives the appearance of you taking advantage of someone lacking the experience to make informed decisions. Back in the day, people didn't use the term grooming. They would say you have to mode a woman. Potentially, you are manipulating the girl into something like threesoms. The girl wasn't bi, but you convinced her that this is what women do for the men they love. She wants to please you, so she complies. Worse case, it turns to the extreme of the Diddy shit. In general, the man is looked at as more knowledgeable, so the girl trust the man's guidance/decisions. Opposed to someone closer to her age who she'd likely challenge ideas that are presented to her.
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