Three years for nothing/Dumped on Sweetest day (Colin Powell)

[godofwine]

Shit happens. Sorry about this whole thing and I feel bad for you, but replationships don't always work no matter how much time has been poured into them. My wife and I almost split twice this year and I have known her since 1993! All I can say is move on. If you must, get your hoeing out of the way. It is not cool to start looking for relationship feeling again.

good luck

 

[marrs]

Check this out. I can relate to your story from when I was in my early 20's!

So here it goes:

Obviously she didnt know what she had. So let her go. Sounds like she will end up in a bad relationship and never get out the hood anyway.

So take your "loss" as a wake-up call. Sit down and think about what happened and then think about it from a different point of view. What I mean is, think about it from an absolutely self-centered standpoint. i.e. What's best for ME?!!

If you do this, you will come to the conclusion that this was not the worst thing that could happen but maybe the opposite.
When u realize that, you will find motivation to better yourself!
Before u know it you WILL make shit happen. I guarantee u the next interview u have will go different because by now u have the DESIRE to do something. People sense that and judge you differently. Maybe u wont get the job, but u will know that the reason must be beyond your control. Move on!

About finding another woman.....
You be surprised how many women will notice you when u get started handling ur business!
I'm not talking about having money and attracting females like that!
A lot of women dont need riches, but they do need to know that u can take care of whatever comes up.
So when u about ur shit... they will wanna know more about u!!!

About kids:
I hear ya! But I'm tellin u, when its YOUR child.........everything changes! You will want to get up at 3am coz the lil fuccer is crying. Automatic and nothing, nothing is worth more than to see ur child grow up and have the opportunity to guide him/her and prevent him/her to make some mistakes u made!
So dont put it out there that u dont care for having kids if they are not related to you. It's just , how Rocsi sayin that shit? oh yea: "It's not a good look!" lol

About you job search:
Filling out applications and CareerBuilder, etc is fine. BUT there are thousands of jobs that are not advertised on a large scale. Sometimes not at all!
Get a phonebook! Look for companies and make a list with addresses. Dress casual get urself a buspass and GO THERE. You mite be shocked how many businesses have a little tiny sign on their door "NOW HIRING". Talk to people. Anyone! Reach out! Bureaucracy is a bitch! Look for something you may have in common with a person. It will help break the ice!
Look around the room. Many people personalize their workspace.
Maybe a pic or a baseball trophy....shit tell them u used to play or wotever and start a convo like that!
Dont find anything? Maybe they got a Certificate for wotever hanging on the wall. Show interest in that and start a convo and BAMM!
Dont worry about sounding weird or wotever. Ur goal is the priority here. Fuck the rest!
If it means u look stupid for 5 minutes..So what? U gonna laugh about it one day!
If u were a business owner looking for employees...would u hire someone by his record alone or would you care whether or not that person is friendly and easy to work with??

Find the HR department! Yup go straight up to them and ask if they have anything open. Nothing? Ask them about their other locations/branches..if any! Like I said ..not all jobs are advertised!!
If they dont have anything...ask them if they would put your resume on file!

After the first few tries ur confidence will grow and u will sleep well at night. And after u achieved what u wanted...call her up one day and be polite and thank her for showing you that there is a better way and wish her good luck in life.
However she takes that...I guarantee she will never ever forget that!

I'm not rich, i like porn, i like computers, I dont go to clubs(anymore),dont smoke weed(anymore), dont deal drugs...and I have a beautiful family! And plenty of females who would love to get a piece of that, but wont!

Good Luck!

 

[masterzeek07]

Nigga don't ever let the women get any type of leverage on you.
Be it a cell phone in her name or living at her house.
Chase the money nigga and the hoes will come.
She wit dat old nigga cause he got the money car etc.
When push comes that bitch will fall.

I had a bitch that i did all that shit for live wit me get her a car. she dumped me after all my effort but she said she still loves me thats bullshit
the nigga she wit now knocked her up and knocked her upside the head.
Seen the bitch in the store parking lot and i ASked her
"so u broke up wit me, a nigga wit a job crib etc. for a black
eye and a new child you cant care for"
the nigga wopes her ass and sells dope what an upgrade

the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence

 

[killacash]

My take on it is... You sound very naive, and amateurish to the relationship game and females period. I bet it seemed like you were the one doing most of the work in the relationship. Yes, she used you. Yes, shes wrong. And yes, you allowed it.

