The Stalkers Awareness Thread: The 24 Hour Rule?!

[MzKittyDelicious]

Aiight so here is the deal I met this dude on a Sunday, and by the Sunday of the following week he called me 15 times.

No, I am not a chick about games. I expressed to this dude on the first day that I am an extremely busy chick. I have several things going on in my life right now. I was able to answer 2 of his calls (those 2 are not included into the 15) and each time he had nothing to talk about. What really annoyed me was he was calling not only at night but early in the mornings, and during the work day.

At one point I checked my voicemail last Wednesday and he had 12voicemails...
I'm not saying all the messages were from him but he had a total of 6 that all played back to back.

Saying shit like:

"Hey Kitty this is William I am calling to say Hi"

"Hey Kitty I'm sitting at work wondering how are you doing"

"This is William, I am just wondering how your week is going"

"Hey Kitty, this is William call me sometime"


I mean can yall imagine listening to 6 messages from one person that you just met less then a week ago???!!!!


Now the point of this thread is not for advice... because it was already obvious to tell a motha fucka to fall all the wayyyyy back into another atmosphere.

The point of this thread is to ask the following:

1. Men (28 and older, not you youngins!) is this normal behavior.... especially for you East Coast Men standards, please answer the question?!


2. Ladies (28 and older, not you youngins) Is this what we have to settle for at the end of our 20s?


3. Do people on the East Coast abide by the 24 hour rule?! In California (Los Angeles to be exact, where I'm from) us ladies have a 24 hour rule that we impose when we meet a guy. If we give a guy our #, he has to babysit it for at least 24 hours. If he calls before then it shows desperation.

Now, a lot of dudes say "awww yall bitches playin game" when they hear about this rule. However I bullshit yall not... every time I have let a dude backslide on the 24 hour rule... he ended up being clingy as hell! But when ever I came across a dude who waited a little bit... it ended up working out.

So yall let me know yalls thoughts...

 

[BrownTurd]

I don't mean to diss the thread you created but most of the blame is on you. If you met dude on Sunday and by the following Sunday he has made 15 calls that is not excessive. He average 2 calls per day over a weeks time which is normal. Sista the man can't read your mind. If you saw his calls why didn't you return them and tell him that you were not interested in moving forward with a relationship. Reading the messages he left they were very respectful. He was just asking how you were doing...no need to diss the brotha. You act as if the man showed up at your house. What difference does it matter if he called today or a week from now if his heart is not in the right place. Indirectly you are advertising yourself to deceitful men

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

No, I am not a chick about games. I expressed to this dude on the first day that I am an extremely busy chick. I have several things going on in my life right now. I was able to answer 2 of his calls (those 2 are not included into the 15) and each time he had nothing to talk about. What really annoyed me was he was calling not only at night but early in the mornings, and during the work day.

smh@ defending this... now what does that say about you?! hmmm

 

[BrownTurd]

No, I am not a chick about games. I expressed to this dude on the first day that I am an extremely busy chick. I have several things going on in my life right now. I was able to answer 2 of his calls (those 2 are not included into the 15) and each time he had nothing to talk about. What really annoyed me was he was calling not only at night but early in the mornings, and during the work day.

smh@ defending this... now what does that say about you?! hmmm

From what you wrote it looks like the guy clearly understood that you are a very busy person. This is why he left Voice mails letting you know he was thinking about you. He Even tried to contact you during the times he felt that you may not be as busy.

 

[CT's Finest]

As I said on the other board...





First and foremost this dude sounds SUPER THIRSTY!!! I have never understood why people act that way. To me it seems like when you sweat someone this hard you're much more likely to get the opposite of what you really want. Obviously the point of exchanging numbers was for the two of you to continue to interact beyond your first meeting. Kitty although I cant speak for you, I would assume that his actions to this point have most likely pushed you further away from him instead of making you want to get closer. Because of this, this dumb MF has put himself in a position of being avoided instead of being someone that you'd want to be around...


As far as your questions go...

1. As a 28 year old, East Coast Native, I can honestly say that this IS NOT typical behavior when meeting a woman. Real men know how to approach, meet, and successfully interact with women without acting like William...


