What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth?

[Brigade4Radiant]

So here's the situation my friend has a daughter that is 24 she has an ok job that pays around $16 bucks and hour she got pregnant by her boyfriend but they split before she gives birth. My friend then babysits his six month old grand son for a month so she can go to school but she meets a new guy from school guy and about 1 month later she is pregnant and she wants to keep the baby. She told him she was on the pill but it failed.

Would you not support her at all? Would you let her stay at your place when she has to take maternity leave?

Have any of you guys been in a similar situation?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Does she need financial support?

Did she not become a daughter anymore?

 

[worldclass45]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

shit my Daughter is 24
she already knows if she gets pregnant
and she isn't married
she got`s to go live somewhere else.
told her that one week after she had her first period.

it may sound mean but she hasn't brought home any baby's

 

[keone]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

throw her off a bridge

 

[Brigade4Radiant]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Does she need financial support?

Did she not become a daughter anymore?

Yes she will need it. Not that it matters but in this case she is not your flesh and blood she is the daughter of another man but when you married her moms she you took care of her.

 

[Brigade4Radiant]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Does she need financial support?

Did she not become a daughter anymore?

Yes she will need it. Not that it matters but in this case she is not your flesh and blood she is the daughter of another man but when you married her moms she you took care of her. You do have two other daughters that are younger though.

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

whaa da fuck you mean what would you do?


Id let her know if she needs any advice or assistance I am

here, but If you think Im going to be running a 24 hr daycare center

you are out of your mind..

and If she wants to still go clubbing before the children hit 13,


then she is on her own...

she gave up that clubbing life temporarily untill her children become more independent....

most young mothers want to live their life and try to raise a child in between..

recipe for failure!!!



Let her know you are here to help, not provide live in nanny services..

too many young mothers got it twisted when it comes to grandparenthhood..


I dont even have children yet..


but Im ready mentally physically and working on their college tuition now...

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

whaa da fuck you mean what would you do?


Id let her know if she needs any advice or assistance I am

here, but If you think Im going to be running a 24 hr daycare center

you are out of your mind..

and If she wants to still go clubbing before the children hit 13,


then she is on her own...

she gave up that clubbing life temporarily untill her children become more independent....

most young mothers want to live their life and try to raise a child in between..

recipe for failure!!!



Let her know you are here to help, not provide live in nanny services..

too many young mothers got it twisted when it comes to grandparenthhood..


I dont even have children yet..


but Im ready mentally physically and working on their business startup or college tuition right now...

 

[rph2005]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

whaa da fuck you mean what would you do?


Id let her know if she needs any advice or assistance I am

here, but If you think Im going to be running a 24 hr daycare center

you are out of your mind..

and If she wants to still go clubbing before the children hit 13,


then she is on her own...

she gave up that clubbing life temporarily untill her children become more independent....

most young mothers want to live their life and try to raise a child in between..

recipe for failure!!!



Let her know you are here to help, not provide live in nanny services..

too many young mothers got it twisted when it comes to grandparenthhood..


I dont even have children yet..


but Im ready mentally physically and working on their business startup or college tuition right now...

what he said. and she better not think i'm gonna be giving her physical cash. everything the babies need, i'm buying and bringing over myself.

 

[Rick Spanish]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

shit my Daughter is 24
she already knows if she gets pregnant
and she isn't married
she got`s to go live somewhere else.
told her that one week after she had her first period.

it may sound mean but she hasn't brought home any baby's

Gotdamn, how old are you niggas?... Old bastards on here got kids my age and shit.

 

[Heavenlywings77]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Depends, if it's by the same guy I'd only be upset if they weren't good finance wise. If it's by another guys idk cause that would never happen to me.

 

[II Dxnum]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

And it's not even his biological seed.

She's 24 and she has a decent paying job. She's on her own.

Keep enabling her and who knows how many baby daddies she'll have by the time she's 30.

