Very simple...If this is you (the female)...and you are doing all that for your man and you are all that and he has cheated on you...the answer is very simple...Your man is a selfish, immature person.
Bottomline. No math there. Selfish.
And it goes both ways...A man can be all that to a woman and she will fuck around...and when she does, she does it for a dumb reason. And alot of times that reason is that there is no kinda drama in their life and that she is bored and shit...I know brothers that have been good to their women and the woman does something stupid...And I am talking mature, strong men...NOT FAGS. It is not a man or woman thing...It is the person....They are immature or have issues that take precedent in their lives where they cannot see you for who you are and appreciate it...Bottomline.
You have women that go with other women and they say that the reason is that they cannot deal with men...but they deal with the HARDEST looking women...women that look like men and strap on dildo's and shit...They do not want a man because of whatever, but will go with a chick that looks like a trucker driver?!?
It's issues...Bottomline...Issues. Nothing more.
What anyone (man/woman) has to decide is this:
If you want a relationship, have one with yourself first. And make it a good one.
Know yourself first.
Then when you get in a relationship, know what you will accept and what you want and go from there.
We all will bend here and there for ones that we love...but when the shit gets thick and you take a stand and nothing changes and you are still getting disrespect or whatever....
Bounce.
You can be unhappy by yourself...
Fuck that.
I'm done.




This right here, is good advice...this brotha's preachin' indeed!