Things Are Never As Good As It Seems! There Is More To This Story!
What makes you men happy?
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Things Are Never As Good As It Seems! There Is More To This Story!
Am I the only one that caught this shit?!
For all ya'll newbs, this cat been at this shit for years now. Everybody got his ass on igg, so don't quote the muthafucka or we'll see that twisted shit we never wanted to see in the first place. And put the fag on igg.
aka THE PACKAGE
Your basically saying, if woman is satisfying more of a mans needs than the average chick, why would he go and fuck it up?
This is classic sociology. Thats not my field but, sociologist Maslow an Hertzberg wrote extensively about satisfying needs.
to summarize and put into context.
Theres a Hierarchy of Needs. Basically, once the lower needs are satisfied. The desire for high needs will increase.
heres an example of the typical hierarchy of needs for a brotha. Some could be pushed up or down in ranking.
1. I need some pussy. I got to go out a get some phone numbers, every weekend until I find a decent chick thats gone give me some pussy.
2. I getting pussy but now I need a chick that look good, not just average.
3. O.K. I got a good looking chick, I'm getting pussy but now I need a bad one.
4. I got a bad chick, but now I need a bad chick who has a better personality, the chick is getting on my nerves.
5. I got some (physically) wifey material but she be talking that marriage shit. I need a chick that ain't gonna pressure me. I just trying to take my time. I tired of hearing these ultimatums and shit.
6. Damn. This girl is the one. But as soon as I into a serious relationship all the chicks wanna be on a brotha. I can even lie, baby treats me like a king, holds me down and all, but shit, I all ready proved I could tame her. I need some new excitement, a new challenge. I wish she would let me doe a threesome but I know she ain't havin it..Damn. That chick from Accounting be breaking her neck every time I hit the copy machine. Ima start a conversation with her if I ever catch her in the elevator or something. I wonder what she talking about.
At that point, it could be your friend, his coworker, that waitress that keeps staring.
The fact is you can't totally satisfy a guy to the point that he won't cheat. Even if he depends you financially and won't be shit without you, he still may cheat. The needs never stop appearing. That why Bill Gates and the Warren Buffet get up early and go to work everyday even though they couldn't spend all the money they had in their natural lives.
As men we have to fight our animal side 24/7 because as soon as we get serious, bitches wanna start flirting. Thats why I have the utmost respect for faithful brothas, because opportunities to cheat always arise when you trying to do the right thing.
A word of advice. Never give anybody 100% trust. Save that 5% as reserve for that rainy day when you smell perfume that ain't yours on your man.
As for me. Its 2007. Ain't shit can shock me. As many chicks I done fucked that had boyfriends, I don't trust nobody. Nobody.
No, Ima redbone.
O Okay.
Welcome then.
With a name like that I thought your profile would have a pic of your legz tho lol.
Indeed. I can't really trust most chicks anyways because I've also borrowed a few girlfriends in my life. Their reason for getting with me were simple things. I've even had some who had boyfriends and said "you coulda hit whenever, he ain't mean shit." All that was described sounds good, but even with all of that, a dude could and will get bored.
BIG DEAL!!!!
Your sex is good. Nice. And what does good pussy get you? Asking questions like the one that you posed here on BGOL.
What does having all those qualities get you, when you dealt with someone like you previously discribed? Disloyality and non-appreciation. That's what.
You can have a cape cummin' outta your vagina and it means N-O-T-H-I-N-G!!!
It only means something if you have the right one in your life. Bottomline. He was not the right one.
Get over it.
A man can have the biggest dick, but...if he is a piece of shit and he scores a chick that has something worth while about her...that shit ain't gonna last either...Like I said before it goes both ways!!!
Here is a question for you:
If you got a "replacement", why do you care about the last cat?
Unless your ego is involved, which is the case most of the times.
A buncha cats on this board can tell you about a chick that they was with that perform magical blowjobs on them...
...and they can also tell you about why it did not work out...myself included.The bottomline is: To thy ownself be true.
If you stick with that, no matter what, you will be good.
From one New Yorker to another.
Be good![/FONT]
Nope Wrong...I put him out already. He's gone. But I love that man, and miss that man! :-( Not going back though, cause I know that tells him that it is o.k. to disrespect me. It's not o.k. I can't tolerate it. I was faithful to his sorry ass and there was no reason why he couldn't have been to me too. I just wanted to know what makes y'all happy cause I don't wanna go through this painful Bull Shit again!
Sorry for your pain, the dude from up top was right on. We are not ready to commit until were fully ready to commit. Some women know this and look the other way when they have a dude worth keeping.
Maybe he wasnt for you, we only stop hunting for a little while, rather your Oprah Winfrey or Dominique Daws we will always be interested in fucking something else until we reach that point of control and Maturity.
Rule #1 Take care of Home
#2 Strap and Secure rule #1
I would say something corny like baby "you need Me in your life", but that shit aint true, Successful women like yourself come Dime a Dozen and at times we want to fuckem all!!! Thats just the way it is right now.
Maybe he wasnt for you, we only stop hunting for a little while, rather your Oprah Winfrey or Dominique Daws we will always be interested in fucking something else until we reach that point of control and Maturity.
Rule #1 Take care of Home
#2 Strap and Secure rule #1
I would say something corny like baby "you need Me in your life", but that shit aint true, Successful women like yourself come Dime a Dozen and at times we want to fuckem all!!! Thats just the way it is right now.
