The Stalkers Awareness Thread: The 24 Hour Rule?!

even tho im only 25 im gonna answer

i hate "rules" and i hate playing mind games...personally i think its a bit immature

i am who i am...and i take people at thier face value...i dont have the time or energy to guesstimate what the other person is trying to do

so fuck the rule...and actually...if a man waits to long to call me ima forget who his ass was...ive done that too many times:smh:

now...

of those 15 times he is calling you...

is it back to back?...how many times does he call u a day?

if he calls u 4 times in a row for no reason on a daily basis...yes he might be crazy

but if hes calling u in the morning...then at night...each day...i dunno if that means he is crazy

instead of looking at it in a bad way....look at the glass half full...maybe hes a very attentive guy...maybe there is something about you he is really diggin

the best way to really get to know someone is in person...u will never know by just having a few conversations tho:smh:
 
^^^^^^^^what are you going to say when they find her decaying body in a forrest preserve?.

ill say she should have met him public places

anyone can be crazy...regardless if they call alot or not

always make sure you meet people in public places/group settings first:yes:
 
1. Men (28 and older, not you youngins!) is this normal behavior.... especially for you East Coast Men standards, please answer the question?!

I was offended by this, then I thought about it. I would give her 48 hours! It's called the "non sweatin rule" We don't wet these chicks like that. And after 48 if its no answer or if she's flakin up, thats an dead issue. But back to ole boy. He's probably really feelin you and wanna hook up. Maybe the brother dosn't have too much to say on the phone. I use to be that way. Just straight contact and action, fuck the phone. But give the lil ninja a chance. If your feelin him you'll "dismiss" your 24 hour plan.:yes:
 
sounds like a loner who is really into you, but never had a girlfriend and wasnt schooled on how to bag a chick no offense,

he could be a diamond in the rough or he could be a fuckin nut, you need to find out about his past and that will determine whether he is worth letting him chase you.

he may just want sex and nothing more......

you need to ask yourself first of all, is he your type.

right now you sound a little nervous.... so you might have made up your mind.. follow you instincts if thats the case
 
at first i was semi interested from what I saw of him in person. the week he got the number was memorial day week so shit was crazy at work because of the 4 days. as i stated i did manage to talk to him twice during the week but I guess twice wasnt enough...after i checked my voicemail on wednesday and got heard the 6 back2back messages... I did talk to him and tell him his calls were excessive.... and he didnt see it that way *shrugs* i think i said this before... had I of known he was like that i would of never given him my number... but thats the point of exchanging numbers.... getting to know a person.


This was never mentioned before Kitty :hmm:, had you said this from the jump, people would have seen your point. I wonder if you threw this in here to sway our perception of the situation......hmmmmmm You know you don't like to lose an argument :D

If William shrugged off your feelings regarding his excessive phone calls and voicemail barrage, he is not only a thirsty lame, Willie may be a certified stalker...







*grabs hair brush and exits*



I'll give you the benefit of the doubt...
 
This was never mentioned before Kitty :hmm:, had you said this from the jump, people would have seen your point. I wonder if you threw this in here to sway our perception of the situation......hmmmmmm You know you don't like to lose an argument :D

If William shrugged off your feelings regarding his excessive phone calls and voicemail barrage, he is not only a thirsty lame, Willie may be a certified stalker...







*grabs hair brush and exits*



I'll give you the benefit of the doubt...


:lol::lol::lol: *dies* :lol::lol:
 
This was never mentioned before Kitty :hmm:, had you said this from the jump, people would have seen your point. I wonder if you threw this in here to sway our perception of the situation......hmmmmmm You know you don't like to lose an argument :D

If William shrugged off your feelings regarding his excessive phone calls and voicemail barrage, he is not only a thirsty lame, Willie may be a certified stalker...

WHEN I SAW THIS I SPIT OUT MY FOOD BECAUSE I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING.....


AYE KITTY WHATS REALLY GOING ON CHICA ???
 
This was never mentioned before Kitty :hmm:, had you said this from the jump, people would have seen your point. I wonder if you threw this in here to sway our perception of the situation......hmmmmmm You know you don't like to lose an argument :D

If William shrugged off your feelings regarding his excessive phone calls and voicemail barrage, he is not only a thirsty lame, Willie may be a certified stalker...







*grabs hair brush and exits*




I'll give you the benefit of the doubt...

WHEN I SAW THIS I SPIT OUT MY FOOD BECAUSE I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING.....


