Welp DJ got short time of freedom left, my sentence at Marriage State Correctional starts next month.
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Those "honey do" lists never end. My wife likes to say "we" need to do this, that... but that "we" means me.
I have an full unfinished basement, with a bathroom and shower.
I have been planning my man cave project for as soon as I retire, and this was before I met her.
The latest is I should be working on the basement as an entertainment space for guests a place where her and her friends can hang out drink wine and watch reality tv.
I looked at her like bitch you are crazy. Thats my spot, take your funky ass friends out to the pool house.
Shit been going on almost a month now, and I aint breaking.
Man this brawd stubborn as fuck.
SHe gonna get a one way bus ticket fucking with me.
I ask my wife: "We...what're you French?!?! There is no WE in what is gonna get done!!!"Those "honey do" lists never end. My wife likes to say "we" need to do this, that... but that "we" means me.
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I used to do that, but I find it less of a headache when she doesn't help. Her stop/starting, taking breaks, etc annoys me more than anything.
...I mean SHE has to live there too! Women like comfort, if you aren't making ya'lls home comfortable, she won't want to be there and if you WANT to tell her to leave don't get mad when work husband tells her some shyt that she wants to hear. Not saying give in to whatever she wants, but if she wants to have her friends in your man cave, cool...as long as they don't mind all the velvet pictures of naked ladies, mahogany colored furniture and cognac smell. Compromise! Your friends can come over, but I get to design the room that is meant for me the way I want. But every other room in the house you buggin'.
Yeah, the amount of cussing, yelling that I do in these projects she doesn't want to be around. And keep in mind I am NOT cussing or yelling at her! I do that regardless of who's around due to the task or project I am working on.
Breh we have a pool house, its about the size of a hotel room, like 300 sq ft. with bathroom and shower, cable and internet, heat and air. I used to smoke trees in it when my kids were younger and didnt know what weed is. I been told her she can do whatever she wants in there. Paint the walls pink if she want to. I aint giving up my man cave.
Aint you been married like for eternity or some shit?
I dont think imma qualify for that club.
He fell in love with the side
Bro, why are they always like that? I was recently talking to my ex about rekindling and I showed her the paintings I have put up in the house since she's been gone and she says, "Aww, that would look so nice in your office"
I know ain't no way in hell my centerpiece, the skull of the 13 ft alligator, it's going to stay downstairs underneath the 85" TV. They don't know how to leave shit be. Changing for the sake of change is woman shit
Bro, why are they always like that? I was recently talking to my ex about rekindling and I showed her the paintings I have put up in the house since she's been gone and she says, "Aww, that would look so nice in your office"
I know ain't no way in hell my centerpiece, the skull of the 13 ft alligator, it's going to stay downstairs underneath the 85" TV. They don't know how to leave shit be. Changing for the sake of change is woman shit
When ahe moved in it was me and my 2 daughters. She said oh this house is so manly it don't have a family feel to it. She wanted to make it brighter and showcase her woman's touch, I said do whatever you like. I dont mind her changing shit. My issue is let's go look for paint, let's go look for cabinets, let's go look decorations. I don't give a fuck about any of that, I tell her you go get it, pick what u want, I'll pay. I don't want to be involved, if you like it, I love it. I am easy like that. I don't want to come home from work and go shopping, I don't want to take my weekends and go shopping. Shit if I want a new grill I don't ask her to go with me. Above all don't plan on doing anything in MY basement, it's my retirement project and it's off limits.
Dave Chappelle said the same shit. WE need to talk, means she wants to talk to me about some shit that I need to do. Why doesn't she ever want to talk about some things that she needs to do?Those "honey do" lists never end. My wife likes to say "we" need to do this, that... but that "we" means me.
I am good, it's days I wanna choke her but I don't plan on leaving her. I signed up for a life time, not a good time. Truth be told she is really a good woman and my person, I just think we would be better is she was a mute.
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