3. I can't speak for an entire coast as far as the rule of when to call someone, but I will speak for myself and say that in most cases when I meet a woman I wait about a day or two before calling. This is not set in stone, but that's usually a good amount of time to start the next phase of our interaction. There have been times when I've called a lady the next day but no matter when I call I won't sweat her. I'll give her the time and space she needs to show her interest in me. If I call and leave her a message I will wait for her to get back to me. There will not be 6 consecutive messages from me on her phone...

 

[SWATLANTA]

My Opinion


1.) He was extremely thirsty...

2.) You were sitting back playing the "How thirsty is he game"...


None of the messages sounded stalkerish IMO. He was sending out feelers to see how you would respond. If you would have called the dude back and let him know that you weren't interested, you could have saved both of you all valuable time. Personally, I would have called you one or two times at the most, and then kept it moving, but every dude doesn't have good hair like me...........

*inside xat joke people*

 

[actinanass]

15 times in one week?

Hell I barely hit 15 times a MONTH!

The only way I would call a girl close to that many times if she is calling me that much too. Meaning, there's "chemistry" on the most part. So, Kitty, did you let him hit? Be honest now...

*edit* just read the "age" requirement....

 

[CT's Finest]

My Opinion


1.) He was extremely thirsty...

2.) You were sitting back playing the "How thirsty is he game"...


None of the messages sounded stalkerish IMO. He was sending out feelers to see how you would respond. If you would have called the dude back and let him know that you weren't interested, you could have saved both of you all valuable time. Personally, I would have called you one or two times at the most, and then kept it moving, but every dude doesn't have good hair like me...........

*inside xat joke people*

*Knows the joke*

15 times in one week?

Hell I barely hit 15 times a MONTH!

The only way I would call a girl close to that many times if she is calling me that much too. Meaning, there's "chemistry" on the most part. So, Kitty, did you let him hit? Be honest now...

True, 15 times in a week is excessive, especially when there has been no reciprocity from the woman...

 

[Izayoi]

@ SUPER THIRSTY.

I think its nice he's being open and showing interest but wow 6 messages is a lot! Not sure why he just couldn't wait for you to get back to him. Yes thirsty, but I see Brown's point and can appreciate that William is trying but just tooooo hard. You must have whipped something vicious on Willie.

I've not heard of this 24 hour rule Kitty and I'm from the East? Most any man I've dated has called the next day and I find that courteous, and if we had a really good time expected.

Now do I expect a call everyday like my momma calls me? Certainly not.

Have you talked to him Kitty? You told him you were a busy woman, but seems like your standards and expectations of courtship are just different. He obviously doesn't have a 24 hour rule and you saying you were busy may have given the expectation that you would be slow to get back to him, but that it was ok to leave you a message letting you know he was thinking about you.

Talk to him.

 

[Noir]

No, I am not a chick about games. I expressed to this dude on the first day that I am an extremely busy chick. I have several things going on in my life right now. I was able to answer 2 of his calls (those 2 are not included into the 15) and each time he had nothing to talk about. What really annoyed me was he was calling not only at night but early in the mornings, and during the work day.

I mean can yall imagine listening to 6 messages from one person that you just met less then a week ago???!!!!


Now the point of this thread is not for advice... because it was already obvious to tell a motha fucka to fall all the wayyyyy back into another atmosphere.

The point of this thread is to ask the following:

1. Men (28 and older, not you youngins!) is this normal behavior.... especially for you East Coast Men standards, please answer the question?!

No, this is not normal behavior for me, nor for most men over 28. However, there are exceptions and he may have been sweating you a lot. What's with the negativity towards the East Coast and NYC all the time?


2. Ladies (28 and older, not you youngins) Is this what we have to settle for at the end of our 20s?


3. Do people on the East Coast abide by the 24 hour rule?! In California (Los Angeles to be exact, where I'm from) us ladies have a 24 hour rule that we impose when we meet a guy. If we give a guy our #, he has to babysit it for at least 24 hours. If he calls before then it shows desperation.

I do not count down the 24 hours after meeting someone, and actually the time to wait depends on the situation. However, the best thing to do when receiving a number would be to ask when is the best time to contact the other person to continue the conversation and interaction.

Now, a lot of dudes say "awww yall bitches playin game" when they hear about this rule. However I bullshit yall not... every time I have let a dude backslide on the 24 hour rule... he ended up being clingy as hell! But when ever I came across a dude who waited a little bit... it ended up working out.

So yall let me know yalls thoughts...