Do NOT call her, whatever you do. If you want to remain a man in control of his emotions and wants, make sure you never call her again- just leave it ALL alone. Believe me, she EXPECTS you to keep calling her because she is used to you exhibiting that kind of behavior (simpish behavior, if you ask me)

How you gon' tell her to stop smoking weed, and you smoke cigarettes which is 100x worse?

Focus on yourself. Now is the time, kinda like in the movies where they have the inspiring music playing over a montage of shots showing the lead character progressing very quickly.... . .. yeah, do somethin like that and get a job.

You over there spending mad money u ain't really got and from my ASSUMPTION (correct me if Im wrong, but you never provided this part of the equation) she aint willin to spend her last dime for you. Never do something for someone who aint willin to do it for you!

Learn to never put yourself in that type of situation again. Gain control of yourself, and you will always fare better when a relationship ends. I forget about bitches damn near instantly.

 

[DjMorpheus]

NEVER call that bitch again. NEVER pick up the phone when she answers. If she comes to see you talk thru the door.

 

[cocobeauty]

NEVER call that bitch again. NEVER pick up the phone when she answers. If she comes to see you talk thru the door.

You do know you are becoming mean...


Nah just fuckin with you, I agree with what you said.

 

[D-TOWN REP]

i dont have the attention span to read all of that

can i get a summary?

 

[thirst245]

I hate that it comes down to that but a to dah k spoke the truth. Ol girl just didn't want to come out and say it. And 40 something dude been wining and dining and tagging that ass because best believe she's been complaining to him about what you don't have(that's all most females I know do to me, tell me all about how their husbands/boyfriends don't have shit won't do shit, etc)

Thems the breaks but u know many of the women out there are all about what a man has and not who he is.

true

 

[DirtyCake]

you come on bgol to tell niggaz this no wonder why she dropped your simp ass! bitch nigga you should be postin homegrowns of that hoe you captain ass fuckboy!

 

[Tha Iron Fist]

I hate that it comes down to that but a to dah k spoke the truth. Ol girl just didn't want to come out and say it. And 40 something dude been wining and dining and tagging that ass because best believe she's been complaining to him about what you don't have(that's all most females I know do to me, tell me all about how their husbands/boyfriends don't have shit won't do shit, etc)

Thems the breaks but u know many of the women out there are all about what a man has and not who he is.

Couldn't have said it better!

 

[concepts25]

on to the next , 3 years ain't shit. it's longer than 6 months but it's not long enough to sweat it , she's not the one ... it happens. With that said you fucked up homie , u got mad at her for smoking. sick sad world , u woulda had a chick that rolled blunts up for u ... ain't shit better than that.

oh yea , and i co-sign everybody else who said she prob slutted herself out for the 40 year old.

 

[eftg]

try to let go and remember your being desperate about her makes you unattractive to her...you said you tried to get her to stop smoking weed...never try to fix a woman...why would you want to be with a woman who is a weed head?you deserve better...you need to call up the inner man in you and see her for the person she really is...you are the one with character...she probably never had your depth of character...you were projecting it on to her...do not make her bigger in life than she really was...she is done ...now move on and own your side of the street...son when you kiss the lips of another woman you will start forgetting her...do not call her...when she calls to check in on you keep it short,cordial and to the point...do not fill in the gaps and do not go back to her because she will break your heart again only the next time will be worse and it will validate to her she can mess with you....

 

[Brown Bear]

Do what I do go get your hair done, nails done, a massage, eyebrows done, and a new pair of heels... and you will feel 100% better

*thinkin* actually I do that on the reg anyway...

well I am saying this to say... hmmm you don't have a job so you can't go do those things above....

Dude why are you here on BGOL worrying about a chick when you have no job!!!


log off bgol and go to CAREER BUILDER NOW!!!!!!!~~~~~> LINK

I filled out 15 job applications online at different stores after typing this thread. Tomorrow, I'm going to fill out for a couple of positions at a new Target that's opening up, I filled out three in a row to three seperate grocery stores around my area (the ones that I can get to, anyway), And ever since July -when I lost my job- I've devoted my time to at least filling out AT MINIMUM 5 applications every day. I'm definitely on my P's and Q's about getting a job out here. I'm only on BGOL an avg. of about 15-30 minutes/day. Rest of my time is devoted to filling out job apps online, finding movies to burn to DVD to sell, and reading the news. I've been staying focused on getting paper.


