Well it was fun while it lasted bye SOL

Right now, we have two boards, with much of the same forums duplicated on both boards, and both boards pretty much fighting for the same set of posters and viewers. What HNIC needs to do is to have an AFL-NFL Style Merger and Realignment:

BGOL

Blackgirl Online
Sistas Online
BGOL Backup Board
LatinaGirl Online
WhiteGirl Online
Fuck Stories
AsianGirl Online
(All will be adult-oriented, all of the porn, cursing, N-word, music and software downloads, etc. everyone wants)
Technical Issues (For issues specific to this board)
Sigs and Graphic Design (can be nude/porn - specific to this board)
Hollywood Movies (Kept on this board as probably not allowed on PG Board)

Note: Politics, Fitness & Health, BGOL BUsiness, Producers Music Lounge, Sports, and Entertainment would be moved and merged within B&S Board.

B&S

BAS Main Lounge
Politics
Sports
Ladies Lounge (PG Version of SOL - strictly ladies' oriented topics - men still invited -- because other topics can fit within the BAS Main Forum)
Producers Music Lounge
Independent CD/DVD Releases
UK Music Scene
Music Charts
Entertainment
Fitness and Health
Business and Networking
Sigs and Graphics
Technical Issues and Support

Basically this sets up two distinct "conferences", the Adult Conference, and the PG Conference. If one wants to talk shit, curse, look at porn, pics etc., do it on the adult side. If one wants to talk on general topics, exchange recipes, etc., do it on the PG side.

I recommend (as I did on the other board) that HNIC import accounts and post counts of posters and others that logged in within past 6 months.

There should be a way if possible that certain posts started on the adult side (say we are discussing the primaries) are transported over and linked to the PG side for a wider discussion (unless the conversation will slip into cursing, N-word calling, etc.)

You are my kind of businessperson, Noir; this model seems great. I don't see why B & S should kill SOL, they do two different things. It's HNIC's business model, and it has been very successful to date, but if SOL is a cost center, so what? I think it's a better value than the WNBA. Here we have a modicum of civility, refined sexuality (cough... DA), acerbic wit, and challenges to duels (Robeson). Where else you gonna find all that shit?
 
BTW, has anyone seen/hear from Femme? She appeared to be in a really fucked up mood in a couple of posts. I'm still a newbie, so folks come and go, I know, but I was used to seeing her chime in on all kinds of shit. Well, hope she's okay.
 
BTW, has anyone seen/hear from Femme? She appeared to be in a really fucked up mood in a couple of posts. I'm still a newbie, so folks come and go, I know, but I was used to seeing her chime in on all kinds of shit. Well, hope she's okay.

She may just be busy and she is not posting over here like she used to.:smh:Miss that girl (sniff)

But just send her a pm to see what she is up to. She is nice and will respond.:D
 
Expound Mo. Your thoughts are always valuable.
This is a worthy discussion and I'm sure HNIC is reading.

Just something HNIC posted on the main board about 2 weeks ago about catching heat and the board not being a money maker.
 
Well give me some tips on how to get there.

I just started meditating again and I can't concentrate.

Too many thoughts.
I have been like that during the past year also due to all the chaos going on. You have to kind of police yourself a bit at first. I do very exaggerated LOOOONG DEEP circular breathing and get really into it. Every time I catch the thoughts coming I kick them out. After a few minutes its easy. You just have to make your breath be the ONLY thing. Once you back to doing that easily then you can add other things.
 
BTW, has anyone seen/hear from Femme? She appeared to be in a really fucked up mood in a couple of posts. I'm still a newbie, so folks come and go, I know, but I was used to seeing her chime in on all kinds of shit. Well, hope she's okay.

I talked to Femme yesterday, she aight. Just doing the work thing and focusing on other shit.
 
I have been like that during the past year also due to all the chaos going on. You have to kind of police yourself a bit at first. I do very exaggerated LOOOONG DEEP circular breathing and get really into it. Every time I catch the thoughts coming I kick them out. After a few minutes its easy. You just have to make your breath be the ONLY thing. Once you back to doing that easily then you can add other things.