If you are extremely busy, when did you envision being able to interact with this guy that is clearly interested in you? Perhaps when you exchanged numbers you should have told him when you would have time to chat again.

 

[actinanass]

My Opinion


1.) He was extremely thirsty...

2.) You were sitting back playing the "How thirsty is he game"...


None of the messages sounded stalkerish IMO. He was sending out feelers to see how you would respond. If you would have called the dude back and let him know that you weren't interested, you could have saved both of you all valuable time. Personally, I would have called you one or two times at the most, and then kept it moving, but every dude doesn't have good hair like me...........

*inside xat joke people*

FUCK YO GOOD HAIR NIGGA!!!

*shake dreads at them hoes!!*

 

[LeroyDibiase]

My Opinion


1.) He was extremely thirsty...

2.) You were sitting back playing the "How thirsty is he game"...


None of the messages sounded stalkerish IMO. He was sending out feelers to see how you would respond. If you would have called the dude back and let him know that you weren't interested, you could have saved both of you all valuable time. Personally, I would have called you one or two times at the most, and then kept it moving, but every dude doesn't have good hair like me...........

*inside xat joke people*

Yeah, i wouldn't have called the broad that much, but my Spidey Sense is tingling...wait, wait...I'm getting a prediction.

Dear SOL,

I met this guy on a Sunday and he showed real interest in me. I gave him my number and told him to call me. Well a whole week has passed by and guess what??? NO CALLS. The nerve. Anyway, what is it about Black men that make them play these silly games and not show attention when they want to get with you.

Signed Miss Kitty

SMH at the OP. YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HIM BACK AFTER THE FIRST 4 CALLS AND SAID, "HEY, I'M NOT INTO YOU LIKE THAT, COOL OUT." Now how hard would that have been to say?? But noooooo, you sat back and let him call and call and call, meanwhile you're telling all your girlfriends, "Chile, this nigga keep sweatin me...and I aint even broked him none off yet. He done call me mo dan de bill collectas."

Questions:

1. Ladies, is this normal behavior for allegedly "MATURE" women? Give out your phone number for an obvious subsequent communication and when the man calls, you ignore and then don't return his call, even when he took the courtesy enough to leave a voicemail??

2. Men, is this what we have to settle for in out late 20's? Women who still play those little high school games of not returning calls or messages, just so they can play a game?? Instead of being honest and telling the truth, they sit back and let things fester to the point where it's now a big issue.

3. Do people in America believe in common courtesy anymore? If I call you and/or leave you a message, I would expect a phone call back.

Your thoughts??

 

[actinanass]

Yeah, i wouldn't have called the broad that much, but my Spidey Sense is tingling...wait, wait...I'm getting a prediction.

SMH at the whole thread. YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HIM BACK AFTER THE FIRST 4 CALLS AND SAID, "HEY, I'M NOT INTO YOU LIKE THAT, COOL OUT." Now how hard would that have been to say?? But noooooo, you sat back and let him call and call and call, meanwhile you're telling all your girlfriends, "Chile, this nigga keep sweatin me...and I aint even broked him none off yet. He done call me mo dan de bill collectas."

Questions:

1. Ladies, is this normal behavior for allegedly "MATURE" women? Give out your phone number for an obvious subsequent communication and when the man calls, you ignore and then don't return his call, even when he took the courtesy enough to leave a voicemail??

2. Men, is this what we have to settle for in out late 20's? Women who still play those little high school games of not returning calls or messages, just so they can play a game?? Instead of being honest and telling the truth, they sit back and let things fester to the point where it's now a big issue.

3. Do people in America believe in common courtesy anymore? If I call you and/or leave you a message, I would expect a phone call back.

Your thoughts??

@the sol Nostrudomas *spell check*

 

[SWATLANTA]

FUCK YO GOOD HAIR NIGGA!!!

*shake dreads at them hoes!!*

 

[Izayoi]

3. Do people in America believe in common courtesy anymore? If I call you and/or leave you a message, I would expect a phone call back.

Your thoughts??

Yes...but it seems Kitty and William have a breach in codes of conduct. She may feel that courteous was one call then wait.
William feels its courteous to call to let her know he's thinking about her and perhaps not expecting her to get back to him because she is busy. I don't know LD. They are not on the same page.

I feel you on the courtesy, but if a man doesn't call me back, I wont keep calling him either.