On the topic of me being a "simp," like I stated in the first sentence of the original post, this was a RANT. A way to vent and get constructive criticism and advice from my peers, and I thank all that had good advice, and words of wisdom. For you to spark up negativity seems kind of childish, and even more "bitch" made, in my opinion. If you don't have anything helpful to add, save your finger strength and just click the back button.



Another outlet I've been doing is that I have been working out. It's not as much as I would want to, but it's a start. I jog almost every day around the parking lot of my building, try to do at least 50 ab crunches a day, and this week, I'm going to upgrad it by doing 25 push-ups in the morning, and in the evening before I go to sleep.


Again, I thank those who offered their sympathies, and kind words (and those who say not-so kind, but still sensible advising words ).

I'm trying to bounce back off of it, but what I guess I'm looking for is "closure," so to speak. I took 3 1/2 years of my life learning, growing, loving and sharing my life with not only her, but her family as well. There are people in her family that I'm truly going to miss seeing and talking to, as well as her.

 

[BVF]

www.blackpeoplemeet.com

 

[southsidechi]

103rd and cottage grove to 71st and morgan.. shheeeeeet. You're a brave and a crazy dude. Anyway, all I can say is your young and heartbreak is a bitch. This is your time to get up on some hood rats to pass the time and get yourself together.

 

[malaki]

don't ever let a female get the upper hand on you.

 

[MissMighty]

She sounds like a skank sorry...lol I mean if you were that good to her why would she keep insisting you didn't so shit unless she found some better dick basically...or she is tired of you not having a job? Who knows but it's apparent that you can do better.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

The question isn't what you did for her, but what kind of man you are. There are certain qualities you need to possess to keep the respect of any worthy female. Check this list and see if you broke a cardinal rule.

1) NEVER EVER let her see you cry. It's the equivalent of taking a shit on the kitchen floor

2) Never let her see you worried, scared or frustrated. It's annoying and shows a lack of control.

3) Never let her hear you bitch or gossip. She wants you to be her man not her girlfriend

4) Remember that you're representing her in everything you do. Anything that makes you look bad makes her look bad too.

5) Always have a plan. The words "I don't know" should never pass your lips when you're in her presence.

6) When she comes to you with problems your response should be a silent hug.

7) Call her out on any lies or disrespect immediately. Turn a blind eye to everything else.

8) No Means No. That means no more begging, petting, questions, or whining for at least 24 hours.

9) Talk about money as little as possible. If you're broke, keep it to yourself

10) Never talk to her when you're drunk unless she's drinking with you. If she calls you by surprise cut the conversation short and don't let her know why.

Breaking any one of these rules will cause a woman to permanently disrespect you. She will never see you as a man ever again. Once that happens it doesn't matter what you do for her, how much you sacrifice, or what you give her. The relationship is on borrowed time.

 

[Leeeeeee]

She sounds like a skank sorry...lol I mean if you were that good to her why would she keep insisting you didn't so shit unless she found some better dick basically...or she is tired of you not having a job? Who knows but it's apparent that you can do better.

That's funny....cause since this muhfucka don't even have a job, i was thinking that it is apparent that she can do better.....ooops, she already has.

 

[TheFuser]

This is one of the greatest days of your life...you don't know it yet.

This shit is true.

The bottom line is, once a woman stops respecting you, it's over. She has no respect for you. Mainly, because you don't have any confidence. Confidence wins women over. Women don't like that down in the dumps, feeling sorry for yourself shit. They'll ride with that for about a week or so, but then they're saying to themselves "I wish this nigga would man up!"

You gotta use this time to focus on yourself. Get your shit right. Spread your wings. Travel. Enjoy life, make money, fuck lots of women, THEN settle down. First thing first, you gotta get a job. I know it's rough out there, but take what you can get for now. That's step one to getting confidence.

 

[andusay]

Slick Rick tried to tell you:

[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/qzWuFUxGEP8&hl=en&fs=1[/FLASH]

 

[tonisretired]

I think pretty much everyone shed a bit good of light in the subject.

Seriously.. don't waste your time trying to rekindle that shit. Swallow whatever feelings you got and just look forward. There's a crap load of fishes in the sea. Yea this might fuck up your perception, shit.. might make you think twice..next time u get with something serious but there's a reason why there is a game that must be played..

