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Each of the above raise interesting questions and we could get into an exchange over any one of them -- they are separate points combining in a larger problem (in my opinion).Makkonnen said:Basically it came out that in the same classrooms our children do poorer due to poor parenting and poor preparation for the academic environment and then when faced with higher levels of teasing and ridicule(starting in the 1st grade) significant barriers form. This along with the cliched truth that black parents only come to school when there is a problem and white parents are there to check up and involved in the PTA etc.
How families discuss things, talk, use ideas and vocabulary also play a heavy part in the lack of preparation are children receive.
Also black students didn't see school as unimportant but began to accept certain copouts as their performance did not improve.
They perceived better prepared whites as being smarter at certain points too.
Black students felt a need to perform well and not embarass their families
Children's attention was also divided amongst different things- time to study/do homework, learn music, watch television etc
Black students watched twice as much television as their white counterparts
Black students were more afraid of being viewed as not intelligent
White students cared less about what others thought of them
I agree 100% but -- Where have we heard the same thing, just recently ??? I don't want to start that debate in this thread as there are enough threads already dedicated to the worthless point - but its important that we know these things, lest there's even less we can do about them.<font size="4">We are sending kids to war with no ammo, then wonder why they come home dead. Parents make the difference.</font size>
I never found fault with what Cosby's message was, it was the presentation. And I always made the point of saying that if he followed through with some type of action then I'd really have no problem with it(except for the stereotype laden rants "dont name your kids ..."etc). He did follow through with some type of action so he stepped up.QueEx said:What you said above is really no different from at least one point Cosby
made in the now infamous address. Granted, what you said covers more
than what might be assumed as Cosby's target, but you both make the
same point -- though said differently.
QueEx
http://www.tonybrownsites.com/tonybrown/RunawaySlave said:Imagine how low it might be if we compared them to asian children
instead of white
One thing about those numbers is that there are the median. Usually
the children either study for hours, or don't study at all. That's been
my experience. So the median lands somewhere in between
Agree the The TB Journal is some great info. He used to have a regular
spot on PBS, but now it can come on anytime
I would think TB has a website though. Any info on that?
Goddam, Mak. Real talk. I as well as many of the brothers on this board have been saying this for years, often to no avail. I have been through drama at home and caught MAD heat from most of my berthren that I stay, and one of the MAIN reasons is that my kids have much more resources with us being together rather than apart. Big ups on this post.We are sending kids to war with no ammo, then wonder why they come home dead. Parents make the difference.
Makkonnen said:
He might have another one ... but I searched last night and couldn't find oneRunawaySlave said:His website is a little dated. Kind of surprising for a
cat like Brown. He must have another one somewhere
nittie said:black middle class families are often first generation middle class compared to whites who may be 5-6 generation middle class
Blacks are still new to the game lets see what the numbers look like in another 10-20yrs.
10-20 years will not provide 5 or 6 degrees of mutligenerational middle class family foundation and all that goes along with itnittie said:black middle class families are often first generation middle class compared to whites who may be 5-6 generation middle class
Blacks are still new to the game lets see what the numbers look like in another 10-20yrs.
I dont know if TB was invited or not- TB always seems more like Tavis tryin to help people get their message out and not necessarily tryin to be a messenger himself except for his civil rights stuff and programsVegasGuy said:Another great post Makk. I've been a Tony Brown fan for many years and he always seem to be able to get at the meat of the issue and often times have on great guests. Mostly people we don't get to hear from in the MSP. Was Tony Brown invited to the recent Tavis Smiley conference? Do you know if he has ever been invited?