AYE KITTY WHATS REALLY GOING ON CHICA ???



These are pretty valid points. It seems that some pretty important information was left out of the original account of what happened...






:lol::lol::lol: @ Swat grabbing his brush and leaving...:lol::lol::lol:...
 
Now the point of this thread is not for advice... because it was already obvious to tell a motha fucka to fall all the wayyyyy back into another atmosphere.

The point of this thread is to ask the following:

1. Men (28 and older, not you youngins!) is this normal behavior.... especially for you East Coast Men standards, please answer the question?!


2. Ladies (28 and older, not you youngins) Is this what we have to settle for at the end of our 20s?


3. Do people on the East Coast abide by the 24 hour rule?! In California (Los Angeles to be exact, where I'm from) us ladies have a 24 hour rule that we impose when we meet a guy. If we give a guy our #, he has to babysit it for at least 24 hours. If he calls before then it shows desperation. :dunno:


To the following:

Once again the purpose of this thread was not to ask for advice (or even get people on my side)... by the time I posted the thread the situation already occurred and was taken care of. Did I go into detail on how I handled it...no. Did I tell yall in chat last night how it was handled...yes. Of course I wouldnt let a dude keep calling me like that. It's not about winning a argument... it was about getting yalls opinions on dudes who present this type of behavior.

This was never mentioned before Kitty :hmm:, had you said this from the jump, people would have seen your point. I wonder if you threw this in here to sway our perception of the situation......hmmmmmm You know you don't like to lose an argument :D

If William shrugged off your feelings regarding his excessive phone calls and voicemail barrage, he is not only a thirsty lame, Willie may be a certified stalker...







*grabs hair brush and exits*



I'll give you the benefit of the doubt...

WHEN I SAW THIS I SPIT OUT MY FOOD BECAUSE I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING.....


AYE KITTY WHATS REALLY GOING ON CHICA ???

These are pretty valid points. It seems that some pretty important information was left out of the original account of what happened...






:lol::lol::lol: @ Swat grabbing his brush and leaving...:lol::lol::lol:...
 
To the following:

Once again the purpose of this thread was not to ask for advice (or even get people on my side)... by the time I posted the thread the situation already occurred and was taken care of. Did I go into detail on how I handled it...no. Did I tell yall in chat last night how it was handled...yes. Of course I wouldnt let a dude keep calling me like that. It's not about winning a argument... it was about getting yalls opinions on dudes who present this type of behavior.

I wasn't in chat last night, so I did not know the situation is/was taken care of...
 
my bad im getting you mixed up with someone else...

Kitty you always sat that I am "your favorite youngin'", how could you confuse me with anyone else? You should be able to pick me out of a crowd (even though you've never seen me :lol:)...






*Feels like Kitty owes him something to make up for the mistaken identity. Stares a his PM box waiting for her to holla...*;):D:lol::yes:;)
 
Kitty you always sat that I am "your favorite youngin'", how could you confuse me with anyone else? You should be able to pick me out of a crowd (even though you've never seen me :lol:)...






*Feels like Kitty owes him something to make up for the mistaken identity. Stares a his PM box waiting for her to holla...*;):D:lol::yes:;)

:hmm: You are shameless.
 
To the following:

Once again the purpose of this thread was not to ask for advice (or even get people on my side)... by the time I posted the thread the situation already occurred and was taken care of. Did I go into detail on how I handled it...no. Did I tell yall in chat last night how it was handled...yes. Of course I wouldnt let a dude keep calling me like that. It's not about winning a argument... it was about getting yalls opinions on dudes who present this type of behavior.




HEY I FEEL YOU, BUT PLEASE DONT GET BROOKLYN NIGGA'S CONFUSED WITH THE REST OF THE EAST COAST.... TRUST IF YOU AINT FEELING US WE MOST DEF GONNA MAKE SURE TO LOOSE YOUR NUMBER QUICK.... AINT TO MANY CATS GOT THE MIND SET OF A BROOKLYN DUDE... ME MY SELF IM A ARROGANT BASTID, SO I WOULD HAVE STOPPED CALLING YOU THE FIRST TIME YOU DIDNT CALL ME BACK.. (BUT HEY THATS JUST ME)

I WOULD MAKE AN EXCEPTION FOR MTL SEXXY ASS THOUGH....