 

[PrincessC]

I don't meet your age requirement. But anyways, I can sorta understand what you are saying Kitty, but at this point, you should definitely give him a call. Just let him know what's up.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Yes...but it seems Kitty and William have a breach in codes of conduct. She may feel that courteous was one call then wait.
William feels its courteous to call to let her know he's thinking about her and perhaps not expecting her to get back to him because she is busy. I don't know LD. They are not on the same page.

I feel you on the courtesy, but if a man doesn't call me back, I wont keep calling him either.

Answer your phone fool.

 

[SWATLANTA]

Yeah, i wouldn't have called the broad that much, but my Spidey Sense is tingling...wait, wait...I'm getting a prediction.

SMH at the OP. YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HIM BACK AFTER THE FIRST 4 CALLS AND SAID, "HEY, I'M NOT INTO YOU LIKE THAT, COOL OUT." Now how hard would that have been to say?? But noooooo, you sat back and let him call and call and call, meanwhile you're telling all your girlfriends, "Chile, this nigga keep sweatin me...and I aint even broked him none off yet. He done call me mo dan de bill collectas."
Yep, This is the "How Thirsty is he" game I was speaking of Leroy...
Questions:

1. Ladies, is this normal behavior for allegedly "MATURE" women? Give out your phone number for an obvious subsequent communication and when the man calls, you ignore and then don't return his call, even when he took the courtesy enough to leave a voicemail??

2. Men, is this what we have to settle for in out late 20's? Women who still play those little high school games of not returning calls or messages, just so they can play a game?? Instead of being honest and telling the truth, they sit back and let things fester to the point where it's now a big issue.

3. Do people in America believe in common courtesy anymore? If I call you and/or leave you a message, I would expect a phone call back.

Your thoughts??

@ the prediction...

 

[doggish_098]

15 times huh..... he must be trying to get the ending to one of your stories.

i would never call anyone that many times. Especially someone i just recently met. Damn Kitty you must have that "i got the best pussy in the world" smell when you walk down the street. 15 freakin times

 

[CT's Finest]

SMH at the OP. YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HIM BACK AFTER THE FIRST 4 CALLS AND SAID, "HEY, I'M NOT INTO YOU LIKE THAT, COOL OUT." Now how hard would that have been to say?? But noooooo, you sat back and let him call and call and call, meanwhile you're telling all your girlfriends, "Chile, this nigga keep sweatin me...and I aint even broked him none off yet. He done call me mo dan de bill collectas."

@the sol Nostrudomas *spell check*

Word, that's classic shit LD...

Yes...but it seems Kitty and William have a breach in codes of conduct. She may feel that courteous was one call then wait.
William feels its courteous to call to let her know he's thinking about her and perhaps not expecting her to get back to him because she is busy. I don't know LD. They are not on the same page.

I feel you on the courtesy, but if a man doesn't call me back, I wont keep calling him either.

Izzy, all I can say is...

15 times huh..... he must be trying to get the ending to one of your stories.

 

[Izayoi]

Answer your phone fool.

I can't, it's William

*I just funning Kitty, HUGS!*

 

[RAULDK]

Fuck That. I Am Calling You 15 Minutes After I Get Out Of The Club.....

What's Up Lady?

Fuck All That Rule Shit. That Is The Problem These Days. Rules.
I Know People Who Got Together On The First Day And 10 Years Later Are Still Up In Each Others Grill.

I Keep It Real. I Will Call You When I Feel Like It. And IF It Means Twice A Day So Be It... Untill You Tell Me I Am Calling Too Much.

Then I Will Drop You Cause When You Come Up Short On Some Money Or Need A Favor I Will Tell You "let Me Get Back To You"

Watch Your Ass Call Me Until I Say "you Are Calling To Much".

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

my bad i was over here on the phone with this other dude i met lmaoooooooo!!!!!!!!


anyways like i said for those hard of reading... I did talk to him 2 times that week not including the first night i met him. Now I told him like I tell every dude I have met in the last 30 days... I AM EXTREMELY BUSY!

so NO! for the lames who ASSumed I was playing games... no I'm not about wasting peoples time. I keeps it real up front so no one will get hurt.