-VG
i know he's one of tavis' heroes he has to beMakkonnen said:tb's website hasnt changed in a long time- the pic links are dead and the site seems totally dormant. Tony is getting on in years and is busy so I dont know the deal. He used to be on the radio in NY too but Im not sure what happened with that and airamerica.
he has an educational site too with forums but I didnt check whether it was alive
This is good and important information. It's grim but it makes a lot of sense. I even noticed when I spent my first couple of years in community college, Black students rarely spoke up in class or answered questions put to the class. There could be a class full of 28 Blacks and the one or two white students would actively participate. The Black students wouldn't ask questions either when they didn't understand something - but the white ones would.Makkonnen said:Basically it came out that in the same classrooms our children do poorer due to poor parenting and poor preparation for the academic environment and then when faced with higher levels of teasing and ridicule(starting in the 1st grade) significant barriers form. This along with the cliched truth that black parents only come to school when there is a problem and white parents are there to check up and involved in the PTA etc.
How families discuss things, talk, use ideas and vocabulary also play a heavy part in the lack of preparation are children receive.
Also black students didn't see school as unimportant but began to accept certain copouts as their performance did not improve.
They perceived better prepared whites as being smarter at certain points too.
Black students felt a need to perform well and not embarass their families
Children's attention was also divided amongst different things- time to study/do homework, learn music, watch television etc
Black students watched twice as much television as their white counterparts
Black students were more afraid of being viewed as not intelligent
White students cared less about what others thought of them
We are sending kids to war with no ammo, then wonder why they come home dead. Parents make the difference.
Makkonnen said:10-20 years will not provide 5 or 6 degrees of mutligenerational middle class family foundation and all that goes along with it
10-20 years of positive and responsible social engineering could eliminate some of the obstacles such as the current youth culture that holds back our children but I do not see it happening as long as it makes certain people wealthy and our people remain unorganized in regard to moral problems facing us
That darker America you describe will have latinos at the forefront not us. In case you haven't noticed our population isnt growing like others. In 20 years spainish might replace english. Anyway, you still haven't mad any type of case to expect things to be better for people of african descent in 20 years.nittie said:In twenty years America will be alot darker. People of color will decide how America defines success and when that happens today's numbers won't mean much. I say this because American Culture has always been this country's greatest export so when the culture darkens it's people of color who will capitalize on it. We're seeing it now globalization and demographic shifts here and abroad are making the middle class as we know it a thing of the past.
Makkonnen said:That darker America you describe will have latinos at the forefront not us. In case you haven't noticed our population isnt growing like others. In 20 years spainish might replace english. Anyway, you still haven't mad any type of case to expect things to be better for people of african descent in 20 years.
Black_Immortal- thank you for your post, its good to hear your experiences.
I think you're turning a blind eye to reality. America will be browner - as its getting browner by the day. But I think you grossly overlook what appears to be stark differences between those who are making it browner: African Americans and Hispanics. I agree with Makk that the Hispanic population is growing (no. exploding) faster than our numbers. I think there is good reason, on the one hand, that we're not growing as fast (economic prosperity is often directly affected by the number of mouths to feed) -- although our voting strength is being ... well ... diluted. You can put your head in the sand and pretend, but I don't think its any question that Black people and Hispanics have differences over matters that directly affect any possibility of unity among the groups.nittie said:I think I touched on why Blacks will excel in the next 20yrs maybe I didn't go in depth but is because we create culture not hispanics, who are not a race but a ethnic group. So as the culture darkens Blacks will be thrust to the forefront and unlike in the past when we measured our success by what whites are doing we will be forced to define it ourselves, so it don't matter if spanish replaces english, which will never happen, what will matter is American global corporations in almost every industry will be forced to use Blacks in their businesses. They will have to have black faces because that is what the world will be seeing and hearing representing the U.S.A.