Hate to tell ya this but she just managed to be the one crack your views on things. Now learn from it, and go on.. life sometimes don't got happy endings no matter how "nice" or "loving" you were. The cold reality to the situation is that you were not "providing" what she was looking for. These are the type of girls that make a guy turn into what we are now days.. But hey your call if you want to walk that path or learn from that situation.

For me.. and this day of age.. I rather walk the path of fucking lots of girls .. why the fuck not? You young! And as you can see chivalry is dead and committing at a young age.. is like winning the lotto.

My 2 cents on the matter.


"Y-Y-Ya know it"

 

[DaleMabry]

Everyone has said it all so...

Pic is worth 1,000 words I think.

One more thing: you guys hit that 3 year mark, usually coming up on / after 3 years a chick will start feeling antsy and want to bounce if she doesn't see a clear path to a better future with you (by their standards). There are rare exceptions, but they usually end up somebody's wife, which is why they are rare. You'll handle this all much better if you work on not taking the shit personal.

 

[J.A.]

simp..whats this talks of cigarettes and driving to indiana and shit..wtf... @ a male friend texting her wtf...she been snooping around the phoe call to break up was the tip of the iceberg

 

[African Herbsman]

The question isn't what you did for her, but what kind of man you are. There are certain qualities you need to possess to keep the respect of any worthy female. Check this list and see if you broke a cardinal rule.

1) NEVER EVER let her see you cry. It's the equivalent of taking a shit on the kitchen floor

2) Never let her see you worried, scared or frustrated. It's annoying and shows a lack of control.

3) Never let her hear you bitch or gossip. She wants you to be her man not her girlfriend

4) Remember that you're representing her in everything you do. Anything that makes you look bad makes her look bad too.

5) Always have a plan. The words "I don't know" should never pass your lips when you're in her presence.

6) When she comes to you with problems your response should be a silent hug.

7) Call her out on any lies or disrespect immediately. Turn a blind eye to everything else.

8) No Means No. That means no more begging, petting, questions, or whining for at least 24 hours.

9) Talk about money as little as possible. If you're broke, keep it to yourself

10) Never talk to her when you're drunk unless she's drinking with you. If she calls you by surprise cut the conversation short and don't let her know why.

Breaking any one of these rules will cause a woman to permanently disrespect you. She will never see you as a man ever again. Once that happens it doesn't matter what you do for her, how much you sacrifice, or what you give her. The relationship is on borrowed time.

c/s

 

[gene cisco]

That's funny....cause since this muhfucka don't even have a job, i was thinking that it is apparent that she can do better.....ooops, she already has.

Thing is she is probably a bad women and even if he was making 200k she would fuck the 'other dude'.

He should be thankful he wasn't married. He should be that she broke up with him now instead of when he was doing better and she was taking him to the cleaners.

She cheated on him with a more established cat. Yet I can tell cats on this board how many unhappy women that have husbands making 6 figures out here are throwing that pussy around they would be like

I hear my husband is a good man and provider and everything BUT(some shit)..... all the fucking time.

The thing is there are many ways a woman wants to "do better'. Money is just one of them.

True this cat needs to step up his financial game, but these women out here are just on some other shit, seems like they are NEVER FUCKING HAPPY!!!!

They cheating on cats like this for being broke, they cheating on the well off cats for other complaints, if you live your life trying to make them happy you will go crazy. Playboy needs to just move the fuck on.

He had the kind of woman where that 40 year old could buy her a benz, put her in a 800k house and in 2 years she still would be like ......'but he doesn't talk to me"......'but the sex is wack'....

 

[edelvajr]

Chief, you're not working right now, and you seem like you're struggling a little bit. If she was your woman and she's leaving you in your time of need then F*#k her. If she really cared for you she'd be holding you down right now, even helping you find work.