Further more when I say I am busy... it means I AM EXTREMELY BUSY! meaning there is no reason for you to call me 15 times. Now as far as looking at the phone while he calls, unlike some people who wait by the phone hoping to get calls... my phone is often on silent because I am at work or in my gym bag because I am working out... or hell on the charger because I am sleeping. Although I do return calls... I often miss call as they come in.

All the dudes who are defending this sort of behavior are scarring me. 4real... seriously! lollll like 15 calls screams desperate...

 

[dwnsouth]

If your that busy then you shouldn't have given him your number. Those first few calls are very important so the 2 of you can establish a level of conversation.​

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

If your that busy then you shouldn't have given him your number. Those first few calls are very important so the 2 of you can establish a level of conversation.​

I TALKED TO HIM 2WICE!!!!!!! shessh just because you give a person your number dont mean you gotta be on the phone with them every waking day! am i supposed to feel sorry for a dude who averages 1 number per year? I mean seriously.... had I of known he was like this I would have never given him the number. none of the other dudes I talk have this problem... everyone has a life, a job, a hobby other then calling me up every chance they get SMMFH!

 

[LeroyDibiase]

my bad i was over here on the phone with this other dude i met lmaoooooooo!!!!!!!!


anyways like i said for those hard of reading... I did talk to him 2 times that week not including the first night i met him. Now I told him like I tell every dude I have met in the last 30 days... I AM EXTREMELY BUSY!

so NO! for the lames who ASSumed I was playing games... no I'm not about wasting peoples time. I keeps it real up front so no one will get hurt.

Further more when I say I am busy... it means I AM EXTREMELY BUSY! meaning there is no reason for you to call me 15 times. Now as far as looking at the phone while he calls, unlike some people who wait by the phone hoping to get calls... my phone is often on silent because I am at work or in my gym bag because I am working out... or hell on the charger because I am sleeping. Although I do return calls... I often miss call as they come in.

All the dudes who are defending this sort of behavior are scarring me. 4real... seriously! lollll like 15 calls screams desperate...

LORD JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL.

I wish you and Lola and Digital Angel would hop on a boat and float away to Dumbass Thread Island.

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

My Opinion


1.) He was extremely thirsty...

2.) You were sitting back playing the "How thirsty is he game"...


None of the messages sounded stalkerish IMO. He was sending out feelers to see how you would respond. If you would have called the dude back and let him know that you weren't interested, you could have saved both of you all valuable time. Personally, I would have called you one or two times at the most, and then kept it moving, but every dude doesn't have good hair like me...........

*inside xat joke people*

Hey Swat Swat,

I didn't get a chance to see if I was interested or not. The first day I met him we talked for like an hour and he appeared to be sane... I didnt realize giving a dude your number means forfeiting your right to have a life this day and age. We met Sunday evening and by Wednesday he had 6 messages.

15 times in one week?

Hell I barely hit 15 times a MONTH!

The only way I would call a girl close to that many times if she is calling me that much too. Meaning, there's "chemistry" on the most part. So, Kitty, did you let him hit? Be honest now...

*edit* just read the "age" requirement....

Exactly... its a give and take thing. Real dudes who pull numbers know the drill... its like fishing you throw out the hook and hope the fish bite. At this point in this stage of life it's not for me to teach grown ass people about the rules of interaction. Your common sense should tell you if a person is into you or not. Yea I gave him the number... but he didnt give me time to react/ call him back.... he just kept calling and calling smmfh!

If you are extremely busy, when did you envision being able to interact with this guy that is clearly interested in you? Perhaps when you exchanged numbers you should have told him when you would have time to chat again.

Well I have had more positive experiences then negative ones in NY... but I guess you have pointed out that I only post the negative. Hmmm, but the positive stuff is boring. You would ignore my thread if I posted about this wonderful dude I met from the Bronx!

Yeah, i wouldn't have called the broad that much, but my Spidey Sense is tingling...wait, wait...I'm getting a prediction.

SMH at the OP. YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HIM BACK AFTER THE FIRST 4 CALLS AND SAID, "HEY, I'M NOT INTO YOU LIKE THAT, COOL OUT." Now how hard would that have been to say?? But noooooo, you sat back and let him call and call and call, meanwhile you're telling all your girlfriends, "Chile, this nigga keep sweatin me...and I aint even broked him none off yet. He done call me mo dan de bill collectas."