Love Is Pain, quit thinking that it won't be. Quit saying what you won't do, because in the end you will be doing that shit again. Like I said earlier, you being faithful at that point in the relationship was your choice, you made that. You can't expect him to do as you at the very same time. With a guy, it will usually all fall in place but before it does, the woman usually bounce out on some ultimatum shit. Love WILL NOT HAPPEN AT THE SAME TIME! If he had hoes at your house that's one thing but if you are PI number 1 then you'll get that from the next dude. My thing is this is you like somebody, like em, other than that, all that other shit is a circumstantial relationship. When you settle for less in a man that you may not like as much and he does the same, then you are back at square one. I know most don't wanna hear that shit but its true. Women play the same games with "unchosen guys", but expect the guys they choose to give up all their options in life at the drop of that woman's dime because she says I want you right now or else.........You will have some pain in relationship, bottom line!
What makes me happy is effort. Effort to grow in every aspect of life. I hate fine ass chicks with good jobs and good pussy, but won't step their game up reading, financially, socially, nothing.....just fine with good pussy! That's leaves a lot of broads out in the cold! They the first ones on tv and radio crying they come to the table with all the shit you listed, but she is nothing like what the public sees. Sweatpants, curlers, mean ass mugg, friends ain't shit, still trying to hoe out when she got a man, all that simp shit. A real man want a woman who knows she is on point, not fooling everybody outside the house to "beleive" she is on point.
Last point: look, dress, and carry yourself like a lady. Not a hoodrat, hoe or sneaker queen. Buy a dress, kill the everyday sneaks, smile, and just be feminine. Too many black chicks are only feminine out, or at work, then when they get home they walking around in your old sweatpants and tube socks, mad cuz you don't want to fuck a Tupac look-a-like...but she fine, with a good job, and suck good dick...but she's a boy! Be a lady.
Last point: look, dress, and carry yourself like a lady. Not a hoodrat, hoe or sneaker queen. Buy a dress, kill the everyday sneaks, smile, and just be feminine. Too many black chicks are only feminine out, or at work, then when they get home they walking around in your old sweatpants and tube socks, mad cuz you don't want to fuck a Tupac look-a-like...but she fine, with a good job, and suck good dick...but she's a boy! Be a lady.
You described the girl im with now in the second paragraph and I'm NOT gonna mess around on her! I hope that answers your question.
these niggas in here ain't keepin it real with u. you don't wanna go through that bull shit again, listen to me. i'mma let you in on a little secret that most nigga wont tell you. hypothetically, if i were your man, and you caught me cheating, it would make me happy if instead of arguing about it, you would just shut da fuck up, and go fix me a sandwich!!! this is between me and you, don't tell nobody i told you this.
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Baby girl, you got yo answer. listen to these niggaz. these niggaz dumb and weak. these niggaz think with they dicks because they weak. like is aint easy to go out and fuck some hoe. being faithful takes strenght and commitment. and it aint in a lot of these clowns, male and female. it aint you, it's them and aint shit you can do but press on. fuck that nigga.
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get the fuck outta here with this shit boo. they tell you that shit cause they want to fuck you. niggaz like as many bitchz as they can. you gettin gamed on. get ya weight up.
baby girl, you got your answer. don't listen to these niggas. these niggas are simps, and lames. these nigga don't get no pussy, so as soon they're lucky enough to smell some pussy, they will literally build you a pedestal. for these niggas, getting pussy is like when da Minister lay his hands on da dude in da wheelchair, and all out da blue that nigga hop out da chair, and start running around da church, "IT'S A MIRACLE!!!". yes baby girl, it's a mafuckin miracle. that nigga ain't going nowhere, cuz you da only chic that want him. it's them and aint shit you can do but press on.
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Where's TRUFICTION when you need 'em, lol!
Anyway, there are only 2 types of men and women; strong and weak.
90 % of men and women live THROUGH their LIBIDO
That other 10 % IS IN CONTROL of their libido.
Figure out which one best describes you. THEN and ONLY then can you stand at the edge of the looking glass.
That's all for now grasshopper . . . UNTIL I see evidence that YOU ARE NOT A DUDE.
* NOTE: KILL IT WITH ALL THE BROAD STROKES AND GENERALIZATIONS
YOU FOLKS AND ME, WE ARE NOT THE SAME
JG
Anyway, there are only 2 types of men and women; strong and weak.
90 % of men and women live THROUGH their LIBIDO
That other 10 % IS IN CONTROL of their libido.
Figure out which one best describes you. THEN and ONLY then can you stand at the edge of the looking glass.
That's all for now grasshopper . . . UNTIL I see evidence that YOU ARE NOT A DUDE.
* NOTE: KILL IT WITH ALL THE BROAD STROKES AND GENERALIZATIONS
YOU FOLKS AND ME, WE ARE NOT THE SAME
JG
This is one side to a 3 sided story, so...........
Sounds like a man whoose woman gave him all the rope....and he ended up hanging himself with it. Most people don't and have never dealt with someone who is considered "too good to be true" because either they've never experienced it before and mistake your kindness for weaknessor just too immature to embrace it.
To find a person who is a reflection of you is very hard to find...you would have to go through trial and error till you meet someone who can understand and give u back the same or even more then u gave....
Never change who u are, just makeadjustments according to the men u meet.
Notall men are looking for something just physical, there are some men out there who have been through the bullshit and are just looking to be happy and make the woman in hislife just as if not more
i already told you...we all told you...and after this, you still do not get it??? C'mon!
Yeah...MRUTERUSKNOCKER!
Wait....WHAT? I remember that post, but what?
How Did You Get That?
^^^hahahaha.
U DID NOT SAY THE MAJIC 4 WORDS.....When I don't feel like arguing. SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!!! If it ain't been posted yet/
bmup?????