 

[Blue]

BB, funny thing is, she is walking where she thinks the grass is greener. The 40 year old dude is putting ideas in her head to doubt you. But don't blame him- cause he is just "being a man". Yep heard that one before- it is the art of war. Your girl has obviously confided in someone (maybe the 40 yo- who is probably a master at game) about an issue with you. He may has started out by being "pro- you". Give the brother a chance- he is trying to find himself- all while extracting more info about you and getting closer to her. He may have even given her advice about how to handle you. At some point, she has turned to him and all he has to do is be there for her to do the things that you either can't or don't know.
The best thing that you can do for yourself, is to connect with you. Take a long hard look at yourself and begin to improve on the things that you can. Dont call her. If she calls you as much as you want to- don't talk long- get busy, have something to do or someplace to go.
On on the road to connecting to you- be honest with yourself. First and formost, put her behind you. You dont need to know the reason as much as you think you do. Truth be told- it doesnt matter. It really wont change the situation. The only time that it will matter, that is if you are considering getting back with her - later. Then the whole truth about her life should be exposed.
Getting back on track- remember that if it walks like a duck, quack like a duck, swims like a duck- chances are its a duck-
This girl is talking the same game, must talk when they are in a new relationship and you are in the way of her happiness. This is their rationalization period.
For you skip it- don't give her any more opportunity to downplay your role or question who you are or your intentions. You give her power when you continuously ask - what is it you did wrong- or especially when you try to justify your point. She will preceive it as being pathetic and weak. Stand up bruh. "This type of shit happens everyday".
4 applications since July- is not a strong effort to finding a job.
Check the papers-- look at municipal jobs and government jobs. The pay is usually decent and the job security is better than the fortune 500 companies.
Have your last cry and get in to youself.
Most brothers on this board will joke about this, but in all actually, no matter how tight your game is, another brother can always provide something that you are lacking.
Thuglife brothers- women will tire of the ghetto mentality and move on to a brother who is a bit more refined.
Intellectual brothers- women will tire of your ability to reason and take it as a sign that you believe she is stupid - opening for thug ass nigga to hit your shit. We can all be victims. And we can all be the other brother as well.
Good luck BB.

 

[LucaBrasi]

can't believe i read this horseshit pussy ass hit

get over it find a new bitch and stop being such a wuss

 

[Rick Ronson]

All you did..was in the past and she honestly feels she can do better
so at this point you are kicked to the curb so fuck all that love and
dedication I was there for you type shit cause she doesnt give a fuck
Thats life nigga...fuck your feelings and fuck what you thought your
time and effort was leading to. Fuck your hopes and dreams and all
the future you imagined nigga this is the cold side of what some call
Love.

Sad thing is the only way to protect yourself is not give a fuck and the
wild part is you will get more pussy not giving a fuck and you will also
have more bitches catch feeling for whatever stupid ass reason.

Aint no love nigga. its hard out here cold and hard like the ground a
homeless man sleeps on. She is fucking this new nigga no condom
and he will bust a nut in the bitch and get her pregnant but shortly
after that he will roll out which will give you the chance to hit the ass
once again.

Tough Love Nigga!

You will learn to just roll with the punches homie.

 

[alexw]

im not reading the comments of other people, so if they say the same thing props to them

1. You cant change people. No matter how hard you try, you will always fail. You can only change yourself. If she smokes weed and you know this....accept it....trying to change her behaviors will only ruin your relationship.

2. The relationship.....Women give signs when the shit is over. You just didnt pay attention. 3 and 1/2 years isnt wasted time, it was good while it lasted, but u need to learn how to move on. There is nothing worse than fighting for someone who isnt fighting for you. Let her go! Its amazing when we finally let someone go and start dating again, youll see that you made the right decision. Right now your heart is broken, but bruh, i promise you time heals all wounds.

3. Where is your self esteem? God didnt create just one woman who shares your interests....theres thousands. But if you keep walking around with your head in your ass, your blinded to those who are attracted to you. Dont blame the hood for your lack of opportunities, blame yourself. Change your inner circle, go to places that you like, and learn to love yourself. You cant love anyone if you dont love yourself.

4. Dating...move on immediately. The dumbest shit you said is that you cant find a woman who shares your interests. Computers? There is tons of women who love computers. Go find them. Go to tech conventions and shit like that, your bound to find someone who is just of a geek as you are. And they wont be stuck on smoking weed.

Learn to love you bruh, then you wont seek bullshit love from failing relationships

love who u r
love where u r from

then build from that

peace and blessings


oh stop talking to her immediately....no phone calls, no text, no nothing. If she truly loves you shell notice it once youre gone. And then you can make the decision to be with her or not. I wouldnt tho, i d keep it friendly once your heart heals. And dont take out your bitterness on the women youll meet in the future. there is nothing worse than someone who cant let go of there past.

 

[alexw]

The question isn't what you did for her, but what kind of man you are. There are certain qualities you need to possess to keep the respect of any worthy female. Check this list and see if you broke a cardinal rule.