This is the same thing the monk tells us. We do it in the form of black smoke. When we breath in we imagine that its a white bright light. My mind always gets clouded with random thoughts most of them have to do with women. :yes:

How do you feel when you finally get your mind clear?

Last time I felt really warm.

 
This is the same thing the monk tells us. We do it in the form of black smoke. When we breath in we imagine that its a white bright light. My mind always gets clouded with random thoughts most of them have to do with women. :yes:

How do you feel when you finally get your mind clear?

Last time I felt really warm.


What kind of monk? Tibetan?
I do the same thing too visualize inhaling light and exhaling all the shit. I blow those thoughts right the fuck out.
I feel relaxed and energized once i get clear. I feel the heat sometimes too.
Also, I get tuned in to every tiny muscle in my body I usually don't feel and everything gets loosened effortlessly.
 
What kind of monk? Tibetan?
I do the same thing too visualize inhaling light and exhaling all the shit. I blow those thoughts right the fuck out.
I feel relaxed and energized once i get clear. I feel the heat sometimes too.
Also, I get tuned in to every tiny muscle in my body I usually don't feel and everything gets loosened effortlessly




Yeah. Tibetan (kadampa)

Once the heat started every thing else went out the window. I was hungry as hell before class started.
once we started to meditate every thing cleared up.
 
Yeah. Tibetan (kadampa)

Once the heat started every thing else went out the window. I was hungry as hell before class started.
once we started to meditate every thing cleared up.

I spent alot of time with the Nyingmapas :)
 
:yes:

I just started learning the history.

But i know that tha's the oldest form and kadampa is a mixture of alot of different teachings. Including Nyingmapas.
I actually never heard of kadampa. Some new school hybrid?
I know Gelupa, Sakya, Kaju and Nyingmapa.
Yeah Nyingmapa came straight out of the Bon. Kind of the sorcerers/rebels of the whole thing.
I actually was fortunate enough to be present with only 30 other people or so on the Dalai Lama's first ever visit to the US at a tiny Buddhist center upstate NY. Was very interesting a cousin of mine was there but I didn't know they were my cousin til 10 years later or more. Also 3 other people from that event live in my tiny country. Kind of wild.
 
I actually never heard of kadampa. Some new school hybrid?
I know Gelupa, Sakya, Kaju and Nyingmapa.
Yeah Nyingmapa came straight out of the Bon. Kind of the sorcerers/rebels of the whole thing.
I actually was fortunate enough to be present with only 30 other people or so on the Dalai Lama's first ever visit to the US at a tiny Buddhist center upstate NY. Was very interesting a cousin of mine was there but I didn't know they were my cousin til 10 years later or more. Also 3 other people from that event live in my tiny country. Kind of wild.



I think that kadampa been around for awhile. But it's been modified for western teaching.

"The New kadampa tradition"

The spot that I go to is small but open. Come and go as you please.

I enjoyed the lessons and the meditation as an introduction, and I was completely comfortable. but the only reason i went to that class was because it was local and in a familiar spot. Like i said earlier I've just started learning the history. I like the traditional classes better. So I'll most likely be attending those classes.

 
BTW, has anyone seen/hear from Femme? She appeared to be in a really fucked up mood in a couple of posts. I'm still a newbie, so folks come and go, I know, but I was used to seeing her chime in on all kinds of shit. Well, hope she's okay.

havent seen her either just hope she is fine and probably just busy with life
 
Why would you have to censor MzKittyDelicious :confused:


because i put myself in the shoes of someone who is reading post at work and their supervisor walks up and see's they are reading a post by "Mz Kitty Delicious"... not a good look. So I toned it down a bit.

However I'm glad you see my screen name as innocent *winks* lollll
 
However I'm glad you see my screen name as innocent *winks* lollll

A few years ago, when a female co-worker told me she had a page at BlackPlanet, I asked what her screen name was. I thought she was so demure and innocent until she sheepishly said something like 'catdaddy694u' :eek: Compared to her, MKD, your name seems quaint... at least to the uninitiated.
 
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