Thanks for sharing Bro. What you've described is something I've seen in many successful Black families. Having lots of money has a whole lot less to do with successfully raising and educating children than does parental involvement. I think this is true even for families where the parents themselves are less educated - where they stay involved and do everything they can push theirs into programs and situations that will benefit their children down the road -- as sometimes that simply means trying to get them into the best schools (public or private) available, even though that might mean transportation and other issues. A less educated parent may not be able to help with the homework, but they sure as hell can ensure that it was done and follow-up with the school to be sure all is well.Black_Immortal said:I am fairly sure that I saw this particular Tony Browns' Journal program a number of months ago and I found it sad that a large part of the problem is attributable to a lack of parental involvement as opposed to a lack of resources or a lack of access to good schools. My wife and I have one child (a 16 year old daughter) who is doing extremely well in a gifted program in a Chicago public school. I feel that I am a very supportive parent, but my daughters success is due mostly to the fact that from a very early age, my wife always made sure that our daughter had materials (including lots of books) and access to programs (most of which were free) that helped enrich her education. My wife always found summer programs (usually free or extremely low cost) to place our daughter in. The programs are there, but you have to take the time to look.
I acknowledge the racism that exists in our society and I also acknowledge that many families face challenges that mine does not. However, I cannot fathom the mentality that we have encountered from parents who think it is enough to just send their children to school and expect that to be enough. My wife has endured criticism from some quarters for not allowing our daughter to "be a child" and enjoy summers off from school and to not be involved in after school and Saturday enrichment programs. As we are now in the process of selecting colleges and taking tests such as the ACT it is interesting to see that we are in a relatively secure position with regard to our daughters academic credentials while a lot of other families are scrambling to address academic deficiencies. Lastly my wife has always offered to share any information that she has, but was usually greeted by disinterest, and while we are both college graduates (as are a number of our friends) we don't have a lot of money.
nittie said:I think I touched on why Blacks will excel in the next 20yrs maybe I didn't go in depth but is because we create culture not hispanics,who are not a race but a ethnic group.
So as the culture darkens Blacks will be thrust to the forefront and unlike in the past when we measured our success by what whites are doing we will be forced to define it ourselves, so it don't matter if spanish replaces english, which will never happen, what will matter is American global corporations in almost every industry will be forced to use Blacks in their businesses. They will have to have black faces because that is what the world will be seeing and hearing representing the U.S.A.
Makkonnen said:Basically it came out that in the same classrooms our children do poorer due to poor parenting and poor preparation for the academic environment and then when faced with higher levels of teasing and ridicule(starting in the 1st grade) significant barriers form. This along with the cliched truth that black parents only come to school when there is a problem and white parents are there to check up and involved in the PTA etc.
How families discuss things, talk, use ideas and vocabulary also play a heavy part in the lack of preparation are children receive.
Also black students didn't see school as unimportant but began to accept certain copouts as their performance did not improve.
They perceived better prepared whites as being smarter at certain points too.
Black students felt a need to perform well and not embarass their families
Children's attention was also divided amongst different things- time to study/do homework, learn music, watch television etc
Black students watched twice as much television as their white counterparts
Black students were more afraid of being viewed as not intelligent
White students cared less about what others thought of them
We are sending kids to war with no ammo, then wonder why they come home dead. Parents make the difference.
millinons per year to influence our children with complete and utter garbage..we need to turn that stank off and hit the books with em ourselves 
You touched on what? You haven't made one point that is real or factual. I said latinos not hispanic and I didnt call them a race. Latinos, mostly mexicans, will be the majority and whatever cultural shit you are alluding to has nothing to do with politics or how many people live in America of voting age and what there race is.
how many white people did it take to control south and central america for 300 years?nittie said:I didn't say you called them a race and even if you did the point I'm making is still the same. latinos out numbering Blacks won't translate into power for them because the group is too diverse to form any real power. You can argue about politics but political power and money is two entirely different things Blacks will be able to accumulate money and wealth in the future even though we will still be a racial minority because we will be at the fore-front of pop culture and that wealth will trickle down to our communities much faster than it does now.
When you talk about the future you have to have vision not slanted numbers put together by people thats been distracting Blacks for 400yrs. I don't see why you would even want to use those figures as a basis for what Blacks can expect tomorrow unless you are not Black and you want to keep us distracted.
What I'm saying is pretty obvious as the culture darkens White influence will decline and as it does Blacks will advance. In the past America exported a lily White culture that won't be possible 20 yrs from now.