1) NEVER EVER let her see you cry. It's the equivalent of taking a shit on the kitchen floor

2) Never let her see you worried, scared or frustrated. It's annoying and shows a lack of control.

3) Never let her hear you bitch or gossip. She wants you to be her man not her girlfriend

4) Remember that you're representing her in everything you do. Anything that makes you look bad makes her look bad too.

5) Always have a plan. The words "I don't know" should never pass your lips when you're in her presence.

6) When she comes to you with problems your response should be a silent hug.

7) Call her out on any lies or disrespect immediately. Turn a blind eye to everything else.

8) No Means No. That means no more begging, petting, questions, or whining for at least 24 hours.

9) Talk about money as little as possible. If you're broke, keep it to yourself

10) Never talk to her when you're drunk unless she's drinking with you. If she calls you by surprise cut the conversation short and don't let her know why.

Breaking any one of these rules will cause a woman to permanently disrespect you. She will never see you as a man ever again. Once that happens it doesn't matter what you do for her, how much you sacrifice, or what you give her. The relationship is on borrowed time.

where did u get this bullshit from???

damn u niggas listen to tariq way to much if you really believe this sack of shit

you may do this with a hoodrat but a real woman????

man u kids got a lot to learn

I only agree with 3,7, and 8

the rest is pure comedy

are u niggas even human or scared little boys who hide all their feelings?

niggahs your woman is suppose to be your better half

think about what that truly means

 

[tonisretired]

im not reading the comments of other people, so if they say the same thing props to them

1. You cant change people. No matter how hard you try, you will always fail. You can only change yourself. If she smokes weed and you know this....accept it....trying to change her behaviors will only ruin your relationship.

2. The relationship.....Women give signs when the shit is over. You just didnt pay attention. 3 and 1/2 years isnt wasted time, it was good while it lasted, but u need to learn how to move on. There is nothing worse than fighting for someone who isnt fighting for you. Let her go! Its amazing when we finally let someone go and start dating again, youll see that you made the right decision. Right now your heart is broken, but bruh, i promise you time heals all wounds.

3. Where is your self esteem? God didnt create just one woman who shares your interests....theres thousands. But if you keep walking around with your head in your ass, your blinded to those who are attracted to you. Dont blame the hood for your lack of opportunities, blame yourself. Change your inner circle, go to places that you like, and learn to love yourself. You cant love anyone if you dont love yourself.

4. Dating...move on immediately. The dumbest shit you said is that you cant find a woman who shares your interests. Computers? There is tons of women who love computers. Go find them. Go to tech conventions and shit like that, your bound to find someone who is just of a geek as you are. And they wont be stuck on smoking weed.

Learn to love you bruh, then you wont seek bullshit love from failing relationships

love who u r
love where u r from

then build from that

peace and blessings


oh stop talking to her immediately....no phone calls, no text, no nothing. If she truly loves you shell notice it once youre gone. And then you can make the decision to be with her or not. I wouldnt tho, i d keep it friendly once your heart heals. And dont take out your bitterness on the women youll meet in the future. there is nothing worse than someone who cant let go of there past.

 

[Mt. Yukon]

So whats it gonna be??? You gonna be the pimp, or the pimpee. The playa or the one who gets played. You either gonna get fucked or you gonna get laid... So until you can convince your hoegirl or hoeboy to suck your dick in a barrel while takin a suicide plunge over Niagra falls, then stich up your mouth and stop being so pushy. Cause on one of my bad days I had a bitch so fucked up she even tried to fax me some pussy...(Max Juilian aka Goldie)

I heard this quote on some album back when I was 16 and that shit has alawys stayed with me. You shouldnt have to say shit but once to a female, you shouldnt have to ask her shit in most cases, if you do then fuck that bitch. I tied that shit into to damn near everything I did when it came to women. If shes feelin you, then shell do whatever, whenever you make you happy, if it aint that way, then leave her ass the hell alone. Yeah Ive had a broken heart, but it was because I lost track of the leason in that interlude. It sounds selfish when you say it out loud, but shit should always revolve around you, if its not that way, get someone who can get with the program, Ill put money on you being happy and never having another broken heart.

 

[blkking1123]

On this past Wednesday, I walked from my house in the hundreds (around 103rd street & Cottage Grove) to her house (around 71st & Morgan), just to talk to her face to face before she left for work.


Damn, dude you walked a long ass way...that's at least 5 miles..