HOLD YA HEAD MZ KITTY
 
On the west your not going to get sweat'ed like that. Not with all they fine ass broke females walking around. I hate talking on the phone. I'm more of a face to face communicator. Plus you know that shit is an ego booster for you. don't front.
 
I personally think the guy needs help, No way in hell i'm gonna call somebody 15 times if they look like an elephant in the sand. :puke:
 
On the west your not going to get sweat'ed like that. Not with all they fine ass broke females walking around. I hate talking on the phone. I'm more of a face to face communicator. Plus you know that shit is an ego booster for you. don't front.

loll you wrong for that. but I will give you one point... the ratio of women to men in cali is like 15:1:smh:

In regards to your ego boost comment... nah, its about quality not quantity. crazy dudes never boost my ego... they make me reaccess my thought process when I am giving out my number. I been stop doing the 24 hours rule thing because I thought I was being unfair to dudes... but after this little incident imma start back using it.

I personally think the guy needs help, No way in hell i'm gonna call somebody 15 times if they look like an elephant in the sand. :puke:

smh@ taking a breaking from jerking off to porn just to come over to SOL to throw insults.
 
3. Do people on the East Coast abide by the 24 hour rule?! In California (Los Angeles to be exact, where I'm from) us ladies have a 24 hour rule that we impose when we meet a guy. If we give a guy our #, he has to babysit it for at least 24 hours. If he calls before then it shows desperation. :dunno:

:hmm:

In California, ( Los Angeles to be exact, where I lived ). You ladies didn't have a 24 hr grace period on the pussy.

:hmm:


























































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:hmm:

In California, ( Los Angeles to be exact, where I lived ). You ladies didn't have a 24 hr grace period on the pussy.

:hmm:

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18hrs if the guy bought dinner

:yes:


what you just described was a hoe. I wasnt referring to hoes. Are yall trying to say every chick in cali gives it up within 24 hours?!:hmm:


and mcguyver do you ever have an original thought?! i swear everytime i see your font you co-signing behind someone else :smh:

as a cali chick im offended...smh... ive heard alot of negative shit about cali women (superficial, stuck up, etc...) but being hoes aint one of em.
 
what you just described was a hoe. I wasnt referring to hoes. Are yall trying to say every chick in cali gives it up within 24 hours?!:hmm:


and mcguyver do you ever have an original thought?! i swear everytime i see your font you co-signing behind someone else :smh:

as a cali chick im offended...smh... ive heard alot of negative shit about cali women (superficial, stuck up, etc...) but being hoes aint one of em.


I only cosign those who makes sense and I don't live in cali. Since we asking questions why you always acting like you have an attitude.
 
what you just described was a hoe. I wasnt referring to hoes. Are yall trying to say every chick in cali gives it up within 24 hours?!:hmm:

as a cali chick im offended...smh... ive heard alot of negative shit about cali women (superficial, stuck up, etc...) but being hoes aint one of em.

*sigh*

Don't take it so serious.

:hmm: :rolleyes:

There's hoes on every continent, sub-continent, country, state, county, mega-city, city, municipality, borough, town, township, village, neighborhood, zip code, Extended family, immediate family . . . :hmm:


Stop acting all Beverly Center or you'll get the Flossin Slauson treatment young lady.

Let loose your inner hoe! :yes: Jump on down from that high horse, and jump on this . . . :yes:








VIVA LA NASTY HOE!!!!

 
I only cosign those who makes sense and I don't live in cali. Since we asking questions why you always acting like you have an attitude.

how does it make sense if you dont live in cali?! :hmm:

and further more I blew up your spot because I knew you wasnt in cali. so call it an attitude or whatever.... i call it like i see it.

*sigh*

Don't take it so serious.​

:hmm: :rolleyes:

There's hoes on every continent, sub-continent, country, state, county, mega-city, city, municipality, borough, town, township, village, neighborhood, zip code, Extended family, immediate family . . . :hmm:


Stop acting all Beverly Center or you'll get the Flossin Slauson treatment young lady.​

Let loose your inner hoe! :yes: Jump on down from that high horse, and jump on this . . . :yes:








VIVA LA NASTY HOE!!!!


umm oh my lollll
 
I'm from the east coast, and that kind of behavior isn't acceptable in any region of the U.S, lol. When I get a female's number, I wait about two-three days to call her. I don't even leave voicemails, if a female misses my call she'll see it. After a few conversations I sense that she isn't feeling me, I delete her number and keep it moving. It's way too many females out here to be sweating just one.
 
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