Questions:

1. Ladies, is this normal behavior for allegedly "MATURE" women? Give out your phone number for an obvious subsequent communication and when the man calls, you ignore and then don't return his call, even when he took the courtesy enough to leave a voicemail??

2. Men, is this what we have to settle for in out late 20's? Women who still play those little high school games of not returning calls or messages, just so they can play a game?? Instead of being honest and telling the truth, they sit back and let things fester to the point where it's now a big issue.

3. Do people in America believe in common courtesy anymore? If I call you and/or leave you a message, I would expect a phone call back.

Your thoughts??

I'm not sure what type of women you wrestle up... but despite your limited opinion all chicks arent waiting by the phone for dudes to call. All chicks dont have to go out and buy that book "He's just not that into me"?! Step out your box maybe you will find that out...

15 times huh..... he must be trying to get the ending to one of your stories.

i would never call anyone that many times. Especially someone i just recently met. Damn Kitty you must have that "i got the best pussy in the world" smell when you walk down the street. 15 freakin times

you know you miss my stories *kisses*

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I'm not sure what type of women you wrestle up... but despite your limited opinion all chicks arent waiting by the phone for dudes to call. All chicks dont have to go out and buy that book "He's just not that into me"?! Step out your box maybe you will find that out...

I guess READING isn't one of your strong points. Not at all. You're worried about the wrong thing, I wasn't the one who posted the PATHETIC thread. I can tell you all about my current love life and the woman/en in it. Lemme give you my number.....

Book that boat ticket yet???

 

[AlexandMorgan]

Ok so i am a single guy but i let the woman call me to establish when or how often she wishes to converse wid me. After i see how her schedule is then i will seize the initiative and initiate some calling of my own.

Does it make the guy desperate? He called because he was interested in talking to you. Shame on him for trying to make an effort to communicate.

Shame on him for calling over fifteen times with no returned calls or a text message saying something.

Were the amount of calls normal? maybe yes, maybe no. But when someone is making the effort it is considered better than the guy who never did.

They are no real rules in a relationship except to respect and accommodate each other. Know each others boundaries and treat them with respect. If you had told him up front what you were cool with or taken his number and did the calling you would have had no problems.

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

I guess READING isn't one of your strong points. Not at all. You're worried about the wrong thing, I wasn't the one who posted the PATHETIC thread. I can tell you all about my current love life and the woman/en in it. Lemme give you my number.....

Book that boat ticket yet???

dude do yourself a favor and put me on your ignore list. when i make threads its not with you in mind... trust that. smh@ dudes coming onto the female board complaining about the topics...

thats like me going onto bgol complaining about how women are degraded...

 

[MzKittyDelicious]

Ok so i am a single guy but i let the woman call me to establish when or how often she wishes to converse wid me. After i see how her schedule is then i will seize the initiative and initiate some calling of my own.

Does it make the guy desperate? He called because he was interested in talking to you. Shame on him for trying to make an effort to communicate.

Shame on him for calling over fifteen times with no returned calls or a text message saying something.

Were the amount of calls normal? maybe yes, maybe no. But when someone is making the effort it is considered better than the guy who never did.

They are no real rules in a relationship except to respect and accommodate each other. Know each others boundaries and treat them with respect. If you had told him up front what you were cool with or taken his number and did the calling you would have had no problems.

we talked twice (not including the first time we met)

Yes, you are right for the most part there are no real rules of dating... but I think its safe to say that when you call a person so much they dont have a chance to call you... maybe you need to fall back and take a breath. 15 times in 7 days is excessive. That goes beyond letting a person know your interested.

 

[destrehan]

if you can be on this website then you aren't that damn busy ya bitch you.

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Um. I'm offended by this thread. I am very saddened to think that you believe "youngins" would not have valuable information to offer you.... Like we've never been stalked before. MzKitty, I am extremely disappointed in your prejudice.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

dude do yourself a favor and put me on your ignore list. when i make threads its not with you in mind... trust that. smh@ dudes coming onto the female board complaining about the topics...

thats like me going onto bgol complaining about how women are degraded...

I call stupid when I see it, regardless of what side of the board it is. Only the intentionally dumb go on my ignore list...the unintentional...well they're the damn entertainment.

KEEP POSTING.

 

[destrehan]

with the lack of quality black women these days, when a brotha finds one he tries to latch on and hold on for dear life. good thing he has found out you're not one of them.