And don't feel too bad for her. Some simp will save her like her step-daddy saved her mom.

 

[Esther]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

I would cut the person off.

 

[PrettyToney]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Sounds like your friend didn't give enough "family planning" talks to his daughter...how these women out here just have babies for these niggas with no rhyme or reason these days is absolutely beyond me.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

If you label a $16 a job a good job , and your daughter is letting some young goon from her class knock her up after one month, well, you, um, need to have the birds and tbe bees talk again.

 

[PrettyToney]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

If you label a $16 a job a good job , and your daughter is letting some young goon from her class knock her up after one month, well, you, um, need to have the birds and tbe bees talk again.

This.

 

[Flawless]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Lay down some rules. I'm no baby sitter and if you live in my house you live by my rules curfew and all

 

[junyloko]

throw her off a bridge

Bro you need help hahahahaha



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[tallblacknyc]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

blood is blood so gotta watch over them no matter what..but the real situation is why is shorty using the pill like it can prevent std's..why is this broad so quick to go raw..what failed operation of sex and protection did ur boy preach to this girl

 

[Coldchi]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

im in that boat now.......gettin her tubes tied after that baby drops in October.

 

[tallblacknyc]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

im in that boat now.......gettin her tubes tied after that baby drops in October.

damn homie 1 and done...what if the kid get lonely and wants a sibling..only child poor kid

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Sounds like your friend didn't give enough "family planning" talks to his daughter...how these women out here just have babies for these niggas with no rhyme or reason these days is absolutely beyond me.

I think (and I hope) the young goon story isnt true. I hope she let the original baby daddy hit it instead of random stranger off the street.

If I was the step daddy, I would put her ass on birth control and treat her little hot ass like a teenager.

I knew a bitch that had 3 kids by 3 different men by the time she was 21. Broad was trifling.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

im in that boat now.......gettin her tubes tied after that baby drops in October.

Damn, your friend putting your bidness out on front street.

 

[Brother Blues]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Once is a mistake....twice is a pattern.

She would be on her own....I would not be able to look at her without seeing failure.

Both hers and mine...even tho I know,sometimes there is nothing you can do.

 

[8/11Streetz]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

so she think birth control protects her from std's to i assume.........................



she probably got more problems in her panties then you know about but anyway she sounds very irresponsible. Its a reason why they say use condoms with BC just in case shit like this.


I mean damn it sounds like she make it a habit of letting niggaz bust in her. Some where down the line somebody failed man.

 

[Coldchi]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

damn homie 1 and done...what if the kid get lonely and wants a sibling..only child poor kid

she's learning the hard way.........told her life is about priorities...
she's barely back on her feet, and right now i gotta pay her bills and car note
until she's back able to do everything herself.
the nigga she pregnant by dont do shit.....so i told em he's not allowed over to her apartment.
and since she lives 3 mins away from me and i got a key to her place....i go by there
randomly almost every damn day to make sure that nigga dont go over there and try
to post up. even when she's at work.....i go by her crib to make sure that nigga aint up in there.
the lil fuck nigga didnt even have the nerve to come see me after he got her pregnant....
took 5 months before he even showed up to introduce himself to me. told em all his privileges are revoked.
i really feel like sprinklin some crack in his car and callin the cops.

 

[Brigade4Radiant]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

The guy who knocked her up is a physician assistant he makes good money like 80k

 

[II Dxnum]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

i really feel like sprinklin some crack in his car and callin the cops.

 

[godofwine]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Bitches always want to keep the baby. My sister in law wanted to keep the baby. I asked her 3 months after she had the bastard and she said that she wished she'd have gotten an abortion.

Part of the issue is weight. If I gave you 200 pounds and said, "Carry this. You fucked up and have no choice in the matter," you would carry it. If I made you pay me whenever you wanted to temporarily relieve yourself of the 200 pound burden and ONLY temporarily and ONLY while doing productive assignments (i.e. work/school), the benefit of that deal is you are still wholly responsible for the entirety of that 200 pounds & You would be much less likely to mess up and incur another 200 pounds.

