What is the biggest problem with being in a relationship with a single mother?
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That's actually a big problem and it sucks.
I have a homie who was with a woman for years, lived together and talked about getting married. He had kids, she had kids and they were attached.
The minute they broke up, it like they never knew that nigga.
if they broke...numerous. if not broke, dealing with one on one time together since kids are around, having to treat the kids as yours, if she is a good mother she will make it work out for the both of u
The answer is in the question, you're dealing with their kids or the effects of them having kids and no it's not selfish if you avoid dating somebody with kids for men and women alike. It will never be ideal and I'm speaking from experience. If you single without kids, make your own family.
PS, I'm not shitting on no step-dads.
PS, I'm not shitting on no step-dads.
We're heterosexual men, we have no idea nor think about what women deal with when dating a single Father with kids Playboi.Same issues as when a woman is in a relationship with a single father raising his children...
The bitch is just bullshit.
This.
trying to plan a date with a woman that has young children can be almost damn near impossible if she cant find a sitter.
if the children are clingy.....good luck trying to have alone time if you're at her crib.
If the children are bad.........................THEY WILL TEAR UP YO SHIT.
if the children are clingy.....good luck trying to have alone time if you're at her crib.
If the children are bad.........................THEY WILL TEAR UP YO SHIT.
Depending on your age I dont think its too bad.
I mean I wouldnt date one, but I am still in my 30's. If you reach 40's and up you should probably expect that from age appropriate women.
Long as she has a good head on her shoulders I dont see the issue. Probably no interaction with the kid is best unless you two get super serious. You dont want to be the guy who comes around to "smash mom".
Other baby daddies for sure. My BMs has 4 kids with 3 men. I have two with her. Her other two both tried to beef with me. Mainly because she fucked with me the most. After they were done....they were done. I continued to smash on and off for years after breakup. They were both typical fake Milwaukee street niggas. Talking all that shit but never even looking my way when in person. Shit was funny, but annoying.
If the kid(s) are middle/high-school aged..even worse
Bee Bee kids
The kids are there 417 days a year and you get absolutely no alone time with her. If she's not a woman who believes bedtimes are for parents and lets her kids go to bed whenever they feel like it chalk it up.
If she believes in bedtimes for kids there's a chance that you can have some alone time with JUST her.
If she believes in bedtimes for kids there's a chance that you can have some alone time with JUST her.
The biggest problem dating a single mom? If she has 1 child -- her child! If she has 2 or more -- her children! I could do a "Colin-Powell-type-treatise" on dating/marrying (2X) single women with kids but I don't want to get clowned!
Dr. Spock -- the world-renowned child-raising expert -- married a woman with a daughter. That little brat gave his azz a run for his money! Dr. Spock -- the expert on raising kids -- had to go to a counselor to learn to deal with someone else's spawn!
Dr. Spock -- the world-renowned child-raising expert -- married a woman with a daughter. That little brat gave his azz a run for his money! Dr. Spock -- the expert on raising kids -- had to go to a counselor to learn to deal with someone else's spawn!
Been through the last minute change of plans thing. Thats is the worst
You gave us nothing but that she’s a single parent.. do you have kids? How many kids does she have? How old is her kid or kids? How old is she? How old are you? Are ya just talking or are ya serious? How’s her finances? How’s your finances? How’s her personality?.. lot of these play a factor plus lots more
There are many single fathers raising children and who are in relationships with women who don't have children themselves.We're heterosexual men, we have no idea nor think about what women deal with when dating a single Father with kids Playboi.
But the fact that you don’t care nor think about what those women go through to be with those men actually speaks volumes about your character..."playboi".
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