The problem with "helping" a child who got knocked up is that you are relieving them of a good portion, maybe even the majority of the weight, dropping the 200 pounds down to like 20. Holding 20 pounds is like holding no weight at all.

Holding the entire weight 95% of your free time is a constant reminder of how heavy that shit is. I ain't watching the kid just because I'm home, I'm not watching the kid cuz I ain't doing nothing - which is exactly what I want to be doing - NOTHING, I'm not watching the kid so you can go on a date. - NOPE.

By lightening the burden, the girl forgot how heavy that shit is, and how much of a burden that shit is and thus is more likely to think, "Hey, this ain't really all that hard" and so make another mistake causing more weight to be thrown on it.

That bitch got most, if not all of the weight removed and therefore forgot how heavy that shit was and created more weight to be thrown on top of it.

I'm not helping out much. Her life. She fucked it up. She's getting out of my house. Somebody said, "Some where down the line somebody failed man." The only person who failed is her. Now she is a 2 time single mother with 2 baby daddies who ain't there. You can lead a horse to water...you know the rest.

 

[smiffnwessun]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

I always find it funny when dudes be thinking their is some tough love way of making young women make better decisions.....my homeboy sister is college educated always keep a good job goes out and picks up some no good small time drug dealer then lets this scum bag get her pregnant.....my partner comes to the crib and this dude got his feet up on the couch with a bowl of cereal watching cartoons...my homeboy starts wailing on dude because he heard dude been beating up his sister too...can you believe his sister jumps on his back after calling the cops telling him to leave dude alone........these broads are nuts!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Yes she will need it. Not that it matters but in this case she is not your flesh and blood she is the daughter of another man but when you married her moms she you took care of her.

I know men who wen they marry the wifes kids become their kids and they love them like so.

I personally feel that's just what should be done. My friends kids i consider mine. So... depends on what kind of dude he is i guess.

Is she HIS daughter? Does he see her as such? And then if he turns his back on her will he feel culpable for whatever happens to her?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

she's learning the hard way.........told her life is about priorities...
she's barely back on her feet, and right now i gotta pay her bills and car note
until she's back able to do everything herself.
the nigga she pregnant by dont do shit.....so i told em he's not allowed over to her apartment.
and since she lives 3 mins away from me and i got a key to her place....i go by there
randomly almost every damn day to make sure that nigga dont go over there and try
to post up. even when she's at work.....i go by her crib to make sure that nigga aint up in there.
the lil fuck nigga didnt even have the nerve to come see me after he got her pregnant....
took 5 months before he even showed up to introduce himself to me. told em all his privileges are revoked.
i really feel like sprinklin some crack in his car and callin the cops.

My bro's pops told me "fatherin don't end at 21" Glad to see you believe that too.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

I always find it funny when dudes be thinking their is some tough love way of making young women make better decisions.....my homeboy sister is college educated always keep a good job goes out and picks up some no good small time drug dealer then lets this scum bag get her pregnant.....my partner comes to the crib and this dude got his feet up on the couch with a bowl of cereal watching cartoons...my homeboy starts wailing on dude because he heard dude been beating up his sister too...can you believe his sister jumps on his back after calling the cops telling him to leave dude alone........THATbroad is nuts!

Fixed. For accuracy.

 

[TheAlias]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

damn homie 1 and done...what if the kid get lonely and wants a sibling..only child poor kid

Don't know about that, jack. What if she matures into a responsible adult and decides she wants to reproduce again? That is what you want to eventually happen, right? Don't take away that option. She has to know there is a possibility for a brighter future conducive to wanting kids.

 

[ApexV]

Re: What would you do if your daughter got pregnant again 6 months after giving birth

Gotdamn, how old are you niggas?... Old bastards on here got kids my age and shit.

You better hope you keep living talking that bullshit.